Thanks for this post. I like the idea of balancing giving no f*cks with giving a damn. I have focused on the idea of consequences for a long time, but the idea that only a person themselves can truly track the consequences of their actions on their own lives is a new insight for me. If only we had visibility into how our actions impacted others as well. . . Maybe that would reduce the number of people who think that trying to anger others, just for the sake of doing so, is cool or fun.