Most Asked True Love Questions
Bethlehem, Pa, is a great U.S. City for many reasons. It has the best Mayor in the country, John Callahan who since 2004 has worked tirelessly to enhance both commerce and the arts for his citizens. It has the element of aspiring youth, as it is the home of Lehigh University, DeSales, and Penn State, Lehigh Valley Campus. The city hosts Musikfest each August, one of the nation's most popular celebrations of music and the arts that attracts over 1 million visitors. It also has a more subtle ambiance of culture as exemplified through the unique flavors of the city. Alando's Restaurant on Main Street delivers the perfect example with genuine Kenyan cuisine.
The owner, Emily Nyindodo has stolen ambrosia from the Gods. She produces a chili that captures excitement for the mouth through the delicate dance of spicy heat, sweet and smoke flavors. I was lucky to be her guest during Musikfest this year and I had a blast. I decided to use a "County Fair, guess your age/weight approach in the form of "Stump the True Love Expert and win a free iced tea or coffee" to attract attention to my new book as part of the overall strategy for helping people find and keep true love.
As I hung my sign outside and set up shop in the café portion of her restaurant to answer the true love questions of Musik-Festers, I had no idea what questions I would field over the next ten days. The following are the results of hundreds of questions most of which were looking for meaningful answers rather than a legitimate attempt to stump the expert author for a free drink. Please realize that most questions came from female attendees even though I believe that men need more education when it comes to true love.
The most popular questions included:
Why can't I find Mr. / Ms. Right?
Why do men cheat?
Why am I attracted to the wrong men / women?
Can we start over in our relationship?
How can we stop arguing about sex, money?
What constitutes true love?
Why do my relationships start great and then fizzle out?
How do I know if our relationship is a true love relationship?
The most interesting questions to me included:
Which is more difficult for men to overcome physical or emotional infidelity? For women?
Why have we grown apart over the years?
Does true love require friendship first?
Can homosexual couples find true love with their partners?
When should we call it quits?
Can true love couples cheat and maintain their true love?
Do true love couples argue?
How can I tell if someone is as into me as I am into them?
The most unexpected questions included:
Why don't counselors talk about true love?
Am I too old for true love?
Why am I so hesitant to commit?
Does true love require constant work?
