Before It’s Too Late

On behalf of all artists, writers, creators of active engagement in connecting with people’s hearts, minds and souls-

We can’t read your minds.

We don’t know that we inspire or move you in some way- unless you say so- and saying so is easier than it’s ever been. You all know how to choose your method of communication.

Why you keep those loving words or thoughts to yourself is as much a symptom of what is missing in creating a new normal in the world as all of the “isms” we face everyday.

And the stinginess is often the result of people that think they “know” you- but have actually stopped listening to you a long time ago.

New people with a context based on higher purpose and celebrating great works that make a difference in the world are like a hot shower or sip of great coffee or tea or beverage or a bite of something delicious that reminds you that flavor and “flava” is an ongoing acknowledgment of all that makes life wonderful and special, endearing and joyous.

Take note all you introverts, perfectionists, and overthinkers-

There is no right or better time or way to express gratitude, love or appreciation. You can’t fuck this up.

You only fuck it up by withholding it.

I’m writing this today because I sobbed after seeing someone’s agreement with an incredible acknowledgment I received yesterday- because how I thought they saw me was at best- well intentioned and tolerable. I had no idea that what I wrote or sang connected with them.

Be clear this is not about me.

This is about courage and generosity and love and being uncomfortable and pushing past your barriers – while people are still here.

This is about the willingness to feel clumsy and uncool and unworthy and still express appreciation and intimacy for someone else particularly if you assume they know how wonderful they are.

They often don’t – way too often.

So as we move into the holiday season – give the gift of specific communication – whether you “know” them well or not.

@Namaste.

@CoachMeDave