Upgrade Or Fade

A communication about honoring “old friends”….. Not directed to anyone specific- who the cap fits,as Bob Marley said…

So-

I started shaving my head in 1996. I thought then- and now that I look amazing with my head shaved.

At the same time – as my long time friend, you know that I have had for many,many years slight pseudo- Parkinsonian tremors in my hands which have made shaving somewhat challenging.

So at least once a month I like to go to a barber shop and get professionally shaved, complete with hot towel and straight razor. As a man over 50, I have hair growing out of interesting places on my head -plus eyebrows that left unchecked – can enter a room before I do.

Doing this always makes feel taken care of, in other words, really honoring myself – and I like how that feels.

Now as a long time friend, I find it surprising that you find my taking care of myself humorous – particularly as you are my long time friend.

I would ask you to either honor and respect and cherish me- or let’s call it a day.

Because ultimately if the best you can do is poke fun at people’s appearances, practices or rituals to make yourself feel better- maybe the issue is with how you feel about yourself.

I love myself- and I won’t tolerate immature behavior from a long time friend.

So upgrade or fade – it’s your choice.

Rudbarg out…………

@CoachmeDave