A New Kind of Reconciliation With a Former Spouse

Almost every divorced Christian I know cannot imagine reconciling with their former spouse. So much hurt, so many bitter words and fights. “Clare why would I take that risk and jump back into that snake pit again?”

Not only are there those risks, but in most cases one or both of the spouses have remarried. “So, Clare even if I wanted to reconcile with my ex it is impossible.”

Surprisingly, it isn’t. At least, not the kind of reconciliation I’m encouraging.

So what follows is the advice I gave to a divorced man recently that you may want to pass on to a divorced friend, or anyone at odds with another believer.