Talk 'To' Each Other, Not 'About' Each Other

An important and invaluable lesson I've learned over the years is that clear, open, honest, direct communication with people solves most problems. So often I have seen relationships deteriorate to the point where people are talking "about" each other instead of talking "to" each other. This can happen more easily than you might think.  For most people, when things don't go the way they expect in a relationship, the tendency is to talk to EVERYONE they know EXCEPT the person they have the problem with.  Someone once told me that when you point your finger at someone, you have three ...