Recipe For a Personal Change

Observe ways of being that you admire. Act as if you are that kind of person.

Alter accordingly for authenticity. Allow for initial internal experiences of unfamiliarity and perceived clumsiness in committment and communication – and remember that most folks not only can’t read your mind but also are too self absorbed to ever want to- with some exceptions.

Then after two or three years, you may notice that this once “new way of being”, actually seems like it’s who you have been all along.

Actually, you’ll forget that you were different til @Facebook shows you your memories or you hang out at some sort of reunion………

@CoachMeDave