Shift Happens

Being authentic with people in your life is sometimes , really really really really hard.

My need to look good ,by pretending to know more than I do,or avoid looking bad by not being willing to admit how little I think of myself ,at times.sometimes can keeps me stuck in “knowing.”

What creates a shift?

This week- a great two hour cleaning up phone call with a close confidant and advisor ,with whom I’d had a parting of the ways. We are now back in touch,and clear how much we have to contribute to one another.

Within fifteen minutes, all sorts of new possibilities starting happening.

On a subsequent call with someone I met once professionally six years ago, I shared that morning’s experience. Was delighted,when, I was texted a few hours later,that she had,inspired by our talk ,had done the same thing with a similar result.

Perhaps you’d care to give it a shot……?

@CoachMeDave