How to Handle a Boss Who is Threatened by You

You are getting double messages, your boss says one thing to your face, and something else to other people. At least, you’ve heard that through the grapevine. When you are with them, you sense that they are “judging you.” You really don’t know why, your work is good, and you have tried every effort to extend yourself to them. What’s the real why? They are frightened that you are going to get their job, or a job that they may be up for.

Here’s how to deal:

Keep doing a great job. Don’t let their negative vibes throw you off track.

Don’t count on them for promotions. Build relationships with other people who could be instrumental to promoting you.

You probably won’t win them over, so don’t waste your energy trying. Keep focused on your own priorities.

Never bad mouth them. That will just give them ammunition to point the finger at you.

Look around for other opportunities. You are not married to the position.  Give it the “proper” amount of time, and start networking.