What If…..?

What if the purpose of spending time with someone you are attracted to was about finding out who they are without an agenda purely motivated by sex or having”someone” to fit your ideal picture of a mate? What if partnership wasn’t based on mutual healing of wounds,and rescuing or compensating for adolescent beliefs about what love is “meant to be.”

What if you listened to what the other person was actually NOT looking for and honored that? What if you were willing to dwell in the unfamiliar and have the courage to invite another to do the same?

What if……..?

#firststep #listening #createthenewnormal

@CoachMeDave