Ask the Readers – Looking for Signals During Play

Hi readers!


Every so often I have a question from someone that deserves different viewpoints and so I’m sharing it with you. Please give your advice to this submissive and be kind.


My question is about reading your Dominant or Top in mindful mode.  I’ve heard a lot about the need for a Top to be able to read their bottom in play, but I am wondering two things: what signals do they look for (things like skin texture changes and breathing) and is there a resource or education about signals we as bottoms can or should be on the lookout for from our Tops to get to that next level with them in play?


I’m sure there is some overlap in reading body language and physical responses, but I’m having a hard time finding specifics about this information.  Thank you!


So folks, what sort of advice would you give ”Looking for Signals”? Let me know in the comments!

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Published on March 30, 2016 07:00
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