3 Ways to Handle a Liar

We all know those kind of people. They say one thing and then do another. But sometimes they are so convincing, we start doubting our own gut feelings. How do we handle liars so we stay on topic of the situation? Heed these tips:

Watch body signs

Don't just listen to their words. What are their gestures and body stance signaling? They may appear to be open and trusting, yet their arms or legs might be crossed. Look at the total picture.

 

What do other's say

Liars usually have a reputation. You are not their only victim. If there are a lot of negative rumors, believe them.

 

Confront them and move on

So you know they're saying one thing, but mean to do another. Don't pretend it isn't happening, confront them head on. Expect that they will try to justify their actions or inaction. Ignore that and tell them you don't have time to argue. Move on.