3 Tips For Dealing With A Bossy Boss

In most cases, you don't choose your managers, so what do you do when they turn out to be "bossy"? Here are some tips that may be useful. 

It's not about you. Your boss's behavior is about him/her, not you. If you take it personally, you will end up being reactive and defensive - and you'll add to the problem.

Take responsibility. No, not for your boss being bossy, but for your ability to manage your boss. Take your power back. You've probably heard the maxim, "We train others how to treat us." Apply it in this scenario.

Speak up. Pick the right time and language to let your boss know you work best when you feel you're being asked, not ordered. You need to assert yourself if you want the situation to change.

See the positive. You can choose to focus on a person's strengths or weaknesses. Make a list of your boss's positive traits.

 

 

 

 

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