Roles and Red Flags

When a relationship becomes a job- someone is the employee and someone is the boss. The possibility of partnership,intimacy, and respect is greatly reduced.The red flag to watch for early on is whether your potential partner sees the two of you as peers or parent and child.

Notice reactions . Step over nothing. Call a spade a spade.

The shame of selling out for supposed ease will rock your very soul ,slowly and profoundly. Allow the pain of loneliness in. It will teach you lessons you need to learn about humility and appreciation. You will become the kind of person you’ve always wanted to meet- and never dreamed you might one day be.

@CoachMeDave