Harriet Lerner's Blog, page 8

The #1 Fact to Know Before Confronting a Family Member

Before you confront a person who has hurt or betrayed you, please read this!

Stop! Don't Marry Your Future Ex-Husband.

Consider these six tips to avoid marrying your future-ex husband. Pass them on to your daughter.

My Short List for Creating a Happy Relationship

Here's my list of nine simple things that give any relationship the best chance of happiness.

My Short List for Creating a Happy Relationship.

Here's my list of nine simple things that give any relationship the best chance of happiness.

Valentines Day: Take This Relationship Challenge!

Pick two of these five new things to try on Valentines Day. You have nothing to lose but the status quo.

This Simple Mistake Can Gaslight Your Child

I want to share a gaslighting communication that I will never forget—never mind that it happened decades ago.

Bad Luck is the Key to Your Future Happiness

We judge change as good or bad. Here's why we can’t know for sure.

The Most Life-Changing Resolution You Could Ever Make

The best resolution for your life, in a word — well, two words.

The #1 Life-Changing New Year’s Resolution

Here’s the #1 most important New Years resolution in a word—well, two words.

What You Can Learn From Those Dreadful Public Apologies

Have you noticed that the public apologies making headlines these days are empty, vague, minimizing, obfuscating, and self-serving?