Harriet Lerner's Blog, page 2

Ten Steps to Setting Boundaries and Sticking to Them.

People won’t love you for setting boundaries so don’t expect applause.

How to Be Free of Your Dysfunctional Family

Families are not fair, but distance and blame don't work. Here's what you need to know.

Are You a Girl, a Lady, or a Woman? Why Language Matters

Do you prefer being called a "girl," a "lady," or a "woman"? Yes, it matters.

Are You a Girl, a Lady, or a Women? Why Language Matters

Do you prefer being called a "girl," a "lady," or a "woman"? Yes, it matters.

3 Actions to Take to Save Your Marriage

A successful couple relationship requires you to do these three things—even if you don't want to.

3 Actions You Can Take to Save Your Marriage

A successful couple relationship requires you to do these three things—even if you don't want to.

Seven Steps Toward an Authentic Voice

Here are the seven "simple" steps toward having an authentic voice.

One Essential Ingredient of Happy Couples

Are you fighting about who's right? Here's how to shift directions.

Learn the Secret Ingredient of Happy Couples

Are you fighting about who's right? Here's how to shift directions.

2 Keys to an Authentic Voice and a Joyful Self

Consider these two requirements for authenticity and joy.