Helen H. Moore's Blog, page 839
March 10, 2016
“Sure, the climate is changing, but it always has been”: Rubio wriggles like a hooked worm on the question of man-made climate change






Marco Rubio accuses Trump of ruining America for American Muslims: It’s not about being politically correct, it’s about “being correct”






Are you bored by tonight’s Republican debate? Maybe Patton Oswalt can help
And how these candidates are earning their endorsements, current, future, and otherwise:"Llllllllets get ready to bear witness to the end of the American century!" #GOPDebate
— Patton Oswalt (@pattonoswalt) March 11, 2016
"Trump has cut off Christie's feet and sliced out his tongue. He's tied up in a huge burlap bag backstage. Dear God." -- Kasich #GOPDebate
— Patton Oswalt (@pattonoswalt) March 11, 2016
"I offer my resig -- oops, that's tomorrow. Let's move forward into the 21st century!" -- Rubio #GOPDebate
— Patton Oswalt (@pattonoswalt) March 11, 2016
"[emits 2 gallons of cooking oil from mouth]" -- Cruz #GOPDebate
— Patton Oswalt (@pattonoswalt) March 11, 2016
Trump's just gonna lay back. He has nothing to lose at this point. And he knows it. Bye bye, GOP. Bye bye forever. #GOPDebate
— Patton Oswalt (@pattonoswalt) March 11, 2016
"Look, committing adultery hurt my spouses emotionally but hey it made me cum so what am I gonna do, you know?" -- Trump #GOPDebate
— Patton Oswalt (@pattonoswalt) March 11, 2016
For some, this is the end:This debate might've broken me. They're calm in their archaic beliefs, which is scarier then when they're yelling. #GOPDebate
— Patton Oswalt (@pattonoswalt) March 11, 2016
For Trump, it's not the end of his hypocrisy:Oh Marco. Oh dude. It's gone, isn't it? It's all gone. Holy shit. #GOPDebate
— Patton Oswalt (@pattonoswalt) March 11, 2016
Not that Oswalt is alone in landing some punches on these very, very canny responses:Trump said his use of guest worker program was bad for America, but good for his business so he used it.
— Auntie Goldie (@goldietaylor) March 11, 2016
For the umpteenth Republican debate running, being able to follow comedian Patton Oswalt's play-by-play is the only real reason to watch it. So while the GOP hopefuls attempt to have a serious policy debate -- involving non-specific plans that somehow still provide entitlements to members of the Republican base -- let's keep in mind what time it is:I'm a businessman keep Muslims out punch a peaceful protester suits made in China big Mexican walls#GOPDebate
— Sarah Silverman (@SarahKSilverman) March 11, 2016
And how these candidates are earning their endorsements, current, future, and otherwise:"Llllllllets get ready to bear witness to the end of the American century!" #GOPDebate
— Patton Oswalt (@pattonoswalt) March 11, 2016
"Trump has cut off Christie's feet and sliced out his tongue. He's tied up in a huge burlap bag backstage. Dear God." -- Kasich #GOPDebate
— Patton Oswalt (@pattonoswalt) March 11, 2016
"I offer my resig -- oops, that's tomorrow. Let's move forward into the 21st century!" -- Rubio #GOPDebate
— Patton Oswalt (@pattonoswalt) March 11, 2016
"[emits 2 gallons of cooking oil from mouth]" -- Cruz #GOPDebate
— Patton Oswalt (@pattonoswalt) March 11, 2016
Trump's just gonna lay back. He has nothing to lose at this point. And he knows it. Bye bye, GOP. Bye bye forever. #GOPDebate
— Patton Oswalt (@pattonoswalt) March 11, 2016
"Look, committing adultery hurt my spouses emotionally but hey it made me cum so what am I gonna do, you know?" -- Trump #GOPDebate
— Patton Oswalt (@pattonoswalt) March 11, 2016
For some, this is the end:This debate might've broken me. They're calm in their archaic beliefs, which is scarier then when they're yelling. #GOPDebate
— Patton Oswalt (@pattonoswalt) March 11, 2016
For Trump, it's not the end of his hypocrisy:Oh Marco. Oh dude. It's gone, isn't it? It's all gone. Holy shit. #GOPDebate
— Patton Oswalt (@pattonoswalt) March 11, 2016
Not that Oswalt is alone in landing some punches on these very, very canny responses:Trump said his use of guest worker program was bad for America, but good for his business so he used it.
— Auntie Goldie (@goldietaylor) March 11, 2016
For the umpteenth Republican debate running, being able to follow comedian Patton Oswalt's play-by-play is the only real reason to watch it. So while the GOP hopefuls attempt to have a serious policy debate -- involving non-specific plans that somehow still provide entitlements to members of the Republican base -- let's keep in mind what time it is:I'm a businessman keep Muslims out punch a peaceful protester suits made in China big Mexican walls#GOPDebate
— Sarah Silverman (@SarahKSilverman) March 11, 2016
And how these candidates are earning their endorsements, current, future, and otherwise:"Llllllllets get ready to bear witness to the end of the American century!" #GOPDebate
— Patton Oswalt (@pattonoswalt) March 11, 2016
"Trump has cut off Christie's feet and sliced out his tongue. He's tied up in a huge burlap bag backstage. Dear God." -- Kasich #GOPDebate
— Patton Oswalt (@pattonoswalt) March 11, 2016
"I offer my resig -- oops, that's tomorrow. Let's move forward into the 21st century!" -- Rubio #GOPDebate
— Patton Oswalt (@pattonoswalt) March 11, 2016
"[emits 2 gallons of cooking oil from mouth]" -- Cruz #GOPDebate
— Patton Oswalt (@pattonoswalt) March 11, 2016
Trump's just gonna lay back. He has nothing to lose at this point. And he knows it. Bye bye, GOP. Bye bye forever. #GOPDebate
— Patton Oswalt (@pattonoswalt) March 11, 2016
"Look, committing adultery hurt my spouses emotionally but hey it made me cum so what am I gonna do, you know?" -- Trump #GOPDebate
— Patton Oswalt (@pattonoswalt) March 11, 2016
For some, this is the end:This debate might've broken me. They're calm in their archaic beliefs, which is scarier then when they're yelling. #GOPDebate
— Patton Oswalt (@pattonoswalt) March 11, 2016
For Trump, it's not the end of his hypocrisy:Oh Marco. Oh dude. It's gone, isn't it? It's all gone. Holy shit. #GOPDebate
— Patton Oswalt (@pattonoswalt) March 11, 2016
Not that Oswalt is alone in landing some punches on these very, very canny responses:Trump said his use of guest worker program was bad for America, but good for his business so he used it.
— Auntie Goldie (@goldietaylor) March 11, 2016
For the umpteenth Republican debate running, being able to follow comedian Patton Oswalt's play-by-play is the only real reason to watch it. So while the GOP hopefuls attempt to have a serious policy debate -- involving non-specific plans that somehow still provide entitlements to members of the Republican base -- let's keep in mind what time it is:I'm a businessman keep Muslims out punch a peaceful protester suits made in China big Mexican walls#GOPDebate
— Sarah Silverman (@SarahKSilverman) March 11, 2016
And how these candidates are earning their endorsements, current, future, and otherwise:"Llllllllets get ready to bear witness to the end of the American century!" #GOPDebate
— Patton Oswalt (@pattonoswalt) March 11, 2016
"Trump has cut off Christie's feet and sliced out his tongue. He's tied up in a huge burlap bag backstage. Dear God." -- Kasich #GOPDebate
— Patton Oswalt (@pattonoswalt) March 11, 2016
"I offer my resig -- oops, that's tomorrow. Let's move forward into the 21st century!" -- Rubio #GOPDebate
— Patton Oswalt (@pattonoswalt) March 11, 2016
"[emits 2 gallons of cooking oil from mouth]" -- Cruz #GOPDebate
— Patton Oswalt (@pattonoswalt) March 11, 2016
Trump's just gonna lay back. He has nothing to lose at this point. And he knows it. Bye bye, GOP. Bye bye forever. #GOPDebate
— Patton Oswalt (@pattonoswalt) March 11, 2016
"Look, committing adultery hurt my spouses emotionally but hey it made me cum so what am I gonna do, you know?" -- Trump #GOPDebate
— Patton Oswalt (@pattonoswalt) March 11, 2016
For some, this is the end:This debate might've broken me. They're calm in their archaic beliefs, which is scarier then when they're yelling. #GOPDebate
— Patton Oswalt (@pattonoswalt) March 11, 2016
For Trump, it's not the end of his hypocrisy:Oh Marco. Oh dude. It's gone, isn't it? It's all gone. Holy shit. #GOPDebate
— Patton Oswalt (@pattonoswalt) March 11, 2016
Not that Oswalt is alone in landing some punches on these very, very canny responses:Trump said his use of guest worker program was bad for America, but good for his business so he used it.
— Auntie Goldie (@goldietaylor) March 11, 2016
I'm a businessman keep Muslims out punch a peaceful protester suits made in China big Mexican walls#GOPDebate
— Sarah Silverman (@SarahKSilverman) March 11, 2016






Alan Rickman and Helen Mirren wage the drone war — but the intriguing thriller “Eye in the Sky” doesn’t go far enough






“An outburst of emotions black America can relate to”: Kendrick Lamar’s newest release feels like the back story to his masterpiece, “To Pimp a Butterfly”






The unexplained death of “fracking king” Aubrey McClendon and a writer’s peculiar bereavement
Last week, on a highway in downtown Oklahoma City, a man drove into a bridge support at high speed. A photo of his flaming SUV appeared in the Wall Street Journal. The driver, Aubrey McClendon, was killed on the spot.
If that name means nothing to you, it’s safe to say that you don’t trade gas and oil futures for a living, or read the kind of magazine that publishes annual lists of men so wealthy they pay other people to read magazines for them. I don’t do those things either, but after spending five years writing a novel about a town transformed by gas drilling, I know more about Aubrey McClendon than I do about my own relatives.
McClendon was the founder and longtime CEO of Chesapeake Energy, a company that more than any other has been synonymous with America’s gas and oil boom. A man described, invariably, as larger than life – dynamic, charismatic, audacious; a born wildcatter, constitutionally suited to the volatile industry he dominated. The press referred to him by his first name – Aubrey – because of course there was only one. The trajectory of his career, plotted on a graph, is full of sharp rises and spectacular falls, with virtually no recovery time in between. In 2012, his personal net worth was $1.2 billion. Then gas prices tanked, and McClendon’s board of directors kicked him to the curb. Losing the company he’d spent a lifetime building must have been a devastating blow, but publicly, anyway, he barely flinched. Before the industry could catch its breath he started a new company, American Energy Partners. Aubrey was back in the game.
Rise and fall, rise and fall. The day before his death, a federal grand jury indicted him for anti-trust violations, collusion to fix prices on oil leases in the Bakken Shale. A day later he was dead, leading to speculation that he cracked up his car on purpose. It’s a question that will likely never be answered. What was in his mind that Wednesday morning, driving too fast and wearing no seatbelt, is impossible to say.
I didn’t know Aubrey McClendon, and he didn’t know me – and yet the news of his death shook me in ways I couldn’t have predicted. On March 2, I was serving on a jury in Boston, my cellphone turned off and stowed. When I turned it on at the end of the day, I found an email from a friend, linked to a news story about McClendon’s death.
The subject line of the email was Kip.
My new novel, "Heat and Light," is set in Bakerton – a community inspired by my hometown in western Pennsylvania, a former coal town that sits smack on top of the Marcellus Shale. The novel explores what happens when the local farmers lease their mineral rights to Dark Elephant Energy, a Texas gas-and-oil company run by a flamboyant CEO known as Kip the Whip. Kip isn’t Aubrey McClendon, and yet any reader who knows the gas industry will be struck by the resemblance.
In the years I spent writing "Heat and Light," I thought of McClendon daily. Without him there would be no Kip the Whip; I could conceive of such a character only because Aubrey McClendon walked the earth. This relationship between living person and fictional character is an ineffable thing. To me, a character is like a familiar stranger who appears in my dreams, who is and isn’t my third grade teacher, my ex-husband’s mother, that Swedish guy I met on a plane to Paris in 1988 at the start of my junior year abroad. The face may be borrowed from life, but the character is a product of my subconscious, a series of autonomic associations and inventions that remain mysterious even to me. I knew McClendon in the way we know strangers in the age of Google and YouTube. Kip’s sense of destiny is pure Aubrey; so are his nerve and resilience, his unshakeable optimism, his gambler’s heart. Other aspects of Kip -- his youthful fascination with EST, his frequent, contentious and expensive divorces -- are my own invention. Unlike Kip, McClendon married his college sweetheart, once and forever. He and Katie raised three children, adults now, a family grappling with a loss that makes my own sadness at his passing seem foolish and small.
Sorrow at a stranger’s death is not, itself, unusual. In the age of social media, keening over dead celebrities is a communal activity open to all. I’ve always been skeptical of such displays, which seem an affront to anyone who has experienced real loss. I learned the difference 13 years ago, when I lost my own father. On the day he died, I was holed up at an artists’ colony in New Hampshire, doing final edits on "Baker Towers" -- a novel also set in Bakerton, during its heyday in the 1940s and '50s. Everything I know about life in that time and place, I learned from Dad. That book was his great gift to me, one among many. That he didn’t live to read it is a secondary sorrow I still carry, entirely separate from the greater pain of losing him. It’s a grief peculiar to writers, a very specific type of bereavement, a sorrow charged with regret.
My dad would have loved "Baker Towers." I know that now. And yet, I never even considered showing him an earlier draft of the book -- something I might easily have done, if we’d been different people. Dad was a stern man, judicious in all things. In particular, he was a discerning and critical reader, openly dismissive of female writers, a conviction he expressed without apology, a man of his time. It’s entirely possible that this led me to become a writer. Having spent my childhood chasing his approval -- I would have walked on my hands to impress him – I took it upon myself to prove him wrong. Of course I couldn’t show him my manuscript until every sentence was perfect. So I waited, and as a result he never saw it at all.
My sadness at Aubrey McClendon’s death is tinged with a similar regret. He may never have had the slightest inclination to read "Heat and Light," but until March 2, 2016, I could pretend that he might. McClendon sincerely believed that the industry that made him rich was also good for America, for communities and for the world. Some might dismiss this as solipsism. Others call it vision. I think it was both. Like most visionaries, McClendon focused on the big picture and didn’t waste time studying the pixels – the collateral damage the gas boom has inflicted on communities, the individual lives forever transformed. "Heat and Light" tells that story, and I will always wonder what McClendon would have made of it. More than anything, I wanted to make him see the pixels – and, maybe, to prove him wrong.
Last week, on a highway in downtown Oklahoma City, a man drove into a bridge support at high speed. A photo of his flaming SUV appeared in the Wall Street Journal. The driver, Aubrey McClendon, was killed on the spot.
If that name means nothing to you, it’s safe to say that you don’t trade gas and oil futures for a living, or read the kind of magazine that publishes annual lists of men so wealthy they pay other people to read magazines for them. I don’t do those things either, but after spending five years writing a novel about a town transformed by gas drilling, I know more about Aubrey McClendon than I do about my own relatives.
McClendon was the founder and longtime CEO of Chesapeake Energy, a company that more than any other has been synonymous with America’s gas and oil boom. A man described, invariably, as larger than life – dynamic, charismatic, audacious; a born wildcatter, constitutionally suited to the volatile industry he dominated. The press referred to him by his first name – Aubrey – because of course there was only one. The trajectory of his career, plotted on a graph, is full of sharp rises and spectacular falls, with virtually no recovery time in between. In 2012, his personal net worth was $1.2 billion. Then gas prices tanked, and McClendon’s board of directors kicked him to the curb. Losing the company he’d spent a lifetime building must have been a devastating blow, but publicly, anyway, he barely flinched. Before the industry could catch its breath he started a new company, American Energy Partners. Aubrey was back in the game.
Rise and fall, rise and fall. The day before his death, a federal grand jury indicted him for anti-trust violations, collusion to fix prices on oil leases in the Bakken Shale. A day later he was dead, leading to speculation that he cracked up his car on purpose. It’s a question that will likely never be answered. What was in his mind that Wednesday morning, driving too fast and wearing no seatbelt, is impossible to say.
I didn’t know Aubrey McClendon, and he didn’t know me – and yet the news of his death shook me in ways I couldn’t have predicted. On March 2, I was serving on a jury in Boston, my cellphone turned off and stowed. When I turned it on at the end of the day, I found an email from a friend, linked to a news story about McClendon’s death.
The subject line of the email was Kip.
My new novel, "Heat and Light," is set in Bakerton – a community inspired by my hometown in western Pennsylvania, a former coal town that sits smack on top of the Marcellus Shale. The novel explores what happens when the local farmers lease their mineral rights to Dark Elephant Energy, a Texas gas-and-oil company run by a flamboyant CEO known as Kip the Whip. Kip isn’t Aubrey McClendon, and yet any reader who knows the gas industry will be struck by the resemblance.
In the years I spent writing "Heat and Light," I thought of McClendon daily. Without him there would be no Kip the Whip; I could conceive of such a character only because Aubrey McClendon walked the earth. This relationship between living person and fictional character is an ineffable thing. To me, a character is like a familiar stranger who appears in my dreams, who is and isn’t my third grade teacher, my ex-husband’s mother, that Swedish guy I met on a plane to Paris in 1988 at the start of my junior year abroad. The face may be borrowed from life, but the character is a product of my subconscious, a series of autonomic associations and inventions that remain mysterious even to me. I knew McClendon in the way we know strangers in the age of Google and YouTube. Kip’s sense of destiny is pure Aubrey; so are his nerve and resilience, his unshakeable optimism, his gambler’s heart. Other aspects of Kip -- his youthful fascination with EST, his frequent, contentious and expensive divorces -- are my own invention. Unlike Kip, McClendon married his college sweetheart, once and forever. He and Katie raised three children, adults now, a family grappling with a loss that makes my own sadness at his passing seem foolish and small.
Sorrow at a stranger’s death is not, itself, unusual. In the age of social media, keening over dead celebrities is a communal activity open to all. I’ve always been skeptical of such displays, which seem an affront to anyone who has experienced real loss. I learned the difference 13 years ago, when I lost my own father. On the day he died, I was holed up at an artists’ colony in New Hampshire, doing final edits on "Baker Towers" -- a novel also set in Bakerton, during its heyday in the 1940s and '50s. Everything I know about life in that time and place, I learned from Dad. That book was his great gift to me, one among many. That he didn’t live to read it is a secondary sorrow I still carry, entirely separate from the greater pain of losing him. It’s a grief peculiar to writers, a very specific type of bereavement, a sorrow charged with regret.
My dad would have loved "Baker Towers." I know that now. And yet, I never even considered showing him an earlier draft of the book -- something I might easily have done, if we’d been different people. Dad was a stern man, judicious in all things. In particular, he was a discerning and critical reader, openly dismissive of female writers, a conviction he expressed without apology, a man of his time. It’s entirely possible that this led me to become a writer. Having spent my childhood chasing his approval -- I would have walked on my hands to impress him – I took it upon myself to prove him wrong. Of course I couldn’t show him my manuscript until every sentence was perfect. So I waited, and as a result he never saw it at all.
My sadness at Aubrey McClendon’s death is tinged with a similar regret. He may never have had the slightest inclination to read "Heat and Light," but until March 2, 2016, I could pretend that he might. McClendon sincerely believed that the industry that made him rich was also good for America, for communities and for the world. Some might dismiss this as solipsism. Others call it vision. I think it was both. Like most visionaries, McClendon focused on the big picture and didn’t waste time studying the pixels – the collateral damage the gas boom has inflicted on communities, the individual lives forever transformed. "Heat and Light" tells that story, and I will always wonder what McClendon would have made of it. More than anything, I wanted to make him see the pixels – and, maybe, to prove him wrong.






“My pace was not sustainable”: Why millennial women are burning out on the job

It simply isn’t true that a large proportion of [the studied sample of Harvard Business School] HBS alumnae have ‘opted out’ to care for children. When we asked Gen X and Baby Boom women (who are most likely to have children under 18 living with them today) about their current status, we learned … Only 11 percent are out of the workforce to care for children full-time. The figure is even lower (7 percent) for women of color.On Tuesday, Fast Company came out with a groundbreaking article incorporating interviews with millennial women (although more accurately the upper end of this age group is through to the younger end of Generation Y) who are burning out and a McKinsey study on how widespread it is. Jenny Blake, one of the women Fast Company interviewed, worked full-time at Google while juggling writing a book in her free time. “My pace was not sustainable, and I only realized it after I crashed — just weeks before my book was set to launch,” she said. Sustainability isn’t just a term that needs to be considered in regard to environmental issues; it’s also important to keep in mind for personal work-life balance so that women can achieve all they can, not just in the present, but for years to come. In order to combat professional burnout, women need at minimum a doting parent (or concerned friend, significant other or therapist) urging them to avoid putting too much on their plates too fast. But for those who aren’t so lucky, we’ll play the part with a few solutions that have worked for successful men and women who are still in grinds without burning out. Jenny Blake described the importance of learning to “create boundaries,” but acknowledged, “For younger women in particular, it can be hard to say no, especially in competitive jobs or industries where there would be a (perceived) line out the door for their replacement.” If you’re worried about how trying out any of these solutions might affect your job security, one way to ease in is to inform your boss explicitly that you’re testing out a new practice before beginning it. Smart managers will recognize your self-awareness and interest in improving your efficiency for what it is; after all, “work smarter, not harder” isn’t a phrase we throw around for nothing these days. Come up with a deal that if your productivity doesn’t improve after a set time period, you’ll abandon your plan — that way you’ll be motivated and not fear for job security before embarking to level that work-life balance see-saw. Writing in Forbes, Mattan Griffel noted his practice of only having meetings on Wednesdays. At first this seems unrealistic for most office environments — particularly those where women don’t feel in charge of their schedules — but coming from Griffel, one of Forbes’ "30 Under 30," it’s certainly worth trying. He tells of friends who adopted Wednesday meetings, calling the practice a “game changer” that “will probably make me hundreds of thousands of dollars more productive over the course of my life.” With many small offices going low to no meetings, you may want to take control of your own meeting schedule in a fresh way or recommend suggestions to someone who can change up the meeting schedule. They’ll thank you if it works out. In her conversation-changing book "Lean In," Sheryl Sandberg discusses the importance of leaving the office on time to have dinner with her family, even if she feared judgment from child-free colleagues. See the trend? Setting boundaries is something in popular news and books because the most successful professionals (Sandberg, Griffel) are doing it. There’s proof it works. U.S. News & World Report has some great tips in “How to Set Boundaries (So You Can Have a Life)." In particular they emphasize “leaving on time whenever possible” at a new job, dropping hints about your family or workout habits (depending on the culture, savvy workplaces will see outside hobbies as helpful to your productivity, within reason), and being transparent when you’ve been on the job a while and want to change your boundaries. Most ambitious professionals want to give 100 percent at work and outside of it, but it’s important to take the long view. It’s certainly a jarring concept to think that the female equivalent of midlife crisis (buying that Porsche) could mean a quarter-life crisis where all of the professional accomplishments that were top priority for the last five to 10 years are abandoned. You owe it to your future self to make sure all your hard work isn’t going to be for nothing if you burn out. And when we inevitably hit our midlife crisis instead of our quarter-life one, let us all say suck it, cheesy rom-coms (I’m looking at you, SJP in "I Don’t Know How She Does It"). Maybe I can’t have it all, but I can buy that Porsche just as well as any other man my age. Jenny Pierson is AlterNet's assistant managing editor.

It simply isn’t true that a large proportion of [the studied sample of Harvard Business School] HBS alumnae have ‘opted out’ to care for children. When we asked Gen X and Baby Boom women (who are most likely to have children under 18 living with them today) about their current status, we learned … Only 11 percent are out of the workforce to care for children full-time. The figure is even lower (7 percent) for women of color.On Tuesday, Fast Company came out with a groundbreaking article incorporating interviews with millennial women (although more accurately the upper end of this age group is through to the younger end of Generation Y) who are burning out and a McKinsey study on how widespread it is. Jenny Blake, one of the women Fast Company interviewed, worked full-time at Google while juggling writing a book in her free time. “My pace was not sustainable, and I only realized it after I crashed — just weeks before my book was set to launch,” she said. Sustainability isn’t just a term that needs to be considered in regard to environmental issues; it’s also important to keep in mind for personal work-life balance so that women can achieve all they can, not just in the present, but for years to come. In order to combat professional burnout, women need at minimum a doting parent (or concerned friend, significant other or therapist) urging them to avoid putting too much on their plates too fast. But for those who aren’t so lucky, we’ll play the part with a few solutions that have worked for successful men and women who are still in grinds without burning out. Jenny Blake described the importance of learning to “create boundaries,” but acknowledged, “For younger women in particular, it can be hard to say no, especially in competitive jobs or industries where there would be a (perceived) line out the door for their replacement.” If you’re worried about how trying out any of these solutions might affect your job security, one way to ease in is to inform your boss explicitly that you’re testing out a new practice before beginning it. Smart managers will recognize your self-awareness and interest in improving your efficiency for what it is; after all, “work smarter, not harder” isn’t a phrase we throw around for nothing these days. Come up with a deal that if your productivity doesn’t improve after a set time period, you’ll abandon your plan — that way you’ll be motivated and not fear for job security before embarking to level that work-life balance see-saw. Writing in Forbes, Mattan Griffel noted his practice of only having meetings on Wednesdays. At first this seems unrealistic for most office environments — particularly those where women don’t feel in charge of their schedules — but coming from Griffel, one of Forbes’ "30 Under 30," it’s certainly worth trying. He tells of friends who adopted Wednesday meetings, calling the practice a “game changer” that “will probably make me hundreds of thousands of dollars more productive over the course of my life.” With many small offices going low to no meetings, you may want to take control of your own meeting schedule in a fresh way or recommend suggestions to someone who can change up the meeting schedule. They’ll thank you if it works out. In her conversation-changing book "Lean In," Sheryl Sandberg discusses the importance of leaving the office on time to have dinner with her family, even if she feared judgment from child-free colleagues. See the trend? Setting boundaries is something in popular news and books because the most successful professionals (Sandberg, Griffel) are doing it. There’s proof it works. U.S. News & World Report has some great tips in “How to Set Boundaries (So You Can Have a Life)." In particular they emphasize “leaving on time whenever possible” at a new job, dropping hints about your family or workout habits (depending on the culture, savvy workplaces will see outside hobbies as helpful to your productivity, within reason), and being transparent when you’ve been on the job a while and want to change your boundaries. Most ambitious professionals want to give 100 percent at work and outside of it, but it’s important to take the long view. It’s certainly a jarring concept to think that the female equivalent of midlife crisis (buying that Porsche) could mean a quarter-life crisis where all of the professional accomplishments that were top priority for the last five to 10 years are abandoned. You owe it to your future self to make sure all your hard work isn’t going to be for nothing if you burn out. And when we inevitably hit our midlife crisis instead of our quarter-life one, let us all say suck it, cheesy rom-coms (I’m looking at you, SJP in "I Don’t Know How She Does It"). Maybe I can’t have it all, but I can buy that Porsche just as well as any other man my age. Jenny Pierson is AlterNet's assistant managing editor.






A conservative love affair ends: Breitbart forced to get tough with Trump after campaign manager assaults female reporter
As one of dozens of individuals present as Mr. Trump exited the press conference I did not witness any encounter. In addition to our staff, which had no knowledge of said situation, not a single camera or reporter of more than 100 in attendance captured the alleged incident. This individual has never met Corey, nor had the only reporter that supposedly identified him. There are often large crowds aggressively seeking access to Mr. Trump and our staff would never do anything to harm another individual, while at the same time understanding that Mr. Trump and his personal space should never be invaded. This person claims she does not want to be part of the news, and only report it, however if that was the case, any concerns, however unfounded they may be, should have been voiced directly first and not via twitter, especially since no other outlet or reporter witnessed or questioned anything that transpired that evening. We leave to others whether this part of a larger pattern of exaggerating incidents, but on multiple occasions she has become part of the news story as opposed to reporting it. Recall she also claimed to have been beaten by a New York City Police officer with a baton.For his part, after remaining silent for the better part of Wednesday, Lewandowski took to Twitter to cast doubt on Fields account without any actual rebuttal Thursday afternoon: https://twitter.com/CLewandowski_/sta... https://twitter.com/CLewandowski_/sta... https://twitter.com/CLewandowski_/sta... To which, Fields and her boyfriend, Daily Caller Senior Editor Jamie Weinstein, replied: https://twitter.com/MichelleFields/st... https://twitter.com/Jamie_Weinstein/s... https://twitter.com/MichelleFields/st... The conservative crack-up over the skirmish goes further than just Trump and Breitbart. Anti-Trump, right-wing conservatives were up in arms on Thursday, indignant that one of their own was treated with the same contempt usually reserved for a member of the much-maligned librul media: https://twitter.com/DLoesch/status/70... Trump will undoubtedly be asked about the violence surrounding his campaign events at tonight's CNN debate (yes, there is another one) and he has suggested that he plans to get more "presidential" in coming days, but after suddenly ditching CPAC last week and a top campaign official assaulting a Breitbart reporter this week, it is clear that his painful break-up with the conservative movement has already begun.






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