Stephanie Dolce's Blog, page 28
April 11, 2016
Online and Stalked
According to Pew Research Center, young women face vastly higher rates of online harassment in two of its most intense, dangerous and emotionally disruptive forms: sexual harassment and stalking.
26% of young women told Pew that they have been stalked online compared to 7% of young men and 25% of women reported that they have been sexually harassed compared to 13% of young men.
“One thing we do know is that women take harassment more seriously than men. 38% of women reported that their harassment was "extremely or very upsetting," while only 17% of harassed men felt the same. This is perhaps another clue that women are facing more extreme harassment than men.”
I can certainly vouch for those statistics. Being harassed, stalked, and even sexually harassed is easy since all your perpetrator needs these days is a tablet, phone, or computer.
Guys today think it's cute when they send a picture of their junk to a woman via social media. I don't know how many men have sent me pictures thinking that it was a “come-on” when in fact it is the most lewd and disgusting way for a man to attract a woman. But see, today guys think this is the what women want because women read books like, “50 Shades of Grey.”
I'm not saying that erotica is bad. A bad attempt at erotica is exactly what that book was. Men watch porn at a high rate, more than women do.Menare 543% more likely to look at porn than females. 88% of scenes contained acts of physical aggression, and 49% of scenes contained verbal aggression. No wonder men think this is an acceptable way to go after women and talk to them; their minds are filled with lies! (Information collected by Internet Accountability and Filtering)
Being stalked online is not fun. If you read my book, “Victim No More,” you know how I was single-out by a group of women (yes, grown women) as they tried to pull me part in every different direction all because I wanted to date and was interested in a guy who covers their favorite baseball team for a newspaper. How juvenile. The guy was coward and didn't even reach out to me to help me, so it was a plus to never have dated him in the first place!
First off, people need to remember that any information you provide on the Internet, even to trusted or popular sites, is potentially susceptible to hackers. Don't be so open to give out your personal information. You then set yourself up for being stalked in person.
On Facebook you can block people from ever seeing your posts, pictures, and contacting you. On Twitter all you can do is block people from contacting you but they can still see your posts and pictures. If you have to, contact the websites and contact your local police department as well.
Remember, d o not blame yourself if you are being stalked – YOU are not causing it.
March 31, 2016
A Little Comedy To Make My Point
Remember, it's always best to practice safe sex.
STD's aren't a joke... they are a reality.
March 28, 2016
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March 17, 2016
Another sad dating profile
Profile Name: single to long
Perfect Match: Honesty 100% honesty no games
Ideal Date: Honesty is all I ask
This guy I found on a dating site wants to know why he has been "single to long" maybe he hasn't been honest, played games, or the women he goes for are players and sleeps around. BUT his profile is so inadequate - yes, we all want people to be honest with us, but that doesn't answer what your ideal date is! Is it the beach, coffee, dinner, going to the movies, etc?
There's more than honesty that goes into a relationship.... maybe just looking for honesty is the problem.
March 9, 2016
March 1, 2016
QUESTION OF THE DAY PART 2:
What do you think? Discuss...
February 13, 2016
QUESTION OF THE DAY:
Share your thoughts.... discuss.
February 7, 2016
SUNDAY'S SESSION: Treasure People, Treasure Relationships
When people make a big deal about something, it's obviously important enough to the point where others should put themselves in other's shoes, instead of getting all upset and doing what most do; running from the person or telling that person that the only side they need to see is theirs.
When you run from a problem, it doesn't go away. Instead it just grows and grows. When you refuse to see things from another person's perspective; you create tension.
If you want to truly understand why some people bottle themselves up, become aloners, or worse, commit suicide, it's simply because people NEVER take the time to completely understand others, show compassion or have patience.
Today's world has the its all about me tone.
The worse thing anyone can do is exclude someone else and give a lame excuse as to why they do it. We're human, we make mistakes, we forget, we are consumed with having to deal with tons of stuff in our daily lives. BUT...
Life is only best when it's lived to the full extent.
Life is only good when we can STOP and THINK about how our actions effect others. If you today can take a moment and just think about someone who is always there for you, and return the favor, that is what life is about: Creating those memories.
This year as I turn 40, I see life in a different way. I don't know why, but it's probably because in my life I have experienced so many things that I have grown. And I am looking forward to experiencing so much more!
Remember, life always find a way of giving us back whatever we give to it.<3
January 31, 2016
STD's And Online Dating- Go Together like Cookies and Milk
It's hard to completely understand this phenomenon that is online dating. People claim that they want to be liked for “who they really are,” while at the same time, their dating profiles reflect white lies in order to be liked and accepted by the opposite sex. Not only that, but today people are in sexual relationships a lot faster and quicker than they were five years ago thanks to dating apps and dating site.
Here's just another reason to stop doing online dating. Most people don't even know that they have an STD and there are many people who don't even reveal that they do.
January 28, 2016
BREAKING NEWS...
I am excited to announce that coming soon I will have an online dating channel on YouTube.
It will bring awareness of the dangers of online dating, and actual tips on how to find someone OFFLINE.
Stay tuned....
