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A Red Rose for the New Moon
"Honey, I'm on enough Valium to tranquilize you, your mother, and two baby elephants. My anxiety is still killing me and I can't get the bastard out of my head. I can’t sleep at night and, when I do, as soon as I wake up he’s right back in my mind. You'd think that'd be enough reason to move on. There. That's everything in a nutshell. Now look in that crystal ball and tell me what he's doing!" So said one of my clients the second she sat down in my office.
Broken hearts, unrequited love, loneliness, despair. These are some of the many problems that my clients bring to me. If gone untreated, they actually cause illness. This is why so many people seek spiritual and psychic counsel. They come to me for answers, advice, and a compassionate ear.
If you live long enough, it will happen to you. In fact, you may consider yourself savvy and street-smart, experienced and wise. No matter. One day love with all its beauty and excruciating pain will meet you face to face, shred your life into tiny bits, and then walk away as if nothing ever happened.
You may have been victimized, cheated on, abused emotionally and maybe even physically. You may feel as if the best years of your life have been taken from you. You may be questioning how someone could love you so much and then just stop; ignoring the cell phone when your texts come through; drifting in and out of your life as if they have no emotions. Are they sociopaths? Sometimes I wonder.
But despite this treatment, you wait, believing in that absurd virtue called hope. What can I say? We love the ones we love.
Is this what you are experiencing? If so, this message is meant for you. I hope it helps.
So now what? Acceptance. You can neither change nor control anyone other than yourself. If someone falls out of love with you, accept it. Time to move on.
A friend once told me that she tries to find three things a day that she is thankful for. It helps her feel better. I'll go with that.
I have another friend who is on his way to Rome to visit the Temple of Venus. He’s going to leave a red rose and make a wish for love. He promised that he’d do the same for me. I'll go with that too.
This new moon – on March 8, 2016 – is a total solar eclipse in Pisces. It is a sensitive, not emotional, moon, a time for reflection, understanding, and new beginnings. So light a pink candle to the Goddess. She will help you to move on.
Take a moment to find the best memory you have of the one you loved. It may be a picture on your phone. If so, print it. It may be the warmth you felt the last time you held each other. If so, embrace that feeling. Now release the pain.
There was a purpose for your relationship. But do not try to figure it out. Let the Goddess reveal it to you in Her time.
Now, open your heart to the abundance of unconditional love that is available from the Universe. Ask for healing. Understand that you are a good person and deserve all good things. Firmly resolve to enjoy your life more each day.
Under this new moon remember:
If someone wants to be with you, they will find a way.
If someone cares about you, they will fight to keep you.
If someone has feelings for you, they will find a way to let you know.
And you will never have to worry about when or why.
Many Blessings,
Lawren Leo
For more short stories about love please read:
Love's Shadow: Nine Crooked Paths
To Learn More Magic and Self-Help:
Dragonflame: Tap Into Your Reservoir of Power Using Talismans, Manifestation, and Visualization
Broken hearts, unrequited love, loneliness, despair. These are some of the many problems that my clients bring to me. If gone untreated, they actually cause illness. This is why so many people seek spiritual and psychic counsel. They come to me for answers, advice, and a compassionate ear.
If you live long enough, it will happen to you. In fact, you may consider yourself savvy and street-smart, experienced and wise. No matter. One day love with all its beauty and excruciating pain will meet you face to face, shred your life into tiny bits, and then walk away as if nothing ever happened.
You may have been victimized, cheated on, abused emotionally and maybe even physically. You may feel as if the best years of your life have been taken from you. You may be questioning how someone could love you so much and then just stop; ignoring the cell phone when your texts come through; drifting in and out of your life as if they have no emotions. Are they sociopaths? Sometimes I wonder.
But despite this treatment, you wait, believing in that absurd virtue called hope. What can I say? We love the ones we love.
Is this what you are experiencing? If so, this message is meant for you. I hope it helps.
So now what? Acceptance. You can neither change nor control anyone other than yourself. If someone falls out of love with you, accept it. Time to move on.
A friend once told me that she tries to find three things a day that she is thankful for. It helps her feel better. I'll go with that.
I have another friend who is on his way to Rome to visit the Temple of Venus. He’s going to leave a red rose and make a wish for love. He promised that he’d do the same for me. I'll go with that too.
This new moon – on March 8, 2016 – is a total solar eclipse in Pisces. It is a sensitive, not emotional, moon, a time for reflection, understanding, and new beginnings. So light a pink candle to the Goddess. She will help you to move on.
Take a moment to find the best memory you have of the one you loved. It may be a picture on your phone. If so, print it. It may be the warmth you felt the last time you held each other. If so, embrace that feeling. Now release the pain.
There was a purpose for your relationship. But do not try to figure it out. Let the Goddess reveal it to you in Her time.
Now, open your heart to the abundance of unconditional love that is available from the Universe. Ask for healing. Understand that you are a good person and deserve all good things. Firmly resolve to enjoy your life more each day.
Under this new moon remember:
If someone wants to be with you, they will find a way.
If someone cares about you, they will fight to keep you.
If someone has feelings for you, they will find a way to let you know.
And you will never have to worry about when or why.
Many Blessings,
Lawren Leo
For more short stories about love please read:
Love's Shadow: Nine Crooked Paths
To Learn More Magic and Self-Help:
Dragonflame: Tap Into Your Reservoir of Power Using Talismans, Manifestation, and Visualization
Connecting with your Soulmate
Ruby Zoisite – Maintain and Rekindle Connections with Soulmates
Spiritual serendipity strikes like lightning, releasing deafening thunder through our souls. How then can we doubt the concept of coincidence? Don't allow disbelief to muffle the powerful winds of divine force. In times of need Mother Earth responds. Discovered in 1949 in the midst of significant world changes (Apartheid, oppressive regimes of Stalin and Mao Tse Tung) the beautiful ruby zoisite, which had been laying buried under the feet of the Maasai tribe in Africa for ages, was suddenly unearthed.
Ruby zoisite represents saving grace and consolation. Especially from our soulmates. It also reminds us that we may have already found them. They can be family, friends, or lovers. This simple stone shines slivers of light in the darkness.
The meaning of its three colors, green, intense pink, and black, translate to: unchanging essence of divinely chosen relationships; the shared heart – the thoughts and emotions that bind us to soulmates; and the soul cage. We can become nomads, searching far and wide for the person or people who can complete our lives, whether we’ve lost them or haven’t yet found them. We forget, but our souls remember: Amor Vincit Omnia – Love Conquers All!
If your soul feels trapped in a cage, if your soul aches from missing another soul, or if you're tired of searching with no results, try this simple exercise:
Burn an emerald green candle. Lie on your back in a comfortable position. Place a piece of ruby zoisite over your heart and cover it with both hands. Gently whisper this intent into the Universe:
Kind spirit of the ruby zoisite, teach me how to channel all of your positive energies. Reconnect me with [state name of person or intention]. Thank you in advance kind spirits.
Allow yourself to fall asleep surrounded by the power of peace and love.
May you find your soulmate. – #LawrenLeo
For more information on how to cleanse and consecrate crystals read #DragonflameByLawrenLeo.
Dragonflame
Spiritual serendipity strikes like lightning, releasing deafening thunder through our souls. How then can we doubt the concept of coincidence? Don't allow disbelief to muffle the powerful winds of divine force. In times of need Mother Earth responds. Discovered in 1949 in the midst of significant world changes (Apartheid, oppressive regimes of Stalin and Mao Tse Tung) the beautiful ruby zoisite, which had been laying buried under the feet of the Maasai tribe in Africa for ages, was suddenly unearthed.
Ruby zoisite represents saving grace and consolation. Especially from our soulmates. It also reminds us that we may have already found them. They can be family, friends, or lovers. This simple stone shines slivers of light in the darkness.
The meaning of its three colors, green, intense pink, and black, translate to: unchanging essence of divinely chosen relationships; the shared heart – the thoughts and emotions that bind us to soulmates; and the soul cage. We can become nomads, searching far and wide for the person or people who can complete our lives, whether we’ve lost them or haven’t yet found them. We forget, but our souls remember: Amor Vincit Omnia – Love Conquers All!
If your soul feels trapped in a cage, if your soul aches from missing another soul, or if you're tired of searching with no results, try this simple exercise:
Burn an emerald green candle. Lie on your back in a comfortable position. Place a piece of ruby zoisite over your heart and cover it with both hands. Gently whisper this intent into the Universe:
Kind spirit of the ruby zoisite, teach me how to channel all of your positive energies. Reconnect me with [state name of person or intention]. Thank you in advance kind spirits.
Allow yourself to fall asleep surrounded by the power of peace and love.
May you find your soulmate. – #LawrenLeo
For more information on how to cleanse and consecrate crystals read #DragonflameByLawrenLeo.
Dragonflame
