Santosh Jha's Blog - Posts Tagged "relationships"
LOVE Ain’t – What We Want We Automatically Get Thing…
Love, as one ‘casual and unconscious venture’ of life, is usually launched, or better say gets auto-launched, without much preparations. There is a clichéd that love is not made to happen, rather it happens….
This somehow justifies the non-preparedness in love. However, when the associated troubles happen in love, we never repeat the clichéd that it happened and not made to happen.
We always say, he or she made it all happen to me. Or; this or that set of things made it happen.
When something starts with a hypothesis that ‘what we want is what we should automatically get’, then the script for the failure is readied.
Nothing qualifies for automatic qualification as a birthright in modern contemporary cultural milieu of humanity. Success may come random to some, for most, it needs huge preparations.
Even if ‘Love Happens’, We All Need Be Prepared For Its Celebrative Welcome & Nurturance…
(excerpts from book, ‘Why We Flop In Love’)
http://amazon.com/author/santoshjha
This somehow justifies the non-preparedness in love. However, when the associated troubles happen in love, we never repeat the clichéd that it happened and not made to happen.
We always say, he or she made it all happen to me. Or; this or that set of things made it happen.
When something starts with a hypothesis that ‘what we want is what we should automatically get’, then the script for the failure is readied.
Nothing qualifies for automatic qualification as a birthright in modern contemporary cultural milieu of humanity. Success may come random to some, for most, it needs huge preparations.
Even if ‘Love Happens’, We All Need Be Prepared For Its Celebrative Welcome & Nurturance…
(excerpts from book, ‘Why We Flop In Love’)
http://amazon.com/author/santoshjha
Fear Is Good; Energizes Journey To Truth
He grew up to the realism that asking question was a greater virtue than giving answers. Keeping a question alive, not allowing it to die prematurely required a lot of courage, character and conviction. Almost everyone claimed to have the answers; some of them probably had. Most of them even fought for their answers to be the only justified one. Many had the authority to impose answers or the refusal of it on people. Only few however had questions and the courage to stand them. He realized, if necessity was the mother of inventions, inquisitiveness was the primary energy behind all inventions, all creations.
He refused the socially popular notion that a question was a sign of weakness as it exposed the ignorance of the questioner. He learnt it quite early in his youthfulness that a question is sign of innocence and courage. It required childlike innocence and courage of highest order to rise above the fear of being labeled an ignorant, to face the taunts of peer group and society to be a duffer, even retarded. He had made up his mind to always be on the side of questions. He had accepted that if something had fear in its side, it was good as it would lead to the ultimate truth.
(excerpts from novel, ‘Back To Bliss: A Journey To Zero’)
http://amazon.com/author/santoshjha
He refused the socially popular notion that a question was a sign of weakness as it exposed the ignorance of the questioner. He learnt it quite early in his youthfulness that a question is sign of innocence and courage. It required childlike innocence and courage of highest order to rise above the fear of being labeled an ignorant, to face the taunts of peer group and society to be a duffer, even retarded. He had made up his mind to always be on the side of questions. He had accepted that if something had fear in its side, it was good as it would lead to the ultimate truth.
(excerpts from novel, ‘Back To Bliss: A Journey To Zero’)
http://amazon.com/author/santoshjha
