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Orgasmic Evening, Sexy Sunday #13

Remember when we all saw Meg Ryan fake an orgasm? The way she did it says to me that she must have had a real Orgasm at one time or another.

I will never understand why any woman would want to fake an all out mind blowing fuck me silly Orgasm. We absolutely need to spread the word to all women that faking orgasms is a big mistake.  I will never understand why women would fake it and not just tell their men/women that they needed to do better.

To look them in the eye’s and say, “I need to cum, Sweetie you aren’t hitting my buttons and I can’t cum. I refuse to fake it. Let’s figure this out together.”

As I have said in every Sexy Sunday post it comes down to Communication. Of course it takes a strong woman to start the conversation and a smart man to listen to what she has to say. You don’t want to be that woman that waits to say something. Before you know it ten years pass and you’re still faking it.And now when you get the courage to bring it up he has no idea what you’re talking about. This could ruin a relationship.He thinks he’s been giving you amazing sex and you have been faking it. It makes no sense to keep doing this to yourselves when there is an answer and it can be fixed. Nip that shit in the bud right now.

And if you’re a women that has never had a mind blowing suck me silly Orgasms don’t you think it’s about time you start talking about it. Teach each other what you want and you’re both happy. Get on the internet and look it up. Or better yet ask your spouse for help. What you thought would tear you apart can actually bring you closer together. Research is a good thing for both of you. Learning new techniques. New positions can open up a whole new sex life for the both of you if you’re just brave enough to talk about it.

Now if you’re a woman that can’t cum and won’t talk about it. Maybe you just can’t say the words. Or you’re too embarrassed to admit it, try sending your hubby an e-mail.  “Ah hon,I am having trouble and I don’t want you to laugh.  I want to have lots of mind blowing sex and lot’s of orgasms. Will you help me?”

I guarantee he/she is going to get right on that.  Just be open and honest with each other. I guarantee your spouse is going to be sweet, loving and they will be happy you are talking about it.  And this will bring you both closer together. After an e-mail like that you’re either going to get a phone call, or an e-mail back that says, Of course I will help you.

Let me tell you that you’re not alone. Even I had a problem after my hysterectomy. I had to say something because I was miserable.  And it felt so good when my hubby told me we would find a way. Sure enough he looked it up and ran to the pharmacy and picked up some Zestra. I have talked about this stuff before. It comes in a little packet. And you put this slippery stuff on your clit.  That night I was back.

You have a spouse, a partner. To have a relationship that is strong you have to talk to each other. Do you think I could be married for almost thirty years if my husband couldn’t get me off. Oh hell no that just wouldn’t or couldn’t work in my house. You see while I catch my breath after I’ve had my second or third grab the sheets pull my hair kind of Orgasm we talk about it. And by it I mean the almighty screaming till the neighbors can hear us Orgasm. Was it good for you and how can we make it better is not a bad thing.

Having or getting to the core of the most amazing feeling in the world to any woman means so much when we are relying on our spouse or partner to get you there. Of course as women we could always do it ourselves. And if you haven’t it’s time to start. Go online and get yourself a magic wand and a dildo. There is nothing to be ashamed of. If you looked into most women’s nightstands you would find sex toys. It’s time to join the club.

By a show of hands how many women out there can give yourselves an all out goosebumps on your legs, shake and moan till you want to scream orgasm in about three to five minutes. Yup that’s what I thought.

There’s only one problem, having that orgasm by ourselves can come with a price. Because just knowing that we can do it ourselves shouldn’t mean you give your spouse a pass in the orgasm department and fake it. No Fucking way.  Ladies if your spouse is puffing out his chest thinking he’s done good and he really hasn’t what good is it. It doesn’t help either of you or your relationship if one of you is faking it.

So here is the task for all of you ladies tonight. Grab your hubby,spouse, partner by the hand and tell them you’re going to teach them a thing or two tonight. Don’t you want your sexy Sunday to have an orgasmic evening. I bet you’re thinking what on earth is Annie talking about when she says Orgasmic evening? Well I know some of you know exactly what I’m talking about. But for those of you who don’t I’m going to tell what an orgasmic evening is.

It’s when your partner gets between your legs and licks and sucks on your love button until you just can’t take it anymore. Then he puts his hard cock into your love tunnel and pounds you while you either let him touch your clit or you grab that magic wand and hold it there yourself. And once that toe curling magical orgasm happens you have that certain after glow about you. You feel lighter, and happier nothing could bother you for the rest of the night.

And now after you’ve just had that amazing orgasm or two maybe you’re on the computer or reading my erotic romance and he’s watching the hockey game.  You both look over at each other at the same time.  You smile cause you can’t help but think about that climax. And you shiver as he looks at you. It’s in his eyes and the way that he has that sexy half smirk that you can see a very proud and very satisfied man.  That satisfaction isn’t because he came. It’s because he made you cum and it wasn’t at all a when Harry Met Sally moment.

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The Emporium, Chapter Two- continued from 4-7-2014

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The next installment of the Emporium by Coleman Weeks, Hot stuff..

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John was famished after skipping dinner last night. He put on some shorts and a tee shirt as his stomach grumbled. Once he had on his flip-flops and room key he made his way to the continental buffet waiting downstairs. His stomach audibly complained as he almost jogged, he felt as he was twenty years younger. The stress of concealing the affair and hiding his feelings for Annie had drained him more than he knew and now that weight had lifted. John felt as if he was a teenager with his first girlfriend.

He could smell the toast and cinnamon rolls when he walked in the lobby and spied the hot table in the corner. He grabbed a paper plate and chose a cinnamon roll and then drew some coffee from the machine dispensing that…

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Twitter: What NOT to Do

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There are lots of helpful articles out there about Twitter 101 and advanced techniques, but sometimes advice in the opposite direction gets the point across even more effectively.

Molly Greene is an author, blogger, blog-coach and generally a friendly and helpful voice for newbies and experts alike. If you want something more elementary (but still very helpful), read this: How to Twitter: Tips for Newbies

I want to highlight 2 points made in this article:

GIVE before you expect a payback. To grow a quality following, you must interact with a percentage of your followers, comment on their blogs, and help with retweets. A sincere, reliable way to gain true support is to retweet others’ good blog content and good news. Give to gain. Just as in life, on Twitter we benefit when we give our support without expecting payback. You need to be an active supporter to be…

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Vacation Sex, Sexy Sunday # 12

While on vacation this week in the sunshine state (which is more like fantasy island to a girl from Jersey), we realized staying with friends is great.  Unless you’re the type of couple that is used to having sex more than once a week and when ever the mood strikes. So we had to get creative.

While driving home from the beach one afternoon I see this adult store next to this high end Fu-Fu, she-she boutique in a strip mall around the corner.  I make my hubby pull in. Well they didn’t have much of a selection but I didn’t need much. I ask the woman behind the counter where the bullets were. And She directs me to the wall display of about five. I ask her which one gives the best punch, the highest vibes. She hands me one and I realize there is no way I’m buying this vibrator unless I can feel how powerful it is.

And wouldn’t you know she gets me some triple A’s from behind the counter. Once I start clicking through the speeds I realize that this little vibrator will do the trick. I tell her to wrap it up. On the way out the door she tells me to have a nice day and of course I say, “Oh there is no doubt I will be having a nice day.”

So before we can pull out of the parking lot I have this little six inch vibrating stick out of the package. Hubby says, “Damn you are a horny little thing aren’t you.” I smile and unzip my shorts and start clicking. I only have to click three times before I know this is the speed I’m looking for.

I put it down onto my clit and  as I look up I can feel and see the car speed up as Hubby wants to get me back to our friends house while no one is home.  He starts saying let me see what you’re doing, and touches me. “OMG are you kidding me, Just drive baby.” We pull into the driveway and the car comes to an abrupt halt and I almost jump out with my pants down around my knees. Luckily my other half still had his whits about him and grabs my arm.

Of course because we’re in a hurry Hubby fumbles with the key as we both laugh like high school kids sneaking home on lunch break. I think I had my clothes off before we got to our bedroom. It’s crazy just how fucking fantastic it is to kiss your spouse and be kissed back when you’re having this kind of Sexy afternoon. Those amazing moments are the ones that we don’t forget.

I can tell you that unexpected sex like that is the best. And it’s the spontaneity that makes all the difference.  We were both in the horny zone and when he finally stuck his hard cock into my very wet pussy.  It didn’t take long before we were both screaming in Ecstasy. And I have no doubt that the neighbors know my hubby’s name.

Of course I wanted more and decided to see what this little vibrating stick could do.  Hubby watched as I gave myself a little more pleasure. Sure enough that $18.79 bullet did the trick three more times.

We were both extremely satisfied as we laid there wrapped in each others arms laughing and touching like lovers do. We did realize one thing though, we cannot go on vacation again unless we bring at least one vibrating toy.  Or at least know that there’s an adult store close by. .  The excitement we had going into that little adult novelty store along with the drive home and the explosion of excitement we made together that afternoon made our day just perfect..

I hope you are having a very Sexy Sunday.

 

 

 

 

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Touch Me! Sexy Sunday #11

We all need human contact.  It’s just nice to be touched. And sure we can touch ourselves and have fun doing it. But is that how we really want to have sex?

I know for me I want to be touched by my husband in ways that no one else can touch me. And touching goes both ways. I touch him and he touches me.

He knows every inch of my body, actually knows it better than I know it myself. I love that about him. And when he walks up behind me, moves my hair off my neck and bites that erogenous zone. Oh yes, I get goosebumps just thinking about it.

We have always been a very sexual touchy feelie kind of couple. It’s just a known fact with our friends and family. They all know to call before they stop by and knock before they come walking through the door. Of course there have been a few  surprise drop in’s over the years. We just laugh, at this point it’s not us who get’s embarrassed.

So let me see if I can help you get intimate by touching your spouse. If you are trying to jump start your sex life you need to start with no distractions. If the kids are home this isn’t going to happen. Now I’m not saying never. But for the jumping off point you will need to be alone. After that it won’t matter whose home.

So it’s best to find a night where you have no doubt that the kids are being taken care of and your not going to be interrupted. Call grandma, or have the kids stay at a friends house for the night. Better yet get out of the house and make it an overnight or a weekend getaway at a nice hotel out of town.

Bring all the essentials, vibrators, lube, dildo’s, blindfold, did I say Lube.  If your women has felt less than sexy or her libido is out of whack it’s time for some Zestra or something like Zestra.  Pick up a packet at your pharmacy.

This is the oil that will wake up her clit.  And this is the weekend you try something new.  How about some massage oils. They come in all different scents. Get the one that turns you on not off.  My personal favorite is always coconut oil.

Since the mood is important bring some tea-lights or Pillar candles. A bottle of wine. Make that two bottles of your favorite wine or the beverage.  What ever you have to do to make you relax this is the time to do it. And don’t forget the sexy lingerie.

If you can both plan for this getaway the build up to the date can be very exciting.  Remember this is your chance to get away and re-connect. Start shopping for some new and exciting toys and lingerie as soon as you make the date. Surprise each other.

This can give you both a way to introduce some new kinds of sex and maybe even add some kinky to your relationship. If you want to be the submissive this weekend tell your partner so he can at least have a chance to look up what he’s supposed to do as a Dominant. . This sort of thing doesn’t happen overnight. But it can be fun and that’s all that matters. Believe me when one or both of you start adding some fetish to your sex life or some new toys this is a way to communicate with each other.

And it’s a lot of fun to see your partners reaction to what’s in the bags. I love it when my hubby surprises me with a new toy. And he’s always buying me something new to wear too. The fun for him is seeing me in it. Sure most of it doesn’t last long but it’s fun while it last.

Try some crotch-less panties. There are bustiers in lace, leather, or silk and for every shape and size. Find out what your partner would like to see you in and either buy it yourself or as I have said before give him/her your measurements and leave it up to them. Remember you are going to be their fantasy. So no matter what it is that they bring put it on and don’t bitch about it.

Now with no distractions and I mean no distractions. If you can’t clear your head your time alone will be ruined. So clear your head before you get into the car. If you can do this on your night or weekend alone I am sure you can both find ways to connect.

It doesn’t all have to be all sex the entire time you’re away. Take a walk, hold hands, Talk to each other. Stop and kiss passionately.  Go out to a nice dinner, or role play in a new city. Walk into a strange bar or nightclub and act like you don’t know each other. Talk about this before hand. Make like you’re single and have fun with it. And don’t get excited if your partner starts getting attention from other men or women. Remember they are going home with you.

It might be fun to watch your partner squirm while getting hit on with you on the other side of the bar. Send them a drink. Make eye contact, Flirt. You do remember how to flirt with the one person who loves you more than anyone right?

But don’t leave them hanging for too long. Get up and walk over to them and mark your territory with a slow kiss. Then take her by the hand and get out of there. This is foreplay.

Now lets get to it. Once you’re alone Start with a shower together or a bath. Let him wash your body. and you wash his. You should both be relaxed enough to start the next faze which is the massage.

If you’re home make sure you get some rubber sheets. They’re really not rubber they’re just the kind that won’t leave stains on your mattress or bedding. This is one less thing to worry about. Remember stress free is the theme of your time together.

Warm up the massage oil. If you don’t have a microwave or you’re in a hotel you can put the bottle of oil in some warm water for about ten minutes and it should be perfect.

Now relax. Your partner should have the pillows all set up for you. The lighting is also important. Light the candles. Think romance, think sensual, think orgasm. Let your partner work his/her magic. Getting or giving a massage can be very relaxing. Get to know every crevasse of that man or women once again. Remember that you love each other.

Now getting a massage doesn’t have to mean intercourse. But I know if I’m getting or giving a massage I want it to lead to sex. I can’t help it. When I’m getting touched like that in places like that, and with a slippery substance. Oh Hell yea I want sex.

So we usually start with me on my stomach. But once I turn over the blind fold goes on. This is where the magic happens. You see with a blindfold you can be free to let those inhibitions go. Nothing else matters in the world except what’s going on between you and your partner at that moment.

When you hear the sound of your partners voice that alone can get you excited, wet. There’s nothing wrong with a happy ending.

I have to say if this doesn’t spark your relationship into a sexual high gear than I don’t know what will. Yes a night or weekend away from your hectic busy lives can and will bring you both back to where you need to be. Have fun with it, laugh, this doesn’t have to be serious. Remember you know this person and he/she knows you.

After a getaway like this, you will both have that connection and you will be planning that next get away. You’ll be more apt to touch your partner on a daily basis. And he/she will touch you more often too. The magic that can happen with one night or weekend can last a lifetime if you do it right.

I hope you have a Sexy Sunday..

 

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I am the best sex I’ve ever had

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Now that’s what I’m talking about, Women taking control of their own sexual gratification. Read this you will feel empowered.

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It took me a very long time to understand that the best sex I’ll ever have starts with me. I used to think good sex was something that someone did to me. That if I just found the right partner, who had amazing skills, I would be having mind blowing sex.  Now I know that fantastic sex is something I get for myself. Even better, I can have it all by myself. As long as my hands exist I can have hot, sweaty, breathless sex.  Discovering that, blew my mind.

Boom.

The moment I realized that I am sexual all by myself, was the moment I claimed my power. I no longer needed anyone else’s approval of my body, my technique, my preferences, my career, or my schedule or anything else about my life.   My body was beautiful, my body was whole, my body was sexy, just as it was…

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A beautiful Devotion..

A beautiful Devotion

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This about sums it up!

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Thanks for the post Wendy Jay, I love it..

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Power of The Pussy, Sexy Sunday #10

While having a conversation with my hubby today he mentioned something that made a lot of sense. The power of the pussy. Yes you heard me right. You see most women don’t even realize just how much power that little pink thing between your legs has.

And I believe if we did we could rule the world. You see most men love Pussy. And if you think about it women really do have the power. The power to get what we want. The power to make men do stupid things. In fact men will bend over backwards just to get to our powerful Pussy’s. They’ll  even give up their old hot rods along with toys and collectibles that they’ve had for years just to be with the woman who has the one pussy they can’t live without.

So as I pondered writing this blog I thought about how could I let women know about all this power we have. Then it hit me. My hubby was right. How many songs, books, poems, have been written all to get into a women’s pants.

And what about all those buildings, cathedrals, painting and sculptures that were meticulously constructed to impress a woman. There have been battles fought and wars won, all to get the attention of a woman. And ultimately to get her pussy as the prize. Vincent Vangogh  even cut off his ear and sent it to a woman just to get her attention.

But some women don’t realize just how powerful their pussy’s are. They haven’t found a way to let their inhibitions go yet. I will just say to those women that your day will come and when it does you too will realize that you’ve had the power all along. There are many ways to think about the power of the pussy. This post is just one of them.

Think about the power of the Pussy this way;  if a man wants to have sex he has to bring his A-game. And even then it’s not a sure thing.  But if a woman wants to have sex she only has to take a shower, or not. Put on a pair of jeans and a cute tee or not. Spray on some perfume, put on some lipstick or not. And walk out the door. Women have the power to have sex morning, noon or night if they so choose too. Yes there it is, “The Power of The Pussy.”

We are always hearing about how men put up with women’s shit. But the truth is women put up with men’s shit all the time. Most women have either gone through some kind of abuse or know someone who has been used and abused. Why is it then that men seem to have so much power over some women?  Well not every women realizes they have such a power. And they lack the confidence and the self esteem. What they need to do is demand respect right from the first date. No respect no relationship, and definitely no Pussy.

think about it; If you can’t respect yourself how on earth do you expect a man to respect you?

If only all women would  hold their heads up high and start strutting their stuff  they would find out quickly the power of their own Pussy’s. Do you realize men actually love confident women. Being confident doesn’t mean you can’t be feminine.  Absolutely act like a lady and dress like a women. Try it and watch the looks you start getting. Where something different to work one day. May a blouse that you decided to unbutton one more button. Do your hair and make-up. Smile and wiggle just enough to strut your stuff. You should notice a difference in the attention you get. You will feel the power of the pussy.

Sometimes using your pussy power is just using your head. Men like to be needed. So even know you can take care of yourself make sure you ask for help before changing that light bulb in the bathroom or tighten that screw on a draw handle.

Here’s something that makes me crazy; Men asking women how many men they’ve slept with. My advice to you is to give them a look that lets them know they have just crossed the line and insulted you.  Because they have, and never give them an answer to such a stupid question.  Get up and walk away.  It’s none of their damn business who you’ve slept with before they came along. And if their asking that question chances are they’re not the right man for you. The reason I say this is because the first  argument you have he’ll throw that shit in your face.  And hold it against you and your pussy. So do not I repeat, Do not tell a man how many men you’ve slept with, even if that number is one.

When you’re out on a first date don’t talk about old boyfriends or how much you’ve been hurt by other men. Or how your heart has been stomped on and thrown away like last weeks old newspaper. Talk about him, talk about how successful you are. Talk about the book you’re reading or the pasta dish you can make. But for your own sake get a clue about how to use your powerful pussy.

You see all men want to get into your pants to see, touch and feel that amazing pink pussy between your legs. But If you’re a woman that doesn’t quite have the self esteem or the confidence to use your pussy power,  but you like this man and you feel he’s a keeper, make him wait.  You have to be prepared for what could happen once you give it away. If  you’re the kind of woman that hasn’t let her inhibitions go then he’s probably going to use you because he feels he can get away with it. He won’t give you the respect that you deserve and that’s because he doesn’t see you respecting yourself. And ultimately he will not stay in a long term relationship with you.

Find that confidence that I know you have before you get into any relationship.  Remember we have all the power it just takes some of us a little longer to realize the power of our own pussy’s. What I’m trying to say is if you respect yourself than you will get respect back. If you feel confident it will be evident to anyone you come in contact with. Even from afar.

Now if you’re one of those women who has the confidence in yourself and your pussy. And you absolutely know how to let your inhibitions go where sex is concerned. Then by all means go for it. But only if you think he’s worthy. Because for the woman who knows how to use the power of her pussy it’s only going to take that one time for him to desire her. He will come crawling back on his hands and knee’s if she ask him too.  He will send her that text message before he even gets home. And he would have made sure he had a second date before he kissed her goodnight.

Yes the women who know how to use the power of their Pussy’s can and do  have men eating out of the palm’s of their hand’s or pussy’s if they so choose.  These are the women who can and do get what ever they want.  And confident women with her heads held high not only have great sex but can and do get shit done. Multi-tasking is nothing new to these women. They are the women who know how to keep a man satisfied.  And they know how to satisfy themselves too.

They can and do use their power for all kinds of things. And even have powerful toys in their own toy chest. As for their men, they are willing to stand by them with their own heads held high because they’re getting their fair share of that unbelievable Power of The Pussy.

I hope you have a Sexy Sunday..

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When Women Wanted Sex Much More Than Men

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At one time it was Women who were seen as sex crazed temptresses. My how the gender roles have changed..

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When Women Wanted Sex Much More Than Men

This article showed up on my facebook feed and I thought ya’ll might like to see it too. Interesting read seeing as we think of Puritans as the antithesis of sex and sexuality. 

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