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January 23, 2024
#3 TOP TRAVEL INFLUENCER for 2024

40 Top Travel Influencers of the Year












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January 20, 2024
Brave-ish at The Los Angeles Travel Show Feb 2024





In 2023, I spoke at the Travel and Adventure Show in Chicago, New York City, Los Angeles and Dallas.
I just spoke at the Chicago Travel Show on January 13 and 14, 2024.
Click here to see my event at Vroman’s Bookstore with Ms. Magazine
Come hear me speak in Feb 2024 at the Women’s Travel Fest in Mexico and in April 2024 at the Women in Travel Summit in Salt Lake City, Utah. For more about my future events, click here.

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January 18, 2024
Looking for TRAVEL BENEFITS?

If you���re someone who likes to make the most out of your travel, then you absolutely need to have the right travel credit card in your wallet. I was honored to be selected to share on camera for the holidays about the Southwest Rapid Rewards Credit Card by Chase. Southwest Rapid Rewards Credit Cardmembers have access to a host of travel benefits.
December 2023 on KCTV 5 Kansas City





There are a few ways to make your holiday travel experience less stressful. Travel expert Lisa Niver stopped by GDC virtually with a look at the Chase Southwest Visa Credit Card.



Learn more about how much I love Southwest Airlines in this article Why People Are Weirdly Obsessed With Southwest Airlines (this article is from 2018–I know now–most airlines have waived their change fees but at the time–it was a big deal. AND…remember everyone makes mistakes–see below….)
There���s no charge to change a flight.��So if you, like Los Angeles travel agent Lisa Niver, found that you���d booked a ticket in the wrong direction for a professional conference, you can change it without coughing up a $200 fee. When she realized the day before said conference she���d bought a ticket from Phoenix to LA instead of the other way around, she rebooked at the last minute at no extra cost. Also, your first two pieces of checked luggage are free.

and from my TV segment: “Legal disclaimer: Accounts subject to credit approval. Restrictions and limitations apply. Southwest Rapid RewardsTM Credit Cards are issued by JPMorgan Chase Bank, N.A. Member FDIC. Offer subject to change. Paid for by Chase. All Rapid Rewards�� rules and regulations apply and can be found at Southwest.com/rrterms.“
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January 12, 2024
Top 10 Travel and Lifestyle Blogs for 2024

As you contemplate your wanderlust-filled adventures for 2024, let this carefully curated list of the top 10 travel lifestyle blogs be your compass to the most captivating destinations and experiences. Whether you seek remote landscapes, cultural immersion, or simply a rejuvenating escape, these websites offer a wealth of inspiration and practical insights. And, to add a personal touch, it brings me immense joy to announce that We Said Go Travel, my very own blog has secured the coveted #10 spot on this esteemed list. I hope you find wonders of the world that ignite the flame of wanderlust within you. Happy exploring!


Dec 29, 2023���
The best Travel Lifestyle blogs from thousands of Travel blogs on the web and ranked by traffic, social media followers & freshness.
Travel Lifestyle Blogs Top 10 List for 20241. Two Monkeys Travel Group UK
A travel blog about luxury and adventure travel. Aside from writing about her adventures, Kach has been blogging about traveling around the world based on her experience of visiting 180 countries. She aims to travel to every country in the world using only her Philippines passport.
US
Nomadic Matt has one goal : ���How can I help other people travel better for less?��� It���s his mission to help travelers realize their travel dreams. Since 2008, he has helped millions of people save money, travel more, and have a more authentic experience in the destinations they visit.
California, US
The Blonde Abroad is an award-winning solo female travel blog featuring travel tips, packing guides, videos and photography from around the world.
4. The Planet D: Adventure Travel Blog Toronto, Ontario, Canada
An adventure travel blog that features travel tips, travel advice, travel inspiration and travel photography to help plan your next vacation from Deb and Dave.
Canada
Turn travel into a lifestyle! Who Are The Goats? We are Nick & Dariece, the couple behind this blog. We left Canada in 2008 on a mission to find ways to travel & live abroad indefinitely.
Raleigh, North Carolina, US
Traveling since 1997 | 16 years with kids | Professional travel blog since 2010. Sharing travel tips and destination ideas to help you travel more and travel around the world. We share family travel tips and travel destinations from across the globe.
California, US
Traveling the world in search of Bucket List worthy experiences. Thousands of unique bucket list ideas on this blog. Do you have a bucket list? Annette gives you the tools, ideas and motivation to create your list and face your fears to live your dreams.
La Jolla, California, US
La Jolla Mom is your guide for things to do in San Diego and La Jolla, and kid friendly La Jolla Mom is your expert guide for things to do in San Diego, maximizing visits to theme parks, VIP perks at luxury hotels, the best beaches and family travel tips.
US
One of the world’s most popular men’s lifestyle & hipster travel blogs with stories from around the world – city destinations & cultural experiences including Adam’s nightlife tips, restaurant reviews, favorite shops, and way-too-personal essays from his adventures in Brooklyn, NY and around the world.
Los Angeles, California, US
I am honored to be #10 on this list with so many amazing travel writers! In 2023, my new memoir, Brave-ish: One Breakup, Six Continents and Feeling Fearless After Fifty, won an award, my podcast, Make Your Own Map, won an award and I am on this list! THANK YOU!



Learn more about LISA and We Said Go Travel: Meet me at one of my upcoming events in Chicago, Mexico or Utah, read my award winning memoir, Brave-ish: One Breakup, Six Continents and Feeling Fearless After Fifty, listen to my award winning podcast, Make Your Own Map. Watch my videos on YouTube where I have over two million views. Find me on social media at @LisaNiver. Thank you for all of your support.
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January 6, 2024
Wanderlust of the Underwater World: Chicago Travel Show 2024




SAT Jan 13 11:30am and SUN Jan 14, 2023 noon at the Dive and Water Sports Pavilion

GIVEAWAY at my TALK: Must be present to WIN–
one lucky person will win a PADI e-learning class (value priceless!! $217)






In 2023, I spoke at the Travel and Adventure Show in Chicago, New York City, Los Angeles and Dallas.
Come hear me speak in Feb 2024 at the Women’s Travel Fest in Mexico and in April 2024 at the Women in Travel Summit in Salt Lake City, Utah. For more about my future events, click here.

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December 31, 2023
Three Months of Brave-ish: Dec News 2023







Thank you to Wise Years and Wanderful Global Book Club for my December Events. I look forward to seeing you in 2024 in person! Come meet me:
January 13 and 14 at the Chicago Travel and Adventure Show.
February 16-19 in Mexico at the Women’s Travel Fest


We sit down with Lisa Niver, author Brave-ish, One Breakup, Six Continents and Feeling Fearless After Fifty to discuss her insights on travel and her memorable experiences with the conference.
April 12-14 in Utah at the Women in Travel Summit
I have several more events in the works –please check my newsletter, events page and social media for the latest information!

Thank you to DEMA Dive Show and Visit Solomon Islands for including me in Author’s Corner in New Orleans. I loved my stay at the Westin New Orleans!
NEW PRESS INTERVIEWS:

Giovanna Rossi interviewed me to discuss my latest book ���Brave-ish, One Breakup, Six Continents and Feeling Fearless After Fifty��� and also: The transformative potential of embracing change. The importance of setting bold goals for personal growth. Strategies for overcoming fear and self-doubt, and much more!


Author and travel expert Lisa Niver will discuss her new travel memoir Brave-ish, about her exploits in Myanmar, Cuba, Morocco, Kenya and Mongolia.


Thank you to Sheila Watko for this segment on NBC 10 Philadelphia about my book BRAVE-ish and my event tonight NOV 10 5:30pm at the PENN BOOKSTORE.


Lisa Niver���s new book Brave-ish is about her journey to a new life. She discusses what led her to realize she needed a change, her travels and many adventures that helped her bring happiness back into her life. Her Story is hosted by Kathy Romano and airs Sunday mornings on 95.7 BEN-FM.


Travel influencer and writer, Lisa Niver, has lived on the road for much of her life, from working cruise ships to hostel-hopping in Asian. But it was her 50th trip around the Sun that made her decide to make a ���50 in 50��� bucket list to step outside her comfort zone and try new things on her own after her divorce.
I call it her ���Now or Niver��� moment.


Lisa Niver, a writer and avid scuba diver, shares her transformative journey in a new memoir titled ���Brave-ish: One Breakup, Six Continents, And Feeling Fearless After Fifty.���


My latest ���BRAVE-ish: One Breakup, Six Continents and Feeling Fearless After Fifty��� book is featured on Travel Classics!


Thank you to The Penn Gazette and University of Pennsylvania for the print feature in ���Briefly Noted��� about my award winning memoir, BRAVE-ish: One Breakup, Six Continents and Feeling Fearless After Fifty! Nov/Dec 2023 issue https://thepenngazette.com/briefly-noted-107/ page 49. more photos: https://www.instagram.com/p/C0LHm-uNRL9







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Ireland
Puerto Rico
UK
Italy
Australia
Philippines
Singapore
New Zealand
Portugal
Saudi Arabia
Switzerland
Hong Kong
Mexico
Japan
Fiji
Seychelles
France
Latvia
Netherlands
Kenya
UAE
Cambodia
Israel
Guatemala
Germany
Uruguay
Bangladesh
Spain
Panama
Thailand
Uganda
Greece
South Africa
Costa Rica
Bosnia and Herzegovina
Sri Lanka
Romania
Pakistan


My Make Your Own Map podcast episode ���Courageous Living: Margie Warrell on Embracing Challenges��� recommended by GoodPods!
My podcast won an award and was a finalist for three other categories! Check out my podcast list on Goodpods called: The best podcasts for amazing content – National Arts and Entertainment Journalism Award Winners 2023!

Here is the link to my video channel on YouTube where I have over TWO MILLION views on YouTube! (now at: 2,044,500 views)
Thank you for your support! Are you one of my 4,195 subscribers? I hope you will join me and subscribe! For more We Said Go Travel articles, TV segments, videos and social media: CLICK HERE
Find me on social media with over 150,000 followers. Please follow on TikTok: @LisaNiver, Twitter at @LisaNiver, Instagram @LisaNiver and on Facebook, Pinterest, YouTube, and at LisaNiver.com.
My Podcast: “Make Your Own Map!”
Fortune Cookie SAID:May the upcoming year be a journey of discovery, filled with new opportunities and exciting paths.
In the book of life, may each page be a chapter of success and each fortune a tale of happiness.
BRAVE-ish, One Break-up, Six Continents and Feeling Fearless After Fifty
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December 27, 2023
10 Questions With Women���s Travel Fest Speakers: Lisa Niver


We sit down with Lisa Niver, author Brave-ish: One Breakup, Six Continents and Feeling Fearless After Fifty to discuss her insights on travel and her memorable experiences with the conference.
At Women���s Travel Fest, we���re always in awe of the inspiring travel leaders who offer their experience, wisdom, and vast knowledge on how to create the life you want.

This is why we���re honored to feature an amazing interview series on past and current speakers. (And you can join us February 16-19, 2024, for the next conference. Buy tickets here!)
We were excited to speak to Lisa Niver of��WeSaidGoTravel��and the author of��Brave-ish, One Breakup, Six Continents and Feeling Fearless After Fifty.
She is an award-winning travel expert who has explored 102 countries on six continents. This University of Pennsylvania graduate sailed across the seas for 7 years with Princess Cruises, Royal Caribbean, and Renaissance Cruises and spent three years backpacking across Asia.
Enjoy this installment of 10 Questions with Lisa Niver!
Lisa has traveled to 102 countries and turned traveling into a career.
What inspired you to start traveling?My family has a bit of wanderlust! I was born in Boston, my sister was born in Georgia on a military base, and then we moved to Los Angeles. I remember going on Royal Cruise Line as a teenager in the Mediterranean with my family, and it was like my history books came to life.
After seeing the pyramids in Egypt, The Western Wall in Jerusalem, and the Library of Ephesus in Kusadasi, Turkey, I was hooked. I wanted to see more, know more, and travel more.
What���s your favorite destination and why?I have so many favorites! I love Bonaire for scuba diving, Mongolia for the vast expanse of nothingness on the way to the Gobi Desert, Thailand for the food, and cannot wait to go back to Israel. I love anywhere underwater and I have so many places still on my list to go.
How has travel impacted your life?Travel has made me kinder, more grateful, and more patient. I remember staying in Nepal when there was only 12 hours of electricity a day. When I was teaching school in Los Angeles, one day, the power went out suddenly.
I told my students we could just open the blinds, and we talked about studying by candlelight and life in other places. The next day, they asked if we could leave the lights off and just use the light from the windows.
What motivated you to pursue a career in travel?My love of travel and scuba diving is the reason I first started working full-time in travel at Club Med and then on cruise ships. I started a travel website, We Said Go Travel, in 2010. I have worked as a travel journalist and written for digital and print publications from AARP and AAA to Wharton Magazine and WIRED.
What current project are you excited about sharing with the world right now?I���m honored to have published my memoir,��Brave-ish: One Breakup, Six Continents and Feeling Fearless After Fifty. When I did 50 challenges before 50 to reinvent myself after my divorce, I did not know what would happen next.
During COVID, I found an agent and a publisher, and now I have a book, and it has won several awards! I also started a podcast, Make Your Own Map, which won an award for Diversity in TV/Streaming!

She is passionate about travel, education, and social media.
What advice would you give to others who want to travel the world?Traveling the world changed my life. I want other women to have that opportunity. My advice is to start small. Have an adventure in your own city and then go an hour or two away by car or bus or train and then set out on bigger and bigger journeys.
Figure out what makes you happy. I started to travel to pursue my passion for scuba diving. When I went into the dive shop, I knew I would meet people and, from there, make friends, get local knowledge, and figure out what to do next to see the area.
What drew you to the Women���s Travel Fest community?
I met Alex from Travel Fashion Girl because of Twitter. In 2012, she invited me to Koh Samui, Thailand, for an interview. I changed my travel plans to meet her.
We have met up over the years in different countries, and having a supportive community of friends in travel like Women���s Travel Fest makes all the difference.
What���s your favorite memory of a past Women���s Travel Fest event?At the 10th Women���s Travel Fest in NYC in 2023, I loved that Samantha Brown was back as the keynote speaker. I have always looked up to her and seen her speak many times over the years.
It was a great honor to speak at the 2023 Travel Adventure Show in four cities where Samantha Brown, Pauline Frommer, and Patricia Schultz always share their travel stories.
What���s your all-time must-have travel essential? Something you can���t travel without?I have had a Kindle since 2008 and never leave home without it. I love having an entire library with me.
And the last question ��� are you team carry-on or checked luggage?I travel with a hula-hoop, which makes me team checked luggage. Hula-hooping has led to some amazing experiences and funny stories. I hooped in jail in the Philippines, with the Maasai warriors in Kenya, and with children in Vanuatu.

Connect with Lisa further on Instagram, YouTube, Facebook, Pinterest, X, TikTok, Linkedin, or catch her podcast on Spotify.

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December 25, 2023
Grateful for Your Support in 2023




PRESS: interviews including Bloomberg, Forbes, Conde Nast Traveler, Business Insiders as well as on Television: Good Day LA, Good Day DC, The Jet Set TV, The Daily Blast, NBC 10 Philadelphia and more…..interviews and podcasts and reviews!!

MAKE YOUR OWN MAP won an AWARD and has been watched in 41 countries on 6 continents





I now have over two million views on my YouTube channel

Chicago: Exploring in Winter and speaking at the Travel Show
New York City: A NYonAir doors off helicopter and CityClimb are amazing ways to get great views of the city! Speaking at the Travel Show, Signing books at AdWeek, Going to the Clinton Global Initiative Conference and the UNGA, 10th Women’s Travel Fest and more TV!
UTAH: Skiing with my DAD, Carl and Fuzz Federsen, an Olympic champion as well as the grand opening of the new National Ability Center building.

San Diego: Camp Travel Mom
Ireland: Travel Classics and Beyond!
Loreto, Mexico: A Magical Mexican Pueblo
Destin Fort-Walton, Florida: Judge for the Lionfish Derby
Washington DC: Filming for Good Day DC and The Jet Set TV
Puerto Rico: Luxury at Fairmont El San Juan and Dorado Beach, A Ritz-Carlton Reserve for World Environment Day
New Orleans: DEMA Dive Show!
and more– Philadelphia for LLBC Gala and my book talk, Dallas for the travel show, Ann Arbor, Michigan and Fort Wayne, Indiana for baseball AND
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Miami: Judge for the Business Traveler Awards and interviewed for WHERE NEXT on ReachTV!

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2022: Creating Content in 2022
2021: Creating 2021 Content during COVID-19
2020: Creating 2020 Content during COVID-19
Please see ���A Decade of Content from Lisa Niver: From 2020 to 2010,��� for my articles, interviews and videos.
2019: Wonderful Wanderings
2018: Where were Lisa���s Wonderful Wanderings?
2017: We Said Go Travel is GLOBAL!
2016: What did Lisa LOVE the most?
2015: Highlights from Lisa���s videos and adventures
2014: A real rollercoaster!

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December 22, 2023
Brave-ish at Wise Years, Stephen Wise Temple


It was an honor to speak at my temple and to learn from Joey Freeman, Deputy Mayor of Intergovernmental Affairs for Los Angeles. We both grew up at Stephen Wise Temple.


https://www. wesaidgotravel.com/brave-ish-at-stephen-wise-temple/

Lisa Niver is an award-winning travel expert who has explored 102 countries on six continents. This University of Pennsylvania graduate sailed across the seas for seven years with Princess Cruises, Royal Caribbean, and Renaissance Cruises and spent three years backpacking across Asia. Discover her articles in publications from AARP: The Magazine and AAA Explorer to WIRED and Wharton Magazine, as well as her site WeSaidGoTravel.
On her award winning global podcast,��Make Your Own Map, Niver has interviewed Deepak Chopra, Olympic medalists, and numerous bestselling authors, and as a journalist has been invited to both the Oscars and the United Nations. For her print, podcast and digital stories as well as her television segments, she has been��awarded��three Southern California Journalism Awards and three National Arts and Entertainment Journalism Awards and been a finalist twenty-five times.
Named a #3 travel influencer for 2023, Niver talks travel on broadcast television at KTLA TV Los Angeles, her YouTube channel with over 2 million views, and in her memoir, Brave-ish, One Breakup, Six Continents and Feeling Fearless After Fifty.

Although Lisa Niver has traveled in far-off locales from Vanuatu to Nepal and received numerous accolades for both her writing and her top ranked website, what people don���t realize is that this began from the wreckage of a rotten romance.
Newlywed Niver was on the adventure of a lifetime. She had quit her job, rented out her condo, and was traveling around Asia. To the outside world, Niver was a woman living out her dreams of exploring ancient ruins in Cambodia and seeing orangutans in Borneo. In private, she was keeping a dark secret. But, when she found herself lying on a sidewalk in Thailand, looking up at the sky in severe pain, she knew things had to change. At age forty-seven, Niver found the courage to set course on a new life.
Feeling like a failure, pushing fifty, and moving home to her parents��� house to start again from scratch, Niver started taking one tiny ���brave-ish��� step at a time to take her life far away from the old one and into the adventurous world of travel writing. These small hurdles led to the challenge of trying fifty new things before turning fifty. From diving into shipwrecks, swimming with sharks, bobsledding at 3 Gs, to indulging in wild escapades, Niver found herself traversing the world on a journey of reinvention, personal growth, and discovering what it actually means to be ���brave.���
While Brave-ish chronicles Niver���s inspiring expeditions to distant corners of the world including Myanmar, Cuba, Morocco, Kenya and Mongolia this is more than a travelogue. Niver���s story is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the power of perseverance. Brave-ish inspires readers to dream big, take risks, and embrace the unknown to create a life filled with wonder and excitement, even when courage seems elusive.
READ THE PRESS for BRAVE-ish on Forbes, Bloomberg, Conde Nast, Travel and Leisure and more!!!!
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December 18, 2023
Travel and Leisure: How Travel Healed Me After My Divorce

In her new book, “Brave-ish: One Breakup, Six Continents and Feeling Fearless After Fifty,” travel writer Lisa Niver explores the ways traveling across six continents helped her heal and start anew.
By Lisa Niver
Published on October 29, 2023

For years, I dreamed of being among the Buddha statues at Borobudur temple in Indonesia. When I finally climbed to the top level, I looked out and saw the blue sky above, the green fields around us, and the carved, bell-shaped stupas surrounding me. How could I be in such a peaceful, historic place fighting with my partner again about the same old issues? I wanted to return to Israel and Italy to see friends and family, to explore Ireland and Iceland for the first time … and he did not want to put any of my choices on our travel list. I was feeling hopeless.
I could not see a way forward; I had to make a leap. As Ray Bradbury said, “Jump, and you will find out how to unfold your wings as you fall.”
My divorce was a devastating breakup which became the catalyst for life-changing adventures. When I was first separated, I was crying non-stop, but slowly I conquered my personal demons and emerged stronger, wiser, and ready to embrace new travels.

Through a series of 50 introspective challenges and global travels, I explored my passions — from salsa dancing to ceramics — and confronted my fears, jumping out of a perfectly good airplane. I went to every kind of therapy I could find and reinvented myself by embracing the unknown and conquering 50 challenges, one tiny step at a time.
Each challenge pushed my limits a bit more — and to tell the truth, it wasn’t easy. I quit countless times, but I ultimately found personal growth, resilience, and confidence. I went from heartbreak to triumph on my journey by healing my mind, body, and soul.
Healing My Body in Utah, California, and IrelandAs a child, I had many accidents. I believed I was just clumsy. In fact, I had eye issues which were not diagnosed until my divorce. I committed to a year of vision therapy at 47, while mostly everyone else there was seven. Many of my challenges involved trying athletic things again … with quite a few lessons and tears.
Growing up, I skied but had never felt confident on the mountain. It was a true highlight to ski at Deer Valley with Fuzz Feddersen, the Olympic aerialist. Not only did he guide me all around the mountain, but he also complimented my skiing abilities. While I will never compete in the Olympics, I did ski with a champion, and I was finding my own way to mark my progress.
After a women’s ski clinic at Kirkwood Mountain that included the bucket list item of being snowed in after an epic storm, I was invited to Pumps on Pedals, a Lake Tahoe women’s bike weekend. I refused to even consider it. As a child, I landed in the hospital after an accident and believed that I hated biking. When my friend offered to do it with me, I reconsidered. Mountain biking at Northstar Lake Tahoe turned out to be my proudest moment.

I was scared (actually, terrified). I wore so much padding and “armor” that my father could not pick me out in the photos. As I raced down a blue (intermediate) slope with my two instructors, I felt the wind in my hair, the sun on my face, and my smile was from ear to ear. I did it.

While in Kilkenny, Ireland, I had a lesson in hurling, an ancient Irish sport that is a cross between hockey and lacrosse. After being the kid on the playground who could not play tetherball, I had never been anxious to try anything sporty ever again. However, I did learn to cast or throw the silotar (ball) with the hurley (stick). The team said I was doing well. For me, it was a win to even agree to a lesson. I slept in my jersey that night, I was so proud. I had played one of the oldest sports in the world.
My world was looking up — right up to the sky, because next, at Ashford Castle, I learned falconry. Walking in the forest with a bird of prey on my hunting glove was unbelievable. Someone trusted me with Joyce, a six-year-old Harris hawk. I listened carefully to Tommy’s instructions and sent Joyce into the sky. She sailed away and came right back for the treat that Tommy added to my glove.
Next up, I had a lesson in skeet shooting from another Olympian, David O’Loughlin. He taught me about the clay pigeons, the rifle, and how to shoot. With his excellent instruction, I was able to hit most of my targets. Dr. Brodney was right, if I worked on my eyes, I would be better at sports. My visual retraining paid off and my eyes were so much better.
Healing My Soul in the GalapagosAt summer camp, most kids hoped for a special candy treat secretly snuck in their trunk. As a precocious reader, one year my mom sent me with a book about Darwin’s expeditions. It was a dream come true when I sailed on Ecoventura, a Relais & Chateau yacht, throughout the Galapagos Islands. I had waited for decades (since that fateful summer camp!) to see my first blue footed boobies. The best thing about this trip was I learned that there are red footed boobies and Nazca boobies with orange feet.
My favorite thing about traveling is that there is always more to discover than I originally imagined. We snorkeled one day with many sea lions (who were quite curious about my video camera), as well as several penguins, and I just loved the way they wiggled in the water.

Our days were filled with activities, from kayaking to hiking, and of course, there was incredible food and accommodations. I had worried about what would happen when I traveled without a partner, but in fact, his anxiety and worries were more of an anchor than a buoy, and I was much happier to be back on my own.
Everyone talks about how nature can heal the soul. It’s true: I lived it. Swimming with endemic marine life, seeing the birds I’d longed to see since childhood, and living well on a luxury ship brought me back to myself.
Healing My Mind in IcelandWhile I was soaking in the hot waters of Sky Lagoon in Iceland, after the coldest plunge, I learned the Icelandic phrase Þetta reddast, which means, “Don’t worry, it will all work out.” I had been so concerned when I left my marriage that I would never travel again, laugh again, or stop feeling like a failure.
Plunging into these contrasts seemed fitting in the land of fire and ice, as everything does not have to be so very hot or cold or work out all at once. Learning to see the grays and not only the black and white, while soaking in the hot and cold, reminded me it is important to reassess. Leaving my marriage was not a failure; staying would have been a failure to take care of myself. Just like when we travel, sometimes we must adjust our plans to have a nap, slow down, or learn about a new way or direction.

Lisa Niver at Sky Lagoon, Iceland
I truly believe in the transformative power of travel. For me, returning to travel after leaving my husband — and Asia — helped me heal and grow. Seeing life even briefly from someone else’s perspective truly helped me recalibrate and re-evaluate my life moving forward.

My challenges were diverse: I was able to hula hoop with villagers in the Solomon Islands and the Maasai Mara in Kenya, and walk around an active volcano in Vanuatu. I met remarkable individuals who believed in me even when I did not believe in myself. I found inspiration and a renewed zest for life. I was worried that ending my marriage would end my adventures … but all I had to do was turn the page for a new chapter.

Lisa Niver is the author of “Brave-ish: One Breakup, Six Continents and Feeling Fearless After Fifty,” and an award-winning travel expert who has explored 102 countries on six continents.
How Travel Healed Me After Divorce — and Made Me Fearless in My 50s. Click the image for more info. https://t.co/GN3R9I7lr5
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