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A is for Action/Adventure Movies

It's officially A to Z Challenge time!!! All month, a ridiculously large group of us will be posting six days a week on a theme, starting at A and ending with Z. My theme for this year? The 80s!!! Today's letter is:



My favorite (non-writing) job ever was as a concessions stand worker at a movie theater. I worked at this movie theater:



Here's photographic proof of it:



One of the perks of that $3.50 (or so) an hour job was free movies. All the free movies we wanted to see. So during the summers following my junior and senior years, I saw quite a few movies. There were movies starring Arnold Schwarzenegger.



Movies starring Bruce Willis.



And an Eddie Murphy comedy-slash-action movie thrown in.



What we didn't realize at the time was that these movies were only the beginning. The action movies of the 80s would start a trend of action-adventure movies that would carry us through the rest of the century. Most of them starred one of these three Hollywood powerhouses:



They even launched a restaurant chain together. The chain is still in operation today. You may have heard of it...



Action/adventure movies still exist...they just seem to mostly revolve around comic book stories these days.


Or dystopian young adult novel adaptations.



Of course, if you want a walk down memory lane, you could always check out the Stallone-Schwarzenegger-Willis combination in The Expendables series. If you were around for their 80s domination, you might even be eligible for a senior discount.



What was your favorite 80s movie?

Guest Post: Alex J. Cavanaugh, Dragon of the Stars

I'm honored to be a part of the blog tour for a true blogging superstar. If you don't know him, Alex J. Cavanagh is a legend around here. Today, he's here to celebrate the release of his latest novel:




If you read Alex's blog for a while, you realize one thing--he's very supportive of other writers (plus he's hilarious!). His generosity means when he needs us, we're all here for him. Today he's blogging about the importance of giving...and how when we give, we actually receive so much more in return. Here's Alex's guest post:
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GIVE AND YE SHALL RECEIVE
by Alex J. Cavanaugh

We’ve all heard the expression, but what does it mean? What exactly do we have to give and what will we receive?

First, let’s tackle the giving part. You can give your time, attention, money, heart and maybe even your pants.  But don’t give expecting anything in return. (Except a cold breeze from giving away your pants).

That’s right, if you are keeping track of anyone that owes you for your generosity, then you’ve missed the boat. (They probably wouldn’t have let you onboard anyway because you’re not wearing pants – weirdo).  If you’re not giving from the heart then you’re doing it for selfish reasons.

See, when you give of yourself freely, there is no pressure and no expectations.  It’s all about the joy of giving.

It's not about serving our own selfish needs, it's about enriching the lives of those around us.  

"The greatest among you will be your servant" Matthew 23:11

And as long as we're here, we should be good servants. (By the way, can I get you anything? A drink, something to eat, or how about a nice pair of pants?) It's pretty much a slam dunk that your life will be more fulfilling if you put the spotlight on those around you.

I try to give from the heart without any expectations. I'm not doing this for money (unless it's a lot of money), or free books (unless it's enough free books that I can fashion them into pants.) So don't worry about paying me back....I'm good.

Here's the upside–I've made a ton of friends with this outlook. Because I had no expectations about what I would receive, I've been floored by everyone’s help and kindness.  It's been a humbling experience.

So ask yourself, are you giving with the right heart and attitude?

And for Pete's sake, put on some pants!



Dragon of the StarsBy Alex J. CavanaughScience Fiction – Space Opera/Adventure/MilitaryPrint ISBN 9781939844064 EBook ISBN 9781939844057What Are the Kargrandes? http://whatarethekargrandes.com/
The ship of legends…

The future is set for Lt. Commander Aden Pendar, son of a Hyrathian Duke. Poised to secure his own command and marriage to the queen’s daughter, he’ll stop at nothing to achieve his goals.

But when the Alliance denies Hyrath’s claim on the planet of Kavil and declares war on their world, Aden finds his plans in disarray. Entrenched in battle and told he won’t make captain, Aden’s world begins to collapse. How will he salvage his career and future during Hyrath’s darkest hour?

One chance remains–the Dragon. Lost many years prior, the legendary ship’s unique weapon is Hyrath’s only hope. Can Aden find the Dragon, save his people, and prove he’s capable of commanding his own ship?

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Author Bio:


Alex J. Cavanaugh has a Bachelor of Fine Arts degree and works in web design, graphics, and technical editing. A fan of all things science fiction, his interests range from books and movies to music and games. Online he is the Ninja Captain and founder of the Insecure Writer’s Support Group. He’s the author of Amazon Best-Sellers CassaStar, CassaFire, and CassaStorm.



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The Cephalopod Coffehouse: Best Books of March

It's the last Friday of the month, which means it's time to reveal the best books of the month. It's part of the Cephalopod Coffeehouse:



My first book is by an author I've recommended here before. Have I said lately how awesome Allison Gutknecht is? Her latest is this adorable book:



Allison Gutknecht is one of the best chapter book writers I've ever read. She captures the voice of an eight-year-old girl perfectly. Pizza Is the Best Breakfast: (And Other Lessons I've Learned) is every bit as awesome as the other books in the series but if you haven't read the others, I recommend you start here and read in order!

The second book will look familiar if you read my blog. I revealed this cover earlier this month and immediately knew I had to read the book. I'm excited to say that One Hundred Thirty Stars is even better than its amazing cover!



Shelley Sly must write more books now. I'm addicted! She has a true talent for weaving conflict throughout her story, building up to the big moment when all seems lost. This story is about far more than gaming conventions--it's really about the complexities of blended families and the challenges fathers face in bonding with the daughters they only see occasionally. We're going to see a lot more from this author!

My loyal blog readers will remember this one. Our blogging friend Sandra Cox writes a mean book. (Mean=awesome in outdated "cool person" speak!)



Love, Lattes, and Mutants is a contemporary YA novel about normal teens who have a little something unique about them. I fell in love with this cover and the story was just as great! On the surface, Piper seems like a wallflower but it's just a disguise. The new boy in school sees past that disguise, though. He knows there's something special about Piper. This young adult sci-fi book is largely a love story but the social dynamics are fascinating. The entire book builds gradually to the exciting, action-packed ending. You won't be disappointed!

The fourth book is Deborah A. Levine's Kitchen Chaos.



I first learned of this book when it was recommended as a #WeNeedDiverseBooks selection by someone on Twitter. What an incredibly important book for young girls. It goes beyond simply teaching that we all descended from immigrants, touching on the issues of friendship and mom-daughter bonding. I love books that are not only fun but teach you a few things!

Like last month, my last book of the month in March is from an ARC tour. I discovered The Book Keeper series by Dare DeLano. (It's only one book so far but I know there will be more!) The first book, Odus and the Long Way Home, introduced us to characters who get to do what we've all wished we could do at some point in our lives--step inside our favorite books.



While reading it, I couldn't help but compare it to the Magic Tree House series we all know and love. Just as the Magic Tree House books taught children history in an enjoyable way, The Book Keeper series teaches them all about literary classics. Odus and the Long Way Home takes the children through Homer's The Odyssey, allowing them to not only participate in the adventures but help save the day.

What's the best book you read in March? Tell us in comments or add your name to the list and tell all of your readers!

Guest Post: Shelley Sly, One Hundred Thirty Stars

Today is a big day. I'm discussing finding an agent over on the Insecure Writer's Support Group blog, so check that out. But FIRST, read this great guest post about nerd conventions (how fun, right?!) by Shelley Sly, author of this middle grade novel:



I'm also guest posting at her blog today. It's a BLOG SWAP! So check that out, too. Links to all of this are at the end of her post to take you straight there. Be sure you follow her blog while you're checking my post out. Here's Shelley's post:

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STORY IDEAS FROM NERD CONVENTIONS
by Shelley Sly

Thank you so much for having me, Stephanie! I’m a big fan of your blog – it’s one of the most fun writer blogs out there – so I’m excited to be here!

Writers are often encouraged to “write what you know.” And what I know is the geeky world of conventions. I’ve lost track of how many comic, anime, and video game conventions I’ve attended. Some were massive (over 20,000 people), some were small (a few hundred guests), but collectively, they’ve all given me inspiration.

Three elements of “nerd conventions” that I’ve found to be the most story-inspiring are:

1) The Cosplay Costumes

There’s quite a range of costumes. Some are breathtakingly beautiful, some are intricate and creative. And then there are the downright strange and/or creepy ones. I suggest taking pictures of any of these costumes (with the cosplayer’s permission) if they spark any character ideas.

2) The Activities

What I love about attending conventions is that there’s always something going on. Go shopping in the Dealers Room (and watch broke teenagers drool over rare video game merchandise, or little kids whine for every stuffed animal they see.) Pop in the karaoke room (where, surely, at least one person’s voice will make you turn around and leave.) Then there’s panels about specific games, shows, comics, etc., where people will likely attempt to out-nerd each other with their questions and comments. Story ideas galore!

3) The People

I’ve made some nice friends at conventions, but I’ve also met people that I’ll never forget for other reasons. The overly friendly karaoke singer who smelled like he desperately needed a shower? The dude in a villain costume who asked me what the chances were that I’d go on a date with him? (Zero chance.) The crazy stranger who kept shouting at me, insisting I was her daughter? (Security guards eventually escorted her out!) Yup… I’ll always remember them. And they might just make it into a story.

Being a nerd, and participating in events with other nerds, is definitely my thing. And why not write about what you’re into?

Has your favorite hobby or interest inspired you to write?



The Blurb:
Eleven-year-old Kelly “Birdie” Knotts has the perfect summer vacation planned: she’s finally going to visit her dad, Arthur. Birdie hardly knows him, but she has high hopes that he’ll be the one family member who understands her.

Too bad her vacation is nothing like she imagined it would be.

Arthur’s plans for their father-daughter visit revolve around a video game convention, where he dresses head-to-toe in costume and makes a boisterous scene every chance he gets. When he isn’t shouting gleefully in the hallways, he’s belting out off-pitch tunes in the karaoke room. Birdie’s new plan? Hide under a rock for life.

It’s impossible for Birdie to get to know Arthur when he insists that he’s a video game character. And if he doesn’t step up and start acting like a dad, it might be game over.
Author Bio:

Shelley Sly lives in the Washington, D.C. metro area with her husband and their chocolate lab mix. She writes middle grade novels about friendship, family, and figuring out where you fit in. Her latest book, ONE HUNDRED THIRTY STARS, is inspired by her unforgettable experiences at nerd conventions. You can find her at www.shelleysly.com.


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Check out my guest posts today at these blogs:
Shelley SlyInsecure Writer's Support Group

The 80s from A to Z

Today is a big, big day in the blogosphere. More than 1,000 people have signed up to participate in the A to Z Challenge.



And today is the day we all get to reveal our themes.


For 2015, I'll be spending April rewinding to my favorite decade...



It's my decade. I turned 10 in 1980, so the 80s were the entirety of my adolescence. The music...



...the movies...



...the TV shows...



...will always have a special place in my heart!



So join me April 1-30 as I take you through the 80s, starting with A and ending with Z!




If you don't know what A to Z is, I highly recommend it. I made so many great friends last year. Sign up here.

Bad Service in Restaurants

As a former restaurant worker, I always tip at least 20 percent. I've even been accused of over-tipping. I've found if you regularly dine at the same place, this is a good idea because they'll be happy to see you.



Servers remember those who didn't tip well. They respond accordingly. They especially remember customers who tipped poorly and were pains-in-the-butt.



But what happens when you have really, really bad service? Should you tip then?



I'm not talking about bad food. I'm talking about an experience that is bad due to the behavior of a server. Say you're seated and the entire wait staff ignores you for an extraordinary amount of time.



Or what if your glass remains empty for the entirety of your meal?



Or your entire party receives their meals and there you sit, waiting for your food while they eat.



Or you wait for an eternity for your check...and it's your lunch hour...or you're trying to get to a seven o'clock movie. Or your server was really really really rude.



Do you still tip 20 percent? Less? Nothing at all? Or should you leave a good tip and complain to the manager? This dog has another idea...



How do you handle bad service in a restaurant?

In the 70s, You Looked Better When We Saw You Twice

When I saw this goofy picture of Will Ferrell, it sparked a memory:



If you're a child of the 70s/80s, you know exactly what I'm talking about. In fact, you probably had at last one of these pictures taken of yourself. If not, you saw them hanging on your relatives' walls.



It turns out, I'm not the only one feeling nostalgic. There's even a Double Exposure Portrait Appreciation Society on Facebook.



I had to learn a little more about this crazy trend, which seemed to emerge in the mid to late 70s and fizzle out sometime around the early 80s. It was created by then-popular portrait chain Olan Mills. At some time, every set of parents dragged their children to Olan Mills for the latest "technology" in photography--the double exposure. It was either that or suffer the requisite family photo in front of a backdrop depicting some corny nature scene.



If you didn't get the nature scene, you were posed in front of a fake bookcase.



70s kids, are you feelin' me yet? Yeah, it was pretty bad, even in the 80s, when Olan Mills graduated to the marble-ish backdrop.



But nothing compares to double exposure. Except maybe Glamour Shots with their mostly failed attempts at making average people look like models.



Did your parents ever force you to get a really cheesy picture made? My mom found one of me:

The Hydration Generation

How much of the day do you spend away from a beverage?

Seriously.

If you leave the house, do you have one of these?



Or these?



Or (heaven forbid) these?



In recent years, it seems we feel this need to constantly have a beverage on hand. As this occurred to me, I remembered spending all morning in classes in high school and college without drinking a thing.



You'd have a soda with lunch, then head to class all afternoon without water or Coke or even a juice box. When you got home (or back to your dorm), you didn't run for the refrigerator like you'd been crawling across the desert, desperately seeking a drop of water all afternoon.



Bottled water was around when I was a kid, but we didn't seem to be as freakish about drinking tap water. We drank out of water fountains...



Sinks...




Heck, we'd even drink from the garden hose if it saved us a trip back inside the house.



Why do we always feel the need to have a drink with us? Is it to look cool like Mary-Louise Parker in Weeds?







(No wonder she's so skinny...she's on a liquid diet!)

Do you think our bottles, cans, and cups are our security blankets? Can you leave the house without a beverage?

I’m Having a Password Attack

I have a sheet of paper with all of my passwords written on it. The list covers the entire front of the sheet.



Sure, you may try to use the same password for everything, but then you come across a site that has crazy requirements that none of your standard passwords cover.



So you end up with 8 different passwords, 10 usernames, and the complete inability to ever get into any of your accounts.




At one time, we had to remember the phone numbers of every friend and family member we had. So why can't we keep all our passwords straight?



How do you keep up with all your passwords?

Where Did Romantic Comedy Go?

At one time, there was nothing I loved more than heading out to the movies for a good romantic comedy. There were the 90s-style Meg Ryan movies...



Sandra Bullock has always had a hit-or-miss career, but when her romantic comedies were good, they were really, really good.



And then came Goldie Hawn's daughter and all of her great romantic comedies.



But recently I've come to realize it's been a while since I've seen a really good romantic comedy. I blame it on Judd Apatow. He launched this movie in 2005...



And started an entire generation of movies that appeal to both men and women. It's probably a good thing that women no longer have to drag men to "chick flicks." Even Bridesmaids, a movie that seemed like a chick flick, had an entire scene devoted to women puking on formal gowns. It seemed like it went on for hours.



Sure, there have been a few romantic comedies, but most of today's "chick flicks" require a box of Kleenex. Either someone dies at the end (ANY Nicholas Sparks adaptation) or we're subjected to a Sex and the City-style look at dating in the big city (That Awkward Moment). Am I alone in missing the days of the totally cheesy romantic comedy?