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I Am a BDSM Collared Slave - Three Years Later

Well, today's the day! It's the 3rd anniversary of the day Padrone flew to California to pack me up and bring me back to Italy to live with him as his 24/7 slave. To celebrate and mark the occasion,...



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BDSM Collar Do's, Don'ts, and Safety

On a previous post entitled All About Collars, I wrote about the different stages of collaring, collaring ceremonies, and what collars could possibly be made of. I neglected to add a few dos and...



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Size Discrimination and Reverse Size Discrimination in BDSM

In the world of BDSM, we think of ourselves as being a high tolerance community that keeps open minds without judging others. I have found that to be true in most cases, with the exception to size....



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Submissive-Slave BDSM Resumes

I have recently received many questions from new and unattached submissives asking for my thoughts on Submissive/Slave resumes. I honestly haven't thought much about them because I have never used,...



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Submissive Separation Anxiety - When A Sub Experiences Extreme Anxiety When their Dom is Away

You feel anxious, depressed, and have uncontrollable crying spells. You feel lost, without direction and can't concentrate. All you want to do is to stay in bed all day and not move. You think to...



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Safewords in BDSM

If you have been around the BDSM Lifestyle, you have probably heard the term Safeword. What is a safeword? When is it used? Why would a person use it? I've written about safe words in various posts,...



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Mental and Emotional Abuse in a BDSM Relationship

With the flood of new people coming online and trying to learn about the world of BDSM, there has been a lot of confusion from many new submissives about what behavior is normal and what is...



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New Blog Look and Feel

As you may have already noticed, we are trying to make this blog more readable and user friendly across all browsers and platforms.
Currently, the blog is best viewed with Google Chrome v.34 for...



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Michelle Fegatofi BDSM Educational Books Now Available on Kobo!

Michelle Fegatofi's BDSM Educational Books are now available on Kobo.com...



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When a BDSM Relationship Ends

The breakup of any relationship is difficult, but when dealing with a D/s or M/s dynamic, it is even harder. The couple was probably both very emotionally invested in the relationship, on a much...



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