M.K. Clinton's Blog: M. K. Clinton's Barking from the Bayou, page 178
October 19, 2013
May I Quote You?

Here are some that we've all heard from sources we know:
The Bible: “For God so loved the world” – John 3:16
Politicians: “We have nothing to fear but fear itself.” – Franklin D. Roosevelt
Movies: “Here’s lookin’ at you kid.” – “Casablanca” (1942)
Gossip: “And then she said…” – This statement is usually emphasized with air quotes
Authors: “To be or not to be: that is the question.” - Shakespeare / Hamlet (Act III, Scene I)
Parents: “If I’ve told you once, I’ve told you a thousand times.” “Don’t make me turn this car around.”
Television: “Yada, yada” – “Seinfeld”
As you can see, a person doesn’t have to be famous to be quoted. They are everywhere you look. You can see them emblazoned on tee shirts, coffee mugs, posters, car bumpers, and billboards. Many people have their favorites tattooed on their bodies. When I was researching this topic, I noticed several blogs are primarily on the subject of quotes. It made me feel a lot better to know that I am not alone in my obsession. Let’s face it…quotations have made their mark. Feel free to quote me on that!
Chocolate Éclair Desert
http://www.thekitchenismyplayground.c...
Ingredients
Filling:
2 (3.5 oz.) boxes vanilla instant pudding

1 (8 oz.) container Cool Whip
Graham crackers
Topping:
1/3 c. cocoa
1 c. sugar
1/4 c. milk
1 stick (1/2 c.) butter (or margarine)
1 tsp. vanilla
Directions
For the filling:
1. Combine pudding mix and milk; beat. Stir in Cool Whip.
2. Place a layer of graham crackers in the bottom of a 9x13" dish. Spread 1/2 of the pudding mixture over the graham crackers. Repeat with another layer of graham crackers and pudding; then top with a final layer of graham crackers.
For the topping:
3. Bring cocoa, milk, and sugar to a full rolling boil; boil about 1 minute, stirring very frequently. Remove from heat and cool one minute. Add butter and vanilla; stir until butter is melted.
4. Pour chocolate topping over the top layer of graham crackers.
5. Refrigerate overnight.
October is American Humane Association's Adopt-A-Dog Month
http://www.americanhumane.org/animals...
What Can An Adopted Dog Bring To Your Life?
There are as many responses to that question as there are dogs in this world! That’s why -- during American Humane Association’s Adopt-A-Dog Month celebration in October -- we’re encouraging people to adopt a rescue or shelter dog and experience the joy of finding their own answers.
Are you looking for:
•an exercise buddy?
•a best friend and confidant for your child?
•a dog you can train with to learn animal-assisted therapy?

•a constant companion for your favorite senior citizen?
•a fuzzy face to greet you after a hard day at work?
An adopted dog can be all these things -- and so much more!
Your local shelter is the perfect place to find dogs of every type, size, age, and personality -- all waiting for a loving home. Or, if you prefer a particular breed that isn’t currently available at a shelter, go online to find a breed-specific rescue group in need of adopters like you.
Find out what a shelter or rescue dog can bring to your life this October during Adopt-A-Dog Month!

Published on October 19, 2013 23:11
October 17, 2013
Random Thoughts
I decided to take on the monumental task of organizing my mountain of “saved email” yesterday. Until the inspiration hit me, I had always kept all of the mail in this particular account just tossed into the general saved file. After looking for a particular correspondence for over an hour, I decided it was time to make files. Of course, the fun part was finding all of the jokes that I’ve saved for years. I have no idea who originally penned this particular list but they have my thanks and admiration! I am in no way claiming these as my own, although I have definitely had most of them at one time or the other. Enjoy!
Random Thoughts
1. I think part of a best friend's job should be to clear, immediately, your computer’s history if you die.
2. Nothing sucks more than that moment during an argument when you realize you're wrong.
3. I totally take back all those times I didn't want to nap when I was younger.
4. There is great need for a sarcasm font.
5. How in the heck are you supposed to fold a fitted sheet?
6. Was learning cursive really necessary for anything other than my name?
7. Map Quest really needs to start their directions on #5. I'm pretty sure I know how to get out of my neighborhood.
8. Obituaries would be a lot more interesting if they told you how the person died.
9. I can't remember the last time I wasn't at least KIND OF tired.
10. Bad decisions make good stories.
11. You never know when it will strike, but there comes a moment at work when you know that you just aren't going to do anything productive for the rest of the day.
12. Can we all just agree to ignore whatever comes after Blu-Ray? I don't want to have to restart my collection... again.
13. I'm always slightly terrified when I exit out of Word and it asks me if I want to save any changes to my ten-page research paper that I swear I did not make any changes to.
14. "Do not machine wash or tumble dry" means I will never wash this -- ever.
15. I hate when I just miss a call by the last ring (Hello? Hello? Dang it!), but when I immediately call back, it rings nine times and goes to voice-mail. What did you do after I didn't answer? Drop the phone and run away?
16. I hate leaving my house confident, looking good, and then not seeing anyone of importance the entire day. What a waste.
17. I keep some people's phone numbers in my phone just so I know not to answer when they call.
18. My granddaughter asked me in the car the other day, "Grandpa, what would happen if you ran over a ninja?" How in the heck do I respond to that?
19. I think the freezer deserves a light as well.
20. There comes a point in every woman’s life when she feels it is pointless to shave above the knee.
**Recipe of the Day**
Sopapilla Cheesecake
Ingredients
2 cans Pillsbury Crescent rolls (use seamless if available)
2 8 oz. Cream Cheese (room temperature)
1 ½ cups Sugar
1 tsp. Vanilla Extract
1 tsp. Cinnamon
1 stick Butter (1/2 cup) *use REAL butter not margarine
Directions
Spray a 9 x 13 pan with cooking spray. Unroll and press 1 can of crescent rolls into the bottom of baking dish, pressing the seams together.
In a separate bowl, blend the cream cheese, 1 cup of sugar, and 1 tsp. vanilla. Spread over the top of crescent rolls.
Unroll the second can of rolls and place on top of cream cheese mixture, again pressing seams together.
Melt butter and pour over the top layer of crescent rolls. Mix the remaining ½-cup of sugar and the cinnamon together. Sprinkle the cinnamon/sugar mixture generously over the top of melted butter.
You can always mix more sugar and cinnamon to add, it should look similar to the way you enjoy your cinnamon toast!
Bake at 350˚ for 30 minutes until bottom crust is slightly brown and it is bubbly. Cool and enjoy. Keep refrigerated.
Microchipping for Dogs and Cats
I am not endorsing any particular brand of microchipping for your pet but these questions are ones I have asked myself. I hope they provide answers for you as well. Of course, your veterinarian will be able to provide additional information on this subject.
*This information is from http://public.homeagain.com/
Here are some common questions and misconceptions about pet microchips.
Q: Will it hurt my pet when he gets the microchip implanted?
A: It won’t hurt any more than a routine vaccination – having a microchip implanted doesn’t even require anesthetic. The procedure is performed at your veterinarian’s office and is simple and similar to administering a vaccine or a routine shot. The microchip comes preloaded in a sterile applicator and is injected under the loose skin between the shoulder blades. The process takes only a few seconds, and your pet will not react any more than he would to a vaccination.
Q: Will a microchip tell me my pet’s location?
A: Pet microchips are not tracking devices and do not work like global positioning devices (GPS). They are radio-frequency identification (RFID) implants that provide permanent ID for your pet. Because they use RFID technology, microchips do not require a power source like a GPS. When a microchip scanner is passed over the pet, the microchip gets enough power from the scanner to transmit the microchip’s ID number. Since there’s no battery and no moving parts, there’s nothing to keep charged, wear out, or replace. The microchip will last your pet’s lifetime.
Q: Why does my pet need a microchip when he already wears a collar with tags?
A: All pets should wear collar tags imprinted with their name and the phone number of their pet parent, but only a microchip provides permanent ID that cannot fall off, be removed, or become impossible to read.
Q: How much does it cost to microchip my pet?
A: The average cost to have a microchip implanted by a veterinarian is around $45, which is a one–time fee and often includes registration in a pet recovery database. If your pet was adopted from a shelter or purchased from a breeder, your pet may already have a microchip. Consult your pet adoption paperwork, or have your pet scanned for a microchip at your next vet visit to reveal the unique microchip ID number and register it.
Q: Isn’t microchipping only for dogs?
A: Both cats and dogs need to be microchipped. Cats often do not wear collars, and may not have any other form of ID. A recent study showed that less than 2% of cats without microchips were returned home. However, if a cat is microchipped, the return-to-owner rate is 20 times higher than if the cat was not microchipped.
Q: Can anyone with a scanner access my contact information from the chip?
A: Microchips carry only a unique identification number. If your pet gets lost and is taken to a vet clinic or animal shelter, your pet will be scanned for a microchip to reveal his unique ID number. That number will be called into the pet recovery service, and you will be contacted using the contact information on file with your pet’s microchip.
**It is vital to keep your contact information up to date so that you can be reached.
Q: How many times do I need to microchip my pet?
A: A microchip will normally last the lifetime of your pet because it is composed of biocompatible materials that will not degenerate over time.
The HomeAgain® microchip has the Bio-Bond™ patented anti–migration feature to help ensure the chip stays where it’s implanted. Also, since microchips require no power source and have no moving parts, there’s nothing that can wear out and need to be replaced. Pet parents can also check to make sure their pet’s microchip is still working by asking a vet to scan it during their pet’s next checkup.

1. I think part of a best friend's job should be to clear, immediately, your computer’s history if you die.
2. Nothing sucks more than that moment during an argument when you realize you're wrong.
3. I totally take back all those times I didn't want to nap when I was younger.
4. There is great need for a sarcasm font.
5. How in the heck are you supposed to fold a fitted sheet?
6. Was learning cursive really necessary for anything other than my name?
7. Map Quest really needs to start their directions on #5. I'm pretty sure I know how to get out of my neighborhood.
8. Obituaries would be a lot more interesting if they told you how the person died.
9. I can't remember the last time I wasn't at least KIND OF tired.
10. Bad decisions make good stories.
11. You never know when it will strike, but there comes a moment at work when you know that you just aren't going to do anything productive for the rest of the day.
12. Can we all just agree to ignore whatever comes after Blu-Ray? I don't want to have to restart my collection... again.
13. I'm always slightly terrified when I exit out of Word and it asks me if I want to save any changes to my ten-page research paper that I swear I did not make any changes to.
14. "Do not machine wash or tumble dry" means I will never wash this -- ever.
15. I hate when I just miss a call by the last ring (Hello? Hello? Dang it!), but when I immediately call back, it rings nine times and goes to voice-mail. What did you do after I didn't answer? Drop the phone and run away?
16. I hate leaving my house confident, looking good, and then not seeing anyone of importance the entire day. What a waste.
17. I keep some people's phone numbers in my phone just so I know not to answer when they call.
18. My granddaughter asked me in the car the other day, "Grandpa, what would happen if you ran over a ninja?" How in the heck do I respond to that?
19. I think the freezer deserves a light as well.
20. There comes a point in every woman’s life when she feels it is pointless to shave above the knee.
**Recipe of the Day**
Sopapilla Cheesecake
Ingredients
2 cans Pillsbury Crescent rolls (use seamless if available)

1 ½ cups Sugar
1 tsp. Vanilla Extract
1 tsp. Cinnamon
1 stick Butter (1/2 cup) *use REAL butter not margarine
Directions
Spray a 9 x 13 pan with cooking spray. Unroll and press 1 can of crescent rolls into the bottom of baking dish, pressing the seams together.
In a separate bowl, blend the cream cheese, 1 cup of sugar, and 1 tsp. vanilla. Spread over the top of crescent rolls.
Unroll the second can of rolls and place on top of cream cheese mixture, again pressing seams together.
Melt butter and pour over the top layer of crescent rolls. Mix the remaining ½-cup of sugar and the cinnamon together. Sprinkle the cinnamon/sugar mixture generously over the top of melted butter.
You can always mix more sugar and cinnamon to add, it should look similar to the way you enjoy your cinnamon toast!
Bake at 350˚ for 30 minutes until bottom crust is slightly brown and it is bubbly. Cool and enjoy. Keep refrigerated.
Microchipping for Dogs and Cats
I am not endorsing any particular brand of microchipping for your pet but these questions are ones I have asked myself. I hope they provide answers for you as well. Of course, your veterinarian will be able to provide additional information on this subject.
*This information is from http://public.homeagain.com/
Here are some common questions and misconceptions about pet microchips.

A: It won’t hurt any more than a routine vaccination – having a microchip implanted doesn’t even require anesthetic. The procedure is performed at your veterinarian’s office and is simple and similar to administering a vaccine or a routine shot. The microchip comes preloaded in a sterile applicator and is injected under the loose skin between the shoulder blades. The process takes only a few seconds, and your pet will not react any more than he would to a vaccination.
Q: Will a microchip tell me my pet’s location?
A: Pet microchips are not tracking devices and do not work like global positioning devices (GPS). They are radio-frequency identification (RFID) implants that provide permanent ID for your pet. Because they use RFID technology, microchips do not require a power source like a GPS. When a microchip scanner is passed over the pet, the microchip gets enough power from the scanner to transmit the microchip’s ID number. Since there’s no battery and no moving parts, there’s nothing to keep charged, wear out, or replace. The microchip will last your pet’s lifetime.
Q: Why does my pet need a microchip when he already wears a collar with tags?
A: All pets should wear collar tags imprinted with their name and the phone number of their pet parent, but only a microchip provides permanent ID that cannot fall off, be removed, or become impossible to read.
Q: How much does it cost to microchip my pet?
A: The average cost to have a microchip implanted by a veterinarian is around $45, which is a one–time fee and often includes registration in a pet recovery database. If your pet was adopted from a shelter or purchased from a breeder, your pet may already have a microchip. Consult your pet adoption paperwork, or have your pet scanned for a microchip at your next vet visit to reveal the unique microchip ID number and register it.
Q: Isn’t microchipping only for dogs?
A: Both cats and dogs need to be microchipped. Cats often do not wear collars, and may not have any other form of ID. A recent study showed that less than 2% of cats without microchips were returned home. However, if a cat is microchipped, the return-to-owner rate is 20 times higher than if the cat was not microchipped.
Q: Can anyone with a scanner access my contact information from the chip?
A: Microchips carry only a unique identification number. If your pet gets lost and is taken to a vet clinic or animal shelter, your pet will be scanned for a microchip to reveal his unique ID number. That number will be called into the pet recovery service, and you will be contacted using the contact information on file with your pet’s microchip.
**It is vital to keep your contact information up to date so that you can be reached.
Q: How many times do I need to microchip my pet?
A: A microchip will normally last the lifetime of your pet because it is composed of biocompatible materials that will not degenerate over time.
The HomeAgain® microchip has the Bio-Bond™ patented anti–migration feature to help ensure the chip stays where it’s implanted. Also, since microchips require no power source and have no moving parts, there’s nothing that can wear out and need to be replaced. Pet parents can also check to make sure their pet’s microchip is still working by asking a vet to scan it during their pet’s next checkup.

Published on October 17, 2013 21:15
October 15, 2013
Are you Giving Birth or Pubishing a Book?

Of course, the conception is still the most thrilling and earth shattering part of the entire process.
The First Trimester:
You are excited at this new addition to your life! Soon, you’re plagued with questions. Are you ready for the additional responsibility? Do you have enough time and love to share? What if you fail miserably the second time around or make mistakes? This is a time where you get sick to your stomach, run your hand through your hair, smile, and shake your head. There are many days of self-doubt and sleepless nights. This is definitely not as easy as everyone makes it look. How do people survive with having dozens? Your excitement wanes.
The Second Trimester:
You get to feeling better and your confidence is soaring. The nausea is gone for the most part and your energy has returned. The thrill and excitement are back! The time will fly by now. You seem to be cruising right along. This baby will be done before you know it! A third is one is certainly possible. Your first one is doing great and people are saying wonderful things, which build your confidence. Oh, life is great!!
The Third Trimester:
Well, the time is crawling at a snail’s pace. You are certain that there is no light at the end to the tunnel. The closer the end comes, the more nervous you get. What if there is something horribly wrong with it? You have a great doctor (editor) and you trust their judgment so why are you still worried? Why does it take so long? Are you ever going to get everything ready? Is it too late to back out? Yes, it’s way too late soooo…
Delivery Date:
Ok, you simply cannot put it off any longer. It has to meet the world! You pray it will be a smooth and wonderful delivery. This second “”baby” already has a special place in your heart and you love it unconditionally. All you can do from this point is hold your head high, smile, and welcome the new life you created into the world.
Now, of course there is a huge difference in giving birth to a child and publishing a book. However, the point I’m trying to make is the feelings of uncertainly and doubt plague us in any new endeavor. The best we can do is simply the best we can do. My book, Showstoppers should be released in the next couple of weeks. My nerves are frayed but I’m definitely more excited than scared. I am much wiser than I was this time last year and with wisdom comes confidence. Like any experienced parent, by the time my third book is ready for publishing; I’ll probably not even break a sweat! Yeah, right!
**Recipe of the Day**
Fried Dill Pickles
http://southernplate.ziplist.com/reci...

Ingredients
•1 jar dill pickle spears
•1 cup flour
•1/2 cup plain yellow corn meal
•1 tablespoon seasoned salt
•1 cup milk
•Vegetable Oil to cook in
•Ranch Dressing for dipping
Instructions
1.Pour vegetable oil to a depth of at least 1/2 inch in medium sized skillet and place over medium high heat. Drain pickles and place spears on paper towel lined plate to absorb moisture while you prepare breading.
2.Place corn meal in small bowl. Add 1/2 cup flour and seasoned salt. Stir until well combined. In separate bowl, pour remaining flour and place milk in third bowl.
3.Using your hands, dip a pickle into milk, then flour, then milk, then cornmeal breading. Repeat until all pickles are breaded.
4.Carefully place pickles into hot oil and cook until browned, stirring once if needed, about ten minutes.
5.Remove from skillet and place on paper towel lined plate. Allow to cool for a few minutes before serving with ranch dressing.
These are extremely hot inside for several minutes after cooking.
Makes about 8
You can also do this with dill pickle chips *
***Pet Care Tip of the Day***
Spaying & Neutering
http://www.americanhumane.org/animals...
Spaying is a general term used to describe the ovariohysterectomy of a female animal. Neutering is a general term used to describe the castration of a male animal. However, neutering is often used in reference to both genders. The surgical procedure, performed by a veterinarian, renders the animal incapable of reproducing. Here are answers to some questions you may have about this beneficial procedure.
When can I have this procedure done?
Both procedures can safely be performed at as early as 8 weeks of age. American Humane Association is a strong proponent of juvenile or pediatric spay/neuter since it is both healthy for pets and effectively reduces pet overpopulation.
Why should I have my pet neutered?
Animal shelters, both public and private, are faced with an incredible burden: What to do with the overpopulation of dogs and cats that they cannot find homes for? Approximately 3.7 million animals are euthanized at shelters each year, due to the sheer fact that there are not enough willing adopters. Having your pet spayed or neutered ensures that you will not be adding to this tremendous burden.
What are some of the health and behavioral benefits?
Through neutering, you can help your dog or cat live a happier, healthier, longer life. Spaying eliminates the constant crying and nervous pacing of a female cat in heat. Spaying a female dog also eliminates the messiness associated with the heat cycle. Neutering of male dogs and cats can prevent certain undesirable sexual behaviors, such as urine marking, humping, male aggression, and the urge to roam. If you have more than one pet in your household, all the pets will generally get along better if they are neutered.
A long-term benefit of spaying and neutering is improved health for both cats and dogs. Spaying females prior to their first heat cycle nearly eliminates the risk of breast cancer and totally prevents uterine infections and uterine cancer. Neutering males prevents testicular cancer and enlargement of the prostate gland, and greatly reduces their risk for perianal tumors.


Published on October 15, 2013 22:44
October 14, 2013
Tuesday's Terrifying Tales
All three frightfully wonderful books recapped today will have you sleeping with the lights on tonight. If you haven't read "It" or "Phantoms" in a while, dust them off and relive the terror. "Bad Games" is a new release and the first in a frightening series that I'm sure you'll enjoy.
It by Stephen King : http://www.amazon.com/Stephen-King/dp...
You can’t really have a Halloween list of scary books without listing “It.” My favorite Stephen King novel is usually whichever one I happen to be reading at the time. "It" is truly one of my all-time favorites. If you weren’t afraid of clowns as a child, you probably became deathly afraid of them after reading this classic. Set in the town of Derry, Maine the story brings together a group of childhood friends. Reuniting, they are forced to confront a terror they thought they’d killed 28 years earlier. Fulfilling a childhood promise that was sealed in blood, they face old secrets, terror, and discover the strength of friendships made to endure the test of time.
Phantoms by Dean Koontz: http://www.amazon.com/Phantoms-Dean-K...
Phantoms is a suspense-filled ride from the very first sentence. When Dr. Jenny Paige and her sister return to the beautiful ski town of Snowfield, California their welcome is deadly silent. There are no cars or people out in the town. The drama escalates when they arrive at their deceased mother’s home to discover the housekeeper dead and her body covered with strange bruises. They soon discover that death has visited almost everyone in the small resort town leaving no answers as to the cause of their demise. Seeking help from the sheriff’s office in the next town they discover their best help may come from the man being questioned for murder. Together, the group battle unseen forces in this white-knuckle novel that will leave you thankful for nightlights! Koontz states in the afterword that he regrets this book being the reason he gained the title of “horror writer.”
Bad Games by Jeff Menapace: http://www.amazon.com/Bad-Games-Novel... Patrick and Amy are taking a quiet family getaway to the family’s vacation cabin in Pennsylvania with the children. What could possibly go wrong? Well, if you add in a mixture of bad luck, bad timing, and the sadistic Fannelli brothers, plenty! When the brothers decide it is time to play a “game” where they make the rules, a dream vacation becomes a nightmare. A fantastic debut novel! This is the first book in a series and you will be anxious to start the second book Vengeful Games.
**Recipes You'll Hate to Know**
Caramel Pretzel Chocolate Chip Cookies
http://www.dessertnowdinnerlater.com/...
Ingredients
•1/2 cup (1 stick) butter, room temperature
•1/4 cup plus 2 Tbsp sugar
•1/4 cup plus 2 Tbsp brown sugar
•1/2 tsp vanilla
•1 egg
•1/2 tsp salt
•1/2 tsp baking soda
•1 1/2 cups flour
•3/4 cup stick pretzels, broken into thirds
•1/2 cup caramel bits
•1/2 cup semi-sweet chocolate chips
Directions
1.In a stand mixer, cream butter with sugars. Add vanilla & egg. Incorporate & scrape bowl.
2.Combine salt, baking soda, & flour. Gradually add to wet mixture. Mix until combined.
3.Fold in broken pretzels, caramel bits, & chocolate chips with a spatula.
4.Spoon onto a baking sheet with parchment paper.
5.Bake at 350*F for 11-12 minutes.
*Makes around 2 dozen cookies.
Report Animal Cruelty
from http://www.aspca.org/fight-cruelty/re...
Most people simply cannot imagine abusing an innocent animal and yet all too frequently we see horrific examples of how inhumane humans can act. Animals are not able to speak for themselves so it is up to those of us who can, to speak on their behalf. Just as you would if you suspect a child is being abused, please call and report animal abuse. Listed below are signs provided on the ASPCA website to look for if you suspect animal abuse. It is important to document incidents and contact authorities before it’s too late.
Physical Signs
•Collar so tight that it has caused a neck wound or has become embedded in the pet's neck. •Open wounds, signs of multiple healed wounds or an ongoing injury or illness that isn't being treated.
•Untreated skin conditions that have caused loss of hair, scaly skin, bumps or rashes.
•Extreme thinness or emaciation—bones may be visible.
•Fur infested with fleas, ticks or other parasites.
•Patches of bumpy, scaly skin rashes.
•Signs of inadequate grooming, such as extreme matting of fur, overgrown nails and dirty coat.
•Weakness, limping or the inability to stand or walk normally.
•Heavy discharge from eyes or nose.
•An owner striking or otherwise physically abusing an animal.
•Visible signs of confusion or extreme drowsiness.
Environmental Signs
•Pets are tied up alone outside for long periods of time without adequate food or water, or with food or water that is unsanitary.
•Pets are kept outside in inclement weather without access to adequate shelter.
•Pets are kept in an area littered with feces, garbage, broken glass or other objects that could harm them.
•Animals are housed in kennels or cages (very often crowded in with other animals) that are too small to allow them to stand, turn around and make normal movements possibly with too many other animals.
These are the ONLY marks anyone should ever leave on a dog!

You can’t really have a Halloween list of scary books without listing “It.” My favorite Stephen King novel is usually whichever one I happen to be reading at the time. "It" is truly one of my all-time favorites. If you weren’t afraid of clowns as a child, you probably became deathly afraid of them after reading this classic. Set in the town of Derry, Maine the story brings together a group of childhood friends. Reuniting, they are forced to confront a terror they thought they’d killed 28 years earlier. Fulfilling a childhood promise that was sealed in blood, they face old secrets, terror, and discover the strength of friendships made to endure the test of time.
Phantoms by Dean Koontz: http://www.amazon.com/Phantoms-Dean-K...


**Recipes You'll Hate to Know**
Caramel Pretzel Chocolate Chip Cookies
http://www.dessertnowdinnerlater.com/...
Ingredients
•1/2 cup (1 stick) butter, room temperature

•1/4 cup plus 2 Tbsp brown sugar
•1/2 tsp vanilla
•1 egg
•1/2 tsp salt
•1/2 tsp baking soda
•1 1/2 cups flour
•3/4 cup stick pretzels, broken into thirds
•1/2 cup caramel bits
•1/2 cup semi-sweet chocolate chips
Directions
1.In a stand mixer, cream butter with sugars. Add vanilla & egg. Incorporate & scrape bowl.
2.Combine salt, baking soda, & flour. Gradually add to wet mixture. Mix until combined.
3.Fold in broken pretzels, caramel bits, & chocolate chips with a spatula.
4.Spoon onto a baking sheet with parchment paper.
5.Bake at 350*F for 11-12 minutes.
*Makes around 2 dozen cookies.
Report Animal Cruelty
from http://www.aspca.org/fight-cruelty/re...
Most people simply cannot imagine abusing an innocent animal and yet all too frequently we see horrific examples of how inhumane humans can act. Animals are not able to speak for themselves so it is up to those of us who can, to speak on their behalf. Just as you would if you suspect a child is being abused, please call and report animal abuse. Listed below are signs provided on the ASPCA website to look for if you suspect animal abuse. It is important to document incidents and contact authorities before it’s too late.
Physical Signs
•Collar so tight that it has caused a neck wound or has become embedded in the pet's neck. •Open wounds, signs of multiple healed wounds or an ongoing injury or illness that isn't being treated.
•Untreated skin conditions that have caused loss of hair, scaly skin, bumps or rashes.
•Extreme thinness or emaciation—bones may be visible.
•Fur infested with fleas, ticks or other parasites.
•Patches of bumpy, scaly skin rashes.
•Signs of inadequate grooming, such as extreme matting of fur, overgrown nails and dirty coat.
•Weakness, limping or the inability to stand or walk normally.
•Heavy discharge from eyes or nose.
•An owner striking or otherwise physically abusing an animal.
•Visible signs of confusion or extreme drowsiness.
Environmental Signs
•Pets are tied up alone outside for long periods of time without adequate food or water, or with food or water that is unsanitary.
•Pets are kept outside in inclement weather without access to adequate shelter.
•Pets are kept in an area littered with feces, garbage, broken glass or other objects that could harm them.
•Animals are housed in kennels or cages (very often crowded in with other animals) that are too small to allow them to stand, turn around and make normal movements possibly with too many other animals.
These are the ONLY marks anyone should ever leave on a dog!


Published on October 14, 2013 20:56
October 13, 2013
So Many Costumes...Only One Night

1. Costume Stores: Shop early and be prepared to pay a deposit. Most stores run the gamut from very simple costumes to elaborate designs and the costs are reflective. You can also find a variety of accessories including wigs, make-up, jewelry, and novelties such as wands, swords, etc. $$$
2. Novelty Shops: Most novelty shops have packaged costumes available from children‘s designs to ultra-sexy. These stores carry the year’s popular costumes. According to Google Shopping Data 2013’s most popular character costumes are : “The Fox” (based on Ylvis’ viral video hit “What does the Fox say?”), “Breaking Bad” (Walter White or Heisenberg), “Duck Dynasty,” “The Minions” from “Despicable Me 2,” Batman, Daft Punk, Daenerys (from “Game of Thrones”) and flapper-inspired dresses from “The Great Gatsby.” Sadly, the top trendsetting costume pays homage to Miley Cyrus’ performance on the MTV Video Music Awards. The Miley Cyrus’ Twerking Teddy & Foam Finger costume along with the Robin Thicke pin-striped suit is the hard to find seasonal favorite this year. Thankfully, there is still a huge demand for “Walking Dead” costumes so take heart America! $$$ ~ $$
3. Fabric Store: If you are handy with a needle and thread, or better yet, a sewing machine, the world is your oyster. There are so many ideas available in patterns this year. The material designs seem almost limitless. Take a couple of hours and peruse through the catalogues then wander through the bolts of fabrics, shelves of ric-rac, sequins, and feathers. Know that on Halloween night, you will be the envy of those of us who can’t sew a straight line! $$
4. Thrift Store: If you are on a budget or simply like a huge selection of a variety of clothes, hats, shoes, and handbags then your local thrift store is ideal! You can walk in as yourself and walk out with the makings of transforming yourself into anyone imaginable. Do you fancy yourself a clown? Grab some oversized plaid pants, a colorful shirt, funky tie, giant tennis shoes, and wild hat. Hippie? Easy…faded flair jeans, retro tee shirt, glasses, vest, and a scarf to use as a headband. Inside these walls every character you can dream up is waiting, just browse, and let your mind wander. $$ ~ $
5. Homemade: I believe some of the best costume can be found in your own home. We have come up with some fun costumes in the past from things around the house. I dyed my graduation gown black to become a witch one year. I added boots, a witch hat from discount store and used green face make-up. One year we dyed some old thermal underwear green, covered cardboard with foil, bought “bald” wigs, re-used the green face make-up, attached little Styrofoam balls into straws to head antennas, and became a

Dressing up for Halloween is fun whether you are dressing for a party, to take the kids trick or treating or to surprise the neighborhood goblins when they ring your doorbell. Hiding behind a mask somehow lets us release some of our inhibitions and become more childlike for a few hours. So go ahead… have fun, eat some candy, laugh, dance, and let the spirit of the night shine through you! November 1st will turn come and turn you back into an adult.
*Cute & Simple Halloween Party Recipe*
http://barbschram.blogspot.com/2009/0...
Witches' Hat Cookies
Ingredients
1 Bag of Keebler Fudge Stripe Cookies

1 Tube Orange Frosting
Directions
Turn cookie fudge side up. Add squirt of frosting and place Kiss on top. Presto…Witch Hat!
Peanut Butter and Pumpkin Pooch Treats
From ASPCA website
Your dog will love the taste and enjoy the crunch!
Ingredients
2 1/2 cups whole wheat flour
1/2 cup fresh or canned pumpkin (not seasoned pie filling)
1/2 cup peanut butter
2 teaspoons cinnamon
1 teaspoon baking powder

Directions
1. Preheat oven to 350 degrees Fahrenheit.
2. Whisk together flour, baking powder, pumpkin, peanut butter and cinnamon in a bowl.
3. Add water as needed, but the dough should be stiff and dry.
4. Roll to 1/2 inch thick and cut with holiday cookie cutters.
5. Bake for about 40 minutes, or until hard.

Published on October 13, 2013 16:34
October 11, 2013
Are You a College Football Fanatic?

1. You begin every Saturday watching ESPN Gameday.
2. Most of your wardrobe is in your team’s colors including shoes, socks, and jewelry.
3. At kickoff, you have gone through as many good luck rituals as any player.
4. Your neighbors have learned to ignore blood-curdling screams coming from your house during a game.
5. You have deep love and respect for your coach/you hate and trash your coach all in the span of two plays.
6. You have a deep love and respect for your quarterback/you hate and trash your quarterback in the span of one play.
7. It’s okay for you to trash talk your team but nobody else is allowed to diminish their awesomeness.
8. You own a complete set of party ware with your team logo.
9. Proudly fly team flag in front of your home unless it is a holiday when the American flag is flown.
10. Your pets have team jerseys, bandanas, collars, and leashes.

12. When officials make a call against your team, they’re blind idiots. When officials make a call in your team's favor, they’re geniuses.
13. You believe all of the different conferences are tough but yours in the toughest.
14. If someone forgets and calls you during game, it goes straight to voice mail. There’s no dying or emergencies allowed during a game. Sorry.
15. A win or loss sets the mood for the rest of the day.
16. If a storm knocks out power, you have back-up plan.
17. There is that one rival team that inspires a hatred that coould be borderline psychotic.
18. You prefer to watch game in the privacy of your own home because people stare when you display your intense team spirit in public places.
19. You think college games are better because the players perform for team and school pride, not for millions of dollars.
20. Everyone is entitled to their favorite teams and you understand their loyalty. You secretly know their loyalty is wasted on the wrong team.
If any of these items describe you, congratulations! You are hopelessly addicted to college football and it our time of the year! So put on your team clothes, grab your team koozie with your favorite beverage, pile up on the game snacks, and get ready for some football!! Have a great season!
Game Day Recipe
Ro-Tel Cheese Dip
Ingredients
1 ~ 1 lb. (16 oz.) VELVEETA®, cut into 1/2-inch cubes
1 can (10 oz.) RO*TEL Diced Tomatoes & Green Chilies, drain approx. 90% of juice

Instructions
Brown and drain ground beef.
Combine Velveeta and Ro*Tel in microwaveable bowl.
Microwave on High for 5 minutes or until Velveeta is melted completely and mixture is well blended. Stir after first 3 minutes.
Remove and add ground beef. Serve with chips.
Pet Care Tip for Today
I have seen several news reports recently on dogs that have eaten poison mushrooms and become violently ill and worse. While 99% of mushrooms are non-toxic, the 1% can cause life-threatening risk to your pet. It is difficult to tell which ones are okay so the best advice is to keep your dog away from areas where mushrooms are growing. If you notice them springing up in your yard after a rain, remove and discard them. Be sure to wear gloves before handling mushrooms. If you suspect your pet has ingested a wild mushroom, contact your vet or animal poison control immediately.

Published on October 11, 2013 16:06
October 10, 2013
Halloween Party Plans
October 31st has always been an exciting day for children. For adults it simply meant handing out candy or taking the kids trick or treating. According to statistics, all of that changed in the 1990’s. Halloween has become a big business for grown-ups. I think it’s great for adults to dress in costumes, have fun, and act silly. My husband and I used to have a Halloween party every year. We were ahead of the crowd since we began them in 1982 B.C.(before children) Although we have long since given up the tradition due to switching into parent mode. Our new tradition became handing out candy and following our young ones from house to house. I’m going to share some tips to help make your party a hit. Over the next couple of weeks, several blogs will cover this topic starting with the most important, planning your party.
Plan Ahead:
*Buy or print your invitations and get them in the mail. People start making their party plans early. Be sure to indicate if it’s a costume party, adults only, BYOB, directions, and a number for RSVPs.
*Plan your music for the evening. We purchased a Halloween horror sounds CD and incorporated the eerie noises between popular songs. It certainly adds to the ambiance of the scary night. It is also important to include music for all of your guests' entertainment. Don’t be afraid to mix music from all genres.
*If you are planning to serve alcohol, reserve a keg or margarita machine early. If you are serving wine, you should call and make sure they will have the type and amount you’ll need. Check the sale circulars for discounted prices on sodas. You will want to have plenty on hand for the night. There will be guests who bring liquor and need Cokes or 7-Up for mixed drinks. Remember the designated drivers and those who don’t enjoy alcohol.
*Plan your decorations for both inside and outside of your home. We always made a backdrop for people to give everyone a great photo op. If you aren’t artistic, you can use hay bales, scarecrows, and balloons. There are so many great creepy decorations available to enhance the mood. It is important not to overdo decorations; you want to make sure your guests have room to move around without knocking things over. Remember the earlier you get your decorations, the better the selection. Keep in mind everyone will be in costumes so be careful with open flames on torches or candles.
*A costume contest is always a big hit. Just cut small strips of paper, buy several Halloween themed pencils, and a plastic jack-o-lantern to hold the votes. Have everyone write down their favorite costume and after a couple of hours, go count the votes and make the big announcement. Be sure you have a nice prize for the winner. Door prizes add extra excitement to your party. Many restaurants, clubs, and businesses will donate if you ask. You can make up candy bags decorated with orange and black curling ribbon to give away. You can find many great ideas on Pinterest.
*If you make your party plans in advance, you can reduce the stress that too often comes with planning a party. The websites listed below have wonderful decorations and you still have time to order. I will feature more blogs with ideas for food, costumes and everything you need to have a frightfully fun Halloween!
http://www.orientaltrading.com/
http://www.grandinroad.com/halloween-...
http://www.partycity.com/category/hal...
http://www.spirithalloween.com/decora...
**Recipe You'll Be Happy to Have**
Candy Corn Poke Cake
*This recipe is on Pinterest courtesy of Lisa at http://wineandglue.com
Ingredients
1 White Cake Mix
Food Coloring
1 14oz. sweetened condensed milk
1 Tub of Whipped Topping
Candy Corn
Directions
Make the cake batter as directed.
Then divide it into three equal parts.
Color one yellow, one orange, and leave one alone. Make sure you add enough to make it really vibrant.
Spray the bottom of a 9 x 13 pan.
Spread the yellow layer evenly across the bottom, and then stick it in the freezer (make sure it is sitting flat).
Leave it in freezer for 20 minutes.
As soon as you pull it out, very carefully add the orange layer, pouring it as evenly as possible around the pan, and gently spreading it out to cover the yellow.
Return it to the freezer for 20 more minutes.
Preheat your oven to the temperature specified on the cake mix.
Taking out the cake batter pan, again, carefully spread the white layer.
Let it sit on top of the preheating oven for at least 30 minutes.
Bake according to package directions.
As soon as the cake comes out of the oven, poke holes throughout the cake with the end of a wooden spoon.
Pour the sweetened condensed milk evenly over the cake, making sure to fill each hole. Top with whipped topping, candy corn, and enjoy!
No tricks, these Treats are for your Pets from the ASPCA
http://www.aspca.org/blog/easy-make-h...
Halloween Cat Cookie
Your kitties will love the fishy flavor of these tasty treats.
Ingredients
1/4 cup warm water
5 Tablespoons parmesan cheese
3 Tablespoons soft margarine
1 Tablespoon cod liver oil
1 cup white flour
1/4 cup soy flour
Directions
1. Preheat oven to 300 degrees Fahrenheit.
2. Combine water, cheese, margarine and oil.
3. Add flour and form dough.
4. Roll to 1/4 inch thick and cut with small holiday cookie cutters.
5. Bake on an ungreased cookie sheet for 20 to 25 minutes, or until golden.
Plan Ahead:
*Buy or print your invitations and get them in the mail. People start making their party plans early. Be sure to indicate if it’s a costume party, adults only, BYOB, directions, and a number for RSVPs.
*Plan your music for the evening. We purchased a Halloween horror sounds CD and incorporated the eerie noises between popular songs. It certainly adds to the ambiance of the scary night. It is also important to include music for all of your guests' entertainment. Don’t be afraid to mix music from all genres.
*If you are planning to serve alcohol, reserve a keg or margarita machine early. If you are serving wine, you should call and make sure they will have the type and amount you’ll need. Check the sale circulars for discounted prices on sodas. You will want to have plenty on hand for the night. There will be guests who bring liquor and need Cokes or 7-Up for mixed drinks. Remember the designated drivers and those who don’t enjoy alcohol.
*Plan your decorations for both inside and outside of your home. We always made a backdrop for people to give everyone a great photo op. If you aren’t artistic, you can use hay bales, scarecrows, and balloons. There are so many great creepy decorations available to enhance the mood. It is important not to overdo decorations; you want to make sure your guests have room to move around without knocking things over. Remember the earlier you get your decorations, the better the selection. Keep in mind everyone will be in costumes so be careful with open flames on torches or candles.
*A costume contest is always a big hit. Just cut small strips of paper, buy several Halloween themed pencils, and a plastic jack-o-lantern to hold the votes. Have everyone write down their favorite costume and after a couple of hours, go count the votes and make the big announcement. Be sure you have a nice prize for the winner. Door prizes add extra excitement to your party. Many restaurants, clubs, and businesses will donate if you ask. You can make up candy bags decorated with orange and black curling ribbon to give away. You can find many great ideas on Pinterest.
*If you make your party plans in advance, you can reduce the stress that too often comes with planning a party. The websites listed below have wonderful decorations and you still have time to order. I will feature more blogs with ideas for food, costumes and everything you need to have a frightfully fun Halloween!
http://www.orientaltrading.com/
http://www.grandinroad.com/halloween-...
http://www.partycity.com/category/hal...
http://www.spirithalloween.com/decora...
**Recipe You'll Be Happy to Have**
Candy Corn Poke Cake
*This recipe is on Pinterest courtesy of Lisa at http://wineandglue.com

Ingredients
1 White Cake Mix
Food Coloring
1 14oz. sweetened condensed milk
1 Tub of Whipped Topping
Candy Corn
Directions
Make the cake batter as directed.
Then divide it into three equal parts.
Color one yellow, one orange, and leave one alone. Make sure you add enough to make it really vibrant.
Spray the bottom of a 9 x 13 pan.
Spread the yellow layer evenly across the bottom, and then stick it in the freezer (make sure it is sitting flat).
Leave it in freezer for 20 minutes.
As soon as you pull it out, very carefully add the orange layer, pouring it as evenly as possible around the pan, and gently spreading it out to cover the yellow.
Return it to the freezer for 20 more minutes.
Preheat your oven to the temperature specified on the cake mix.
Taking out the cake batter pan, again, carefully spread the white layer.
Let it sit on top of the preheating oven for at least 30 minutes.
Bake according to package directions.
As soon as the cake comes out of the oven, poke holes throughout the cake with the end of a wooden spoon.
Pour the sweetened condensed milk evenly over the cake, making sure to fill each hole. Top with whipped topping, candy corn, and enjoy!
No tricks, these Treats are for your Pets from the ASPCA
http://www.aspca.org/blog/easy-make-h...
Halloween Cat Cookie
Your kitties will love the fishy flavor of these tasty treats.
Ingredients
1/4 cup warm water
5 Tablespoons parmesan cheese

1 Tablespoon cod liver oil
1 cup white flour
1/4 cup soy flour
Directions
1. Preheat oven to 300 degrees Fahrenheit.
2. Combine water, cheese, margarine and oil.
3. Add flour and form dough.
4. Roll to 1/4 inch thick and cut with small holiday cookie cutters.
5. Bake on an ungreased cookie sheet for 20 to 25 minutes, or until golden.

Published on October 10, 2013 01:07
October 8, 2013
Grieving the Loss of a Pet
**Let me start by saying this is a hard blog to write. I promised my readers laughs and fun topics but today’s is neither. It is however, something every pet owner must endure. If you are dealing with grief right now, my hope is this will help.
There are few things more precious than a cuddly new puppy or kitten. We bring them home and make them a part of our family. The last thing on our minds at this exciting time is the fact that someday, we will have to say good-bye to them. Unfortunately, it is just a painful realization we all eventually have to face. The truth is that next to the loss of a human family member, the death of our beloved four-legged friend is one of the saddest times many of us experience. From the day they come into our lives, we love them, feed them, train them, cuddle, and kiss them. They know our deepest secrets and give us unconditional love. We carry their pictures, post them Facebook, and talk about them like any proud parent. Our pets are happier than anyone else is when we come home every day. Dogs and cats don’t question us, never stay angry, and trust us 100%. Their only fault is a shorter lifespan than we are given. I have grieved the loss of many wonderful cats and dogs. It never gets easier and you can never prepare yourself for their death. We had to live through the heartbreak only a few months ago. The one advantage I have is that my books include all of my fabulous pets and they get to live again through my words. It was still several weeks before I could open my laptop back up and continue their story when death came to one of them.
The grief process after a pet dies is the same as with any family member. It can become overwhelming and is different for everyone. When the realization of an impending farewell comes, you probably tried bargaining with a higher power, your pet, and yourself to no avail. The normal grief process usually begins with anger. Those feelings may be directed at your veterinarian, other family members, yourself, or your lost pet. The other feeling you have to deal with is the guilt. Was there something you could have done to achieve a different outcome? Then you dwell on the times you may have lost patience with your pet. Once these initial feelings subside, the true feelings of sadness emerge. The important thing to remember is all of these feelings are normal to achieve your goal of acceptance.
It is also important to know that you don’t have to grieve alone. Share your feelings with the rest of your family. There are also pet bereavement counseling services, pet-loss support hotlines, local or online Internet groups, books, videos, and magazine articles. You may want to plan a memorial service for your pet. Writing about your feelings, memories, and the things you want to tell your dog or cat can be very therapeutic.
If there is a child in your family, it is extremely important to listen to their feelings. The loss of a pet is sometimes the first experience they have dealing with death. The way you handle it with them will affect how they handle such losses in the future. There are many wonderful books and videos available to help youngsters understand and accept the situation. You may find them becoming fearful of losing other loved ones in their lives. Give them the support and reassurance they need and don’t be afraid to let them know that you are also grieving.
There is another family member who must not be forgotten during this time. If you have more than one pet, they ones left behind will also experience grief. They may whimper, look for their friend, refuse to eat, and become lethargic. This is the way animals express their sadness at the loss of their companion. If they have been outside pets, bring them inside to be with you. This will be a positive thing for both of you. Remember, our pets pick up on our emotions so a little extra love and snuggling will go a long way towards healing both of your hearts.
A common sentiment after the death of your pet is “I will never get another dog/cat. It’s just too painful to lose them.” Going out to get a new pet is not advisable until you’ve come to terms with your recent loss. It may be as short as a month or it might be a year before you’re ready to welcome a new best friend into your life. Everyone has his or her own timeline for the grieving process. The question I always ask is this, “Would you give up the years of joy, happiness, and love you shared with your pet only to avoid the temporary pain?” The only way to get through life without the pain of a pet’s death is never to know the love of one in the first place. I think that would be a sad and lonely way to protect your heart. Remember, it really does get better.
**Recipes You’ll Wish You Didn’t Know**
More
1 lb. Ground Beef
½ cup Chopped Onions
½ cup Chopped Green Pepper
1 cup Chopped Celery
1 5oz. pkg. Egg Noodles
1 8oz. can Tomato Sauce
1 12oz. Can Niblet Corn
2 tblsp. Chili Powder
Salt & Pepper to taste
1 cup Grated Sharp Cheese
Brown ground beef in small amount of oil. Drain then add onions, green pepper, and celery. Cook slowly for several minutes until celery is clear. Cook noodles in salted water until tender. Drain and add noodles, tomato sauce, corn, chili powder, salt, and pepper to ground beef. Pour into baking dish. Cover with grated cheese. Bake in 350˚ oven for 20 minutes. Serves 6 ~ 8
There are few things more precious than a cuddly new puppy or kitten. We bring them home and make them a part of our family. The last thing on our minds at this exciting time is the fact that someday, we will have to say good-bye to them. Unfortunately, it is just a painful realization we all eventually have to face. The truth is that next to the loss of a human family member, the death of our beloved four-legged friend is one of the saddest times many of us experience. From the day they come into our lives, we love them, feed them, train them, cuddle, and kiss them. They know our deepest secrets and give us unconditional love. We carry their pictures, post them Facebook, and talk about them like any proud parent. Our pets are happier than anyone else is when we come home every day. Dogs and cats don’t question us, never stay angry, and trust us 100%. Their only fault is a shorter lifespan than we are given. I have grieved the loss of many wonderful cats and dogs. It never gets easier and you can never prepare yourself for their death. We had to live through the heartbreak only a few months ago. The one advantage I have is that my books include all of my fabulous pets and they get to live again through my words. It was still several weeks before I could open my laptop back up and continue their story when death came to one of them.
The grief process after a pet dies is the same as with any family member. It can become overwhelming and is different for everyone. When the realization of an impending farewell comes, you probably tried bargaining with a higher power, your pet, and yourself to no avail. The normal grief process usually begins with anger. Those feelings may be directed at your veterinarian, other family members, yourself, or your lost pet. The other feeling you have to deal with is the guilt. Was there something you could have done to achieve a different outcome? Then you dwell on the times you may have lost patience with your pet. Once these initial feelings subside, the true feelings of sadness emerge. The important thing to remember is all of these feelings are normal to achieve your goal of acceptance.
It is also important to know that you don’t have to grieve alone. Share your feelings with the rest of your family. There are also pet bereavement counseling services, pet-loss support hotlines, local or online Internet groups, books, videos, and magazine articles. You may want to plan a memorial service for your pet. Writing about your feelings, memories, and the things you want to tell your dog or cat can be very therapeutic.
If there is a child in your family, it is extremely important to listen to their feelings. The loss of a pet is sometimes the first experience they have dealing with death. The way you handle it with them will affect how they handle such losses in the future. There are many wonderful books and videos available to help youngsters understand and accept the situation. You may find them becoming fearful of losing other loved ones in their lives. Give them the support and reassurance they need and don’t be afraid to let them know that you are also grieving.
There is another family member who must not be forgotten during this time. If you have more than one pet, they ones left behind will also experience grief. They may whimper, look for their friend, refuse to eat, and become lethargic. This is the way animals express their sadness at the loss of their companion. If they have been outside pets, bring them inside to be with you. This will be a positive thing for both of you. Remember, our pets pick up on our emotions so a little extra love and snuggling will go a long way towards healing both of your hearts.
A common sentiment after the death of your pet is “I will never get another dog/cat. It’s just too painful to lose them.” Going out to get a new pet is not advisable until you’ve come to terms with your recent loss. It may be as short as a month or it might be a year before you’re ready to welcome a new best friend into your life. Everyone has his or her own timeline for the grieving process. The question I always ask is this, “Would you give up the years of joy, happiness, and love you shared with your pet only to avoid the temporary pain?” The only way to get through life without the pain of a pet’s death is never to know the love of one in the first place. I think that would be a sad and lonely way to protect your heart. Remember, it really does get better.
**Recipes You’ll Wish You Didn’t Know**
More
1 lb. Ground Beef
½ cup Chopped Onions
½ cup Chopped Green Pepper
1 cup Chopped Celery
1 5oz. pkg. Egg Noodles
1 8oz. can Tomato Sauce
1 12oz. Can Niblet Corn
2 tblsp. Chili Powder
Salt & Pepper to taste
1 cup Grated Sharp Cheese
Brown ground beef in small amount of oil. Drain then add onions, green pepper, and celery. Cook slowly for several minutes until celery is clear. Cook noodles in salted water until tender. Drain and add noodles, tomato sauce, corn, chili powder, salt, and pepper to ground beef. Pour into baking dish. Cover with grated cheese. Bake in 350˚ oven for 20 minutes. Serves 6 ~ 8

Published on October 08, 2013 23:50
October 6, 2013
Five Websites to Help Authors
When I tell someone that I’m an author, a surprising amount respond by telling me they write or plan to write a book someday. I think that’s great. Writing is definitely a freeing and self-satisfying experience. Watching the characters in your mind come to life in print is a rush. Having a reader enjoy your book has to be one of the most exhilarating experiences in a writer’s life. Why don’t more people take the leap? The fear of the unknown, rejection, and there are many obstacles to overcome. It takes someone not afraid of shameless self-promotion because as an indie, that's part of your job. Believe me; I am very new in the world of independent authors and self-publishing so all of these feelings are close to the surface. There is so much to learn, my poor Google site has begun to sigh when I start typing “How to…” Luckily, I have found some wonderful resources to help guide me on this journey. The most surprising resource I have found is other authors! In an extremely competitive marketplace, I find fellow authors more than willing to share ideas, helpful websites, advice, and pitfalls to avoid. I’m not sure about other independent entrepreneurs but authors certainly have turned out to be a wonderful group of people. This article is an attempt to pay it forward by telling you some of the terrific sites I’ve found or been referred to since publishing my debut book The Returns. You may already be familiar with them but if not, I suggest you take the time to explore each one to see if they are a good fit for you.
AUTHORSdb ~ http://authorsdb.com/ Authors Database is free and simple to join. The site allows authors to list their books, blogs, social medias, and much more. They list agents and publishers along with the services each has to offer. Everyone loves badges, contests, and recognition for their work and AUTHORSdb certainly fulfills that desire. They are great at tweeting; have an awesome Facebook, and overall do a wonderful job in promoting authors. It is easy to navigate the site and is set up very professionally. **Personal note: My book cover is in the book cover contest currently underway on their site. Please click the golden star in the left margin and support me with your vote! Thanks in advance.
Authors Marketing Club ~ http://authormarketingclub.com/ AMC is a very popular site for writers and they offer a variety of services. Basic membership is free, offering many opportunities such as marketing tips, one book enhancement and book submissions. You can purchase a Premium membership, which allows you more options to enhance your book descriptions, more promotions, and book widgets. Either choice is very beneficial to the author. They also offer video web classes from time to time that provide great information. You can also find a one-stop list of other sites where you can submit your Free KDP days. AMC is also a great place for readers to find their new favorite books.
Bookgoodies ~ http://bookgoodies.com/ Bookgoodies has everything for the reader and the writer. Authors can submit an interview, post their books, join in a variety of forums, and seek advice along with a multitude of author services. This site is also free to join and participate. It’s a great site for readers to join since they can read interviews with their favorite authors as well as find bargain or free books. The author interviews will give them a peek inside the motivation and inspiration of their favorite books. I have always found they answer inquiries promptly and are very willing to help.
Goodreads ~ https://www.goodreads.com/ Goodreads is probably one of the best-known book sites that combine authors and readers in one location. Amazon recently purchased the site. It features forums for readers, writers, bloggers, and offers something for everyone. There are contests, trivia, quotes, recommendations, and gives you a place to organize and rate all of your books. It is a huge social network and I enjoy all aspects of the site. I have met many wonderful people and gathered a lot of valuable information here. The Goodreads librarians are always helpful and respond to your concerns or questions very quickly. If I have one complaint about the site, it would be the book rating system. I hope that since the site is now a part of Amazon, they will adopt the Amazon rating system.
World Literary Café ~ http://www.worldliterarycafe.com/ WLC is a fun and active site for authors, bloggers, and readers. It offers countless ways to promote your books and blogs such as Blog Follow, Facebook Like and Twitter Follow. These programs help build your audience and provide much needed exposure. There are many classes, forums, and services available for writers and readers. I have found this to be an extremely helpful place to learn from and connect with a variety of authors. The staff is very helpful and friendly. I highly recommend WLC no matter which aspect of writing you are pursuing.
I hope you discover one or all of these groups to be helpful in your pursuit of becoming an established author. I will have other blogs describing some of the mistakes I have made in hopes of keeping you from doing the same. On another personal note, I would like to take this opportunity to offer sincere thanks to the above-mentioned groups for their help and support over the past year.
**Recipes You’ll Wish You Didn’t Know**
Meatless Taco Salad
Ingredients
1 ~ Head of Lettuce (Chopped)
2 ~ Medium Tomatoes (Chopped)
1 ~ Purple Onion (Chopped)
1 ~ 16oz. Can of Whole Kernel Corn (Drained)
1 ~ 15 oz. Ranch ~ Style Pinto Beans (Rinsed & Drained)
1 ~ Bottle Catalina Dressing
1 lb. Sharp Cheddar Cheese (Grated)
1 ½ Bags of Nacho Cheese Doritos (Crushed)
Preparations
Mix tomatoes, onion, corn, and beans in extra large pot.
Cover and refrigerate overnight (12 hours), stirring occasionally.
Add lettuce, Catalina dressing, cheese, and Doritos.
This makes quite a bit so make sure you use a large pot to mix. Refrigerate at least one hour before serving. As the salad marinates, it will condense but it makes enough for parties, camping trips, or alongside burgers.
*This is one of my favorite recipes in the world! The taste is very original and addicting!
Pet Safety
You wouldn’t allow your child to be unrestrained in your car so why would you let your four-legged family member? Unrestrained pets in a car can be a distraction to the driver, accidently get under the driver’s feet, and can put both the driver and pet at risk for serious injury or death. In the event of an accident, your beloved pet will become nothing more than a projectile. To transport your pets safely do the following:
•Never allow pets to travel in the front seat. I know it’s tempting; they are so cute and really like to be up front with you. The front seat puts them at risk of severe injury or death if an airbag deploys.
•Don't let dogs ride with their head out the window. Of course, they love it but a sudden stop could cause severe neck injuries and debris in the air can cause eye irritations and injuries. Love them enough to tell them “no.”
•This is one of my biggest pet peeves: NEVER let your dog ride untethered in the back of a truck bed! This dangerous practice puts them at risk of being thrown from the vehicle in the event of an accident. Any sudden stops and starts throw the dog about the truck bed. Injuries to legs, hips, back, and head are too great of a risk no matter how convenient or innocent it may seem. Every dog should rate a crate!
•To keep your pet safe, confine cats to carriers, secured with a seatbelt. If your dog wants to go for a ride with you, there are specially designed seat harnesses, doggie seats, or put them in a kennel/crate.
This is something many pet owners will balk at but if you can’t adhere to any of these modes of transporting your pet, then please leave them at home. A quick trip in the front seat of your car unrestrained could accidently leave you with a heartbreaking outcome. It’s simply not worth the risk to your dog, cat, or heart.
AUTHORSdb ~ http://authorsdb.com/ Authors Database is free and simple to join. The site allows authors to list their books, blogs, social medias, and much more. They list agents and publishers along with the services each has to offer. Everyone loves badges, contests, and recognition for their work and AUTHORSdb certainly fulfills that desire. They are great at tweeting; have an awesome Facebook, and overall do a wonderful job in promoting authors. It is easy to navigate the site and is set up very professionally. **Personal note: My book cover is in the book cover contest currently underway on their site. Please click the golden star in the left margin and support me with your vote! Thanks in advance.
Authors Marketing Club ~ http://authormarketingclub.com/ AMC is a very popular site for writers and they offer a variety of services. Basic membership is free, offering many opportunities such as marketing tips, one book enhancement and book submissions. You can purchase a Premium membership, which allows you more options to enhance your book descriptions, more promotions, and book widgets. Either choice is very beneficial to the author. They also offer video web classes from time to time that provide great information. You can also find a one-stop list of other sites where you can submit your Free KDP days. AMC is also a great place for readers to find their new favorite books.
Bookgoodies ~ http://bookgoodies.com/ Bookgoodies has everything for the reader and the writer. Authors can submit an interview, post their books, join in a variety of forums, and seek advice along with a multitude of author services. This site is also free to join and participate. It’s a great site for readers to join since they can read interviews with their favorite authors as well as find bargain or free books. The author interviews will give them a peek inside the motivation and inspiration of their favorite books. I have always found they answer inquiries promptly and are very willing to help.
Goodreads ~ https://www.goodreads.com/ Goodreads is probably one of the best-known book sites that combine authors and readers in one location. Amazon recently purchased the site. It features forums for readers, writers, bloggers, and offers something for everyone. There are contests, trivia, quotes, recommendations, and gives you a place to organize and rate all of your books. It is a huge social network and I enjoy all aspects of the site. I have met many wonderful people and gathered a lot of valuable information here. The Goodreads librarians are always helpful and respond to your concerns or questions very quickly. If I have one complaint about the site, it would be the book rating system. I hope that since the site is now a part of Amazon, they will adopt the Amazon rating system.
World Literary Café ~ http://www.worldliterarycafe.com/ WLC is a fun and active site for authors, bloggers, and readers. It offers countless ways to promote your books and blogs such as Blog Follow, Facebook Like and Twitter Follow. These programs help build your audience and provide much needed exposure. There are many classes, forums, and services available for writers and readers. I have found this to be an extremely helpful place to learn from and connect with a variety of authors. The staff is very helpful and friendly. I highly recommend WLC no matter which aspect of writing you are pursuing.
I hope you discover one or all of these groups to be helpful in your pursuit of becoming an established author. I will have other blogs describing some of the mistakes I have made in hopes of keeping you from doing the same. On another personal note, I would like to take this opportunity to offer sincere thanks to the above-mentioned groups for their help and support over the past year.
**Recipes You’ll Wish You Didn’t Know**
Meatless Taco Salad
Ingredients
1 ~ Head of Lettuce (Chopped)
2 ~ Medium Tomatoes (Chopped)
1 ~ Purple Onion (Chopped)
1 ~ 16oz. Can of Whole Kernel Corn (Drained)
1 ~ 15 oz. Ranch ~ Style Pinto Beans (Rinsed & Drained)
1 ~ Bottle Catalina Dressing
1 lb. Sharp Cheddar Cheese (Grated)
1 ½ Bags of Nacho Cheese Doritos (Crushed)
Preparations
Mix tomatoes, onion, corn, and beans in extra large pot.
Cover and refrigerate overnight (12 hours), stirring occasionally.
Add lettuce, Catalina dressing, cheese, and Doritos.
This makes quite a bit so make sure you use a large pot to mix. Refrigerate at least one hour before serving. As the salad marinates, it will condense but it makes enough for parties, camping trips, or alongside burgers.
*This is one of my favorite recipes in the world! The taste is very original and addicting!
Pet Safety
You wouldn’t allow your child to be unrestrained in your car so why would you let your four-legged family member? Unrestrained pets in a car can be a distraction to the driver, accidently get under the driver’s feet, and can put both the driver and pet at risk for serious injury or death. In the event of an accident, your beloved pet will become nothing more than a projectile. To transport your pets safely do the following:
•Never allow pets to travel in the front seat. I know it’s tempting; they are so cute and really like to be up front with you. The front seat puts them at risk of severe injury or death if an airbag deploys.
•Don't let dogs ride with their head out the window. Of course, they love it but a sudden stop could cause severe neck injuries and debris in the air can cause eye irritations and injuries. Love them enough to tell them “no.”
•This is one of my biggest pet peeves: NEVER let your dog ride untethered in the back of a truck bed! This dangerous practice puts them at risk of being thrown from the vehicle in the event of an accident. Any sudden stops and starts throw the dog about the truck bed. Injuries to legs, hips, back, and head are too great of a risk no matter how convenient or innocent it may seem. Every dog should rate a crate!
•To keep your pet safe, confine cats to carriers, secured with a seatbelt. If your dog wants to go for a ride with you, there are specially designed seat harnesses, doggie seats, or put them in a kennel/crate.
This is something many pet owners will balk at but if you can’t adhere to any of these modes of transporting your pet, then please leave them at home. A quick trip in the front seat of your car unrestrained could accidently leave you with a heartbreaking outcome. It’s simply not worth the risk to your dog, cat, or heart.

Published on October 06, 2013 21:44
October 5, 2013
There's a Dog Between the Covers
If you’ve read my book The Returns, it’s obvious I love dogs. When a storyline involves a dog, it is pretty much a given I will click on “download now.” The four books I’m reviewing today are not primarily dog stories but they all have a wonderful dog interwoven in the plot. That’s good enough for me. Of course, if it’s a romance with a dog in the mix…reading utopia! There are countless books where the main characters are dogs. If you’re interested, I’d suggest you check out Goodreads for a comprehensive list with ratings. As usual, I’ve put these four in author alphabetical order so I don’t show any bias.
Long Time Coming by: Edie Claire ~ This award-winning book involves Joy, a veterinarian returning home after spending eighteen years away trying to avoid the painful memories she left behind. Although she had never intended to come back to Wharton, Kentucky, her father’s heart attack left her with no other options. The loss of her best friend in a tragic auto accident only days after their senior prom and the boy, Jeff Bradford, who she blames for the wreck are the two main reasons she has stayed away. Deciding to confront the ghosts of her past, she buys her friend’s old family home, starts a mobile vet clinic, and tries to unlock some of the vague recollections that have plagued her with nightmares through the years. Her main goal is to avoid Jeff. As luck would have it, he is now her father’s cardiac doctor. She finds this news out by accident when she hits his big lovable dog, Bear. Don’t worry, Bear’s survives, but that is when the story really captured my heart. I highly recommend this to readers who enjoy mystery, romance, excitement, and of course, dogs!
Watchers by: Dean Koontz ~ Let me start by saying how much I love Dean Koontz! I describe his writing as a bit of Stephen King without having to accept the brutal death of the people you love! I’m not ashamed to admit I have read this book no less than four times. It’s just that good in my opinion. I also credit it as one of the main reasons I became the proud owner of Tucker, my Golden Retriever. The story centers on a top-secret government experiment involving a highly intelligent Golden Retriever and an unknown monster. An accident leads to the animals escaping and the dog befriends a loner, Travis Cornell. The lovable canine, Einstein, has some amazing abilities. This exciting book will have you wide-eyed and on the edge of your seat as you cheer for the heroes and curse the villains. I refuse to give away too much of the plot but this is one of my favorite books. **The movie in your mind is a million times better than the one made from this awesome book.
The Other Side of Us by: Sarah Mayberry ~ All that Mackenzie Williams wants is to be left alone. She needs to recuperate from an accident and get back to work. Oliver Barrett just wants to get his aunt’s house cleared out and ready to put on the market. Neither of them want a relationship. She comes off as crabby and he seems pushy. The only ones that appear to get along are their dogs. The dogs get along a little too well and take extreme measures to spent time with each other. This is a funny, sweet, feel-good story that will leave you with a smile on your face. It made me an immediate fan of Sarah Mayberry. This was a five star book for me.
The Art of Racing in the Rain by: Garth Stein ~ Enzo is a lab-terrier mix who becomes the sidekick to racecar driver Denny Swift. Although he doesn’t speak, we are able to hear his thoughts. This book will take your emotions on a wild ride comparable to any high-speed car race. I laughed until I had tears in my eyes. I cried so hard both of my dogs crawled up on the couch to comfort me. Of course, that loving dog move made me cry harder. (I'm talking shoulder-shaking sobs here) Mr. Stein does a wonderful job portraying the love and devotion of our four-legged best friends. I highly recommend this book enough to anyone who has ever had a connection with a dog. It will move you and stay in your heart long after you close the back cover. Definitely 5+ stars
Now, in an act of shameless self-promotion, if you haven’t read The Returns, please download it today. Everyone imagines their pets have human characteristics…mine just have a bit more than usual!
**Recipes You’ll Wish You Didn’t Know**
Dog~Gone Goodies
Ingredients
1 Pkg. Break Apart Refrigerated Cookie Dough
1 bag of Reese’s Peanut Butter Cups
1 Box Brownie Mix ~ (Prepare according to directions on box)
Directions
Preheat oven to 350˚
Using a muffin pan, press 1 ½ cookie square into each muffin well.
Place a Reese upside down on top of cookie dough.
Cover each with brownie mix. Fill each well approximately ¾ full.
Bake for 18 minutes. Let cool for a few minutes before devouring!
American Humane Society Hero Dog Awards 2013
The Beverly Hills Hilton will have a different kind of red carpet event tonight. It’s the annual Humane Society’s Hero Dog Awards honoring great dogs that have each accomplished incredible feats during the year. The finalists for the top award are the winners in the following categories:
Emerging Hero Dogs: Cassidy from Midvale, UT.
Guide Dog: Jingles from Amsterdam, NY
Hearing Dog: Lola from Bellingham, WA.
Law Enforcement/Arson: K9 Lakota from Locust Grove, GA.
Military Dog: CWD Carlos EDD from Colorado Springs, CO.
Search & Rescue: John D. from Little Rock, AR.
Service Dog: S. D. Bronx from Brunswick, GA.
Therapy Dog: Elle from Roanoke Rapids, N.C.
Congratulations to all of these wonderful brave dogs. You can see pictures and read their stories at http://www.herodogawards.org/
Long Time Coming by: Edie Claire ~ This award-winning book involves Joy, a veterinarian returning home after spending eighteen years away trying to avoid the painful memories she left behind. Although she had never intended to come back to Wharton, Kentucky, her father’s heart attack left her with no other options. The loss of her best friend in a tragic auto accident only days after their senior prom and the boy, Jeff Bradford, who she blames for the wreck are the two main reasons she has stayed away. Deciding to confront the ghosts of her past, she buys her friend’s old family home, starts a mobile vet clinic, and tries to unlock some of the vague recollections that have plagued her with nightmares through the years. Her main goal is to avoid Jeff. As luck would have it, he is now her father’s cardiac doctor. She finds this news out by accident when she hits his big lovable dog, Bear. Don’t worry, Bear’s survives, but that is when the story really captured my heart. I highly recommend this to readers who enjoy mystery, romance, excitement, and of course, dogs!
Watchers by: Dean Koontz ~ Let me start by saying how much I love Dean Koontz! I describe his writing as a bit of Stephen King without having to accept the brutal death of the people you love! I’m not ashamed to admit I have read this book no less than four times. It’s just that good in my opinion. I also credit it as one of the main reasons I became the proud owner of Tucker, my Golden Retriever. The story centers on a top-secret government experiment involving a highly intelligent Golden Retriever and an unknown monster. An accident leads to the animals escaping and the dog befriends a loner, Travis Cornell. The lovable canine, Einstein, has some amazing abilities. This exciting book will have you wide-eyed and on the edge of your seat as you cheer for the heroes and curse the villains. I refuse to give away too much of the plot but this is one of my favorite books. **The movie in your mind is a million times better than the one made from this awesome book.
The Other Side of Us by: Sarah Mayberry ~ All that Mackenzie Williams wants is to be left alone. She needs to recuperate from an accident and get back to work. Oliver Barrett just wants to get his aunt’s house cleared out and ready to put on the market. Neither of them want a relationship. She comes off as crabby and he seems pushy. The only ones that appear to get along are their dogs. The dogs get along a little too well and take extreme measures to spent time with each other. This is a funny, sweet, feel-good story that will leave you with a smile on your face. It made me an immediate fan of Sarah Mayberry. This was a five star book for me.
The Art of Racing in the Rain by: Garth Stein ~ Enzo is a lab-terrier mix who becomes the sidekick to racecar driver Denny Swift. Although he doesn’t speak, we are able to hear his thoughts. This book will take your emotions on a wild ride comparable to any high-speed car race. I laughed until I had tears in my eyes. I cried so hard both of my dogs crawled up on the couch to comfort me. Of course, that loving dog move made me cry harder. (I'm talking shoulder-shaking sobs here) Mr. Stein does a wonderful job portraying the love and devotion of our four-legged best friends. I highly recommend this book enough to anyone who has ever had a connection with a dog. It will move you and stay in your heart long after you close the back cover. Definitely 5+ stars
Now, in an act of shameless self-promotion, if you haven’t read The Returns, please download it today. Everyone imagines their pets have human characteristics…mine just have a bit more than usual!
**Recipes You’ll Wish You Didn’t Know**
Dog~Gone Goodies
Ingredients
1 Pkg. Break Apart Refrigerated Cookie Dough
1 bag of Reese’s Peanut Butter Cups
1 Box Brownie Mix ~ (Prepare according to directions on box)
Directions
Preheat oven to 350˚
Using a muffin pan, press 1 ½ cookie square into each muffin well.
Place a Reese upside down on top of cookie dough.
Cover each with brownie mix. Fill each well approximately ¾ full.
Bake for 18 minutes. Let cool for a few minutes before devouring!
American Humane Society Hero Dog Awards 2013
The Beverly Hills Hilton will have a different kind of red carpet event tonight. It’s the annual Humane Society’s Hero Dog Awards honoring great dogs that have each accomplished incredible feats during the year. The finalists for the top award are the winners in the following categories:
Emerging Hero Dogs: Cassidy from Midvale, UT.
Guide Dog: Jingles from Amsterdam, NY
Hearing Dog: Lola from Bellingham, WA.
Law Enforcement/Arson: K9 Lakota from Locust Grove, GA.
Military Dog: CWD Carlos EDD from Colorado Springs, CO.
Search & Rescue: John D. from Little Rock, AR.
Service Dog: S. D. Bronx from Brunswick, GA.
Therapy Dog: Elle from Roanoke Rapids, N.C.
Congratulations to all of these wonderful brave dogs. You can see pictures and read their stories at http://www.herodogawards.org/

Published on October 05, 2013 08:01
M. K. Clinton's Barking from the Bayou
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