Karin Pinter's Blog, page 6

Give yourself the peace you seek.

Peace is one of the greatest qualities we can have in a relationship, because it adds to our emotional security. The peace that we can talk about anything openly, that we can find our comfort zone without negative repercussions, that we can count on our person. That we can be vulnerable and feel heard. It’s wonderful when we’re with someone who exudes this peace, whose composure helps us maintain it within ourselves when everything else may be chaotic outside. But, self-reliance is key when ...

Real love plays clean.

Real Love plays clean, because an honest heart loves clean.
No tricks, no lies, no power plays, no mind games.
Just clear, honest, sincere, raw and real.
Finding its balance, its pace, its way through life; you, me, us.
When there is Real Love, you can have fun but there are no games.

Let your love speak louder through the darkness.

Today’s Love Card is dedicated to all those whose lives have been lost to racism and police brutality. We’re all in this together and we all deserve to live and love free, no matter our race, creed or situation. We can all provide solutions.

This card is also dedicated to anyone going through dark times in their own lives. To help you remember that this is when Love needs to speak, act and be felt the loudest, to help you overcome any hardships. There is light and love for you, always. Ev...

The truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth…

Some people commit to someone on a piece of paper when the truth of their heart is completely different. Or their heart was matched to that signature in the beginning, but over time, their feelings change and the paper loses all meaning. Some people don’t ever need that piece of paper because the commitment in their heart is so strong and it stays that way till their last breath.

But what is truth really?
We can talk about the truth of a situation, about facts.
We can talk about the truth o...

What if it works out?

Some people start a relationship with the worries of getting hurt or causing hurt somehow. And then it turns out just like that…

But, how often do you start a relationship thinking, “What if it works out?” How we start a relationship can define how it evolves. Because what we think we become, and what we feel we create.

So, be mindful and heartful of what you think, whether you’re starting out or going through a rough patch. Breathe life into what you care about, and let that guide you...

Life is supposed to be fun, but it’s also too important to be playing games with people’s hearts.

If we agree that love is life, then a person’s heart needs to be happy, healthy and strong to maintain that person’s life. Well cared for, by themselves and their partner. The wellbeing, dreams, legacy or vision they are creating all stem from love and being loved well.

So if someone plays games with your heart, they’re literally playing with your life and all that you seek to create.

Therefore, there is great responsibility in love. For you, and your loved ones.

Make sure you’re no...

Be proud of the love you gave, even if it didn’t turn out the way you hoped.

Relationships don’t always turn out the way we hoped or dreamed of. We may go in with the best of intentions and purest heart, but things can go south for many reasons. You might feel exhausted afterward, especially if it was a difficult relationship or you didn’t receive a balanced love. Especially if you’re the kind who loves deeply with every particle of your soul.

Whatever happened, be proud of the love you gave. And appreciate the love they gave you (if they did – some people confuse...

Embrace the tender parts of their soul with the gentleness of yours.

You know those tender parts… the ones that need some extra love to overcome obstacles and find strength to deal with challenges. To pick ourselves up when we’ve fallen down. To feel understood deep within. To open up wider to love. Those parts. And we all have them.

As you embrace the tender parts of someone’s soul, let them embrace yours. This is how we build trust at a soul level.

I love you but you don’t get to keep treating me like that.

Loving powerfully doesn’t mean accepting all behaviours, especially if they’re disrespectful, detrimental or dangerous. We’ll need to draw the line, no matter how much we love someone. It’s not okay to expect us to keep loving them without amending such actions and behaviours towards us or our relationship. That’s an abuse of confidence, trust and love itself.

A compendium and declaration to reclaim your personal power:

“I love you, but you don’t get to keep; – disrespecting me
– taking...

The highest expression of attention and appreciation is unwavering faithfulness.

Real love is natural magnetism and attraction between two people, who ideally will have a healthy sense of individual self worth and self love. It requires no attention-seeking, and definitely no jealousy or manipulation games. It gives healthy attention from the most genuine place of acceptance, desire and appreciation. The genuine daily acts of love themselves ARE the confirmation that you want, value, admire, and appreciate that person (or vice versa). Being an attentive partner means you...