Karin Pinter's Blog, page 5
June 16, 2020
Can we hold each other for a lifetime?
The ultimate relationship for so many of us is when we get to spend this lifetime together. It’s not just about getting to hold each other physically every day, it’s about holding each other’s heart, soul, dreams, vision. Holding each other up through the hard times, and embracing each other’s enthusiasm through the great ones.
Maybe it will carry on that way into the next lifetime.
But for now, make the best of this one.
If you haven’t already asked your person, but you feel that burni...
June 15, 2020
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June 13, 2020
I’m so glad our souls winked at each other that day.
Destiny can be a bit funny sometimes.
The paths each one of us are on have different ways to make us meet someone at a certain time, and we may not always understand why in that moment.
You may feel an instant connection with someone you meet.
You may meet someone and not develop that sense of connection until some time later.
We never really know until we let ourselves flow, and there’s beauty in that. Until some part of us opens a door and we step through it or someone else loo...
June 12, 2020
Lean in closer, look deeper, hold tighter, kiss longer.
Life is precious, and love makes it even more so.
Lean in closer to your person.
Look deeper into their eyes.
Hold them tighter when you can.
Make that kiss last longer, because…
June 11, 2020
There’s no need to rush things.
Passionately rushing into something new can often create confusion, and some pain in the long run. How long can a relationship truly last without all the other elements like deep listening, gentleness, empathy, and that sacred silence of simply holding each other, letting your souls speak to one another?
Mature love means looking at the whole picture so we can be better equipped to handle what we’re creating together. Whilst some may say that life is short and you need to make the most of...
June 10, 2020
That moment when they hut your heart with theirs.
You know that feeling (and if you don’t know it yet, I hope you feel it soon)… the gentle warmth that starts in your stomach and rises to your heart. That soft-burning fire that fills every part of you with love.
THAT kind of hug. The one you never want to end but infuses your whole being and you feel it even when your person isn’t wrapping their arms around you, because they’ve reached deeper, wrapping your heart with theirs.
It’s precious to be with someone like that, isn’t it?
Love is the ultimate abundance.
When we tap into the infinite source of love, it catalyses everything in our life. It’s our personal vortex of creation. The energy of loving yourself, loving your partner, being in love, creates and attracts a whole set of circumstances that we sometimes deem magical, inexplicable, but oh so wonderful.
And to share this with someone who also approaches life from the heart is the greatest treasure of all.
No amount of social standing, money, material things or other achievements can ev...
June 6, 2020
Have the heart to heart conversation.
Speaking from the heart doesn’t always come easy for everyone, and we’ll often do it in different ways. But when it comes down to what we really feel, it’s important to be able to voice it. And most of us have never been taught to speak from this place with confidence. We learn this through the soft touches and hard knocks of life.
Some of these conversations are easier than others. Whether it’s “I love you,” “I want to be with you,” “I have strong feelings for you but I’m not sure how to...
June 5, 2020
I don’t need you, I want you. Big difference.
When we fall in love, it’s normal to feel or say things like “I can’t live without you,” “I need you in my life,” and all those wonderful things that make the other person feel desired, and vice versa. To some degree, we do “need” that, but… if it doesn’t evolve from that then there can be issues later on.
If we come from a place of “I need you,” one can often confuse lust with love. It can imply some form of codependency. It may mean someone is filling their needs but not fulfilling your...
