The best way to shut down a discussion is to become offended.
Taking offense halts the distribution of ideas, and any further interactions are clouded by one or both parties trying not to cause further offense, or steeling themselves against perceived onslaught.
And that’s the issue: the onslaught is perceived, not legitimate.
An insult about our religion, politics, families, opinions, or some other aspect of ourselves can seem like a truly heinous act in the moment, but ask yourself: is it real...
Published on October 16, 2012 07:14