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Why You Are Where You Are

Last Sunday I visited Downtown Baptist Church in Alexandria, Virginia. To be honest, what attracted me to the church wasn’t its sanctuary (although it’s lovely) or the upcoming sermon topic (the Apostles’ Creed). It was the sign that stood like a sentinel near the entrance to the church’s parking lot. Parking for Church Members Only, it said. All others will be baptized. 

When I mentioned the sign to my daughter, who lives nearby, she said, “Oh yeah. We’ve visited there before. It’s a good church.” So that’s where I went for Sunday worship. 

I appreciated the church’s tongue-in-cheek, somewhat snarky humor. The church was laughing at itself, and that’s a good thing. We’d all be happier if we could laugh more. 


The pastor, Phil Faig, said something more profound than the church's clever parking lot sign. His words continued to resonate with me long after I drove my legally-parked, non-baptized car from their parking lot: 

“Our jobs are our platforms to do missions in the world around us.” 

Consider this for a minute. 

Our jobs (think beyond what we do to earn money, although this is part of it. Think about the circumstances and situations in which we find ourselves in our everyday lives) are our platforms to do missions in the world around us. 

Many of us assume our jobs are our first priority. Then, once our work is done, if we have time (energy, money, desire) left over, we squeeze in a little Jesus. Like the butter beans we forgot in the microwave until dinner was almost over. 

But Pastor Phil’s sermon makes me think perhaps we’ve got it backwards. 

That maybe we need to look at life like this instead: 

I work at __________(fill in the blank) because this is the best platform to help others around me see Jesus. 

I’m in the ____________ (doctor’s office, grocery store, class room, drive through) because this is the best platform to help someone here see Jesus. 

I am where I am because this is the best platform to fulfill God’s command to share the good news of Jesus with those I encounter. 

This perspective could revolutionize our daily living. 

What if I live in my neighborhood/apartment/dorm because it best positions me to do missions? 

What if I’m eating in this particular restaurant being served by this particular waitress because it best positions me to do missions? 

What if I’m in this traffic jam because it best positions me to do missions to the drivers around me? 

What if I’m on this plane/bus/train/sidewalk because it best positions me to do missions to the people I encounter? 

When I adopt this perspective, I find myself seeing – really seeing – the people around me. Not as inconveniences, hindrances, distractions, or (worse) invisible, but as people with eternal souls that God wants to minister to – through me. 

That kind woman who noticed my backpack was unzipped in the boarding line at the airport? Maybe God had positioned me in front of her (and across the aisle on the plane) so I could do missions in her life. So instead of plugging in my ear buds and zoning out, I smiled and asked her where she was going. 

“To Hartford. To visit my family and interview for a graduate program,” she said. We didn’t talk long, but as we gathered our luggage and prepared to part, I handed her my ministry card. 

“I’ll say a special prayer for your interview,” I said, and I did. 

The aesthetician who coached me through my first ever head and foot massage (a birthday gift from my daughter and son-in-law)? Perhaps this special treat wasn’t just to bless me. Maybe God was positioning me to do missions in this woman’s life. 

“Sometimes when I’m quiet and relaxed,” I told her. “I pray. Is there anything I can pray for you about?” Her answer told me volumes (and gave me lots to pray about while she rubbed my feet with orange-scented oil). 

That challenging child/adult/parent/customer/patient? Maybe God has positioned me in their life to do the mission he’s called me to do as a disciple of Christ. 

How often do we see our work, our circumstances, our responsibilities, and our recreation as separate from our spiritual callings? What if, instead, we realized that one enables the other? 

Imagine the possibilities. 

Now it’s your turn. How has your work, circumstances, or responsibilities positioned you to do God’s mission in the lives of those around you? Leave a comment below and share your story. IF you’re reading by email, CLICK HERE to visit Hungry for God online and join the conversation.






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"When we see you, we see lunch."

 “When we see you,” the dark-skinned man with the wide smile said, “we see lunch.”

My friends and I laughed, and the man joined in, but later, as I pondered his statement, I realized the truth of his confession.


David and I and two other couples were visiting Nassau, Bahamas, the second stop on a five-day cruise. David and I will be married 35 years this December, and we’d chosen to take an inexpensive cruise out of Charleston, SC, to celebrate. We worked extra days, saved for months, and chose an interior cabin with no window to afford the splurge.

Thinking we knew what frugal living looked like, our tour guide’s comment caught us by surprise. It was sobering and convicting.

Our ship was one of five docked in the port of Nassau that day. As we entered the sea of people exiting the port and making their way onto the island, sights and sounds overwhelmed us.

“Taxi, mon? Come see the famous hotel, Atlantis! I’ll take you there.”

“Hair braiding, beautiful lady? Let me fix your hair!”

“Tours of the city! Cabbage beach! Straw Market! Señor Frogs!”

Everywhere we turned someone was hawking their wares, offering a service, or trying to outshout the vendor beside him.

In typical American fashion, my friends and I ducked our heads, avoided eye-contract, and plowed through the clamor.

Until we realized we had no hope of seeing the sites on our own. The streets were too congested, and the map we had downloaded too obscure.

“Would you like a tour of the city?” a soft-spoken woman in a bright-colored top asked us. “I can get you a taxi to fit your group. It will be private – just you six.”

At our relieved nods, she gestured to her partner, the man with the wide smile. Within minutes we were tucked safely into an air-conditioned van weaving through traffic on our way to our first stop.

“I appreciated the way your partner approached us,” I told the driver. “Americans don’t like to be pressured. It makes us want to run the other way.”

“It can be crazy,” he acknowledged. “Today there are five cruise ships in port. Sometimes there are two. Sometimes none. On those days we don’t work.” He paused. “You have to realize, when we see you, we see lunch.”

We laughed, and soon he was regaling us with tales of the island. But back on the ship, deciding between six dining options for our evening meal, his words returned to me.

What would it be like to wonder if I’d eat today? Or to gather around the dinner table and leave hungry? To begin each day hoping I’d earn enough money to meet my most basic needs and, some days, to fail?

My husband and I encountered similar circumstances on a mission trip to Mexico. Wanting to use our money to help ease the poverty we saw, we patronized the shops and restaurants owned by families who attended our missionary friends’ church plant. At one kiosk, our group ordered smoothies. Within minutes the proprietor handed us seven frosty drinks. The rest of the group waited, and waited, and waited for their beverages.

“What’s the hold up?” I asked the missionary who had helped us order.

“They’ve taken the money you paid them and gone to buy more cups and fruit,” she said. At my puzzled look, she explained. “At the end of each day, if they’ve made a profit, their family eats that night. They keep only enough money back to fill the first few orders the next day.”

Stories like these make me realize how little I know about real need. Our family has had its share of lean times. Unemployment, sickness, and unexpected expenses have caused us to go without and do with less, but we’ve never wondered where our next meal was coming from.

In prosperous countries, many of us forget the poor exist. Jesus reminds us to remember them. To give to those less fortunate. To look for ways to serve "the least of these."

To us, being poor may mean choosing red-rind bologna instead of nitrate-free turkey on our sandwiches. Unless a homeless person stumbles across our path, most of us move through our comfortable, middle-class days and forget half the people in the world subsist on less than three dollars a day. But living in a prosperous country doesn’t absolve us of our responsibility to the poor, it reinforces it.

If you, like I, want to be more intentional about ministering to the poor, here are a few suggestions:

    Begin with your local church. Is there someone who’s working hard but struggling to make ends meet? How can you come alongside them? Give an anonymous gift to help with a specific need? Send a single mother’s child to church camp? Buy someone a set of tires or mail a grocery store gift card? If you’re not sure who might have a need, ask your church leadership. 
      
  Donate to a reputable ministry that ministers to the poor in your community. Consider the Salvation Army, a homeless women’s shelter, or a local food pantry.
  Donate to a ministry that provides international aid to families in crisis. Samaritan’s Purse is often the first on the ground following a disaster or international incident. Sister Freda Robinson in Kitale, Kenya inspires me and makes me cry every time I receive an update on what she’s doing to help the poor. Watch this short video if you dare. If you're reading by email, click HERE to learn more about Sister Freda's ministry. I give to her ministry through Guidelines International.Perhaps you might, too.




“The poor you will always have with you,” Jesus said, and with this truth comes an obligation. And a privilege.

Our taxi ride through the streets of Nassau showed me sparkling water, sandy beaches, and historic places. It also reminded me that many of the people in our world awaken to an empty stomach and no sure way to fill it.

In God’s grand plan, he chose us to be the ones with clothes on our backs, food in our pantries, and discretionary income to use for his glory. How will we spend it? And will He be pleased?




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Mouse-colored Mornings – A New Perspective on the Wintry Seasons of Our Lives

 Because my body is a solar-powered, energy-guzzling consumer, I hate winter. Like a cell phone with a battery that reads 23%, I start shutting down all but the most necessary functions when the sun doesn’t shine. Languishing in Energy Saver mode from November to March, I hunker down until that magic yellow orb reappears, and I can recharge.
Until then, my output is negligible and my productivity tanks.
I always bemoan what winter does to the landscape. Leaf-laden trees become anorexic skeletons. Indigo sky bleaches to institutional grey. The fiery sun dims and cools.
Three seasons of the year, in the pond behind my house, geese squabble, frogs sing their off-key chorus, and a choir of song birds practice their Sunday specials. In winter, however, the pond is silent.
The foliage, normally lush with a thousand shades of green, is barren and uninspiring. The yellow jasmine parading across my back fence languishes, a debutante minus her necklace of butter-colored blossoms. Stocky azaleas hunker down, buds closed tightly against the cold, dreaming of the day their cotton candy flowers will swell and bloom. Only the flame-shaped Bradford pear dares to show off, but its snowflake petals do nothing to color the landscape.
Today, sighing at yet another mouse-colored morning, God gave me a different perspective. Like when my optometrist clicks a lens in place and my near-sighted vision clears, I saw what I’d been missing all along.
When winter alters the landscape:
I see what has been hidden. Without the blanket of leaves covering the branches of the oak tree in my backyard, I can see the circumference of the pond. Last year’s birds’ nests. The dog that barks for his breakfast in my neighbor’s yard each morning.
I see people I’ve never seen before. Somehow, between last winter and this, a house has sprung up beside the pond. Maybe the neighbors who lived in the little home have upgraded. Or a new neighbor has settled in.
I see new tasks and assignments. Without their leaves, I can see the skeleton shapes of the trees that border my property and the bushes that line my flower beds. Some branches are dead. Others are weak. Some are unruly. I realize they need the attention of my pruning shears to be healthy.
I see a different beauty. The beauty of the oak tree’s frame. The also-beautiful shades of grey, brown, and white that sunshine blinded my eyes to. The blossoms of cold-loving plants that wither in the warmth of summer.
Winter seasons of life (illness, grief, sorrow, loneliness, need) can similarly reveal things we’ve never seen before:
What has been hidden from us. When grief or loss, fear or failure strip our days, looking outward as we look inward allows us to see the framework of faith that supports our lives. We see glimpses of God’s grand plan and remember this world is not all there is. We see the evidences of God’s love and care we missed in the days of prosperity.
People we’ve never seen before. The winter of grief introduces us to others who are mourning. Some we can learn from, others we can minster to, still others will walk the path with us. The icy clutch of illness drives us to places where sick people gather. There we can find help, friendship, and an opportunity to share the reason for the hope that lies within us. The dark days of need, or loneliness, or fear invite us to embrace life-sustaining truths, not only for ourselves, but for those who share our struggles.
New tasks and assignments. God has birthed many a ministry in the frozen wasteland of trial. Second Corinthians 1:3-5 reminds us God wastes no suffering. If we learn the lessons well, often (always) he’ll allow us to redeem our pain by easing someone else’s. Looking at our new normal through faith eyes reveals opportunities to serve God and others. Can we sprinkle faith seeds on barren ground? Gently snip a false or damaging belief from someone’s faith tree? Fertilize fledgling spiritual growth? Realizing this trial is not all about me frees me to accept and steward the new assignments a winter season brings my way.
A different beauty. In a winter season of life, God will often give us altered perception. The ability to see that even ugly things can be beautiful if we look closely. In God’s upside down economy, he brings “beauty from ashes” and “puts a new song in our heart." The dark days of parenting a prodigal helped me see the illuminating beauty of prayer. The icy winds of illness revealed to me the warm beauty of caring loved ones. The leanness of need showed me the ample beauty of daily provision.
Today the winter winds blow cold, and rain blankets the landscape. Tomorrow the sun may shine. Regardless, I will embrace the day, the one the Lord has made. Winter or summer, with God’s help, I will discover formerly hidden things, see people I’ve never seen before, find new tasks and assignments, and marvel at a different kind of beauty. Winter lasts for a season. Spring always comes. God never stops working.
If you’re in a winter season today, squeeze every bit of God’s goodness out of it. Don’t waste your pain. God is not only in it, he is orchestrating the details for your good and his glory.




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When Faith Becomes Complicated

Would you say your life has gotten more or less complicated as time goes on? 

I suspect most of us would say, “More.” 

Take child rearing, for example. We didn’t realize when we brought our three-day-old baby home from the hospital that caring for the needs of a newborn is rather simple. Keep them warm, dry, and fed. That’s pretty much it. 

Now consider the needs of a teenager. Without even listing their needs (which I considered doing, but it made my head hurt), you’ll agree they’re far more complex than the needs of a newborn. 

What about our professions? 

When I was 12 years old, I delivered newspapers. Now I write for them. Waaaaay more complicated than picking up a paper, stuffing in an ad circular, and flinging it in a customer’s door. 

For years, I thought the faith life also grew more complicated as time passed. 

When I was a new believer, the faith life was quite simple. Trust and obey. Trust God with every area of my life – my decisions, my direction, my destiny. Obey his word. As best I can, with the Holy Spirit’s help, obey what he tells me to do through the Bible, sermons, and the input of godly men and women. 

But then it got complicated. 

I learned big words like election and predestination. Propitiation, regeneration, and sanctification. Legalism, hedonism, and sectarianism. I grew bogged down with head knowledge but didn’t experience much practical growth. I learned a lot, and thought a lot, but not much of what I discovered translated into practical Christian living. 

Then the tide turned. 

I committed to read my Bible through in a year. (It took me 15 months.) The more I read, the more I learned. Theology, yes, and a greater understanding of how God’s plan of salvation worked itself out through the ages. How grace and law danced in perfect partnership. 

But more than that, I learned about the heart and nature of God. 

I heard him express his pleasure in us, his creation, when he declared, “It is very good.” 

I heard him weep as he slaughtered the first innocent lamb to cover Adam and Eve’s sin. 

I heard his heart crack open as he banished the man and woman from the Garden and sentenced them to work “by the sweat of their face.” 

My journey through the Bible showed me how God set before his people every blessing and promise imaginable – theirs for the taking – if they would simply walk with him all the day of their lives. 

“This day I call the heavens and the earth as witnesses against you that I have set before you life and death, blessings and curses. Now choose life, so that you and your children may live,” God pleaded with his people (Deuteronomy 3:19). 

And I read the unimaginable horrors of what life in rebellion to God looks like. Because God is a righteous and just God, he had to punish sin. And he did, when his people rejected the thousand second chances he mercifully extended and flaunted their sin in his tear-stained face. 

As I’ve journeyed through the Bible year after year, I’ve learned that the Christian life isn’t complicated after all. It’s really quite simple. 

I’ve come full circle to the mantra of my early days: Trust and obey. 

Trust God with every area of my life – my decisions, my direction, my destiny. Obey his word. As best I can, with the Holy Spirit’s help, obey what he tells me to do through the Bible, sermons, and the input of godly men and women. 

A scene unfolded outside my window recently that summed up what I’ve learned. 

An elderly grandfather and his tiny granddaughter walked down the road. They held hands, which wasn’t hard, because the grandfather’s stooped back brought his hand to the perfect height for his granddaughter to grasp without stretching. 

Their pace was matched, toddling and shuffling in awkward tandem. As they walked, they stopped to marvel at a dandelion, a butterfly, a neighbor’s friendly cat. Delighting in the simple wonders, they were more similar than their eighty-year age gap might allow. 

This grandfather, the CEO of a successful company in his prime, had come full circle. 

Following the footsteps of a tiny girl, wide-eyed with toddler wonder, he was relearning the joy of simple truths. 

The same is true of the faith life. When you strip away dialogue and the diatribes, the theology and the theoretical, what’s left are these simple truths: Trust and obey. 

Perhaps this is why Jesus asserted, “Unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven” (Matthew 18:3). 

If you’ve wandered from the simple path and find yourself snarled in a tangle of complexity, open your Bibles and your heart. 

Become like a little child. 

Trust and obey. 




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All God's Creatures and What They Teach Us

When my husband and I were newly married, I tried to convince him I could live a long and happy life without a dog. He knew better, and soon we were doggie parents. Our first amazing dog, Polly, was a buff-colored Cocker spaniel. 
Once Polly showed us that no human should walk through life without a furry companion, we adopted Winston, a red-haired, freckled-faced puppy boy.

Through our precious pets, like JuJu the peach-faced Lovebird and my boss's Boykin spaniel puppy, Grover; neighborhood squirrels, geese, and frogs; domestic animals like sheep, and wild animals like swallows and meerkats, I've learned that God often reveals himself through his furred and feathered creation. 
Guideposts agrees and has included fifteen of my most profound God/animal moments in their brand new devotional, All God's Creatures . You can read about it below. If you love animals and God like I do, you'll want to own this volume and share a copy with your critter-loving friends. Click HERE to order and share All God's Creatures.
DEEPEN YOUR FAITH THROUGH ALL GOD'S CREATURES
Animals are God's gift to humans. They are instruments of His Grace blessed with a special gift for comforting us when we are down, fillinf us with joy at just the right moment, and encouraging us on our walk of faith. That's why Guideposts created  All God's Creatures. As Edward Grinnan, Guideposts Editor in Chief said, "All God's Creatures will touch your soul and draw you closer to God Who created us all."

DEEPEN YOUR FAITH THROUGH ALL GOD'S CREATURES
Animals are God's gift to humans. They are instruments of his grace blessed with a special gift for comforting us when we are down, filling us with joy at just the right moment, and encouraging us on our walk of faith. That's why Guideposts created  All God's Creatures.
As Edward Grinnan, Guideposts Editor in Chief said, "All God's Creatures will touch your soul and draw you closer to God Who created us all."

This beautiful new devotional begins in May to capture that joyous feeling that fills each one of us when spring arrives and warmer weather pushes out the dreary days of winter. Spring officially arrives in March, but May is when all of God's Creatures burst into life with the sweet vibrations of spring. It's the perfect time for a new devotional that brings you a refreshing new way to spend time in His Word.  PLUS you'll receive four beautiful, custom-designed Note Cards with envelopes FREE - Guidepost's gift to you.








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What I'm Really Good At -- A Confession

 If you asked me to name something I’m really good at, you know what I’d say? 


Worrying. 

I’m really good at worrying. I mean, really, really good. I can worry while I work, cook, clean, shop, bathe, even sleep. One morning this week I woke up from a very scary dream – about something I’d been worrying about. 

You have to be very, very good at something to be able to do it in your sleep.So it’s official. I’m very good at worrying. 

Sad thing is, I thought I’d conquered worrying. I came to Christ many years ago in large part because of my propensity to worry. As an 18-year-old high school senior, I worried about everything. The past, the present, the future. I’d worry about what hadn’t happened, what could happen, and what had happened. 

My inability to control the circumstances of my life humbled me and made me realize how much I needed a great, big, powerful, loving God to control my life. 

Shortly after I surrendered control of my life to God (he already had it anyway, but it was important for me to acknowledge this), I learned that worrying is a sin. Philippians 4:6 says: “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.” 

So if God says, “Do not be anxious (i.e. worry),” and I worry, I’m sinning.And I really don’t want to sin. It hurts me. It hurts others. And it hurts God’s heart. 

So, little by little, I learned to surrender to God the things that frightened me. And I found him faithful. 

Most of the things I worried about never happened. Those that did taught me valuable lessons about God’s ability to care for and provide for me. Every time I trusted God with something instead of worrying, several things happened. 

First, I didn’t feel as anxious. This is huge. Did you know anxiety can cause a multitude of physical ailments including (but not limited to) headaches, dizziness, depression, stomach aches, nausea, diarrhea, loss of appetite, a weakened immune system, muscle tension, and insomnia? 

In contrast, Philippians 4:7 promises when I pray instead of fret, “the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” 

Second, I felt happier. Let’s be honest. It’s hard to be happy when you’re fretting over something like a dog gnawing a bone. Worrying people are grumpy people. Ask my husband. Or my kids.

Third, I became a better witness for Christ. Truth be told, it’s hard to convince someone else to trust God with their life, their soul, and their eternal destiny if I can’t even trust him with that unexpected bill or sticky situation at work. 

Finally, I experienced more of God’s power. When I prayed about situations beyond my control instead of fretting about them, I invited God to work in and through the situation. Worry is like a car whose tires are stuck in the mud – the tires spin and spin and spin, expending a whole lot of energy and going absolutely nowhere. In contrast, prayer is the tow truck that hooks its mighty winch to the front bumper and pulls that hopelessly-mired car free. 

Oftentimes the very act of praying, even before God answers, lifts the heavy cloud of fear and discouragement. This allows hope and joy to break through like sunshine after a cloud burst. 

I know these truths. I’ve experienced their power. I’ve walked in the victory that comes from applying them to my life. So why do I still struggle? 

Because I am flawed and frail. 

Unfortunately, we don’t conquer sin once. We battle it. Every. Single. Day. 

As long as we wear the robe of flesh that tethers us to our earthly existence, we’ll battle the sins that so easily beset us. Worry is one of them. But be of good cheer. We have hope. 

“Thanks be to God! He gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ” (1 Corinthians 15:57). 

In Christ, we have what it takes to triumph over worry, fear, and a multitude of other sins. Every time we catch ourselves worrying and choose to pray instead, we win. And every victory makes the next victory easier. 

Like a smoke detector that senses a fire, sounds the alarm, and triggers the sprinkler system, our spirit will learn to sense fear, sound the alarm, and douse the flames of worry with a deluge of prayer. Little by little, we can conquer worry and replace it with prayer. 

Instead of being known as someone who’s really good at worrying, I want to be known as someone who’s really good at praying. I suspect you do, too. Let’s grow in this discipline together. 

Father, you are so faithful. You’ve answered thousands of prayers and never given me a reason to doubt your love and care. Help me trust you more every day. Teach me to recognize worry as soon as the first wriggle of fear manifests itself in my spirit. Help me to use the power you've given me to capture it and wrestle it to the ground in prayer. Show yourself mighty on my behalf and use me as a witness to others of your amazing love and power. In the strong name of Jesus I pray, Amen.



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Trusting God in the Faith Dance

The ballerina twirled, skipped, and leapt across the stage, captivating the audience who sat silent and mesmerized before her. The music swelled as she paused, inhaling deeply. On cue, she launched herself across the stage toward her waiting partner. Strong hands grasped her waist, raised her high overhead, and returned her to earth, a delicate feather coming to rest after its flight. 

Arms raised in triumph, she smiled, accepting the applause that rose spontaneously from the watching crowd. 

Seated in the third row, I felt the air leave my lungs with a whoosh. I’d been holding my breath, wondering if the ballerina’s partner would catch her during this all-important grand finale. 

Sometimes I feel like that ballerina. 

I’ve never studied ballet, but I’ve been dancing for more than 35 years. I’ve never strapped on toe shoes, nor have I worn a tutu. But I’ve been learning to move in harmony and partnership with the Savior who gives life and breath to every move I make. 

As a new believer, my faith steps were tentative. Could I trust this Partner I’d pledged my life to? When I turned to him in times of fear, despair, or confusion, would he remain by my side? When I followed his lead on unfamiliar paths, would he prove to be trustworthy? Committed to my good? Wise? 

My faltering steps became surer as my Partner proved, over and over again, his commitment to me. When I cried out to him in times of need, his generous hand sustained me. During periods of sorrow or grief, he became my ever-present comfort. When I felt lonely or abandoned, his still, small voice whispered truth into my ears, assuring me I wasn’t alone. 

The longer I’ve danced with my Savior, the more trustworthy I found him to be. Step by step, routine after routine, set after set, the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob has become the God of Lori Hatcher, too. Faithful. Ever-present. Unchanging. 

Over the years, day to day opportunities to trust have become routine. Other situations, however, still cause me to hold my breath. Big issues call for big trust – trust that commands both feet to leave the ground, confident that the One who has proven faithful will not let me fall. 

Like the ballerina preparing for her grand finale, sometimes I must pause, take my position, and launch. Full speed. No hesitation. No turning back. Every time I’ve done so, God has caught me. Not for my glory, but for his. 

“And without faith it is impossible to please God,” the writer of Hebrews tells us, “because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him” (Hebrews 11:6). 

I don’t know what you’re facing right now. A frightening diagnosis? A broken relationship? A financial trial? Maybe you’re gazing into an uncertain future or watching a dream die. 

Whatever lies ahead of you, choose faith. Don’t be afraid to launch yourself into the arms of our great and loving God.

He will catch you. 

Every. Single. Time. 

“I lift up my eyes to the hills – where does my help come from? My help comes from the LORD, the Maker of heaven and earth. He will not let your foot slip” (Psalm 121-1-3).



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The Faith Life -- When It Isn't What You Signed Up For

“What do you think happened to Peter?” I asked my pastor/husband. 

I’d been reading the account of the Passover week, and Peter’s loyalty to Christ stood in sharp contrast to his subsequent betrayal. At the Last Supper, Peter declared he was willing to die with Christ. When the mob came to arrest Jesus in the Garden of Gethsemane, he bravely defended Jesus. He swung a sword and chopped off a guy’s ear. Yet a little servant girl scared him so much that he swore and said he never knew Jesus. 

What happened? 

“Peter was willing to fight,” my husband said, “but he wasn’t willing to surrender his life.” 

Some days, I am Peter. I share the Gospel bravely. Defend Jesus with passion. Pledge my allegiance to the cause of Christ, and declare, “As for me and MY house, we will serve the Lord.” I want the guts and the glory.

But I’m unwilling to lay down my life. 

I want revenge when someone wrongs me. 
I expect praise when I serve unselfishly. 
I think others should set aside their preferences in favor of mine. 
I’m surprised when people mock my faith. 
I feel like God has betrayed my trust when pain and trials enter my life. 

I, like Peter, am willing to fight for Christ, but I’m not always willing to surrender to him—especially when life doesn’t turn out like I expected. 

Trials and hardships? I didn't sign up for this. 

Sickness and death? Can’t I just pray and God will spare us? 

Animosity against me because I’m a Christian? I don’t deserve this. 

Disappointments, hurts, and betrayals? This happens to the unsaved, but Christians should be exempt.  
Yet what does Scripture say? 

About trials: “In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world" (John 16:33). 
About sickness and death: “My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever” (Psa. 73:26). 
About persecution for our faith: “Remember the word that I said unto you, ‘The servant is not greater than his lord.’ If they have persecuted me, they will also persecute you” (John 15:20). 
About disappointments, hurts, and betrayals: “I gave My back to those who strike Me, And My cheeks to those who pluck out the beard; I did not cover My face from humiliation and spitting” (Isa. 50:6). 

Surrendering to God’s will, as Peter discovered, is much more difficult than fighting for God’s cause. Cowards can fight, but only the bravest surrender. 

And only when we surrender our will to God will we discover what it really means to live. 

“Whoever finds his life will lose it, and whoever loses his life for my sake will find it” (Mat. 10:39). 

Peter discovered that people experience the greatest joy imaginable when they surrender their lives to Christ. Listen to his words in 1 Peter 5:6-7: 

“Humble yourselves, therefore, under God's mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time. Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.” 

Peter learned that to truly fight for Christ, we must surrender to him. No holding back. No hedging our bets. No escape clause. No emergency chute. 
All in. 
All out. 
All his. 

Three times the gospels describe Peter’s actions: “He followed at a distance.”* 

Following at a distance caused Peter to deny Christ. 

“Just as he was speaking, the rooster crowed. The Lord turned and looked straight at Peter. Then Peter remembered the word the Lord had spoken to him: ‘Before the rooster crows today, you will disown me three times.’ . . . And he went outside and wept bitterly” (Luke 22:60-62). 

Today, will you join me not only in defending Christ, but also in surrendering our lives to him? 














*Mat. 26:58, Mark 14:54, Luke 22:54






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Please Stop Bashing the Church

Almost every day I see a social media post about what’s wrong with the church. College students are leaving by the thousands. Young adults say the church has damaged them forever. People are hurt, they’re never coming back, and they want everyone within their social media circles to leave with them. I hear you. I feel what you feel. I’ve lived some of the stories you’ve lived. But I will never leave the church. And neither should you. As kindly as possible, I have one thing to say: 

Stop bashing the church. 

I’ve been a Christian for more than 30 years. I’ve attended large churches, small churches, and medium-sized churches. My husband and I have been members, lay leaders, and staff. 

Between the two of us, we’ve served in every volunteer position imaginable, from janitor to Sunday school teacher, nursery worker to youth minister. We’ve scrubbed toilets, tables, and toddlers, and prayed, played, and paid. We’ve invested our time, money, and energy into this thing called the church, and we love it. We believe in it, and we plan to serve it until we die. 

Here are five good reasons why: 


1. Because Jesus Christ loved the church and gave himself for it (Eph. 5:25). He didn't love online communities, parachurch organizations, or social clubs. He loved the church—so much that He died for it. In my opinion, that's reason enough to stop bashing it. 

2. Because churches are made up of imperfect people like you and me. Immature, selfish, inconsiderate, and sometimes rude. Loving, caring, sacrificial, and sometimes beautiful. We are flawed and frail, but little by little, God is changing us and making us more like Jesus. You wouldn’t leave a hospital because there were sick people in it, and you shouldn’t leave the church because there are sinners in it. Sick people go to a hospital because they’re sick, and sinners go to a church because they’re sinful. The transforming power of Jesus is the only hope we have for change, and Jesus does his best work through the church. 

3. You cannot separate Jesus from the church. When Jesus left the earth, he told his disciples to remain in Jerusalem until he sent the Holy Spirit. Then he instructed his apostles to evangelize and plant churches in Jerusalem, Judea, Samaria, and the uttermost parts of the earth. Through divine inspiration he gave them instructions for church government, discipline, and worship so they could do everything “decently and in order” (1 Cor. 14:40). The book of Acts is a glorious testimony of how Christ sent disciples everywhere to establish local congregations of believers, complete with leadership and governments. 

4. People have died for the privilege of meeting together to worship God. Our forefathers dedicated their lives to birth a nation that granted its citizens the freedom to attend church. Generations of brave men and women have died on foreign battlefields to defend our religious freedoms and protect our country from godless attacks. Believers in China, Saudi Arabia, India, and North Korea risk their lives daily to meet together to worship and study the Scriptures. To forsake the free exercise of our right to assemble as a church is a slap in the face to those who long for and died for this privilege. 

5. The church was God’s idea. Jesus told Peter, “... you are Peter, and on this rock I will build my church” (Mat. 16:18). He promised to sustain and protect it, “and the gates of Hades will not overcome it.” Through salvation Christ initiated believers into a universal church, but he also placed them in local churches. As in the book of Acts, he continues to grow the church. “And the Lord added to the church daily such as should be saved” (Acts 2:47). 

I know atrocities have been committed through the ages in the name of God and the church. Some churches have strayed from the tenets of Scripture and morphed into cultic caricatures as far from the true church as cardboard façades are to marble mansions. Ministers and churches have neglected their duties, betrayed their members’ trust, and abused their power. Congregants have wounded their sisters and brothers with cruel actions diametrically opposed to the teachings of Scripture. 

Much wrong has been done in and through the church, but thousands of good, pure, sacrificial, and lovely acts have also been done. These actions trump and triumph over Satan’s pitiful attempts to misuse, malign, and misrepresent the Bride of Christ. 

We need the church (Acts. 12:5, Heb. 10:24-25). Now more than ever, in a culture increasingly hostile to people of faith, we need each other. Persecution is coming, and like the unsuspecting lamb is vulnerable to a wolf’s attack when it wanders from the flock, so are we dangerously unprotected from Satan’s schemes when we forsake our flock and go it alone. 

The church is vital to help us grow in our faith, hold us accountable, pray for us, and help us in our time of need. If you've ever experienced the love of a local church during a time of tragedy, sickness, or loss, you know there is no greater expression of God's care on earth than that of a body of believers rallying around its own. 

In our 30+ years as believers, local churches have support us when my husband lost his job, counseled us when our family struggled, and comforted when we experienced the deaths of two sisters, a brother, and a grandmother, all in the same year. 

But not only do we need the church, the church needs us (1 Cor. 12:28). God could easily do his work on earth by himself, but he chooses to let us be part of it. By serving others through a local church, we participate in the work he's doing in the world. As we spend our time, money, and energy serving others, God blesses us in ways we could never imagine. Best of all, we become the hands and feet of Jesus. 

Is there a lot wrong with the church? Yup. But there’s also a lot wrong with us. Until we reach perfection (which won’t happen on this earth), can we legitimately hold a body of similarly imperfect believers to a standard we can never hope to attain? 

If you attend a local church that loves God deeply, serves God sacrificially, and shares God liberally, rejoice. If you attend a church that falls short of Christ’s plan for his body, extend grace, forgive as you’ve been forgiven, and look for ways to make it better. And if you honestly feel there’s too much wrong in your local congregation to redeem, find another place to worship. God’s people are everywhere, and they’ll be glad to welcome you in. 

But whether you choose to stay or choose to go, 

please, stop bashing the church.  



This article first appeared on Crosswalk.com, June 1, 2016.




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Knowing God Like a Surfer -- A Guest Post by Jean Wilund

Today I invite you to welcome my friend and writing partner, Jean Wilund to Hungry for God. Jean's passion for the Word of God, for excellence in writing, and for humor make her one of my favorite writers. Thanks, Jean, for sharing your thoughts with us!
Waimea Bay on the north shore of Oahu, Hawaii hosts the spine-crunching big wave surf competition known as The Eddie.Before this invitational can be scheduled, the waves must be at least 20 feet high. This easily translates to surfing a 40-foot wall of water that wants to crush you.That’s where our daughter took us to spend the day body surfing. To the home of the Eddie.The Eddie.That’s why, on that warm December day, when everyone ran in, I ran away.Fear the WaveThe waves weren’t even close to Eddie-worthy that day, nevertheless, I wasn’t about to let them pummel me like they did that one lady. They tossed her about like a puppy with a chew toy.The number of souls who dove into those waves astounded me. The ones who commanded them mesmerized me.They rode with confidence and joy, as if they had no idea they were riding at the mercy and within the grip of a liquid sledgehammer.Confidence like this comes either from sheer stupidity or great knowledge.Those who live to ride again most likely fall into the latter group.
Fear Can Be a Good ThingThe best surfers—and wisest—approach the crushing power of big waves with fear.Not the run-shrieking-for-your-life type of fear I feel when I face waves, but the well-founded awe and respect type of fear.They study and know waves—really know them. They memorize their mechanics, the effects of wind and topography on how they develop, and the impact of their break on the human body.A surfer needs to be able to anticipate a wave’s every movement if he wants to master it.And go where others fear to tread.
Eddie Would GoEddie Aikau, Waimea Bay’s renowned big wave surfer and lifeguard, inspired not only the surf invitational, but also the phrase, “Eddie would go,” because he would go after waves others wouldn’t risk.In big wave surfing, things can go horribly wrong really quickly.Surfers who aren’t prepared will likely panic and put themselves into an even more dangerous situation.Prepared surfers like Eddie remain calm and patient. They’re more likely to come out of the crisis with their lives intact—and actually enjoy the ride.But even the strongest and brightest surfers can fail and lose it all.Despite having saved over 500 swimmers and surfers in his career, Eddie lost his own life out at sea. After the ocean voyaging canoe he and others were piloting capsized about twelve miles from shore, he paddled out on his surfboard to get help. He was never seen again.Life is Like SurfingLike surfing, life can be an unpredictable and thrilling ride. But it can go horribly wrong quickly.Even the strongest and brightest can fail and lose it all.No matter how learned we are or how great our support team is, we can’t control waves –or life.We can respond using our education and our mad skills when trouble hits, but in the end, we can’t force waves or life to conform to our will.  May You Be Strengthened with All PowerWhat we know and believe about God determines our ability to respond properly when life crashes over us.If we don’t know God or the truth of His nature and character, we’re likely to misunderstand what He’s doing. We’ll either view Him as cruel or as powerless.But if we’ve studied Him to know Him—truly studied to know Him—through the Bible and not simply our experiences or others, we’re best able to ride out the wave. We’ll rest in His strong arms, confident in what we know about Him.Even as life crashes down, we can remain calm and obey Him, knowing God has the power to bend all things to His will for His glory and our good.We’ll be strengthened with all power according to His glorious might for all endurance and patience with, yes, even joy.Cowabunga!May you be strengthened with all power
according  to his glorious might 
for all endurance and patience with joy. 
–  Colossians 1:11

Jean Wilund is a writer, Bible teachers, and speaker passionate about coffee, comedy, and Christ. She blogs at www.JeanWilund.com to help women fall in love with God and His Word and laugh while doing it. She lives in Lexington, SC, with her husband. Their children live scattered across the country. 
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