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Are You Praying for a Prodigal? Here’s Hope

I recently had the opportunity to talk with Leighann McCoy, of PrayerClinic.com. During our conversation, we talked about an article I wrote that originally appeared on Revive Our Hearts. In the article, I share six truths we can cling to while praying for a prodigal—a friend, a child, a loved one who isn’t walking with God. I encourage you to take heart from these truths (and listen to the episode (CLICK HERE) for solid encouragement from God’s Word as you pray, wait, and trust.

6 Truths to Cling to While You’re Praying for Your Prodigal

If you’re the mother of a prodigal, you may know Psalm 56, or at least verse 8, by heart. David prayed these words during what was likely one of the darkest and most frightening times in his life. “Put my tears in your bottle,” he cried. “Are they not in your book?”

David fought a national enemy—the mighty Philistines, but his words could belong to any one of us who grieve a much more personal “enemy”—one that is bone of our bone and flesh of our flesh—our prodigal children.

“Be gracious to me, God, for a man is trampling me,” David cried, “he fights and oppresses me all day long” (Psalm 56:1 CSB). David fought his battle with slings and spears, but our conflict is no less fierce. Someone we love more than life itself has turned their back on God and possibly on us as well. 

We wonder how our heart continues to beat as it’s pummeled by blow after crushing blow. We cry ourselves to sleep and cry ourselves awake, tormented by “what ifs” and every new revelation of our child’s sin. A thousand bottles couldn’t contain the oceans of tears we cry. A million journal pages couldn’t capture the fear and disappointment we feel. 

Yet God promises that He sees the tears we cry. He knows the pain we suffer.

We are not alone.

If you’re experiencing the soul-crushing heartbreak of a prodigal child or loved one, allow me to share six truths to cling to while you pray.

1. God weeps for prodigals too.

Jesus wept over His beloved Jerusalem, the City of David. He longed to gather His rebellious children close and provide the help they desperately needed but refused to accept. “Jerusalem, Jerusalem,” He lamented, “who kills the prophets and stones those who are sent to her. How often I wanted to gather your children together, as a hen gathers her chicks under her wings, but you were not willing!” (Luke 13:34 CSB). 

God weeps for our children too. He weeps for them out of sorrow and for you out of empathy. He knows us so intimately that every tear we shed has meaning to Him. And while we agonize over the outcome of our children’s choices, He knows that one day He will wipe every tear from our eyes. No longer will we experience death or mourning, crying or pain (Rev. 21:4).

2. God is sovereign over rebellion.

The rebellious prophet Jonah ran as hard as he could away from God. He wanted nothing to do with God’s plan for his life.



“Jonah got up to flee to Tarshish from the LORD’S presence” (Jonah 1:3 CSB).

But God saw him and pursued him.

“But the LORD threw a great wind onto the sea, and such a great storm arose on the sea that the ship threatened to break apart” (v. 4). 

God chastised Jonah.

“The LORD appointed a great fish to swallow Jonah, and Jonah was in the belly of the fish three days and three nights” (v. 17). 

And He drew Jonah back.

“As my life was fading away,” Jonah prayed from the belly of the fish, “I remembered the LORD, and my prayer came to you, to your holy temple” (2:7 csb). 

God knows exactly where your child is. He has the power to engineer circumstances large and small to pursue your child and draw him or her to Himself. Sometimes the goodness of God leads men to repentance (Rom. 2:4), and sometimes His judgment breaks their stony wills. We can trust God to know which is most effective. 

3. There’s only one perfect parent.

At night the voices whisper loudly. You lost your temper—a lot. You didn’t pray every day. You didn’t take her to church often enough. You took her to church too often. You sent him to public school. You sent him to Christian school. You homeschooled her. It’s all your husband’s fault; if you’d married someone else it would have been different. It’s all your fault; if you’d been a better parent, this never would have happened.



When Satan (and your own heart) accuses you, it helps to remember that Adam and Eve had a perfect parent, yet they still chose to go their own way. James 1:14 explains how each person must bear the responsibility for his or her own choices and sin—that includes our prodigal children. “But each person is tempted when he is drawn away and enticed by his own evil desire.” 

We can’t take responsibility for that.

4. God can use the sins of others (including yours) to accomplish His purpose in your child’s life. 

If you have sinned against your child (and we all have, either intentionally or unintentionally), God is sovereign even over that sin. If someone else has sinned against your child, God is sovereign over that as well. 



Some of us came to Christ later in life and lived a godless example in front of our children. Although we’ve repented, forsaken, and asked forgiveness of God and our children, we find it hard not to blame ourselves for their rebellion. Other times we see events in our children’s lives that are outside our control and wonder if these events pushed them over the prodigal precipice. 



The story of Joseph should give us hope. Listen to what he said to his brothers as they stood before him in fear and guilt over their sinful actions toward him: “You planned evil against me; God planned it for good to bring about the present result—the survival of many people” (Genesis 50:20 CSB, emphasis mine). 



Joseph understood that while God didn’t cause the sin that changed his life forever, He was able to use the sin to accomplish something good. He can do the same for our children. 

5. Your prodigal should not steal your joy or your faith.

Some days you feel as though your heart is crushed under the weight of a thousand sorrows. You wonder if you can climb out of bed and face another day. Your mind is consumed with thoughts of your prodigal child. Where is he? Is she safe? Who is he with? These thoughts are normal and should be our impetus to pray—and pray hard. 



But if we allow our children’s rebellion to strip us of our faith and joy, we might be guilty of idolatry. Am I worshiping my children instead of worshiping God? Do I value them so much that their absence can strip me of my faith? Of my ability to experience joy? Of my desire to serve and worship God? 

 

Some of the darkest times of my parenting life have been some of the sweetest times of my spiritual life.

Some of the darkest times of my parenting life have been some of the sweetest times of my spiritual life. When I come to God broken, helpless, frightened, and weak, He meets me there. He speaks words of hope to my heart and becomes my mighty warrior. He quiets my frightened spirit and strengthens my trembling soul. Although I feel as though everything precious has been stripped away, I discover that the greatest treasure remains. This treasure is Him. 

The prophet Habakkuk describes what steadfast faith looks like: 

Though the fig tree does not bud

and there is no fruit on the vines, 

though the olive crop fails 

and the fields produce no food,

though the flocks disappear from the pen 

and there are no herds in the stalls, 

yet I will celebrate in the LORD; 

I will rejoice in the God of my salvation!” (Hab. 3:17–18 CSB). 

6. God can restore and redeem your prodigal. 

When I’m tempted to lose heart, I remember how God saved me, my husband, and millions of other rebellious people reveling in our sin and running hard away from Him. Truth is, no one seeks after God. But in kindness and love He reaches down, lifts us from the miry clay, sets our feet on solid rock, and puts a new song in our mouths—even praise to God. As He did for me, He can do for my children. No one deserves salvation, yet God freely offers and orchestrates it. 

Sometimes He uses the prayers of godly parents to bring it about.

Don’t Be Afraid to Ask

Brokenhearted mama, it’s okay to cry. But cry in the arms of your Savior. Don’t be afraid to ask Him for great and mighty things on behalf of your child. Trust Him for a miracle. 

Remember these two things:

Jesus has come to seek and to save the lost.

Nothing is too hard for Him.

To listen to Leighann and Lori’s Interview, CLICK HERE.

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Do You Believe These 10 Myths about Vacation Bible School?

When I was six, a friend invited me to Vacation Bible School at a tiny Primitive Methodist church in our neighborhood. I’m not sure why my mother said yes to the invitation. In those days Methodists and Catholics rarely crossed each other’s liturgical thresholds.Perhaps she thought since the gathering didn’t occur on a Sunday morning, it wouldn’t count against us. 



What I remember most about the experience was drinking orange Kool-Aid out of Dixie Cups, eating flower-shaped butter cookies during snack time, and memorizing Bible verses for candy. Oh, and the end-of-the-week program. I had a speaking part – two lines – which I’d learned backward and forward. Unfortunately, when my moment in the spotlight came, that’s how I delivered them – backward. 

VBS remains one of the greatest evangelistic tools for churches, reaching an estimated 3,000,000 children in 2009. At least 10 percent of those were unchurched. As you and your church look ahead toward VBS 2018, let’s take a look at ten myths about this beloved summer outreach. 

Myth #1 It’s a Southern Baptist Thing

Christianity Today, in the article, “From Beer, to Bibles, to VBS,”tells us, “It’s possible to trace the roots of VBS as far back as the 1870s, when the Methodist Episcopal Church offered summer Sunday school institutes to the general public near Lake Chautauqua, New York. 



“In 1873, Bishop John H. Vincent proposed the movement should include educational and cultural programs, and soon other Christian groups across the country followed suit with their own summer retreats, many of them offering services for children.” 



In contrast to today’s VBS, which usually lasts for five days, early gatherings often lasted all summer. While Southern Baptist churches are among VBS’s greatest supporters, it’s safe to say they happily share the fun with many other denominations. 

Myth #2 It began in the church

Vacation Bible School as we know it today began in the 1890s. Initially, it was a plan of a compassionate doctor’s wife who sensed a need to get children off the streets of New York during the summertime. “VBS – An Historical Perspective,” tells the story: “Mrs. Walker Aylett Hawes went to New York City from Charlottesville, Virginia, with her husband who was specializing in a medical ministry to children. 



She noted that many of the children attended to at her husband’s clinic received injuries as they played in the streets of New York City. She surmised that they needed something safe and fruitful to occupy their time. “In 1898 and 1899, Mrs. Hawes rented a beer hall in the city’s East Side to conduct her Everyday Bible School. Thus, Bible School began with an evangelistic thrust of taking the study to where the people were.” 

Myth #3 VBS is old-fashioned and out-dated

While some equate VBS with days gone by, Vacation Bible School has transitioned nicely into the 21st century and continues to be immensely popular. “According to a Barna studycommissioned by Gospel Light, more than two out of three churches in America (68%) offered VBS in 2012, and 91% of Southern Baptist Churches sponsored the annual event. 



In recent years, this level of involvement has remained fairly stable.” Two-thirds of the churches in America offer VBS programs. The pastors most likely to champion VBS for their churches are the Boomers, people aged 30-48. Perhaps they remember their own VBS experiences or are more likely to have VBS-aged children. 

Myth #4 Children are too young to make lasting decisions for Christ

Many express doubts about the authenticity of children’s faith decisions, saying that peer pressure or a desire to please their teachers prompt many children to “walk an aisle” or pray to receive Christ. Researchers who surveyed adults who identify themselves as born again believers, however discovered a strong link to their childhood VBS experiences. 



The Barna research study indicates “nearly half of all Americans who accept Jesus Christ as their savior do so before reaching the age of 13 (43%), and that two out of three born again Christians (64%) made that commitment to Christ before their 18th birthday. “Additionally, the trajectory for a person’s lifetime habits and behaviors—including spiritual behaviors—are often set in childhood, an idea explored in George Barna’s book, Transforming Children into Spiritual Champions.” 

Myth #5 VBS is for big churches

While it is true that large churches (more than 250 in attendance and an operating budget of $500K or more) are 91% more likely to sponsor a summer program, 56% of smaller churches do also. These statistics give a nod to the very real cost of hosting VBS. Curriculum, craft materials, and snacks all cost money, especially since the programs are usually offered free of charge to participants. 



Larger congregations also provide a greater pool of volunteers from which to draw, a significant factor in the success of such an endeavor. Smaller churches, like the one I attend, can still successfully host a VBS. 



During the year we keep an eye out for craft material sales, and have sometimes borrowed VBS curriculum from a larger church in our city. Older members who are physically unable to volunteer contribute by providing snacks and doing prep work. A special offering allows members to supplement what the church budget has allotted.

Myth #6 It’s just for kids

“VBS is also an opportunity to engage young adults in service,” says Clint Jenkin, PhD., vice president of research at Barna Group. 



“So many young adults lose their connection with a local church because they feel underutilized. Churches can give key VBS volunteer roles to young adults and college kids in their congregations. 



Colleges (or even large churches) could sponsor teams to travel the country and host VBS for churches that cannot afford or staff their own. Using young people as servants and not just consumers is an important way of establishing a faith that lasts.” 



My small church, for example, struggles to recruit enough adult workers because many members are elderly or work during the day. For several years a team of summer evangelists from Child Evangelism Fellowship has come alongside us and made it possible for us to offer a week-long program in our neighborhood. We couldn’t have done it without them. 



Some churches even offer VBS for teens and adults. Melita Thomas, in the article, “6 Things You Need to Know About Working with Adults During VBS,” says, “When we host VBS for kids only we are missing a tremendous opportunity to share God’s Word and the Gospel with older siblings and parents. If the truths being taught during VBS are important for kids then they are just as important for teens and adults. LifeWay (the leading producer of VBS materials) creates VBS resources for the entire family – babies through adults – because we believe VBS remains one of the most successful ways to evangelistically reach families and not just kids.” 



The Covington Baptist Association agrees. Listen to the logic in its article, “Reasons for Conducting Adult VBS,”  “Parents consistently show they are interested in participating in the activities of their children. Just spend a morning at a little league ball field and you will see dozens of parents actively and enthusiastically participating in their children’s activities. If given the luxury of time and resources today’s parents often desire to take an active role in their children’s extra-curricular activities. Why should VBS be any different? Given the choice, many parents will choose to attend an Adult VBS in order to stay close to their children and know what is being taught and the people doing the teaching.”

Myth #7 To be successful, it has to be big, loud, and high-tech

My children have attended VBS at a 6,000-member mega church and a tiny, 25-member church. Both experiences were significant and life-changing. One daughter, an extrovert, loved the excitement of 800 kids crowding the sanctuary of the big church we attended. The high tech sound, lighting, and drama engaged her imagination and provided oomph to the message. The sheer number of adults volunteering their time to share the story of Jesus added a weight and credibility to the faith stories she heard that week. 



My other daughter is an introvert. VBS at a large church would have been overwhelming and intimidating for her. She thrived in a small environment where everyone knew her name, and she had a chance to shine. She eagerly memorized Scripture verses every day because she knew she’d be asked to quote them one on one to her teacher. Being selected as VBS Camper of the Week was an honor she’s never forgotten and probably wouldn’t have experienced if we’d taken her to a larger program. 



The key to a successful VBS program isn’t money, facilities, or manpower, it’s dedicated believers who love God and love children.

Myth #8 VBS is just a babysitting service

For every church member who’s excited about VBS, there’s usually be one who isn’t. “People use VBS as a babysitting service,” they say. “Parents don’t care about spiritual things. They just bring their kids to get them out of their hair. And they’ll probably never come to church here, anyway.” 



These statements may be true, but this shouldn’t stop you. That unsaved or uninterested parents would entrust their children to you and allow you to share your faith with them? What an opportunity! The chance to pour spiritual truth into a culture suffocated by spiritual darkness? Priceless! The privilege of loving a child in Jesus’ name? A privilege! 



“The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me’” (Mat. 25:40). 

Myth #9 VBS isn’t effective any more

A national VBS statistics study from Lifeway, “VBS, a Most Effective Evangelism,” shares these impressive stats: 



• 25 percent of baptisms reported by the SBC (Southern Baptist Convention) come from VBS 

• Every one person trained in VBS results in 1.1 salvation decisions. 

• 10 percent of people enrolled in VBS are unchurched. 

• 2.7 million people enroll in VBS each year. 

• 72,925 people each year accept Christ as Lord and Savior. 

• 2,666 people commit their lives to church-related vocations through VBS. 

• 56,386 people enroll in Sunday School/Small Group Bible Study as a result of attending VBS. 



These stats testify to VBS’s success on many fronts. 



Would your church like to connect with more unsaved people? Host a VBS. Is it struggling to lead people to Christ? Host a VBS. Would it like to encourage people to consider full-time Christian service? Host a VBS. In whatever way your church is struggling to fulfill its mission, Vacation Bible School can be a valuable tool in its arsenal. 

Myth #10 VBS is a failure if no one gets saved.

I often wonder what conversation took place at the close of VBS in the little Primitive Methodist Church I attended so long ago. Did the men and women who volunteered that week wonder if they’d wasted their time? After all, no one had accepted Jesus as their Savior. And if success is measured by whether a participant eventually became a church member, the time they invested in me was a failure. 



Isaiah 55:11, however, promises us God’s Word never returns empty, but “will accomplish what I desire and achieve the purpose for which I sent it.” Any time we speak the Word of God, whether it’s to ten children or to a thousand, he promises to use it for his good purposes. This was certainly true in my life. 



As your church decides whether to have Vacation Bible School this year, and you choose whether to volunteer, Jesus, our example for life and godliness, exhorts us, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these” (Mat. 19:14). 

I don’t know how many people can look back at their spiritual lives and point to Vacation Bible School as an invaluable step in their faith walk. Only heaven will reveal it, but I know I can. If you’re involved in VBS this summer, may God richly bless you! 

Your Turn:

How have you or someone you know been impacted by VBS? Leave a comment below and share your story.

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Golden Words — How to Approach the Day with a Smile

Humans are negative creatures by default. We have to cultivate character traits like gratitude and appreciation. They just don’t come naturally. 

Think about it. Which is more likely to come out of your mouth – a complaint about something your kids or your husband failed to do? Or a word of appreciation for something they did? 

Consider your most recent restaurant experience. When the time came to figure the tip, did you scroll through all the ways your server met your needs or quickly list the ways she failed you? 

If I asked you to list four pet peeves in two minutes or less, could you do it? 

Oh yeah. Here’s my list:

1. People in the right lane who drive past the sign that says, “Right Lane Closed Ahead. Merge Left” until they can’t go any farther, then expect the sign-abiding people who merged left a mile ago to let them in. 

2. The automated checkout voice that prompts you (at ear-splitting decibel levels) to put the item you just scanned into the baggage area. Every. Single. Time. 

3. The certainty that if I leave my house without makeup to run to the grocery store for one item, I will meet everyone I know – on Aisle 1. 

5.  If a bird plops on my windshield, the deposit will land at eye level on whichever side of the car I’m sitting on – on the day I run out of wiper fluid. 

There, that was easy. I think it took me less than a minute to list those four gripes. 

Now, if someone asked me to list five things I appreciate, could I rattle them off as quickly? Or as passionately? Maybe not. 

Proverbs 25:11 reminds us, “A word aptly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.” I wonder, how often do our words shine like gold?

My friend Lisa is an encourager. Every time we visit, she says something that makes me feel good. Her comments aren’t just empty flattery, they’re thoughtful and timely. She’s a great example of how to use encouragement as a mighty force for good. 

Today is a new day. We get to choose whether we’ll use our words to build up or to tear down. If we want to be most like Jesus, instead of grumbling and fault-finding, we can channel our thoughts toward gratitude and affirmation. We can speak golden words that warm others with their glow. 

I began this post with a list of pet peeves. I’d like to end it with a list of things for which I’m grateful. Then perhaps you’d join me by leaving a comment sharing what you appreciate. 

If we begin each day with gratitude instead of grumbling, we’ll find it easier to carry the positive words into the rest of our day. Then we’ll be able to bless others. And isn’t that much better than griping and complaining? 

I’m thankful for: 

1. Kind smiles on strangers’ faces. 

2. Books that go beyond our hearts to touch our souls. 

3. Early morning breezes. 

4. Simple kindnesses. 

Now it’s your turn. For what are you thankful? Leave a comment below and share your thoughts. 

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If You’re Grieving Today, Here’s Powerful Comfort in a Small Package

Tender from a recent loss, I stood with the congregation as the worship leader announced the hymn for the day: “It Is Well with My Soul. He launched into the familiar story behind the song.

“Horatio Spafford’s wife and four daughters were sailing to England when a horrible storm arose. . .”

I’ve heard the story a hundred times. But that day, as I sang the words from the hymnal, I noticed something I’d never seen before: two quotation marks.

The last verse of the hymn reads:

And Lord, haste the day when the faith shall be sight,

The clouds be rolled back as a scroll;

The trump shall resound, and the Lord shall descend,

“Even so,” it is well with my soul.

A writer uses quotation marks to show he’s quoting words from another source. What was the source that brought Horatio Spafford comfort as he mourned the loss of his beloved daughters?

The Word of God

“Even so,” is a quote from 1 Thessalonians 4:13-14.

As Horatio sailed the ocean that had swallowed his children, broke his wife’s heart, and plunged him into a deep, gut-wrenching grief, the Word of God spoke hope and comfort.

But I would not have you to be ignorant, brethren, concerning them which are asleep, that ye sorrow not, even as others which have no hope. For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so them also which sleep in Jesus will God bring with him.”

God used the truth Horatio Spafford had stored in his heart to speak comfort to his broken heart.

You will see your daughters again, the Holy Spirit whispered. Grieve, but don’t grieve as those who have no hope. You believe in Christ—that he conquered death, hell, and the grave. His resurrection proved that death could not hold him. Mourn your loved ones. Mourn them deeply, but fear not. You will see them again. They rest safely in the bosom of Jesus, and he will bring them with him on the last day. 

“Even so,” it is well with my soul.

If you’re grieving the loss of someone you love today, may God give you eyes to see the familiar. May his Word give you comfort and hope.

May it be well with your soul. 

“It is in the quiet crucible of your personal private sufferings that your noblest dreams are born and God’s greatest gifts are given in compensation for what you’ve been through.” ~Wintley Phipps

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Don’t Miss the Beauty and Value of “Different”

If I’m not careful, I miss the beauty and value of different approaches, perspectives, and methods. I forget that behind the differences that separate us is God’s creative hand making each person unique for his glory and our good. 

God reminded me of this truth through an unlikely patch of dirt in my yard, a spot I refer to as

The Desert. An unfortunate corner on the eastern side of my house, this flower bed sits under both the eaves and a section of gutter that protects my yard from too much water flowing off the roof. Trust me when I say that no rain falls on this patch of earth. 

To add to the barrenness of this cubic yard of dirt, my neighbors tell me the previous owner’s basset hound used to nap there. Regularly. Not surprisingly, everything I’ve planted in this spot dies, usually a slow, painful death. 

In the first year of our home ownership, I planted one of my favorite summer annuals, hot pink, striped petunias. In less than two weeks, despite conscientious hand-watering, they became crunchier than potato chips. 

Then I tried my second-favorite summer flower, impatiens. After three weeks, all that was left were crispy brown clumps that looked more like fire starters than landscaping plants. 

Something Different

One day a friend visited from Colorado. “I brought some cactus plants from my yard. Would you like them? I’d be glad to plant them if you’ll tell me where.” 

“Sure,” I said doubtfully, “Put them in The Desert.” 

Since I’d given up on that corner of my landscape, I hadn’t given the cactus sprigs much thought until recently, when I happened to glance that way. Imagine my delight when I discovered that not only were the cactus plants still alive, they were flush with new growth. 

What was a dying wasteland to some plants was a glorious sahara to others. Instead of wasting away from lack of water like the tender petunias, the cactus grew tougher and more resistant. Instead of withering in the intense eastern sunlight like the impatiens, the sunnier it got, the more they thrived. At long last, The Desert was no longer barren. 

I Learned a Lesson

I learned a lesson from that challenging patch of earth. Instead of accepting that spot for what it was, I tried to make it something it was never meant be. Not only that, I forced my preferences upon it, ignoring (and despising) its unique nature. 

I do this with people sometimes, too. I get impatient with those who don’t act, think, or move as fast as I do. I struggle with people who approach decision-making differently than I. And I can’t imagine why everyone doesn’t see life through my perspective. 

If I’m not careful, I miss the beauty and value of different approaches, perspectives, and methods. I forget that behind the differences that separate us is God’s creative hand making each person unique for his glory and our good. 

What about you? Do you struggle with realizing that different isn’t wrong, just different? Why not join me today in celebrating the marvelous diversity God has placed in our world? Look long and hard at the person in your life whose differences most challenge you. Instead of complaining, ask God to show you the positive side of their differing qualities. 

“For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them” (Ephesians 2:10). 

Your Turn

Now it’s your turn. When have you discovered that what you saw as a negative quality actually turned out to be a positive one? Leave a comment below and share your thoughts. 

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Feeling Overwhelmed? Three Powerful Truths to Conquer the Chaos

Some days, I want to bury my face in my pillow and not get out of bed. “Life is too hard,” I say. “I can’t do it.”

I feel as if I’m drowning in a tsunami of needs. Family members with health concerns. Personnel shortages at work. Ministry needs. Volunteer opportunities. I want to do good things for good people, but most days, there just isn’t enough of me to go around. 

I’m overwhelmed.

This realization, I’ve discovered, is the first step toward a solution.

If you struggle with feeling overwhelmed, consider these three truths, found in (of all places) the book of Numbers.

3 Truths When You Feel Overwhelmed
1. Take heart. Even godly people feel overwhelmed.

Consider Moses. Tasked with leading more than a million Israelites through the wilderness to the Promised Land, Moses was the CEO, CFO, and CMO of the greatest mobilization project in history. It’s not surprising that he eventually reached the end of his ability to handle his responsibilities.

Overwhelmed by the needs of the people and their constant complaining, he lost it. Numbers 11 records his meltdown: 

“Why have you brought such trouble on your servant? Why are you angry with me, and why do you burden me with all these people? Did I conceive all these people? Did I give them birth so you should tell me, ‘Carry them at your breast, as a nursing mother carries a baby,’ to the land that you swore to give their ancestors?” (vv. 11–12)

It went downhill from there.

“Where can I get meat to give all these people? For they are weeping to me, ‘Give us meat to eat!’ I can’t carry all these people by myself. They are too much for me. If you are going to treat me like this, please kill me right now if I have found favor with you, and don’t let me see my misery anymore.” (vv. 13–15)

I don’t normally identify with Moses, but in this instance? Oh yes. A thousand times yes. 

Overwhelmed by a job that had grown beyond his ability to handle, he had reached his breaking point. Thankfully, he had the good sense and spiritual maturity to bring his needs to the Lord.

2. God will provide help, but we must accept it.

When Moses cried out to God, God provided what he needed to lighten his load. 

Listen to how God, in His kindness, responded to Moses:

“Bring me seventy men from Israel known to you as elders and officers of the people. Take them to the tent of meeting and have them stand there with you. Then I will come down and speak with you there. I will take some of the Spirit who is on you and put the Spirit on them. They will help you bear the burden of the people, so that you do not have to bear it by yourself.” (vv. 16–17)

God didn’t absolve Moses of his responsibility. He still had to work—and work hard—but God provided others to help him. Moses could have gotten prideful, felt threatened, or rejected the help God provided. Instead, he received it as a gift.

When Moses set up the legal and judicial system for the Israelites, he appointed those seventy heavenly helpers to share the load.

I’ve never had a team of seventy show up at my front door, but I’ve seen God provide assistance in unexpected ways and from unexpected sources when I cry out to Him. When He does, I must humbly and gratefully accept the help He sends. 

3. We can learn to delegate wisely.

Sometimes, we’re the only person who can handle a responsibility (marriage, parenting, etc.), but not always. And not in every area. Wise people learn to ask themselves, “Is this a responsibility only I can fulfill, or can someone else help?” 

Based on the answer, we can prayerfully delegate some of the tasks that fill our plates to overflowing. Allowing others to help in the less-essential areas helps us say no to those things that drain time and energy from our primary callings. You’re the only mother your child has, but there are others who can serve on that committee, volunteer for that ministry, or coach that sports team.

We must also take into account our season of life. Our days will look different if we’re in the years of active parenting, intense caregiving, or poor health. Young parents should have different priorities than empty nesters. Retired people have more free time than young marrieds. As the challenges of life ebb and flow, we must adjust the tasks we allow to fill our days.

Rest in His Strength

I’m grateful that the Bible records both the best moments and the worst moments of some of the heroes of our faith. These accounts provide instruction for what to avoid and guidance for what to imitate. 

Even godly people sometimes feel overwhelmed. This can be a good thing if it prompts us to re-evaluate our commitments and determine if we’re spending our best time and energy on what matters most in God’s eyes.

In the account I affectionately call “Moses’s Mighty Meltdown,” I learned that even godly people sometimes feel overwhelmed. This can be a good thing if it prompts us to re-evaluate our commitments and determine if we’re spending our best time and energy on what matters most in God’s eyes. He invites us to cry out to Him for help and enables us to accept it humbly. And He’ll help us delegate while providing the strength to do what only we can do.

I’m grateful that when God calls us to a relationship, a ministry, or a job, He promises to provide everything we need to accomplish it.

Are you feeling overwhelmed? 

That’s a good thing.

Go to Him. Seek His direction. Obey what He tells you to do. Delegate when necessary.

Then rest in the strength only He can provide.

He said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is perfected in weakness.” Therefore, I will most gladly boast all the more about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may reside in me. (2 Corinthians 12:9)

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How to Be the Kind of Friend We All Need

Your friend is in trouble. Big trouble. I’m not talking thrown-in-jail kind of trouble, although that certainly could be the case. I’m talking about life circumstance trouble. Maybe she’s struggling through cancer treatment, trying to stay strong in a fractured marriage, or battling depression. Or perhaps she’s unemployed, hopeless, or desperate. 

Even from a distance her situation seems too broken to fix. You don’t have a clue how to ease her pain. You’re powerless to change anything, and you fear that if you try to say or do something, you might trivialize her struggle. The last thing you want to do is add sorrow upon sorrow. Because you don’t know what to do, you don’t do anything. 

Which is probably the worst thing any of us can do. 

The book of First Samuel describes the biblical equivalent of one of the scenarios above. Chapter 23 opens with David running from the maniacal King Saul. Although David has conducted himself toward Saul with loyalty, courage, and integrity, Saul has treated David as an enemy. Time after time Saul mustered his army and marched out to destroy David and his followers. Although David had multiple opportunities to kill Saul, he chose not to, recognizing that Saul was God’s anointed king over Israel as long as the Lord allowed.

But David was growing weary. 

Always on the run. Separated from his family. Responsible for the men who followed him. Struggling to feed everyone. Exhausted from battle. Discouraged from persecution. Doubting God’s call on his life and wondering what’s next, David described himself in Psalm 63 as being “in the wilderness.”

Then Jonathan. 

Jonathan, the son of Saul, but the best friend of David. A righteous, God-fearing man, Jonathan balanced the weight of his lineage with the weight of his integrity. Although he remained loyal to his father until they died together in battle, he remained a committed friend of David until death also parted them. 

During one of the darkest times of David’s life, Jonathan went to him. In the wilderness. Defying his father. Disregarding his inability to change anything about David’s circumstances. Bringing nothing with him but his faith and his friendship, Jonathan entered into David’s pain and eased his sorrow. 

“Then Jonathan, Saul’s son, arose and went to David in the woods and strengthened his hand in God” (1 Samuel 23:16). 

This is what he did: 

“And he said to him, ‘Do not fear, for the hand of Saul my father shall not find you. You shall be king over Israel, and I shall be next to you. Even my father Saul knows that’” (v. 17). 

Jonathan reminded David of God’s promises. Years earlier Samuel had prophesied that David would one day be king over Israel. But it hadn’t happened yet. In the waiting years, when the path seemed to lead in the opposite direction, David may have found it easy to lose sight of God’s promises. This is why God sent Jonathan. 

When a friend is struggling, stooped under the weight of circumstances and isolated in the wilderness of trial, it’s easy for them to lose sight of God’s promises. We can remind them. 

When their dreams are dying, we can remind them that no plan of God’s can be thwarted (Job 42:2). 

When they’re battling an illness and unsure of the outcome, we can remind them though they walk through the valley of the shadow of death, they need not fear, for God is with them (Psalm 23:4). 

When they’re struggling with a broken marriage, a prodigal child, or a hopeless situation, we can remind them that nothing is too hard for God (Luke 1:37). 

Then we can pledge our loyalty and friendship, vowing to walk beside them through their trial. 

“So the two of them made a covenant before the LORD” (v. 18). 

Jonathan’s visit didn’t change David’s circumstances. Scripture tells us, “David stayed in the woods, and Jonathan went to his own house” (v. 18). But by entering into David’s pain, reminding him of God’s promises, and renewing their friendship, he “strengthened his hand in God.” 

What a gift to someone who is struggling. 

Now it’s your turn. Who in your life needs a friend like Jonathan?

Be that friend today. 

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3 Powerful Truths to Help You Pray in Victory

Samantha has been praying for her prodigal for seventeen years—not seven, seventeen. On good days, she prays in faith. On bad days, she feels like giving up.

Andrew listens to fellow church members as they share a tsunami of prayer needs during a prayer meeting, and a wave of hopelessness washes over him. So much sickness, heartache, and pain. 

Jennie’s prayer list includes friends battling life-threatening illnesses, lost loved ones, and a challenging marriage. She struggles to pray in faith. Why doesn’t God just fix everything? Why does life have to be so hard?

Praying people feel this angst. We look at our sick and broken world and wonder if it’s beyond repair. Are some people so far gone that God can’t reach them? Is cancer so powerful, are relationships so broken, are situations so complicated that they’re beyond hope? If nothing is too hard for God, why doesn’t He fix everything?

He will—one day. 

Until then, we must continue to pray in faith for His will to be accomplished on earth as it is in heaven.

Take Heart 

Take heart, weary prayer warrior. When our feelings overwhelm us and the trials of life threaten to drown us, we can look to the unchanging truths of the Bible for strength and hope.

Let’s consider three reasons to pray in faith and not lose heart.

Truth #1: God Sees

If there ever was a woman who felt unseen, marginalized, and abandoned, it was Hagar. The maidservant of Sarah, Hagar was in no position to defend herself against her master and mistresses’ mistreatment. As she collapsed in the desert while her only son languished near death, she wept (Gen. 21:8–21). 

And God heard her.

He met her in her place of need, promised to care and provide for her, and gave her hope for the future. 

He will do this for us when we cry out to Him. We may feel unseen or uncared for, but God notices every prayer we whisper and every tear that falls (Psalm 56:8). Even in the most desperate circumstances, we are never out of reach of God’s care and protection.

Where shall I go from your Spirit?

Or where shall I flee from your presence?

If I ascend to heaven, you are there!

If I make my bed in Sheol, you are there!

If I take the wings of the morning

and dwell in the uttermost parts of the sea,

even there your hand shall lead me,

and your right hand shall hold me. (Psalm 139:7–10 ESV)

Pray on. God sees.

Truth #2: God Cares

In the depths of a trial, we sometimes wonder if God cares. Does it matter to Him that your cat is dying of kidney failure or your husband isn’t speaking to you? That your best friend betrayed you and your gas tank is empty? 

Doesn’t He have bigger problems to deal with?

I suspect one of the reasons Jesus, the Son of God, took on human form and lived among us was to prepare Him to be our faithful intercessor. Because He spent thirty-three years on the earth, He can not only sympathize with us, He can empathize with us. He understands the gut-wrenching, heartbreaking, faith-trying challenges of living in this fallen world. 

He wept at the tomb of a friend (John 11). He experienced the pain of betrayal (Matt. 26:47–48). He watched friends walk away (John 6:66). Because He endured these earthly experiences, we can never say to God, “You don’t understand.” 

For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but one who has been tempted in every way as we are, yet without sin. (Hebrews 4:15)

Pray on. God cares.

Truth #3: God Will Act

We may wonder how or when God will act in response to our prayers, but we can be sure, He will act.

We may wonder how or when God will act in response to our prayers, but we can be sure, He will act. Not only act, but act wisely, mercifully, and faithfully.

Because He is sovereign, He will accomplish His will for our life.

“I know that you can do all things, and that no purpose of yours can be thwarted.” (Job 42:2 ESV)

Because He is wise and loving, He will do what’s best for us and those we love.

We know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose. For those whom he foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son. 

(Romans 8:28–29 ESV)

Because He is faithful, He will meet our deepest needs. 

For the LORD God is a sun and shield; the LORD bestows favor and honor. No good thing does he withhold from those who walk uprightly. (Psalm 84:11 ESV)

Because He is powerful, nothing is too hard for Him.

Behold, the LORD’s hand is not shortened, that it cannot save, or his ear dull, that it cannot hear. (Isaiah 59:1 ESV)

Because His timing is perfect, we can trust Him.

The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise as some count slowness.

(2 Peter 3:9 ESV)

Jesus had a long talk with His disciples. Luke captured it in the seventeenth chapter of his gospel. He recorded Jesus’ words about temptations and trespasses, the power of faith, the sick who need healing, and the events of the future. Then He told them a parable about their need to pray and not lose heart. 

He knew we’d grow overwhelmed and weary. That we’d wonder if our prayers mattered. He knew the cares of this world would sometimes overwhelm us.

He spoke these words to encourage His disciples and to encourage us:

“Will not God give justice to his elect, who cry to him day and night? Will he delay long over them? I tell you, he will give justice to them speedily” (Luke 18:7–8 ESV).

Pray on, beloved warrior, for justice, for help, for hope. 

God sees. God cares. And God will act.

You can trust Him.

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3 Simple Steps to Connect with God

The fiasco on the mountain was truly a pathetic scene. 

Desperate to prove the superiority of their false god, the prophets of Baal worked themselves into a frenzy. They danced. They sang. They called out.  

After hours of such nonsense, Elijah’s patience with their theatrics wore thin. He began to taunt them. “Shout louder!” he said. “Surely he is a god! Perhaps he is deep in thought, or busy, or traveling. Maybe he is sleeping and must be awakened” (1 Kings 18: 27) 

Humiliated, the prophets renewed their efforts to attract their god’s attention. They cried louder. They cut themselves until the blood ran in rivers down their arms. 

And heaven’s voice was silent. No thunder clap from the clouds. No bolt of lightning. No booming voice declaring their god’s presence. Just silence. And, perhaps, a snicker from the lone prophet who watched their antics with disdain. 

This big-screen showdown between Elijah and the prophets of Baal is a familiar story. Captured in all its glorious detail on the pages of 1 Kings 18, the epic battle (which wasn’t a battle after all) between the God of the universe and the gods of this world ends just as we expect it to. God displays his power with miraculous signs and wonders, vanquishes his enemies, and leads even the unbelieving to testify, “The LORD – he is God! The LORD – he is God!” (v. 39). 



But what prompted God to show up? A two sentence prayer from Elijah: 

“O LORD, God of Abraham, Isaac and Israel, let it be known today that you are God in Israel and that I am your servant and have done all these things at your command. Answer me, O LORD, answer me, so these people will know that you, O LORD, are God, and that you are turning their hearts back again” (vv. 36-37). 

Two sentences comprised of mostly one- and two-syllable words. A simple, heart-felt plea from one of God’s children. 

If you, like I, find God’s willingness to respond to simple prayers amazing, we’re not alone. The prophet Amos also marveled at how available and accessible God is. “He is here: the One who forms the mountains, creates the wind, and reveals His thoughts to man” (Amos 4:13). 

He is here. 

Think on this for a moment. The God who forms the mountains and creates the wind . . . is here. Where we are. With us. 

But it gets better. 

Have you ever sat in a room with someone who is physically here, yet a thousand miles away? Shrouded in mystery and silence, their thoughts were as incomprehensible as a Supreme Court brief to a first-year law clerk. 

But, wonder of wonder, our God isn’t like this. He doesn’t require us to employ dramatic and extreme measures to get his attention or discern his thoughts. Our mighty, all-powerful God is not only with us, but also, in the words of Amos, “longs to reveal his thoughts to us.” 

What other god is like this? 

If you, like Elijah (not the prophets of Baal) would like to experience God’s power, and if you, like Amos, want to understand God’s thoughts, it’s not hard. 

First, seek God earnestly. 

“You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart” (Jeremiah 29:13). 

Second, talk to him in prayer. Prayer isn’t elaborate or ostentatious. It’s a conversation. Moses talked to God “face to face,” and we can, too, (even though, for a time at least, we’ll have to imagine God’s face). 

“The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth. He fulfills the desires of those who fear him; he hears their cry and saves them” (Psalm 145:18-19). 

Third, allow God to speak to you through his Word, the Bible. “Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly” (Colossians 3:16). 

As we approach God earnestly, talk to him in prayer, and allow him to speak to us through his Word, we’ll come to understand his heart and mind. No shouting, dancing, or bloodletting. Just a conversation with the God of the universe who longs to reveal his thoughts to us. 

Imagine that. 

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Easter’s Over, but the Hope of the Resurrection Lives On

“Eleven steps.”

I glanced to the side as I approached the front entrance of the hospital. An elderly man, gaunt and grizzled, climbed the stairs beside me. His faded jeans were cinched together at his waist. A flannel shirt, faded soft, was tucked neatly into his waistband. His leathery skin told me he’d spent years in the sun, and his Army veteran cap told me he’d spent years serving our country.

His eyes were down, focused on the stairs. “I’ve walked up and down these eleven steps thirty-one times. But today’s the last day.” He glanced at the couple to his left, and then at me. “She’s gone home.”

I was hustling up the stairs, in a hurry to visit my dad, who’d been in ICU.

Then I felt the Spirit’s nudge.

Slow down.

I did—so quickly that the woman climbing the stairs behind me swerved.

“That’s wonderful,” I said, matching my steps to his as we entered the atrium. “That she’s going home.”

“It is wonderful,” he said. “For her.” He took a breath, winded perhaps from the climb. “But not for me.” He paused. “Sixty-two years we were married.”

His words settled between us.

“Oh, sir.” I said. “I am so sorry.”

I stopped, and he did too.

“May I pray for you?” I asked, and he nodded, then took off his hat.           

“Please do. I shore need it.”

“Tell me your name”

“Leroy,” he said.

“And what was your wife’s name?”

“Mabel.”

“Did she know Jesus, Mr. Leroy?”

For the first time, a hint of a smile tugged at his lips. 

“Know Him?” he said. “She loved Him.”

I placed my hand on his shoulder. Through the flannel, I could feel the rounded curves of his bones. We bowed our heads as people swirled around us and the automatic doors swooshed open and shut. In a holy hush, the Spirit of God drew close.

“Father, thank you for giving Mr. Leroy and Mrs. Mabel sixty-two years together. Thank you that she didn’t just know you, she loved You. We know she’s in your presence today, and this is powerful comfort. Thank you for Mr. Leroy’s faithfulness to care for his wife all the days of her life. Now, Lord, please care for him. Comfort him as he grieves, give him strength and courage to face each day. Draw ever closer to him and meet his every need according to your riches in glory. Help him know he’s not alone. In the strong name of Jesus I ask, amen.”

“Amen.”

I looked into his eyes, now moist around the edges and gave his shoulder a gentle squeeze. Another small smile, and we parted.

Alone in the elevator, I drew a shaky breath. “Thank you, Father,” I whispered to the ceiling. The tears I’d blinked back spilled from the corners of my eyes. “Thank you for the hope of the resurrection. For the comfort of your Spirit. And for Jesus, who made it possible for us to live forever—with each other and with you.”

Jesus said to her, “I am the resurrection and the life. The one who believes in me will live, even though they die.

John 11:25

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