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Demystifying the Male- 22

This segment is extra long with extra questions because there won't be one next week. I'll be at the RT Convention and KNOW I won't be organized enough to get everything set. So, be good. We'll be back 5/9.

Do you like your nipples played with?

Brian: I have to go with no. There is no pain involved when they are being licked or bitten. I guess for me it is just a weird feeling to have it done. It is hard to explain but yeah I'll go with no.

Ramrod: No, I get too ticklish.  I even have a hard time having my peck muscles rubbed if I am sore.  You have to press your hands firm and even then I can still be jumpy. 

Jose: I don’t really care if ya do or ya don’t. I rather her play with my dick!

If the woman you are dating *or whatever works here* would happen to bring a man home for a third, would you be interested?

Brian: I am gonna go with no for this one as well. I have no problem with threesomes. I have one experience with a buddy and his girl but it was just us running the train on her. I can't be with someone and just have her bring some strange guy home. Now if we have talked bout it rationally in the past and were out drinking then a big maybe. I know this is some what a loaded question cause there could be a double standard you know ladies. I guess I'm not strong enough to except it lol. Lea Note: Or, you're strong enough to admit that you're possessive? That's hot, too. :)

Jose: Nope, if I am dating naw I will pass on that. If it’s a random and she want a threesome she can bring a lady friend!! Ha, I got couple people I know that wouldn’t mind doing Eiffel tower.

Ramrod: Would I be interested if my wife brought home another man for a third.  Honestly there is a part of me that is interested by the idea.  I love seeing her pleasured and as long as there is no emotional attachment, physical only then I would be OK.  I kind of would look at it him as a sex toy for her, like a blow up doll that can talk... and fuck her back.  She would be the one to say how far he can go since it is her body.  I would of course have a few rules, If I say for him to go or never to come back he must stop immediately and leave.  We can all play at the same time but there will be no guy on guy, NO sword fights. 


What do men want us to do/not do to remind them of important things?

Brian: I personally need reminded all the time of important things.Well all things I guess. I am awful at remembering things like stuff in the short term. Now long term things I'm like a fox remembering things. I can remember useless thing so well but dates for things, ehhh not so much. You can text me email me anything so I don't forget and I won't be upset lol.

Ramrod: Just be nice about reminding me, I am easily distracted.  Don't make it feel like I can't ever remember, make it feel like you're helping me remember.  If you want to take the emotion out of it, send me a calendar reminder for my phone. 

Jose: Just tell us ha. Its simple you tell us and that’s it. 


What's one thing you wish women stopped doing, either in general or specifically to/about you?

Brian: A woman should stop asking the question "Does this make me look fat?"  There is nothing we as men can say that is in any way the correct answer. No matter what we answer we are in the doghouse.

Ramrod: Quite putting your self down. You are beautiful, quit telling yourself that you are not.  I hear so many women put words in our mouth that are not true.  What make a woman pretty is her believing she is first.  What makes it annoying is when you constantly joke about how ugly you think you are.  When a woman thinks she is beautiful she is more enjoyable to be around.  Just because a woman is not sexy to one guy doesn't mean she is not sexy to another.  I like women that have an hourglass figure with extra minutes where some guys don't.  We all have different tastes so quit assuming we are all the same.  Last, just because I might not find a woman sexy does't mean she is not beautiful.  You are beautiful, so start believing it for yourself.  

Jose: Don’t be too emotional, or chill on attitude. That’s the biggest thing to me. Just be happy and go with flow!

Lea Note: All good advice, don't you think so ladies? 

Is lingerie worth it in the male's POV? AND, what's the most appreciated lingerie? Bra, panties, thong, corset?

Jose: I like it but it's not a must. A white beater only is so sexy!! But if ya dress to impress a nice Vicky secret bra set be SEXY

Brian: Lingerie is awesome and looks great. The greatest thing though is a great pair of bra & panties. You get enough of a visual to get the juices flowing. The bra and panties do it for me.  Now it's so hot to see a woman bent over and her thong hanging out yummmm. I know it's kind of trashy but screw it, it is hot. As I have said I am a huge boob man and a great pair of boobs in a great bra is amazing. 

Ramrod: YES!!! What's the most appreciated lingerie? It all looks good laying in the floor. Seriously I love seeing underwear especially when I can see part or all through your regular clothes.  I think the tease is what makes the lingerie hotter.  I see you in regular clothes and get a glimpse of your underwear and wonder what the rest of it looks like.  Then when I get to see that, I wonder what you look like naked.  The longer the time between clothed and naked the more the build up of the fantasy and lingerie is that buffer to allow the build up.  It is also the trigger to start the fantasying when seen threw regular clothes.  Bras are hot because you can easily show them off with normal clothes.  If you have on a lacy bra sometimes you can see the outline of the lace and that starts me going.  If I get a good cleavage shot to see a part of a cup or a bra strap to see the color, then that just make me think about it more.  Like can you see your nipples through the lace or does it match your panties?  Corsets and teddies are even hotter than bras because they sometimes can be worn with a pair of jeans and without a shirt in public. That gets me to start fantasying about what your panties look like and do they match your top?  If you couldn't tell by now I have a slight panty fetish.  That seems to be where my mind always wonders.  Panties are the hottest when it comes to lingerie because they are the hardest to see when you have regular clothes.  Since I am not a ass man, seeing the back of a thong is not a turn on for me.  Best I can hope for is a short skirt and open legs.  The other thing that makes panties so hot is that they don't always have to come off to have sex.  I think that is why bikini is my favorite but I will take anything I can get, bikini, boy-shorts, silk, lace, cotton, solid, sheer or even crotch less.  They can be matched to a shirt, bra, corset or just by themselves.  Even with out letting me see them on you, you can tease me with them be taking them off and showing them to me.  I now know you are not wearing underwear under your clothes and I know what was just rubbing against your pussy.

CBP- Natalie-Nicole Bates 'See Me' Scavenger Hunt

Blurb:Carly Anders  is hearing voices in her head. Another one of her kind is trying to contact her. She knows of the malevolent freaks—others who are eternal like her and seek out the weak to inflict pain upon. For years, Carly has held up huge protective walls to keep herself and her secrets safe. Now, physically and mentally exhausted, Carly needs protection and rest.
She accepts the invitation to visit an internet friend who needs help appraising a collection of antique photographs.  The situation is not ideal, but Carly hopes a male presence in her life will deter the determined suitor who haunts her thoughts and dreams.
Daniel Tremont is not what Carly is expecting.
The former funeral director has a secret of his own. Not only is he eternal like Carly, he is her creation from all those years before—her abomination she thought she killed.
Daniel has been searching for Carly for years. He knows she is the piece of his life that he has been missing for so long. Now that he has found her, he has no intentions of letting her go. “The quintessential paranormal romance”5 Stars~Night Owl Reviews

Buy links:
http://leapoffaithpublishing.com/#ecwid:category=2613677&mode=product&product=15767325
http://www.amazon.com/See-Me-ebook/dp/B009MRN9P0/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1349618623&sr=8-1&keywords=see+me+natalie+nicole+bates


SEE ME EXCERPT #4Carly’s Arrival
     Her long, straight mane of hair was the color of fallen oak leaves and dusted with gold. Her eyes were a deep espresso brown. An amber briolette hung at her throat. She wore a form fitting purple sweater that hugged her ample curves, and a matching skirt that fell a few inches above her knees. A pair of heels completed the outfit. Her suitcase and handbag sat at her feet.     Even though he wanted nothing more at that moment than to engulf her petite figure in his embrace, he extended his hand to her. His tongue finally untied and he said the first thing that he could think of at that dizzying, long-awaited moment. “I’m so glad you decided to come.”     She smiled, and his knees weakened. As soon as their hands joined, a jolt of electricity fired, sending them both into a stumble.     Shocked, he said nothing and stared at his still outstretched hand. She laughed, a merry sound that filled the hallway and caused his shock to melt away.     “Wow, that was strange!” she exclaimed.     “I just had the carpets steamed today.” He rubbed his hands against the denim fabric of his jeans. I suppose they picked up a static charge, I’m so sorry about that,” he said.        Was it just static electricity? Did he just shock an innocent girl, or was two of the same kind coming together? He gazed at her perfectly painted purple lips. If just their hands coming together caused this kind of reaction, what would happen if they kissed?


Super Duper Important- Scavenger Hunt Instructions:

There are 11 (eleven) stops for this Scavenger Hunt. Each stop contains a picture/button with a letter on it. All 11 letters form a message or phrase that is associated with the book. The letters are scattered randomly to the hosts. You will need to collect all 11, unscramble them, and then enter the decoded message in the Rafflecopter for the ‘extra entries’. Good luck!


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Schedule:A. M. Griffin 4/22- MonNatalie-Nicole Bates 4/22- MonAJ Jarrett 4/23- TueLea Barrymire 4/24- WedPassionate Encounters 4/25- ThurThe Journey Continues 4/26- FriFor the Love of Bookends 4/27- SatThe Jeep Diva 4/28- SunErzabet's Enchantments 4/29- MonUnearthly Musings 4/30- TueTattooed Book Review 5/2- Thur


Bio:Natalie-Nicole Bates is a book reviewer and author. Her passions in life include books and hockey along with Victorian and Edwardian era photography and antique poison bottles. Natalie contributes her uncharacteristic love of hockey to being born in Russia.
She currently resides in the UK where she is working on her next book and adding to her collection of 19th century post-mortem photos.
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Tattoo Tuesday- Cherokee Takatsuki

Happy Birthday to me! :)
Please welcome Cherokee Takatsuki to Tattoo Tuesday...



Give me a four sentences that sum you up: what you do, who you are, where you've been...
I'm a dancer, actor, model, father, martial artist, Paul Mitchell stylist and personal trainer. I'm from Kapaa, Hawaii and love adventure and travel. I'm also a 16 time strip off champion!



What was your first tattoo? Does it have meaning to you?  
Xavier Michael. it would been my first son's name but we lost him in a miscarriage.



Do you have more tats planned?
Yes I plan on finishing my left arm sleeve. I draw all of my own artwork as well. I've had 48 hours of ink already and plan to easily top 50.


Do you buy into tattoos being addictive once you start getting them?
Yes they are a great way to relieve stressful situations.



What's your plans for the immediate future? Long-term?
Now I'm working on the building of my website ...long term is getting two books published and supplements and fragrance line ...as well as finishing my 6th album.


What's something about yourself that most people don't know?
I'm very shy.
Lea's Note: I asked him how that worked being an entertainer and he said that he just overcomes and lets his work personality through.



If you were a superhero, what would your power be? Your weakness?
Healing would be my strength/power, and my weakness is true love.

Do you enjoy reading? Who's your fav author, or your fav type of book (suspense, mystery, biography, paranormal, etc)?
I love to read spiritual and poetry ....my favorote author is God...and Longfellow

Quick Questions:

Chocolate or Vanilla?  Chocolate
Motor cycle or muscle car?  Muscle Car
Morning or night person?  Night owl

Where can we find you?
Facebook https://www.facebook.com/cherokee.takatsuki
Website http://cherokeedragon.com/

Give some shoutouts...
I'd like to thank Natasha for this opportunity. DPI Photography for their work. Also, Hardbodies!

REPOST: Being depressed isn't the end of the World

I've shared some about my lifestyle and the fact that I'm a submissive. I love Mr. Vile Woods and his attitude/take on BDSM. He's old-school with his thoughts and views, but he's true to BDSM instead of into kink. In my mind those are two different things. You may be a kinkster but not really into BDSM. Anyway, this post of Vile's spoke to me because it is so close to my reality.

Reposted in its entirety with minimal notes from me:

http://thekinkyworldofvile.wordpress.com/2013/04/19/being-depressed-is-not-the-end-of-the-world/

Being depressed Is Not The End Of The World.
You're laying in bed one night reading erotica and you stumble across a BDSM story. You find it intriguing, interesting. You go to sleep, and the next morning you're thinking about the story. During the day the story you read really makes you think. Hmm, maybe just maybe this is me. Maybe I am a Slave, maybe this is what I have been missing.

Books are a great source of information, but you are only getting one opinion. The same if you are depressed and your seeing a doctor, you are only getting one opinion, you see another doctor and more than likely you will get another opinion. Sometimes in life you have to take what you see, read, and hear with a grain of salt. The 'Story Of O' is a great book. This is the story of one life. It can give you ideas and thoughts on how you want your life to be, but the truth is you have to find your own story. You have to start out with an empty book and write it yourself.

I will agree that many of those who are submissive or slaves can be late bloomers. There is a hidden trigger in your brain, and something just flicked the switch, now the search is on. In my time I have never met a Submissive or Slave who did not suffer with some type of depression, anxiety, maybe bipolar, you get the picture. There is a switch in your brain and something turns it on. Lea Note: Or you realize that something is just missing in your life, but you don't know what it is until you stumble across BDSM.

Something from childhood, may have happened at a very young age, and your brain has now blocked it, maybe abused at a young age. More extreme raped, or even molested. I have heard all of the above.

I was recently told by a medical professional that someone who suffers from being bipolar and depression, as well as other mental issues, can live a very healthy life while in the lifestyle under the right conditions. Fucking listen, THE RIGHT CONDITIONS.

Stability is a major factor, a stable home. Structure, in a stable home. Communication in a stable home. The Dominant must try to understand the illness. The Dominant must take part in all treatment. The Dominant must ask questions, after all you are concerned about yours.

The Slave must be honest when seeing Doctors, counselors, Psychiatrist, and you have to be honest. Never be ashamed of who and what you are. If you do not talk about your lifestyle, your treatment may not be effective.

I actually thought while speaking with this counselor, I was going to be hammered, I was going to be giving the third degree, just general conversation, but still when she began to explain how under the right conditions a BDSM lifestyle can be healthy. Again this was only ones opinion.

In most cases the Submissive or Slave will bond with one, that being the Dominant. She is looking for support, guidance, structure, and someplace safe and stable. They are afraid when out alone, at times they get manic, the anxiety  level is at an all time high, and mass confusion hits.

There are things a Dominant will have to do in such as relationship, if he truly cares he has to step up to the plate. You know sending your slave to the store cause Anxiety. So you have to make the trip with your slave. Most who are Submissive or a slave cannot handle confrontation, guess what the Dominant has to step up to the plate. If the Submissive or Slave makes a mistake, the Dominant has to fix it. The Dominant may have to make phone calls. The Dominant may have to do most of the cooking, stepping up to the plate.

If you are in the lifestyle as a Dominant just for the pussy, the kink, the physical abuse, you are really not going to give a fuck. What you are doing as the suppose to be Dominant is causing more damage, you are turning on more switches, then poof your going as fast as you came.

Very seldom do you see a Dominant as a late Bloomer. The majority of Dominants have been Dominant since childhood, it is in your personality. Once you become interested in the lifestyle , it can takes years to master your Dominance. As I have stated before I had a few great mentors. Today I have two I confide in.  To this day when I am speaking to an older Dominant you will hear me call him Sir, out of respect.

A man cannot wake one Morning and say I am a Master, that does not happen. You cannot wake one morning and be ready or willing to take on the responsibility of someones life. Be able to guide, put structure into their life, guidelines and be consistent it cannot happen. This is not old school talking this is common sense.

Most who are Submissive or Slaves tend to trust to fast. They truly believe they have found the one. Early on they spill their heart, they share all the good, the bad, and the mistakes they have made. You as the Dominant must take all this information in, you digest it, then you put your plan into motion.

I have seen Dominants use what has been told to them as ammunition, and at some point in the relationship they throw it back in the submissive's face causing more hurt. Why would you as a Dominant do such a thing, when you were trusted? The Submissive confided in you, the submissive was being honest.

We as Dominants must be supportive, we must encourage, guide, and walk hand in hand. Although in some cases we do have to allow one to stumble, not fall, at times we have to say Yes, we have to let one make a mistake. You cannot spend your relationship saying no.Even when they stumble we still need to praise the effort that was put into what ever the Submissive or slave was trying to accomplish. Positive reinforcement goes a long way. Stumble but not fall. If for some reason they do fall, we have to be willing to pick up, dust off and continue walking.

Here is the kicker, and this takes much thought. You as the Dominant are getting ready to enter a new found relationship. The Submissive or Slave has just spilled their heart. They suffer from all of the above. You know you are going to have to spend a great deal of time with yours. You may have to give things up in your life, bowling night, Bar night with the buddies, Because you now have someone glued to your side.

You are entering a relationship , you have to think long and hard if you as a Dominant want this type of responsibly, because once you start you are committed. You as the Dominant have giving your word. You will be there no matter what. The crying, the confusion, the midnight phone calls. You cannot complain because you made a promise and a commitment. You have said Play Ball.

Just like the Slave or Submissive the Dominant cannot read a book, if you are a true Dominant what you have is already there. A good mentor can bring the best out, but what you are taught, you have to take bits and pieces and put your own to work, your own style. The way you run your house, your own rules, and protocol. You have to be you.

If you are a Sadist, find a Masochist. Do not take someone who is not into pain and force one to be willing to explore your needs. Physical abuse is not tolerated, and that is what you are doing. Never force one to do something that is unhealthy. In many cases a Submissive or Slave will do things just to please, without thinking of the consequences. You as the Dominant may think everything is fine, when in fact it is not. They will not say anything and let you continue, and what you are doing is chipping away at wood, and eventually the wood will be gone.

Having an illness is not the end of the world for the submissive, they can lead a very productive life, under the right conditions. Please do not think that everyday is going to be cake and ice cream, because if you do you are living in a fantasy world.

You as the Dominate must step up to the plate it may be full or only half. When a problem arises you have to be willing to work through it. Most of all if you really care, you may have to adjust your whole life around the submissive.

It is up to the Dominate to dig deep, what kinds of medication? What are you taking them for. Listen to their story, take it in, digest it, and put it to good use.

You as the Dominant make have to make all the decisions, in everyday life. You have to be willing to accept this task. No matter what you must never complain. Take the Ball and run with it.  Most of all never use their sickness against them, never throw anything back in there face. If you do what you have built you have just destroyed. Everything you have built is now gone, you have to start from scratch, if the submissive will allow you to.

You the Dominant must be in control at all time, there is never a reason to yell, scream, argue, put down, degrade, abuse. You must be in control and not controlling.

Down time is very important. This is needed not for one but for both. I know once I put Arianna to bed, I take a deep breath and then and only then can I relax. This is my down time. It is good to suggest hobbies, allow them to go out for a day without breathing down their neck, the mall, a book store, or just taking a nap. Down Time is crucial and it is a need. This allows the Submissive or Slave to breath, relax, take in the fresh air.  You as the Dominant should suggest the down time, encourage. Allow some freedom, when they are out don’t be blowing their phone up . Allow them to have friends, see family Go with them if asked. Don’t make an excuse why you cant. Do not seem like you are thinking about their request just do it.

With the exception of a few illnesses you can have a healthy relationship. I would say someone who suffers from Paranoid schizophrenia would be a huge no no, unless you have been in a relationship for a very long time.

Most who suffer from any type of illness are visual people. You will see many times a submissive or Slave writing things down. This is the visual. When they are trying to make a decision you may have to communicate the logic part to them. Allow them to be visual encourage them. Writing things down they can see the pros and cons, talk to them about what they are feeling.

You can live a very happy life, if you the Dominant are willing to take the right steps. If you are there just to use, you need to sit back and think of the damage you are doing or have done.

One thing you cannot and must never do is remind the submissive or slave what you have done for them, throw back in their face well where would you be without me.

Karma is a Mother Fucker. So sayeth Vile Woods


Reposted in its entirety with minimal notes from me:

http://thekinkyworldofvile.wordpress.com/2013/04/19/being-depressed-is-not-the-end-of-the-world/

Author Spotlight- Nicole Kuhn

Mohawk Moon by N Kuhn Romantic Suspense

Blurb:
Janelle hasn't been home in ten years. All of a sudden, she has to deal with her mothers death, her broken relationship with her sister, and some sexy stranger following her. She doesn't know whether to be scared, or excited.

Damien needs to restore his families honor. He needs to use Janelle to do it, there's one problem. There's someone standing in the way. He's vowed that no one will stand in the way or getting what's his.

Together they must save what's left of both their families, and along the way, deal with what's going on between them. Join them on the beginning of their journey, under the Mohawk Moon.


Excerpt:
“Come in,” I say. Sammy opens the door and enters. “The funeral is in forty minutes, get ready.” She turns and leaves, not even waiting for me to answer, slamming my door behind her. I’m left alone again. I sigh and get up. So much for the loving family reunion.

I pull the only dress I own out of my suitcase. I had gotten this little black dress when I thought I would try to date seriously. It was a soft satiny material, hung off the shoulder, and accentuated my curves in all the right places. Not very appropriate for a funeral, but it’s all I had. I slip into it, not bothering to do much with my hair. It’s always been long, thick and straight as a stick. I slide on my black stilettos and stand at my window. I don’t know what possessed me to buy these items. They are so unlike me. I prefer jeans and t-shirts, sneakers, boots, casual clothing. I hated shopping. Seemed a waste when I didn’t need anything.
Not like I ever met any guys worth dating. Most men I met were losers. Criminals, married men looking to cheat, or violent. I wonder which category that man from the station fits into. Why can’t I get him out of my head? What was it about him that worries me? Besides the fact that I believe it was him following us last night. It’s not like I can’t handle dangerous men. Between work and my personal life, I’ve seen it all. I always pick the worst ones to date. I was raised seeing a man treat women like garbage. I know it’s wrong, but I guess I craved the confrontations. I wanted to prove to myself I was stronger than Ahi. Unlike her, I fought back. I slip my .22 short into the small leg holster. I gaze at myself in the mirror. Old habits die hard I suppose. Back in Chicago I won’t go anywhere unarmed. I smooth down the sides of my dress, unnoticeable. Good. I pick up my large black Coach purse, one of the few indulgences I allowed myself, sling it over my shoulder, and I’m ready to go.



Bio: The N in N. Kuhn is actually Nicole. She was born and raised in western New York. She grew up with a love of books, and a passion for writing. She was always found with her nose in a book. She finally decided to take the steps to embark into self publishing at the urging of her Grandmother. Mrs. Kuhn has dedicated her second book to Janet Starr, as she passed just days after being published.

Nicole survives on coffee alone. Mostly Tim Hortons. (It’s a NY thing.) A fan of drinking it from the time she gets up, until she finally rests. When not writing, she crochets and spends time with her beautiful daughter and her husband. Her friends call her Octo-Mom because she multi-tasks so well. Between her full time job, family, crochet and writing, it’s a wonder she ever sleeps.

Mrs. Kuhn feels that reading in our youth is a very important trait to instill. She reads with her young daughter as much as she can. “It’s the most important thing a parent can ever do with a child. Read, teach them to read. Don’t buy them toys, buy them books,” She says.

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Demystifying the Male- 21

Today's Demystifying the Male is slightly different. I asked the guys to instruct and educate. LOL Here's what I asked them to tell us:


1. Rate the sensitivity of the cock and ball parts (head, rim, shaft, scrotum, testicles, taint) We want to know which areas are most sensitive to least.

2. What is the preferred method of play on each part (touch, stroke, lick, suck, nibble, etc)

This is how they answered.

Vile-
1. The head that I can only take so much, more so if I have just came. Although I love watching my cock vanish in a mouth, but the head is way sensitive.

2. What is the preferred method of play on each part (touch, stroke, lick, suck, nibble, etc) I love watching TV and having my balls rubbed, that is probably my version of a dog having its belly rubbed. I love wet head, meaning just let it flow from your mouth, then I liked to be stroked, wow no other feeling in the world. I also love having my balls sucked on, back to petting the dog. While I do love fucking, there is just something about laying back and enjoying a nice long slow blowjob.
Now at times I do like to take control, and enjoy a nice face fucking.


Brian-
1. The most sensitive part for me is the head. Man once there is any kind of sexual interaction kissing rubbing it  starts  tingling. Now when i am being piped off that sensation is 10 times more sensitive wow is really all i can say. Next would be the balls now this sensation is either great or awful. the awful part is the blue ball syndrome lol. The taint is next then everything else is about the same.

2.  The head again is the most sensitive part and having it licked and sucked on defiantly intensifies everything. Now having this done while being piped off before i cum makes me personally feel like my whole body is gonna explode.The testicles i love being licked and nails raked gently against. the taint wow a feeling all it's own. I love having my taint licked and the nails raked across gently. Man its great even after the sex to have it just played with. The shaft has to be licked sucked stroked with a twist. The wetter the better the sensation ohh yeah, especially after being inside a nice warm wet pussy.

Ramrod-

1. I would give everything tip, shaft, balls the same sensitive rating until you get to the rim of my dick just below the head. That area circling my dick is super sensitive and as you move along the ridge to the underside it gets even more sensitive.  It is sensitive enough that with little effort you can get me off quickly with just the right movement in this area alone.  But once I do, you need to back off this area for a few minuets because it goes crazy sensitive.  Everything else is fair game till that area settles down.

2. For how I like my balls played with you need to check out DtM 7, as for the rest of me........ Here goes.  Shaft   Get your hands on it, both of them, there is plenty of room and keep them moving and keep my guessing.  Twist, rub between palms, fingertips only, slide down or slide up only, etc.  Sucking or licking is a bonus and gentle biting is allowed.  Just a gentile reminder what you could do to us is exciting.  You don't always have to take him down your throat to get to the shaft, you can come in from the side as well.  Just don't drag your teeth along the shaft and that goes for nails as well.
When is comes to playing with the rim, just below the head you can do the same but just be little gentler with it since it is more sensitive.  Little treat is to have your hands come up the shaft so all your finger tips are touching the rim of my dick.  If you have nails you can press them there too and very gently message the rim.  At that point I am pretty much paralyzed and you now own me.
Once you get to the tip of my dick you still do the same things but you can be a little more aggressive.  Biting harder on the tip as I am cumming give me an explosive orgasm.  I have looked down and had teeth indents on the head of my dick and a smile on my face, little pain with a lot of pleasure.
The opening at the tip can be played with as well, gently bite, lick or message with finger tip or finger nail as I am coming is a treat too.  If we are playing, keep changing methods, if you a trying to get me off, you will be able to tell what is pushing me over the edge and keep doing it.

CBP- Pleasure Brigade Series Tour

Blurb:Autumn Scott succumbs to temptation and journeys to The Brigade, a private BDSM resort, for another naughty weekend with sexy neighbor Kade Berges. She expects a chance to further explore her fantasies, but finds herself wanting more when Kade and his three friends push her boundaries and welcome her into their world.Kade Berges hadn’t intended to share more than a few nights of passion with his insatiable New York neighbor, but thanks to meddling friends, he finds himself unwilling to accept anything less than Autumn’s full submission. Whether she’s ready remains to be seen.
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I couldn’t believe Autumn was here within my domain at The Brigade. I’d intended to never see her—vanilla had no business within the life I led. But the moment I saw her with the guys I knew I had to have her—lay claim to whatever experiences she had here. The thought of not being the one to guide her path into submission was unacceptable.~~Master Kade
Excerpt from Passion’s Claim, Book 2 of the Pleasure Brigade series: The Brigade always shared women, if they were willing—and they were always willing. He rarely played with women with hard limits against ménages. He found such openness exhilarating and a flavor he couldn’t imagine not having in a relationship. Not that he intended to ever have one of those. He was about as commitment phobic as a man could get. He hadn’t fucked a girl more than once in…a hell of a long time. Most of the scenes he participated in never involved sex. He couldn’t imagine not having sex with Autumn though.

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Cara’s Bio:
Born in small-town Texas, Cara Carnes was a princess, a pirate, fashion model, actress, rock star and Jon Bon Jovi’s wife all before the age of 13.

In reality, her fascination for enthralling worlds took seed somewhere amidst a somewhat dull day job and a wonderful life filled with family and friends. When she’s not cemented to her chair, Cara loves travelling, photography and reading.
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Tattoo Tuesday- Kody Thompson

Please Welcome Kody Thompson to Tattoo Tuesday. 
Tell me about yourself in 4 sentences. 
 I couldn’t sum up who I am in four novels let alone four sentences, but I’ll give it my best shot. I am a family man first, I am a father to my 3 year old son first above all else. I enjoy Mother Nature and anything outdoors at any time of the year. I’m 26 going on 40 if we’re counting by life experience. I wouldn’t be half the man I am today without facing the trials and tribulations I have up to this point. I don’t have a military background but I live my life with the military mentality, live by core values; honor, dignity, integrity, due diligence, sacrifice, loyalty and to bust your ass day in and day out to get where you want to be in life. 





What was your first tattoo, and did it have any meaning at the time?
First tattoo was Michael Jordan jump man symbol on my right shoulder with the words “Judge Me” under. It has a hell of a lot of meaning to me, a lot think it’s stupid but nobody has asked why. I grew up being a nobody, basketball was my first real appearance at being somebody special and I was good, real good. Once I knew I could get better and better I worked my ass off in the gym to be the best on the court. I always played with best kids and usually I was the only white kid, which meant I was always judged the minute I stepped on the court. I was a huge Michael Jordan fan and loved his underdog story; he was the best in my eyes at the time so I decided I wanted the symbol of a legend that stands for something bigger than just basketball for me. I was 17 years old and where I lived in Upstate New York the Tattoo age was 18, well I didn’t want to wait so I did my research and found that Connecticut the age was 17 with parental consent. I forged a letter signed and notarized from my father saying I was able to get one and if any questions call this number (my best friend’s #) ha-ha. We drove 5 hours stopped along the way at the basketball hall of fame where I found the inspiration to put the words “Judge me” from a Michael Jordan plaque hanging in the hall. Ill never forget the first time my parents/friends/teachers saw it, my senior year I wore a t shirt to cover it until our first basketball game. I walked out on court and people’s faces were priceless ;) But they respected me.



Do you have any tats you regret getting?
I live with no regrets, so no I don’t regret my first tattoo but I wish I would have been patient when making the decision of where to get it and how big it was. The field of entertainment I am in now is very subjective to how you look and tattoo’s they don’t understand are frowned upon.



More tats planned?
I do have more tats planned!  I want to get one of my favorite quotes tatted on my right upper pec in  a scripture type font reading “Rise and rise again, until lambs become lions”. I also want to get my sons birthdate and initials in roman numerals at some point somewhere easy to conceal if I have work.


Do you buy into the idea that tats are addictive?
Yes, I’ve always heard they are very addictive and believe it. I never got the bug but honestly if I knew they weren’t permanent I would be covered by now.. I want a sleeve when I’m a bit older.



What's in your future? Long term and short term?
Future ahh, I live day by day I give 110% effort daily to achieve the dreams I’ve dreamt about on a daily basis. I love acting so one of my biggest dreams is to be acting making a comfortable living, but I also want my own gym business where I can pass my passion to other people and change lives in and out of the health setting. But for now I have a personal training business, online website (KodyThompson.com) and a clothing company in the works as we speak.


What's one thing no one would guess about you?
Ahh  I’m a man’s man don’t get me wrong but I’m a momma’s boy, a deep hopeless romantic and I like things old fashion!



If you were a super hero who would you be, and what would your powers and weaknesses be?
Oh man I watch Marvel comic movies almost every night with my son… I am obsessed with the hulk and Ironman lol Weakness? What’s that, lol, same in real life fear of losing family or loved ones.


Do you enjoy reading? 
I never liked reading much a kid, but after transforming my life and body physically I’m a huge fan of reading “self help” books and inspirational biographies. The list goes on but I just finished “Onward” by Starbucks Owner and Ceo Howard Schultz, recently started “Awaken the Giant within” etc
Bottles, they are better in a fight ;)



Quick Questions:
Chocolate or Vanilla?  Chocolate

Motor cycle or muscle car?  Muscle car

Morning or night person?  Morning and night, you don’t need sleep when you’re excited about living!








Where can people find you?
I am on Facebook a lot and check Instagram everyday and use Twitter every other day. 

I am trying to direct all my attention to my website coming really soon, www.kodythompson.com, if somebody has a legitimate job offer,  then you can use my email account at Kodyt21@yahoo.com as well.



I have so many thanks to give to so many people all I can say is you know who you are! My parents are amazing and support me in every way possible. My new sponsor Edwin @stayRxFit has recently provided me with so much opportunity I would never have had without him! 


The biggest people of all are the fans I have, who look up to what I do daily and tell me what I am doing is making a difference in their lives, which really humbles me the most!


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Takin' over Naughty or Nice? for the week...

So, I'm trying not to cackle as I prep for my first day of guest admin on Naughty or Nice? on Facebook. I've got ALL kinds of goodies planned. Pics, links, pics... Oh, yeah, didn't I mention that I asked the Tattoo Tuesday boys for pictures? No? *GRIN*
So, if you haven't 'liked' the page, come on over. I've got cookies, hot men, and well... a lot of fun planned!
Lea

Half in Love- 5 Star Review

WOW!Half in Love gets a must read from The Tbr Pile review site. I'm completely thrilled and speechless. 

Rating: 5 Stars - A Must Read!
Heat: 3 Handcuffs - Blush Worthy.

I have to start off by saying Ms. Barrymire can write a damned good story. 
Willie is my kind of heroine, strong and sassy with a take-no-bull shit kind of attitude. Shaped by a horrific past that placed her between two worlds, shifter and vamp, she’s simply existing.  When she’s not battling vamps intent on killing her because she’s a half-breed. Our girl doesn’t play, she’s always equipped with a wicked blade and has fighting skills that made me feel like I was watching an action flick. Her life goes into crisis mode when she meets her mate, Nick… the vampire.
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