Diane Stringam Tolley's Blog: On the Border, page 111

New Blues

‘Twas dark and dreary— The twinkling long night stretching out before,The cold air pinched—It prodded round the windows and the doors,Encased in warmth,I huddled round the often-crackling fire,And closely watched,The warm flames reaching ever (and more) higher.But though they warmedExtremities, they somehow missed the soul,Winter BluesHad come, they weren’t about to let me go.Then Husby hustledMe out through the firmly frozen door,ResoluteWe’d go places we’d not seen before,And now I sit,And watch the breakers lave the spark’ling sand,The seabirds flyOr dive and pounce on fishes near to hand,And all aboutThe world, the sun with colour, it imbuesThe sky and seaGive new meaning to the Winter ‘Blues’!
 Each month, Karen and her followers publish a poem on a theme.
January's? Winter Blues.
I'm liking my 'Blues'!
See what the others have done!
Karen of Baking In A Tornado: Winter Blues Dawn of Cognitive Script: Dark Days of Winter

That Night

It will always be THAT New Year's...
To celebrate the squeaky-clean beginning of yet another year, I'm going to regale you with the tale of our most memorable New Year's Eve.It's a heart-stopper. Really . . .We spent the evening, much like millions of other people, happily celebrating with friends.Eating wonderful food that someone else prepared. (My personal favourite.)Playing games: Charades. Word scramble. Card contests.And visiting.Sometime after midnight, we senior citizens called it a successful, wonderful night and left for our respective homes.Husby and I were safely in bed by 2:00 AM.All was well.All was not to remain well.Just as we were both deeply asleep, someone pounded on our front door.Pounded.In my half-awakened state, it sounded frantic to me.Frightened.Panicky.“Grant! Something's wrong!” I screamed, leaping from the bed and switching on lights as I sped down the hall.Mentally, as I ran, I tallied where my kids and grandkids were. Who had stayed in for the evening and who might still be out.One family, I knew, had taken their little girls to a friends' party.They could conceivably still be out.What's wrong? What's wrong?I reached the front door, heart racing and breathing heavily.I peeked out.No one.I opened the door.The front step was echoingly empty.I stepped out and peered around.No one.The night was quiet.The street deserted.Nothing moved.I came back inside and shut the door.Then I peeked out again.What on earth...?By this time, my Husby was also up.Doing a circuit of the windows and doors.No one.We looked at each other.Did another circuit.Still no one.Puzzled, I headed back to bed while Husby locked up again.He soon joined me and almost immediately dropped back to sleep.I didn't.For the next two hours, heart still racing, my mind spun through every terrible, horrible thing that could ever befall a family that (at the time) numbered twenty-five.It was a long night.We survived it.None of the terrible, awful things happened.I know, because this crazy mom/grandma phoned everyone as soon as it was light this morning.Two facts remain.Someone pounded on our door last night. The reasons remain obscure.Somewhere in our bed is my Husby's liver, scared out of him when I screamed.Happy New Year.
To my friends: I will be away for most of January. Picture me snorkeling or lying on the beach in St. Vincent. Cause that's where Husby is taking me.Mmmmmm...I will be back periodically, depending on connectivity, but poetry Monday (which I totally missed yesterday) will be suspended.Happy January! See you in February!I'll miss you!

Together-ness

It’s really nothing new.Over the holidays, we’ve had many opportunities to ‘gather the troops’, so to speak.Family get-togethers are a common and pretty much-accepted part of the season of celebration that runs throughout December and into January.Here in the frozen north, that means massing many, many people into a structure meant to house only a few. Without much chance to escape as temperatures outside dip into the ‘Brrrr’ or ‘cold-enough-to-freeze-your-nose-hairs-stiff’ zones.Inevitably, altercations happen. Recently reading my Grandmother Stringam’s journal, I discovered a passage where she quotes Grandfather Stringam’s Uncle, David Coombs. (The Coombs family lived with Grandfather’s family for about a year when Grandpa was a lad of 9.)“…The little boys have been fighting. Davie (Coombs) claims that Dard (Grandpa) brought on the quarrel, and he tried to defend himself and Dard had the best of it, and on top. Ray struck Dard in the back with a piece of board and Arthur did the same. These proceedings caused me much pain, and also a little scene that transacted on the night of the 10th whilst Davie was scuffling with one of the Stringam girls.Mary came up to him and commenced to pull at him and he told her to go away and says that he gave her a push and she claims that he bit her, but she commenced to hit him and pull his hair and then they commenced to fight, Davie pushing her down and shaking her.These scenes and others make me wish that I was back to our home and makes my spirit very sorrowful and causes me much reflection and anxiety…the thing causes me many unhappy hours and I also have to put in practice all my self-control and in turn, I learn a lesson in controlling my temper.This entry is dated April 11, 1886.All of these people grew up to be fine, upstanding citizens, becoming parents, grandparents, great-grandparents and so on.So I guess I won’t worry too much that someone isn’t playing ‘pretend dragons’ just right or that someone else is hogging all the best Lego or Playmobile pieces.This, too, shall pass.Right?

Sundays are for my ancestors.
Tell me about yours!

A Little Progress

One and one-half hours from the Stringam ranch is the city of Lethbridge, Alberta.
When the Stringams really needed to shop, that was the place to go.There were tons of great stores . . .Eaton’s.Woolworth’s.Kresge’s.Hoyt’s.Woolco.But, if one wanted a bit of adventure, the best was Progress Clothing.Progress was our favourite place to shop.It wasn’t what you would call a ‘high-end’ store.It catered more to the farmers and ranchers in the area.The people needing sturdy, serviceable, work apparel.Tough boots.Heavy leather gloves.Progress consisted of a long, open room with thick windows facing the street.Dangling fluorescent light fixtures.And huge tables set evenly about the old-wood flooring.Great piles of clothing were stacked on every available surface.More or less grouped together according to type and size.Colours were limited. Most articles were blue, green, black or tan.But choosing pants, shirts or one of the myriad other items that went with working on a ranch was only the first (and less exciting) part.The true fun of Progress Clothing began when one was holding one’s prospective purchase.And a salesman approached.Because the ‘suggested retail price’ on the tag was just that.A suggestion.From there, the haggling commenced.“How much for these pants?”“The tag says $7.00.”“But I’m buying four pairs.”“Hmm . . . okay, $6.00.”“Really? That’s the best you can do?”“Hey, I’m trying to feed my family!”“And I’m trying to feed mine!”“Okay. Okay. $5.00. But that’s my last offer.”“$4.50?”And so it went. It was . . . fun.If you were lucky, you would pay half of what the original sticker stated . . .I hadn’t been to Progress in quite a while.I had discovered some of the specialty ‘Western’ shops.With their high-priced ‘stylish’ western clothes.And I had my own money.And no encumbrances.Then, shortly after I was married, my Husby (a newly acquired encumbrance) and I, feeling both the need to be economical and the desire for some adventure, stopped at the great old store.I found a pair of warm, winter boots.Practical boots.My Husby held them up to the salesman. “How much?” he asked.The salesman stared at him.“How much?” he repeated.The salesman leaned forward and touched the tag. “$8.00,” he said.“Will you take six?” my Husby asked.The salesman frowned. “The tag says $8.00,” he repeated.“Oh. So . . . $8.00?”“Yes.”“Oh.”The store and the clothes were the same.And the prices.But the important stuff was different.

Bad Vacuum

Be afraid. Be very afraid.Okay, it was . . . weird.Really weird.But sometimes, weird has a logical explanation . . .Darn.We were visiting with our good friends, Shane and Linda.They had just finished building their dream home.The last touches were slowly going in.Shane had recently installed a new central vacuum system.It really sucked. (But that was a good thing and has nothing to do with this story . . .)Shortly after the vacuum was installed, and very late at night, Shane was in the front room doing . . . Shane stuff. Deciding it was time for bed, he stood up and started toward the doorway.When the vacuum suddenly turned on.I am not making this up.The middle of the night. Everyone else in the house was asleep. And the vacuum switched itself on.Let’s just say it was . . . startling . . . and go from there.Shane immediately quickened his pace, intent on switching the mechanical demon off before it woke the whole house.But as he crossed the room, it quit.The vacuum, I mean.Huh.See what I mean? Weird.After that, it happened several times. Always when someone was in the front room. Usually when they were alone.This went on for some time.Then we showed up for a visit.The four of us were sitting in the front room, catching up.Shane told us the vacuum story.Complete with hand gestures.And the dance.I frowned thoughtfully. (I do that . . .) “Shane,” I asked, “Where were you standing when the vacuum came on?”He pointed out an area of the floor.I crossed over and stepped on it.The vacuum was suddenly roaring beneath us.I moved off the spot.The vacuum quit.I did it again.Vacuum on.Vacuum off.All three of them were staring at me.Then Grant smiled. “I think I know what happened.”The two men went into the basement and poked around, finally discovering a screw, just piercing the wiring. When pressure was applied from above, the connection was completed. The vacuum came on.When pressure was released, the connection was broken. And the machine switched off.The ‘haunted’ vacuum was explained.But you know what?It was heaps more fun before we figured it out.

The Booger Man

The boy.
No, that isn't the right finger, either...In our house, over the holidays, love and goodwill abound.And so does the food.And the treats.Especially the chocolate.With, sometimes, amusing results . . .A group of us adults was sitting around the table, intent on a game of cards.Members of the younger set were dashing in and out, equally intent on activities.Games.And treats.We had just opened a new box of exotic chocolates.A gift from our dear next-door neighbours.Five different kinds of luscious, melt-able deliciousness, each in a different (intriguing) shape.Chocolate mousse.Crunchy.Espresso.Crème Broulee.And pistachio.Each more mouth-watering than the last.Our five-year-old discovered the box and immediately seized it.“What’s this?!” he said, holding it up.“Chocolates!” I said. “Really yummy ones!”“Oooh! What’s this one?!” He jabbed a finger into the chocolate mousse.“That’s dark chocolate.”“And this?” Another jab.“Hey!” his dad said, taking the box. “Don’t touch all of the chocolates with your booger-covered finger!”Da-ad!” he said, disgusted. “That’s not my booger finger!” He held up his other hand, pointer finger erect. “That one is!”At least he was honest . . .

Single Mom's Christmas

With apologies to Clement Clarke Moore . . .

On the night before Christmas, long hours ahead
The toddler awake, I’d just got her to bed.
The stockings were hung in a haphazard row,
While Mama assembled new toys just below.

The kids were asleep. Well, except for the last,
Just waiting for morning to get downstairs fast.
I toiled on alone, ‘cause there wasn’t a dad.
I had broken a nail and my language was bad.

Then out on the lawn rose a terrible noise,A skill that usually my oldest employs.
I flew to the window, and thought as I ran,‘What's he doing out there, my nine-year-old man?!’

It was bright (as can only the moon on snow be),
And I narrowed my eyes to be able to see.
And what did I glimpse, coming over the way?
But some deer, all in harness, and a stout little sleigh.

With someone in a coat that looked comfy and soft,
And clearly, some magic to keep them aloft.
They flew like a Michael Schumacher on course,
While the driver attempted some will to enforce.

"Now Baby! Now, Jazzi! Now, Frolic and Jolly!
On, Cherub! On, Angel! On, Kitten and Folly!
I need you to get to the rooftop this time!
And a fine, gentle landing would be so sublime!"

To say that they flew like some leaves past the attic,
Would be perfectly true, it was quite that erratic.
I was holding my breath as they shot toward the sky,
And prayed that my windows and roof would survive.

Then finally (thankfully) up on the roof,
The unmistakable sound of twenty-four hoofs.
Then some noise in the chimney I’d not heard before,
And someone emerged, on their knees, on the floor.

The figure was dressed in a warm, sooty coat,
With some Uggs on their feet and scarf 'round their throat.
With toys, books and clothes in a gi-normous sack,
Which they dropped to the floor with the words, “Oh, my back!”.

And then sparkling eyes were directed at me!From under a hat that was worn with esprit.
I surprisingly saw, not a man, but a miss,
With no beard (though a tweezer would not go amiss).
In white teeth, she had clutched a short pencil end,
And a notebook, she held in one mittened hand.
Her round, wrinkled face shone with laughter and fun,
And I don’t think her happy laugh could be outdone!

She was joyful and glad, and just a bit round,
Her smile made me smile, 'twas so friendly and sound!
She gave me a grin and then winked an eye,
All my fears passed away and I waved them goodbye.

She didn’t say much, simply nodded my way,
And I watched as she worked – like a pudgy ballet.
She finished her job, made a note in her book,
Then nodded and smiled and her exit she took!

I heard her footsteps as she ran to her sleigh,
Heard her call to her team as they all flew away.
Then this sweet woman shouted, as she flew o’er the town,
"Happy Christmas to all, don’t let life get you down!"

Merry Christmas, my friends! And a very Happy New Year!


Mondays do get knocked a lot,With poetry, we three besought,To try to make the week beginWith pleasant thoughts--perhaps a grin?So Jenny and Delores, we,Have posted poems for you to see.And now you've seen what we have brought . . .Did we help?Or did we not?
Next week is New Year's Eve. It's true!
How this 2018 flew!
So we'll discuss (because we can),
All our 2019 plans!

Rushing for Gold

The California Gold Rush (1848–1855) began on January 24, 1848 when gold was found by James W. Marshall at Sutter's Mill in Coloma, California.
That news would eventually bring 300,000 people to California from the rest of the United States and abroad—driving out the original ‘Native Californians’ and completely altering the landscape.Gold fever struck hard.1850.The California gold rush was in full swing.So to speak.My Great, Great Grandfather, George Coleman made a decision. He, too would join the trains of eager gold seekers and make his own way to California.A determined young man, he did exactly that.On arrival, he witnessed first-hand the ‘fever’ that affects people seeking after the elusive gold metal. The sacrifice of families and even lives in its pursuit.So, George, whose motto could easily have been: ‘A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush’, decided to take a different course.Instead of joining the men—and women—sifting frantically through the waters and soils of California, he decided on a more practical avocation.He would, instead join the ranks of those who supplied necessities to the gold-diggers.He took a job washing dishes.Which paid a healthy $15.00 per day. Many flocked to California during the seven years of the California Gold Rush seeking a fortune.Great, Great Grandpa George was one of few who found one.


Sundays are for Ancestors!Tell me about yours . . .

Surprise!

Been listening to Christmas music all day.Let the Christmas memories continue!!!For our first Christmas as newly-weds, I dutifully asked my new Husby what he would like.I did it sneakily.I thought.In July.His answer?A router.Okay, first, I had to surreptitiously find out just what a 'router' was.I discovered that it had everything to do with home woodworking.And nothing to do with computers (which at that time in history, really only existed on Star Trek).The men at the hardware store knew exactly what Husby had been talking about.And placed before me a perfect example of router-ness.On sale.The day was mine!And soon, so was the router.Gleefully (real word/emotion) I carried said router triumphantly to the car.And duly hid it at Husby's parent's place.Then I waited.Closer to Christmas, Husby forgot all about the router he had asked for and announced that what he would really like was a deep fryer.For a few frantic moments, I considered taking the router back and replacing it.But, reading the receipt, I could see that that possibility had expired.Rats.A couple of weeks before Christmas, with a heavy heart, I wrapped his present and placed it under the tree.Sometime later, he picked it up and shook it.It rattled.He smiled.What he had taken for a 'deep fryer' rattle was, indeed a 'router' rattle, but I said nothing.And he was happy.We both waited for Christmas.Christmas morning, the first gift he went for was his 'deep fryer'.He was already talking about the fries he would make.The corn dogs.Doughnuts.I held my breath as he tore off the paper.His mouth dropped open and his face was a perfect picture of surprise as he stared at the router box beneath.“I totally forgot I asked for this!” he said finally. He opened the box and began removing parts. “I've wanted one of these forever!” He was growing more and more excited.No more mention was made of a deep fryer.I heaved a sigh of relief.That particular gift went on to make tables, cabinets, houses, toys, more tables, and at least one picture frame.Of far more use than a piece of kitchen equipment.No matter how many fries it could have made.I chose . . . well.I should mention, also, that this was also the only Christmas when I managed to surprise my Husby.Oh, he tries to 'act' surprised when he unwraps something.But I know that he knows.Sigh. Ha!

Daddy Walking

By request, I'm posting this poem I wrote for Daddy.
This will be my fourth Christmas without him... My HeroDecember. My four-year-old mind was a haze,I’d been locked in the house as it snowed for three days.Then quite suddenly, magically, sunlight appeared,And my Daddy was pulling on snow boots. And gear.
I just couldn’t stand the house one minute more.I had to get out. I’d help Dad with the chores!So I zippered and buttoned and pulled on and tied,Then stood by my Daddy with little-girl pride.
“I’m ready,” I shouted. “Let’s go milk the cows!”I was set for adventure, quite done with the house.He smiled and then, turning, stepped into the snow.And I walked alongside. It seemed quite apropos.
At first the bright sparkles and crisp winter airMade our walking, adventure, and senses aware.But then I discovered as most children do,That snow, though quite pretty, was hard to get through.
I struggled and grunted, broke into a sweat,Then looked for the barn that we hadn’t reached yet.My Daddy smiled down at my efforts inept,“It’d be easier if you tried to step where I step.”
So I did. And my progress was much better then,Soon we two reached the barn, and the cozy cow pens.I sat perched on a stool and watched Daddy do chores,Then followed him home, just like I’d done before.
I learned something that day, as we walked through the yard,If I stayed in his footsteps, then things weren’t as hard.His skill and experience, and his guidance, too,Would make everything easier my whole life through.
Now, to my own kids, when there’s woe to be hadI give bits of advice that I learned from my Dad.When Life dishes out dollops of good or of ill,I find that I’m walking in Dad’s footsteps still.