Tina Brescanu's Blog - Posts Tagged "poly"

You can have sex for fun, sex for comfort, sex for a special occasion, unexpected sex, random one night stand, sex with an ex, sexting with a stranger, appointment sex and spirit is still involved, love is still involved, this nonsense that we have sex for fun because we hate ourselves is cultural bs, but I agree that to have sex you usually need a connection, it doesn't always have to be lovemaking, sometimes fucking is just the thing. If I want to eat sugary, fatty food but deny myself the pleasure of fulfilling my hunger because it's not the best choice for me I'm not loving.
Sex and sexual love are forces for good, sex enhance life, sex open spiritual awareness, yes even change the world. The erotic pathway is not everyone’s pathway but it’s a spiritual way nevertheless, if chosen not if forced, some have more to share than others. It’s wrong to teach that only sex in a committed relationship is good, all sex if desired and chosen is good, our programming is wrong. I’m married, bisexual and poly, it took me a lifetime to come out.