Sangay Glass's Blog - Posts Tagged "llamas"

Jay watched Kate climb the stairs with an armful of warm folded towels from the dryer.

It was the perfect opportunity.

He kicked off his shoes and followed her unnoticed as she opened the linen closet door and placed the towels inside.

When she closed it, he was there, with an intentionally mischievous smirk.

She wasn't surprised, evidenced by a slight coy smile. He'd been stalking her all morning, and she loved it.

He pressed her against the wall and kissed her, then walked away.

Not yet, babe. He would get back to her later.

My character, Jay, didn't have great examples of marital bliss growing up, but he did work as an assistant to a professional mistress for years. She taught him the art of seduction using patience, timing, and the element of surprise. He put his skills into practice to keep his marriage fresh and healthy.

We all get into ruts at some point in our marriage, especially when we're busy with kids and careers, and our sex lives suffer for it.

When we were in the dating pool, we put effort into seduction. It was that effort and anticipation that made sex amazing in the beginning. But somewhere along the line, a simple touch became foreplay, and a minute alone turned into "It's now or never."

If you're stuck, it's time to extend your foreplay with seduction.

Did you know Llamas do it? Not really, but close. Llama reproduction involves induced ovulation. The male sings and chirps to his potential mate to bring on ovulation. The female usually spits at him initially because she doesn't know him, but he'll get the prize if he's persistent.

Date nights are a great concept, but the rush to get the kids settled and the planning distracts from the goal of intimacy. You're both over it by the time you get to where you're going and spitting may be involved in the form of snipping.

Start early in the day. A knowing smile over a coffee cup during breakfast, a reach over their head to get a plate, and a long embrace, instead of a quick kiss on the way out the door will go a long way.

It's also a two-way street. If your partner needs to learn, lead by example.

If you want to be pushed up against the hall wall, do it to them to show how exciting it can be.

And guys, roll up those sleeves, move them aside, and take over emptying the dishwasher with a generous smile. You'll be surprised at the results.

The point is that intimacy is better with anticipation. The longer you take to set up anticipation, the faster you'll get there.

By there, I mean the big O. You're welcome.

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