Michael Joe Armijo's Blog, page 15
February 5, 2023
Jamming: Get Ready to Jam
“The human voice is the most extraordinary and complex of musical instruments, in which, contrary to what most people think, the actual quality of the instrument is far less important than the intelligence...of the person using it.” --Javier Marias, THE MAN OF FEELING I’ve always loved that song by Bob Marley and The Wailers called JAMMING. It soothes my mood every time I hear it. Lately, there’s a new song playing called FLY LIKE AN EAGLE by some artist named SEAL. I kind of like that one, too. It allows me to imagine an eagle flying; to fly with determination and magical adventure. It’s how I wish to live my life.
I wanted to see a movie based on a true story called PREFONTAINE, but Alan and I never managed to see it. It featured a new actor named Jared Leto. It was about a long-distance runner. It sounded inspiring. I still hope to see it eventually.
We did see a very funny one though called MOTHER, starring Debbie Reynolds and Albert Brooks. We laughed, especially at the part where she kept ice-cream in her freezer for over a year and it started to grow excess ice.
My mom’s first cousin, Selena M Leyba-Byers wrote to me from Santa Fe, NM in response to my Family Tree project. She provided most information that I already knew except for the revelation of her six children. The family continues to grow and grow. Who knew? There’s definitely some potent sperm going around. Ha-ha.
Alan and I spent a good hour walking the beach on the 8th. I snapped a number of Polaroids of us on the beach—just being silly. I liked how there was a cool breeze. I was able to wear a jacket for a change.
I received an interesting letter from another cousin in Alburquerque, NM. His name is Roy Quintana. I found it kind of cool because I went to high school with a guy named Ray Quintana. Maybe we were related somewhere down the line. Alas, Roy’s letter was interesting as he wrote about his first wife who was from England and her surname was Bloomfield. In any case, I’m happy when a relative—or even a close friend---writes to me. They took the time, and I cannot expect miracles.
January 29, 2023
The Age Card
“There is always HOPE...HOPE enough to balance our despair. Or we would be lost.” --Rohinton Mistry, in his novel, A FINE BALANCE More letters from family I know and family I don't know were streaming in here and there. I wrote back to my Aunt Esther in Santa Fe, NM and was surprised to receive a new letter so soon. She was clearly excited to write back to me. She also provided more insight into her knowledge of our family. She will be 79 years old on April 20th of this year (1997), so she’s feeling the age card. I felt a pang in my heart when she wrote about her loneliness.
Jan. 29, 1997
Dear Nephew Michael,
Hope these few lines find you OK. I am OK. Why should I complain so much about aches and pains? Well, it’s my age, I guess. The older I get the worse I get. It's awful to get old. Where there is one thing there is another. I am not feeling good at all but what can I do? Just wait for God to take me. Look at my younger brother, Nelson and his brother, Joe. They both left us here so young—and me, the oldest of my family I’m still here suffering, lonely and depressed since my dear husband left me here alone (when he died on March 7, 1992, almost five years ago). I’ve been so lonely. You can figure how bad I feel being alone. I really missed him after fifty-three years together.
Well, Michael, sorry I didn’t send you any more details about what you asked me about your dad’s dad, if he had any sisters or brothers. I really didn’t know any of his family. I don’t remember him mentioning any sisters or brothers. I never remembered meeting any of his family. I can’t tell you anything about his family. So, I hope you understand.
What I wrote here on the next page is about part of my family. I really don’t know any ages—just some of my kids. I hope it helps you a little. Nellie can tell you about her kids and grandchildren.
Love,
Your Auntie Esther G
Fortunately for me, I was inspired by my Aunt Esther’s letter to visit the Mormon Temple in Los Angeles where they have an extensive Family Ancestry department with Census Records from across the United States. I learned the identity of my dad’s grandpa (my great grandfather, Nicolas Jose Armijo). I learned that my dad’s dad had brothers and sisters. He had two brothers and two sisters: Teofilo A Armijo b. 1870, Concepcion Armijo b.1875, Jesus M Armijo b. 1876 and Navorsita Armijo b. 1889. And in addition, I learned something that my dad always wanted to know that he never knew because he died in 1987. He always wondered who his grandparents on his dad’s side were. They were NICOLAS JOSE ARMIJO b. 1848 and MARIA JUANITA LOPEZ b. 1842. I learned this from microfiche old New Mexico Census Records.
I received a thoughtful 'Wyoming' postcard from a new 2nd cousin who resides in Denver (born in 1976), Laura Christine Whithorn.
Dear “new-found” cousin,
Hi, I’m Jean’s (from Denver) daughter, Laura. I go to school at UNM in Albuquerque. It’s always interesting to learn about relatives you didn’t know about!
I was wondering if you could do me a favor. My roommate’s family is from MORA, NM and I wondered if we have any relatives in common. Could you send me a copy of the family tree you sent my Aunt Mary Ann? I’d really appreciate it. My address is Laura Whithorn, UNM, Student Resource Center #620, Albuquerque, NM 87131.
PS –If Aunt Is (Isabel) hasn’t gotten back to you I will email her about it.
Your Cousin,
Laura
The cool thing about Laura was that I would later meet her in Santiago, Chile while she was touring South America on February 28, 2005.
PHOTO: Michael Joe Armijo and cousin, Laura C Whithorn-Childers
February 3, 1997
Dear Michael,
Thanks for the beautiful Christmas Card. How is everyone? Your grandma Genevieve was always one of my favorite people. Say “HI” to all. I have addresses for most of the family, but I’ve been so busy. You’ll hear more from me. I talked to Eddie, he says you and he are gathering info. I didn’t proofread so please excuse errors.
I’ve been ill since before Christmas. I had a double dose of the flu. Finally doing OK and will correspond on a timely basis. If you have any questions, please either write to me or call me. I was very close to your grandmother when they lived in Cerrillos. Please forgive my delay. Come and visit us sometime. I promise to do better next time you write.
Love and God Bless You,
Aunt Mollie
And then comes returned mail. I had sent a letter to Lorraine (Lori) A Lucero-Mason (a 1st cousin once removed) in Lakewood, Colorado but my inquiry was returned. Can’t win them all.
“We all have our ways of rationalizing what we do.” --Eric Van Lustbader, in his book, THE KAISHO
January 22, 2023
A Travel Mind
“After all, our lives are but a sequence of accidents—a clanking chain of chance events, a string of choices, casual or deliberate, which add up to the one big calamity we call LIFE.” --Rohinton Mistry, in his novel, A FINE BALANCE I felt a need to continue writing to my newfound relatives that I didn’t grow up with. I wanted to know them better. Yes, they were in other states but why not try to grow the relationships? I figured the worst they would do is ‘stop writing to me’. I like the links I’ve acquired. I wrote back to my Aunt Esther, my cousin Lori and Connie and let’s see what happens. Will the relationships stick, or will they melt over time like snow?
My cousin, Edna Garcia-Maestas, seems to be one connection that is beginning to stick. She wrote a great letter. She is also in my peer group (born in 1955). I will have to inform her that my paternal grandmother, Mathilde, died on Sept. 22, 1964. Her grandfather, Augustin, and my grandmother, Mathilde, were brother and sister. Of course, how could she know if families do not maintain contact?
January 22, 1997
Dear Michael,
Thanks for your effort in establishing a family chart. Here is some information that will assist you in obtaining further information. I want a copy of what you’ve gathered so far. It appears that you and I are 2nd cousins. How interesting. I’ll tell you a little about myself:
I’m married to “Michael” also. I gave birth to two daughters during my first marriage. The oldest passed away about two years ago. She also gave birth to a son, RICKIE, who we are raising. I am 41 years old. How is your grandmother, Matilda, doing? I send my regards.
The underlined names are the children of Augustine Garcia (my grandfather) who died when my father William Garcia Sr. Was 3-years old. I have his picture.
Please keep in touch and write or call if you need more information.
Sincerely,
Edna
Children of Augustine Jose Garcia and Margarita Romero
Beatrice Garcia b. 1922 (married Samuel Quintana) & had 9-children: Angie b. 1940; Samuel Jr. B. 1942, Roy b. 1943, Jerry b. 1949, Patricia b. 1950, Clyde b. 1957, David b. 1958, Marilyn b. 1960, Dale b. 1963
Josie Garcia b. 1924 (married Joe Abeyta) & had 2-children: Lawrence G Abeyta & Mary K Abeyta
Rosabel Garcia b. 1926 (married Frutoso Trujillo) & had 2-children: Tommy & Barbara
Trevino Garcia b. April 1, 1928, d. April 1980
Augustin Garcia Jr. b. 1930 (married Isabelita Abeyta) & had 3-children: Robert, Gerard, Gary
William Garcia b. 1932 (married Sadie aka Senaida Herrera) & had 3 children: Willaim Garcia Jr., Roger Garcia and ‘me’: EDNA GARCIA-Maestas
Pete Garcia b. 1934 (married Helen Tenorio) & had 4-children: Louie, Dennis, Perla, Albert
Photo: Augustin Jose Garcia and Margarita Romero, Wedding Day
I was in awe by the ESPANA stamp Paloma posted on her postcard from Benidorm, Spain at Levante Beach (Playa de Levante)
January 23, 1997
Dear Michael,
Just a few words from SPAIN where we are spending our holidays with my mom, my brother and his girlfriend. I hope everything is fine. Say hello to Alan.
Love,
Paloma, Alex, Jonathan.
Barbara sent a cool postcard that reminded me about having Good Manners. We all need to be reminded of that each day. I wonder if everyone woke up in the morning and said, “Good Manners”, out loud if it would make a difference in the world. I think it would if we REALLY SAID IT in a meaningful way.
WE made it. Now on the Edge of the Aquarian Age.
I saw the new Woody Allen film (EVERYONE SAYS I LOVE YOU) and loved his Groucho imitation. It’s very real.
I’ve been talking to David. I’ll be more excited when he gets his ticket. I’ve been able to get some time off during his Spring break and got a bit frustrated with our vacation schedule at work.
I conversed with Brenda Goff via email this week and she got a promotion to SSM. I heard about 2000 to 3000 managers retired at the end of 1996. I am very thankful to be in our remote office, not too wild; yet, thinking if you were still with Pac Bell, you’d probably now have that promotion you wanted. Alas, you are happy where you are. Good!
As far as L.A. trips, my coworker, Andrea, goes south to visit parents on weekends a lot. And I may tag a long and get there in the next few months. I will give you plenty of notice. I do really like your notecard. You have a travel mind.
Yes, regarding SONOMA BAGEL. It’s about a block from my office. They seem to be doing good business.
More Later,
Love,
Barbara
My 2nd cousin, Dale Quintana, wrote to me. I was happy about that because he is also a peer (born in 1963).
January 27, 1997
Hello Michael,
Thank you for the Birthday Wish. I just today received your card. Don’t know why it took so long to get here, but Thanks. My mom has mentioned you’ve written to her. I don’t know much about you except that we’re cousins, but it would be great to meet you someday. Let me tell you a little bit about myself. I live next door to my mom in a second home of hers. I’m a seasonal Forest Fire Fighter and the rest of the year I work wherever I can find work. I’ve been to Forest Fires in California but never near L.A. I was wondering if you’ve been here in New Mexico or here in Ledoux, NM. Ledoux is small. It’s very small but I like it. That’s all for now. Thanks for writing.
Your cousin,
Dale Quintana
Mom likes to hear when I get word from relatives, so I keep her abreast of everything. I decided to send her a postcard I saved from New York City with a pic of actor Matt Dillon. January 28, 1997
Dear Mom,
With the photo Josie sent me of dad I was able to scan it and I tried to touch up the scratch and print an enlargement. It’s not exactly super sharp but it was fun working on it. Here’s a copy for you. I made an extra-large one. I think I’ll send it to Aunt Josie. Then, maybe she’ll send me other photos to scan. Hmmm—Good idea, huh?
Oh well, congratulations on your ITT stock.
Love You,
Michael
PS – Here's a couple non-retouched wallet-sized of Dad. Ha-ha.
“When sons are unhappy, they remember their mothers.” --Rohinton Mistry, in his novel, A FINE BALANCE
January 15, 2023
LOVE
'I do believe that LOVE is based in large measure on its anticipation and on its recollection. It is the feeling that requires the largest dose of imagination, not only when one senses its presence, when one sees it coming, and not only when the person who has experienced and lost LOVE feels a need to explain it—but also while the LOVE is evolving and is in full flow.’--Javier Marias, THE MAN OF FEELING
It was a nice week of well-rounded correspondence from family. I heard from Connie Armijo in Las Lunas, NM (she is the wife of my 1st cousin—Filimon Armijo--once removed); my maternal first cousin, Lori Lucero-Plimmer in Dublin, CA, my paternal Aunt Esther Garcia in Santa Fe, NM and my maternal cousin Dulcinea aka NEA Armijo in Santa Fe, NM. The best part for me was calling mom and reading her these letters aloud over the phone. She loved it. Cousin Connie Armijo has the identical handwriting as my mother. I told my mom this. I asked, “Did you two go to the same school, or what?”
January 15, 1997
Hi Michael,
Happy 1997 To You! Michael, sorry it took me a long time to answer your letter but anyway, my daughter and my grandson came from California on vacation. I was so happy to see them. Then, the Christmas shopping started. Then I came down with the flu. Finally, I sat down to write to you.
You know, Michael, your mom is a wonderful person, and your dad was a very kind man. Say HELLO to your mom, send my love. You know that your Grandma Genevieve and your Grandpa Fidel are the most wonderful people. Your Grandpa Fidel was so nice to me.
Yes, your Grandma Genevieve wrote to me about the Family Tree.
I have given you all the information you wanted. If you need more information let me know. I’ll try to find some pictures you can have, ok?
You know what? You must look a lot like your dad. He was tall and handsome, such a wonderful person.
I got your card. It’s been snowing a lot here and it’s very cold. About the floods in Los Angeles...what’s going on?
Well, I better close for now. Keep in touch. Say HI to your mom and grandma.
LOVE Always,
Connie Armijo
PS - Michael, I forgot to tell you that Nea Armijo was in the hospital. She had a heart attack but she’s fine now. She’s home now. Bye and God Bless you. Here is my phone number (505-865-6963) and my family information:
My husband: Filimon Armijo b. March 18, 1930, d. April 24, 1989. He was born in Cerrillos, NM and is buried at the Mount Calvary Cemetery in Albuquerque, NM. I, Connie Tapia Armijo, was born on November 8, 1930. My children and grandchildren are:
Daughter 1: Lorraine Armijo-Navarro b. April 10, 1951; married Dec. 17, 1978 (3 children: Dolores Connie Navarro b. Feb. 15, 1983; Armando Navarro b. April 3, 1984; Santino Navarro b. April 21, 1989.
Daughter 2: Pearl Armijo-Stratton, b. Sept 23, 1953; married Sept. 29, 1979 (4 children: Shaun Clint Stratton b. Feb 18, 1981; Sara Armijo Stratton b. Dec. 21, 1982; Selena Armijo Stratton b. Oct. 10, 1984; Marisa April Armijo Stratton b. April 20, 1990.
Son 1: Robert Dennis Armijo, b. Sept 11, 1955
Daughter 3: Kathy Carol Armijo b. Dec. 14, 1964 (1 child: Angela Felicia Armijo b. January 2, 1992).
Interestingly enough, my mom explained to me that Connie Tapia and her sister Helen Tapia married two Armijo brothers (Filimon Armijo and Adolfo Armijo). And Nea Armijo-Romero and her sister, Josie Armijo-Romero married two Romero brothers (Frank Romero and Joe Romero). And my grandmother, Mary Genevieve Leyba and her sister, Celia Leyba married two Lucero brothers (my grandfather, Fidel Lucero and Reynaldo Lucero).
January 17, 1997
Dear Michael,
I hope this card finds you doing well. I just wanted to slip you a few lines to say THANK YOU for sending me copies of the Family Tree. I was amazed at how the family has grown! I bet that was a lot of work, tracking all of those people down. Well, you did a fantastic job!
I apologize for not getting back to you sooner. I have been so busy with school. It doesn’t leave me much time for anything else. I am in my 2nd semester of the Dental Hygiene Program. I have one more year to go. I can’t wait!
Well, I hope you had a wonderful Christmas and New Year. We certainly did. It would be nice to get the whole family together for the holidays. Oh well, maybe one day... When you're in the area give us a call and maybe we will get together and catch up.
LOVE Your Cousin,
Lori Plimmer
My Aunt Esther included a January 1997 photo of herself with her daughter-in-law, Josie Sandoval-Garcia. Josie married Esther’s first-born son, Reubel Garcia Jr.
January 18, 1997
Dear Nephew Michael Armijo,
Hope these few lines find you in good health for those are my wishes to you.
At the present I am O.K. Just, at times, I am sick with pains and aches. This arthritis makes me sick all of the time. It’s an awful pain in my arm and shoulder. My fingers are out of place (some of them). I have been taking pain pills and therapy. Help me—but I’m telling you it’s awful to get old. I’m the oldest of my family and I’m still here. My two youngest brothers, Joe Nelson (your father), and Orolio are gone. My sister, Jennie, is gone. God Bless them and have them in peace. I really miss them, but we all have to go sooner or later.
Well Michael, sorry I didn’t get to see you when I was there in California. It was raining so much that we couldn’t get out of the house. I stayed with my sister, Nellie, most of the time. Cecelia and sister, Julia came home after New Year's. I missed my home. There is no place like home, Verdad? Especially when they treat you nicely.
Well, I'm here all alone. Jimmy and Judy visit me often, but I really miss my husband. I feel so lonely and depressed, especially for the Holidays. I spent Thanksgiving with my sister, Josie and her husband, Bill, in Springfield, Missouri.
I hope to see you this summer. God Bless you. Here I am sending a picture of me and Josie, my daughter in law, Reubel Jr.'s wife)
LOVE Your Auntie,
Esther or Estolia Garcia
January 21, 1997
Dear Virginia and Michael,
I want to thank you for the beautiful flowers and card you sent to me. The flowers were here at my house on the day I arrived from the hospital in Albuquerque. They meant so much to me. I am doing a little better, but I still feel very weak and can’t do too much around the house. It has been so cold here in Santa Fe. We had quite a bit of snow, so nobody could get around. Yolanda and DoDee are helping me around the house a lot. They are spoiling me and Joe. I hope your family tree is coming along. Has everyone responded? Again, Thank You and love and kisses to all of you.
LOVE,
Nea and Joe
‘He felt it was important to remember dead people who did good things.’ --as read in the short story, THE DUKE, in the Collected Stories 2000-2010 book THE UNDERACHIEVER, by Christopher Stanton
January 8, 2023
The Clear KARMA I Felt in Your Company
“All the world’s a stage, and you play a leading role. No matter what the scene, you always steal the show. --Donnell (a quote imprinted in the January 9th, 1997, card from Barbara Reynolds). Jan 9, 1997
Dear Mike,
Finally saw SURVIVING PICASSO last week (New Year’s Eve), enlightening, interesting. Does Art really arrive from Pain?
Happy 1997? Hope you have survived the holidays. I believe this will be the best January I’ve ever encountered. Alas, the earth is ‘tres moody’.
I got my blood test yesterday for my visit to my thyroid doctor next week. I’ll have a check-up on my thyroid. I do feel somewhat better unravelling a lot of mysteries.
Do you have travel plans for ‘97’? My vacation weeks are currently scheduled with two weeks in September and the week of Thanksgiving and the week after Thanksgiving week. And... thinking David will be here from Pennsylvania the first week of March. I had this past Monday off and planned to go to Forestville but stayed home and warm. Guess I really needed to rest.
Maybe I’ll be successful traveling the last weekend of January. I have the 27th off and hope that will see me getting another view outside of Berkeley.
Alice gave me a few cards from her work. This is one—kind of neat from down under.
The stock market ups and slides making you uneasy?
I had a customer in L.A. yesterday who mentioned a Deli in Downtown LA called FELIPE’s. He said he has been going there for fifty years and they have three parking lots, and they have delicious French Dip and whatever you want, so when can I meet you there?
Better go now. Hope everything is well.
Love,
Barbara
January 10, 1997
Michael,
I know I should have had this letter in the mail about 3 weeks ago but so much was and is going on right now. I was going to call you at your moms on Christmas but before I knew it, we were driving home from Southern California.
It all started the Friday before Christmas when Bill’s dad called and said that his (Bill’s mom) mom was in the hospital. She has diabetes and her foot swelled. So, they were talking about amputation. It turned out that she had broken her foot but did not know because she couldn’t feel her feet. Anyway, we went down as planned. Now when we arrived there, we found nothing had been prepared for the family gathering. There was a tree, but it wasn’t decorated. The presents weren’t bought. The food was not there. So, guess what we did for the 4 days before Christmas?
We pulled it off. The tree was decorated. Presents were bought and food was prepared. I must tell you I never thought I would be shopping on Christmas Eve in L.A. What a mad house! And buying presents for someone else to give. I could be a secretary. NOT! And if I was it would have been done in November.
We drove home Christmas Day because we had to be at work on the 26th. On the 28th I was preparing a dinner for the homeless shelter. The 29th it was missionary dinner. Before I knew it the year was over. Happy New Year!!!
The 4th we were taking down lights at the Temple. On the 8th I was put off duty on, on call at work. Thank heavens. I needed the break to clean the house, do laundry, clean the birdcage, etc. In between I have started riding again finally. When the 40-pound mark hit, and I can’t look in the mirror anymore I decided it is time to do something even if it means getting up at 3:45ama and riding a ‘Yep’...it’s come to that.
That brings us to the 9th. I took this day to do Temple Work. I don’t know if I ever told you I was Mormon. I can’t remember. Anyway, that takes a day to prepare and go.
Today is the 10th already. And today I am writing to you. I hope all is well. I wish we could have met for Hot Chocolate (I can’t drink coffee). It would have been fun. I sometimes think I will forget what you look like. It has been so long. I guess we’ll have to do it another time. Please write soon and let me know how your Christmas and New Year was. I hope it was less hectic than mine. Always, Birda
January 11th
...Lauren was around, and I nabbed a Polaroid of her with a towel on after a shower. She also had a towel over her head, looking a bit like the Queen of Sheba. My dad used to use that phrase (the Queen of Sheba). I wonder how and where he picked it up.
Later in the day, Gloria (Alan’s mom) popped over with Larry and Michael Freiman. Lauren took the honors of shooting a group photo that included them and Alan, Carrie and me. It was a festive family shot.
On January 12 Michael Miller was in L.A. He popped over. Alan took a photo of us. The shocking part was seeing Michael Miller’s long hair. It looked good on him, but it seemed to change his appearance only—not his personality.
The weekly correspondence ended with a Calla Lily card from Dorothy Rua and a family letter from Charles Tafoya of Denver, CO:
1-14-97
Dear Michael,
Your call last week was a wonderful surprise and much needed. You know how it is when you find yourself back in the work environment after an enjoyable trip. I would much rather have ordered a second bottle of wine at LOUIS XIV, than staring blankly at my computer.
What a good time I had during my four days in Marina Del Rey. The best part, of course, was visiting with you. Enjoyed my days exploring, then looking forward to my evenings with you. I had several “favorite” moments but the ones I treasure most were those we shared the evening we went to LOUIS XIV. It wasn’t just the great food and wine. It was the conversation we shared, the music while touring the streets and just the clear KARMA I felt in your company.
Anyway, thank you for a truly wonderful time and a wonderful way to begin the New Year. By the way, I saved the New Year’s resolution you wrote (for me, during the Party Game). Who knows what the New Year will bring? Perhaps a? What was that French term Alan mentioned?
So glad I finally got to meet Alan. I really like him and look forward to seeing him again, though I feel I’ll have to be on my toes and mentally alert when conversing with him. Still can’t believe how quickly he got the dirt out of me!
Lauren and Carrie are special—not just beautiful to look at—but beautiful inside, too. Gloria is definitely unique and a super lady. It’ll be interesting to get to know her and not spill my guts. Ha!
Much to do these next few months but I’ll manage to get through it all. I’ll be flying to Houston, Texas next week. I’m on the RAP Committee of VALENT and the annual meeting is in Houston this year (1/21 through 1/23). I’ve never been there before. Have you? I’m not big on cowboy territory.
Is your New Year getting off to a good start? I see CHARLES SCHWAB & CO. Has two full-page ads for job opportunities in the S.F. paper—primarily high level technical (computer) and Asia Pacific positions. Hope 1997 brings you the career challenges you’re ready for.
Enjoy the pictures. My favorite is the one of you, me and Alan. I may even frame it. Nice to have the snapshots to go with the memories.
Not sure when I’ll get back down there, but I’m already looking forward to my next visit. Thinking of you.
With Love,
Dorothy
January 14, 1997
Dear Michael,
Your communication was slow getting to me and I didn’t act on it immediately. I don’t believe I can give you any more information about our family than you have been given by my daughter, Belle, and my sister, Eva.
You ask me if I remember my Aunt Matilde (your paternal grandmother) and if I knew your father, Joe Nelson Armijo.
I remember my Aunt Matilde very well. The last time I saw her was in Oakland sometime in the early 1960s. I remember meeting your father at that time. I also remember meeting your grandfather, Jose Antonio Armijo. He and my Aunt Matilde were traveling through Denver, and they stopped to visit my parents (Jesusita Garcia and Juan Bautista Tafoya). They were coming from Wyoming, going to New Mexico.
Photo: Mora, New Mexico
I hope you have been successful in getting all of the information you need for your project and wish you luck in your sports training. Best wishes. I am glad to know you met my granddaughter, Cristina Montoya-Keller. She sent me a snapshot of both of you. Hasta luego.
Charlie
“That’s where my ancestors have always lived. How can I leave that earth? It’s not good to go far from your native village. Then you forget who you are.” --Rohinton Mistry, A FINE BALANCE
January 1, 2023
Make It Happen
He that has eyes to see and ears to hear may convince himself that no mortal can keep a secret. If his lips are silent, he chatters with his fingertips; betrayal oozes out of him at every pore. --Sigmund Freud (as read in the book by Alex Michaelides, THE SILENT PATIENT) Leave it to PALOMA to send a Happy New Year card. I loved the Eiffel Tower ‘BONNE ANNEE’ card she sent:
Dear Michael,
I wish you, Alan and your family a very Happy New Year.
Sorry I missed Christmas. Hope all is well.
Love,
Paloma
Gloria had a continuation NEW YEAR get-together at her place, and I took more pics while there. Alan’s cousin, Ilene, was still around with her family (husband Donald and grown-up kids Jared, Jonas and Lindsay). Dorothy Rua was set to leave later in the evening, so it was nice to see her again along with Alan’s accountant, Cathy Imai.
Mom’s first cousins who all live in Santa Fe, NM sent a sweet belated Holiday card:
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year. God Bless you all.
Love From, Chanita and Paul Leyba
Regards from the LEYBA Family. My telephone number is 1-505-983-4420. You should send me some pictures of your family. I can remember Virginia. It’s been a long time, so regards from all of us.
And Edward Espinosa in Albuquerque followed-up like he said he would with his family information. He did a great job, too. Edward’s maternal grandfather, DARIO LUCERO, and my maternal grandfather, FIDEL ALEXANDER LUCERO, were brothers. Edward sent a cute snapshot of his sister, Margaret Gonzales on Santa’s lap with her husband, John Joseph Gonzales seated nearby. He wrote on his business stationary, CASA DE FLORES. I know there must be more stories intertwined in this family. Every family has secrets, so I hope to learn more as time goes by.
January 3, 1997
Dear Michael,
Here is a snapshot I took Christmas Eve just passed. I used one of those throwaway cameras, so the quality is poor, but I think you’ll get the idea. I’m having some older family pictures reproduced, so I’ll send them along when I get them back.
I’ll have some information about my grandad’s grandfather and great grandfather in the next couple of weeks. This whole thing is a lot of fun. I’m glad you got it started...
Edward
On January 5th, we spent a good part of the day with my first cousin, Carol Lucero, who was in town with her husband, Ryan Ferris. That was fun. They look so happy. They’re ready for 1997 and I am too. I am geared-up for more happy times. My mission is to make it happen.
“Pleasure stems from variety, my friends,” he repeated with an excited gleam in his eye. --Mario Vargas Llosa in his book, AUNT JULIA AND THE SCRIPTWRITER
December 25, 2022
A Trust Begins to Develop
“You will never tell me what troubles you unless you calm yourself first.” --Marghanita Laski, in her 1953 book, THE VICTORIAN CHAISE LOUNGE I received even more Christmas Cards from cousins that I’m getting to know thanks to my family tree research. I am beginning to realize that the first contact is a simple acquaintance contact. If and when they write a second time they loosen up with more insight. If I am lucky and they write me three or more times a trust begins to develop; whereby, I learn of family troubles, dysfunction and fascinating stories.
From Jean Whithorn aka Margaret Jean Montoya-Whithorn (her maternal grandmother, Jesusita Garcia, and my paternal grandmother, Mathilde Garcia, were sisters):
It’s nice to meet you. Needless to say, I received your card and letter and I wish you good luck with the Family Tree. Several years ago, I was interested in the Family history and had the opportunity to visit the ruins of the village my mother was born in deep in the mountains between Mora and LeDoux, NM. That was a trip in more ways than one! Neither my mother or her father had been there since 1923 when my grandfather sold his land for $50 and moved to the city. I learned a little about the GARCIA’s of LeDoux and even met a few of them but I’m afraid I don’t recall any facts about that part of the family. My sister, Isabelle Montoya-Sherrill, was the one who took care of the paperwork and I refer you to her. She might be able to supplement the information you have. I’m sending a picture of me taken at school earlier this year (I’m a teacher). I don't have one of my family which includes my husband, Bob, and daughter, Laura, now 20 years old. Wishing you a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!
Sincerely,
Jean
Oh...and a card + letter From Paloma Sanchez-Guerra-Alquier in France who really is like chosen family. Who knows? She has roots from SPAIN, so maybe we are related to some distant Kings, Queens or nobleman.
Michael, I guess I'd better send you a Christmas Card at the same time since now we are on the 14th of December and this letter is still here.
Jonathan went to school today.
President Clinton will be in Paris today in the middle of the big mess (except hey travel by heloicopter).
I will try to send this letter tomorrow. I hope you will get it. I’m afraid lots of mail might get lost.
I wish you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. Love, Paloma
From Esther Garcia (Esther Garcia is my aunt; she is my dad’s half-sister, in Santa Fe, NM:
Dear Nephew Michael, Hope you are fine. I am OK here in Albuquerque on my way to California tomorrow to spend Christmas with my daughter, Cecelia, and son, Leroy, and my sisters, Julia and Nellie.
I just got home a couple of days in Springfield, Missouri. I spend Thanksgiving with my sister, Josie, and her husband, Bill. I had a nice time with them. Thanks a lot for the beautiful Christmas Card you sent me. Hope to see you soon if God permits. Here is my daughter, Judy’s address:
Judy and Vince Daniels
2548 Camino Cabestro, Santa Fe, NM 87501
So, you have a Happy Holiday. If you come to Oakland for Christmas, I might see you there.
Love,
Aunt Esther
From Alan’s mom and stepdad:
Hi,
I couldn’t find a card to express our feelings toward you. So, I guess I just have to find our own words.
We wish you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year and just want you to know you are one of the nicest people we know, and we are looking forward to spending lots of time with you in the New Year.
Affectionately,
Gloria and Jack
From a dear friend, Lottie Powell in Three Rivers, CA, a sweet card of birds in the snow
From Gene Hentzen in Pecos, NM (Gene is married to my mom’s first cousin Aurora Leyba)
Gene wrote:
Hi Michael,
I am sending you the names of my children:
Sandra Hentzen-Trujillo b. January 10, 1959
Danny Ray Hentzen, b. February 14, 1960
Debbie Hentzen-Salazar, b. September 26, 1961
Leroy Joseph Hentzen, b. March 2, 1966.
My phone number is 505-757-8941.
Always Love,
Gene & Aurora and Family
My coworker, Carmen Cazessus, sent a beautiful portrait photo card to me for Christmas that included her sons, Sergio, Adrian and Richard.
From Alan’s longtime friend, Herb Braha, and his wife, Carol, a sweet card filled with lavender color.
From my cousin, Gloria Antoinette Gonzales-Heavin (her mother, Josie, is my dad’s half-sister):
Hi Michael,
Wishing you a very merry Christmas! It was great hearing from you. Hope all is well with the family. It’s been so long since we’ve chatted. Remember when we were all little and went to Grandma Mathilde’s house? We were quite a large family. Please DO send me a copy of the Family Tree. If I think of anything I’ll be sure to let you know. Love,
Larry, Gloria, Jennifer and Jeff
From Dora Vigil (Dora’s mother, Loretta Helen Garcia and my paternal grandmother, Mathilde, were sisters). Dora is born the same day as me (May 26th) but in the year 1928! Wow. She didn’t write her complete phone number, so I’ll be writing to her again. I love that name: “Dora”.
Michael,
About what you asked me...I will try and get things together later on. I just got out of the hospital, and I can't do too much. It was nice hearing from you. I never thought of hearing from any of my cousins. My phone number is 408-9394.
Your Cousin,
Dora Vigil and Family
Another Christmas Card from my first cousin, Liz Lucero:
From my cousin, David Quintana, in Alburquerque, who wrote me earlier this month:
These are my kids.
My wife passed away in 1993.
God bless you and Happy Holidays.
David Quintana
Cousin Linda Tafoya-Korenke sent her annual Christmas letter from Idaho Falls, IDAHO along with a brochure from the 5th Annual Spring Fiddler’s Frolic for which she was the Contest Chairman.
From Margaret Espinosa-Gonzales (and husband, John) - her maternal grandfather, Dario Lucero, and my maternal grandfather, Fidel Alexander Lucero, were brothers:
What a nice treat to learn of a long-lost cousin. Especially one that is so interested in his heritage. We will be anxiously waiting to meet you. We hope you and your family have a blessed holiday. Take care and God Bless you.
Love,
Margaret and John Gonzales
From Dottie Montoya-Gerstner, she is the sister of Jean Whithorn and her maternal grandmother, Jesusita Garcia, and my paternal grandmother, Mathilde Garcia, were sisters:
Michael,
Peace on Earth.
Glad to hear you are doing this work on the family. I have not done much of it. My sister Isabelle in Farmington, NM is the one who has the most information, but I’ll be glad to help if I can. I’m sending a picture of my sister, Jean, and me. If I come across some better pictures of the family, I will send them.
Nice to meet a new cousin.
Dottie Montoya-Gerstner and Allen
From MaryAnn Gehling (she is the sister of Jean Whithorn and Dottie Gerstner, she is the sister of Jean Whithorn and her maternal grandmother, Jesusita Garcia, and my paternal grandmother, Mathilde Garcia, were sisters:
Dear Michael,
How wonderful to meet you through the mail. I wish you luck with your research of the family tree.
I don’t have any information for you, but my mom does. Although she is hard of hearing. My sister, Isabelle, has studied the family tree as you probably know.
My mom has the photos of the family but very few old ones. I am sending one of me and my husband, Richard (also a marathon runner) and our grandson, Tanner. It was taken in August 1995.
I would love a copy of the family tree. If you need to talk to me here is my phone number. Did my mom give you my sister’s addresses in Denver and my cousin Patty’s address in Philadelphia?
Merry Christmas,
Mary Ann
Meanwhile my Christmas Visit home to Alameda was a complete success, full of festive fun.
On Christmas Eve, we went to my grandmother’s house (mom’s mom) to deliver presents. When we go there, we never know which parts of the family will be there. This time Mom and I went with Ashley and Holly. We found my grandmother there with my Uncle Arthur, Uncle Raymond and my Aunt Lillian with her granddaughter, Tori Freestone. It made for a unique group photo.
On Christmas Day I spent it entirely at mom’s house. I snapped several shots of John and Sherri’s kids (Ashley, Holly, Ally and Dylan) and some group shots that included my brother Tony and Helen along with their daughters (Lauren and Leigh).
My longtime friend, Michael G Miller, dropped by and I took a photo of him with my sister-in-law, Helen.
On December 27th, I took mom and Ashley and Holly to Berkeley. I got a photo of them on a cool tree located on the University of California, Berkeley campus.
On December 28th I was back in Los Angeles and had another post-Christmas celebration with Alan, Jack and Gloria and the girls, Lauren and Carrie. That was super FUN, too!
New Year’s Eve was right around the corner, so Alan and I decided to organize a party. It was something different and no one else was doing it. My longtime friend (former coworker), Dorothy Rua, was going to be in town, too. So, we had a lot of Alan’s family over to the house for much chit-chat, food and festivities. We broke it in at midnight, wishing a GREAT 1997 for all of us.
“Never do something that a thousand other people are doing.” --Jack Szostak, as read in the Walter Isaacson book, THE CODE BREAKER
December 18, 2022
The Center of the Universe
“I know where we are. This is the –bridge, the center point of the universe; the place where heaven and earth meet. Here, time flows in all directions at once.” --Eric Lustbader, THE KAISHO Michael: “Alan, I was just thinking.”
Alan: “What?”
Michael: “Remember when I first moved here, and you’d come to my condo in West Hollywood?”
Alan: “Yeah.”
Michael: “Well, you had said I live in the center of the universe.”
Alan: “I remember that!”
Michael: “Why did you say that?”
Alan: “Well, because it was true. You lived in the heart of Los Angeles right near Sunset Boulevard, across the street from the trendiest restaurant, SPAGO and across from TOWER RECORDS and BOOK SOUP. You were in the center of the universe.”
Michael: “Well, I’m glad I’m near the beach now. I can always visit the center of the universe whenever I feel the need to.”
Alan followed that with a laugh.
The theme of the Christmas Cards this week seemed to be that “I’ll send more information at a later day” as the holidays are a busy time. Of course, we are all busy all of the time. We are all busy in the center of the universe. We each have our own center. It’s important to leave that center every so often. I hope some of them will keep to their word in my quest for more insight on my Family Tree and the extensions of them all. My cousin, Christine L Vigil-Kostelz sent a nice letter with a bit more information than most. She is the daughter of Joe Lawrence Vigil and Maria Dolores Mora. She lives in San Jose, CA:
Michael, My Dad said that he already sent information regarding our family. My husband (John Kostelz) and I have been married 5 ½ years. We were married in Jamaica. We have two dogs: Missy and Jeanie, both adopted from The Humane Society. We enjoy traveling, camping, water/snow skiing and river rafting. We always ski in Tahoe on Christmas Day to celebrate the Holidays.
I had talked to my brother, Paul, after the wedding. He said that he remembered hanging out with you. I must have been too busy playing with Mona.
We bought our home in San Hose in February 1991. My birthdate is 12-7-196 and John’s is 12-11-1965. I hope this information helps you with the Family Tree. Will it be available to us when you have completed it? Good luck and have fun. Happy Holidays.
Christine and John Kostelz
I, of course, wrote Christine back about the link on Ancestry.com where she can find all the input data. I liked the mini pedigree flow chart she wrote on the back of her Christmas Card which included:
Julia Casillas son: Bob Vigil (sons Troy, Todd, Cynthia)
Julia Casillas son: Joe Lawrence Vigil (children: Paul, Steve, Christine, Edward).
Paul’s sons: Andrew, Robert
Steve’s children: Miranda, Bianca
Edward’s children: Jennifer, Jessica
Mom’s cousin, Connie Armijo, included a nice note in her Christmas Card:
I’ll write to you after all of the Holidays. I’ve been sick with the flu, getting ready for the Holidays. Sorry I haven’t answered you, but I will try and send you all of the information, o? Say Hi to your mom!
Merry Xmas,
Connie Armijo
My mom’s sister/my Aunt Lillian also wrote in her Christmas Card:
I was so glad to hear from you, my favorite nephew. Thank you from Tori for her Birthday present. She loved it and she was playing nurse with her dolls with me. I had to get the shots. You want pictures. I’m sending you one of Tori at 4 years old. Just shows how old I’m getting.
Love You,
Aunt Lillian and Howard
Todd Vigil and wife, Elly (aka Susie) send a Christmas Card from Roseville, CA:
Thanks for the letter. We will send more information soon in a longer letter. Here are some pictures of the kids. Happy Holidays.
Love,
Todd, Susie (Elly), Candice Maria and Casey Todd Vigil
My 6th Grade buddy, Anthony Battu, also sent me a cool SNOOPY Christmas Card from Oakley, CA. He wrote: “Mike, Nice picture in Venice, Italy. My favorite place. I just love the Plaza. Hope you have a very merry Christmas. Hope to see you during the holidays. Anthony"
Michael,
You caught me at a very busy time. I will be sending you a letter here soon with all of the information I can muster up. Great to hear from you. Say hello to your Grandma Geneveive for me.
Love,
Lori and Ron Mason
Dorothy Rua sent Holiday Cheer also:
Merry Christmas Michael,
How appropriate your “Toys” card is, considering your hobby. Looking forward to our time together and beginning the New Year with someone special. If you need or want to call me while you’re up here you can reach me at the 800-624-6094 number during the day Monday, Tuesday and Friday or at my private line at home in the evenings. Otherwise, do enjoy the Christmas season with your family and I'll talk or see you soon after.
Love,
Dorothy
On December 21st I arrived in Alameda, and I took a solo photo of mom in front of her Christmas Tree. The following day, December 22nd, I snapped shots of my nieces, Ashley and Holly, being as festive as ever. And when Tony arrived with Helen and my nieces, Lauren and Leigh I napped a photo of them with mom in front of the tree. On December 23rd, mom and I went to Cecelia’s house (my dad’s niece) and her son, Jeremy Markus and daughter, Jessica Markus, were there. I photographed them also.
On Christmas Eve, December 24th I had a dynamic duo walk with my niece, Holly. We walked up Harbor Bay Parkway and I snapped some pictures of her as she did of me. Holly wanted to wear my leopard print jacket. She looked cute wearing it. I loved our conversation as we walked. She wanted to know when I was moving back to Alameda. I didn’t have a clear-cut answer. I had expected to move back two years after I moved in 1989. That would have been by January 1992, and yet it is now almost 1997. Harbor Bay Parkway is becoming rather industrial with some companies moving into new commercial buildings. I took a photo of Holly in front of ASCEND COMMUNICATIONS, a telecommunications equipment company. (ASCEND would be acquired in 1999 by Lucent and would then merge in 2006 with ALCATEL and then eventually be acquired in 2016 by NOKIA).
Mom’s cousin, in Santa Fe, NM, Ramona Leyba wrote in her Christmas Card:
Michael, my sister’s telephone number is 5050-983-4420. I think you have a very good idea on the Family Tree. I am single and don’t have any kids. God Bless you and all of the family. I know I have a lot of cousins up there near you. I am sure glad to hear form at least one. I will send you a photo later.
Michael,
My husband, Mike Rodriquez, has been a machinist for 28 years. And his hobby is fishing and hunting. I am a homemaker, and my hobby is playing volleyball and I like to bake and sew.
My daughter, Teresa, is 25 years old and was born on 3/21/1971. She works at the library for the Blind and is attending the Santa Fe Community College. She is taking American Sign Language and wants to become a Sign Language Interpreter. Her hobby is volleyball.
My daughter, Donna, is 20 years old and was born in 4/8/1976. She is a photographer at a Portrait Studio, and she is attending College full time on a scholarship. She is taking American Sign Language classes and wants to become a sign language interpreter and a veterinarian. Her hobbies are volleyball, soccer, basketball, softball and dancing.
My son, David Rodriguez, is 14 years old and was born on 5/1/1982. He is in the 8th grade, and he lies sports especially basketball and fishing.
I will continue to squeeze. I am already acquiring a ton of information that I had no clue about.
You are like a tube of toothpaste. When we squeeze, something comes out. When we squeeze hard, more comes out. When we do not squeeze, nothing comes out. Well, if you continue to maintain a negative attitude, naturally we’ll squeeze very hard until you are dry. --Nien Change, LIFE AND DEATH IN SHANGHAI
December 11, 2022
IF IT WASN'T FOR YOU
When you know your name, you should hang on to it, for unless it is noted down and remembered, it will die when you do. --Toni Morrison, in her book, SONG OF SOLOMON The Christmas cards were on a roll this week with more new family information gathering.
My former coworker/friend, Reed Campbell, sent the eye-opening, unexpected holiday card. I had to laugh. I also had to put a pen in front of a certain ‘private parts section’ to avoid this entry from being charged with an X-rating:
Glory! That’s a big ol’ thing! Happy Holidays.
The best of everything.
Always,
Reed
I received another delightful, typewritten letter from my cousin, Oscar Cordova. He and his wife wrote a great history of his family and it cleared some of the information for which I was in-the-dark.
December 11, 1996
Dear Michael,
Hello! How are you doing? We are presently doing O.K. Just getting over flu and colds. The weather this year has really been crazy. What we need is a big snowstorm to clean the air.
I want first to THANK YOU for contacting me about my family. I would often think and wonder about the other family members. Never even to think that one day I would have the opportunity to learn and maybe know some of them.
It was so much of a surprise to hear from you. I’ve talked to Nellie (my mother) twice since last Friday. Made me feel good and her, also. I’m going to send her a few of the most recent pictures that we have taken. If you all plan on getting together for the holidays you will get to see my family in pictures.
I received your letter Tuesday right before I left for work. I looked at it when I got home from work that night. My wife, Elsie Lucero-Cordova, and I will try to follow your outline of the family tree and provide as much information as we can.
A little history of myself. I was raised by my grandmother, Trinidad Sandoval-Cordova, in Holman, NM. As for my dad, well, he was killed in Mora, NM when I was 12-years old. He was working at the Steel Mill in Pueblo, CO. He would go home on weekends. My sisters, Sandra (Rita) was 11-years old and Mary Jean was 7-years old.
I worked a couple of summers in Denver on Construction Building Homes. I met my wife, Elsie, in the summer of 1960. Then, in May 1961, I graduated from Mora High School in NM. That same night I came to Denver to find a job to better myself. I found a job in landscaping and taking care of the lawn in a golf course. Elsie graduated from Westminster Hight School in May 1962. She started to work at Keebler Company. She quit when we had our first son. Two years later she went back to work at Keebler Company and has been there since.
Elsie and I were married on July 6, on September 7, 1964. We bought our first home in October of the same year. We had our first son, Manuel Eugene Cordova, on September 7, 1964. Our second son, Archie Ray Cordova, was born on August 30, 1968. We moved to our second home in July 1970. That is where we are presently living. I have remodeled and added on to the house, doing a lot of changing to it in order to eliminate work for when I get older and retire.
I started to work at Keebler Company on July 13, 1970. I worked first shift as an oven operator, baking crackers for KRAFT FOODS (the ones that KRAFT puts into small packages with cheese. I transferred to second shift in 1994 as a mixer. Now I make the dough for all the Graham Crackers on second shift. One dough weighs approximately 2800 pounds. Elsie has worked at Keebler Company since September 8, 1966. She is a line manager. In fact, she is my manager for I make doughs for her line. This makes her job a little easier for it is very difficult. Some operators don’t take ownership of their jobs. She has a lot of area to cover.
We built a cabin in the Green Mountain Reservoir. This is 27 miles from Silverthorne and Dillon. Maybe you have heard of Vail, Colorado. Well, it’s further east and north. We, as a family, built the cabin from leveling the ground to actually building it. It’s a 2-bedroom with kitchen, living room, attached garage and a big patio/porch. The cabin is right along the lake shore. We hunt big game, fish, and go boating. Mostly water ski (the kids do that mostly now). In the winter we go up a few times for ice fishing and snowmobile on the lake.
My son, Manuel, graduated from high school and went to Mesa College for 3.5 years. He quit for he was tired of being broke. In the summer of 1987, he met Lloydine Marie Mandonado (born Sept. 13, 1961) and they married on May 28, 1988. He now has returned to get his degree for surveying. This is what he is doing now. Lloydine works for the State of Colorado. Their first son, Manuel Eugene Cordova Jr. Was born on May 4, 1989. Their daughter, Marisa Elosia, was born on December 29, 1993. Manuel has been buying his house since before he got married. He also has a cabin up the hill from ours.
Archie Ray graduated from high school and works for a food warehouse as a forklift driver. He moved out when he was 23 years old. He also bought his home when he was 21 years old. He rented it for a couple of years and then moved into it. He, also, has a cabin not too far from his brother. His house is only a couple of blocks from his brother. Also, Archie met his wife, Sharon Louise Martinez (born January 29, 1967) in February of 1993. They married on August 19, 1995. Sharon is a mail carrier for the post office. They presently have no children, only a black lab named Midnight (for bird hunting).
Both boys and I like to hunt. We hunt for birds, big game and fish in other places than the Green Mountains where the cabins are. We do a lot of family camping. This makes it a lot of fun, especially when a big group of friends go.
I am eligible to retire from Keebler Company soon. Maybe like in the Fall of 1997. I just might decide to wait for Elsie to retire. Who knows? She has to work until January 1999. We both feel we are ready to enjoy life and the grandchildren more. Although we do see them 3-4 times a week.
Maybe this next year we can go out to California and visit the family out there, to at least know some of them. If you ever come to Denver, be sure and give us a call. We work Monday thru Friday and leave for work at about 1:45pm. I get home at approximately 10PM the majority of the time. You are welcome any time.
Well, I better close for now. Please excuse any mistakes for Elsie is ‘no typist’. Regards to EVERYONE!
Oscar and Elsie Cordova
And my 2nd Cousin, Isaac J. Romero, in Santa Fe, NM also wrote a great letter:
12-12-1996
Dear Michael,
Sorry it took so long to respond to your letter, but you know how it is during the holidays. Anyway, here Is the information you wanted:
Isaac, b. 6-14-1941, Santa Fe, NM
My wife, Gloria Bustos-Romero, b. 2-1-1941, Santa Fe, NM
Children:
Darlene Yvonne Ortega aka Darlene Romero b. January 29, 1967, Santa Fe, NM
Michelle J. Romero, b. June 7, 1970, Santa Fe, NM
Patricia D. Romero, b. January 21, 1975, Santa Fe, NM
Grandchildren:
Gabrielle N. Ortega, b. April 1, 1991, Santa Fe, NM
Janelle B. Ortega, b. November 30, 1993, Santa Fe, NM
We are sending your grandmother pictures of our girls and our grandchildren if you want to see them. It is really great that you are working on our family tree. We would love to get a copy. Let us know if we can be of further assistance. Our phone number is 505-471-4435.
Isaac J. Romero
Isaac is my 2nd cousin. His parents are Joe N Romero and Dulcinea Armijo (aka Nea). Nea is my mom’s first cousin. Nea’s mother is Justa Lebya-Armijo. Justa is my grandmother’s sister. It’s funny how Justa married an Armijo. My mom married an Armijo too. There’s a lot of jumping over the family fences going on in New Mexico.
And another follow-up letter arrived from Eva Tafoya-Montoya:
Dec. 13, 1996 Dear Cousin Michael,
I was very glad to get your last letter and by writing to you I am learning more about my own family. My brother Johnny’s family I never knew very well. I remember Teresa. Johnny was the youngest in the family. I am next to the oldest, so there is a big difference in age. In fact, my son, Dick, is only four months younger than Johnny (my brother).
I knew my grandniece, Christina, was living in California but I didn’t know her married name (Keller) or whether she had any children (Gus and Grace).
My son, Frank, called the other day and told me he had received your letter. He didn’t quite know who you were. If you keep writing to him, he can fill you in on his family. His first wife’s name was Virginia Locklear. The oldest daughters are: Cynthia Ann Montoya-Stewart b. 9-23-1957; Karen Lynn Montoya bl. 5-18-1959; Teresa Joan Montoya b. July 9, 1960. They all live in South Carolina. I don’t know Karen and Teresa’s husbands’ names or the exact date of their children's births or their ages. I’m not sure of Frank’s current wife, Doris (aka Teodora), but I think her maiden name is Arellano. Franks new children with Doris are: Aryan Elizabeth Montoya b. 2-9-1986; Arturo Rodrigo Montoya b. 12-15-1990.
I’ll write again soon. If you hear from Linda Wright (my niece in Apple Valley, CA) please let me know.
Eva
My letter from my Aunt Joise was wonderful—but maybe just a tad too religious for me. I don’t consider myself a religious person. I was raised Catholic as I was baptized and had a First Holy Communion, attending Catholic School through 5th Grade; however, as one grows older, I feel it is one’s own choice to decide what religion they feel closest to. Personally, while I grew up Catholic and learning that I actually have some Sephardic Jewish roots (my DNA is even about 1% Ashkenazi Jewish) I actually feel closest to Buddhism. It is important to have some spirituality in one’s life. I do—and I have my spiritual time when I run on the beach in the mornings or other fine solitary moments.
Dec. 13, 1996
Dear Michael,
How wonderful to hear and to know that a nephew is interested in family and past ancestors. It’s wonderful to get a note from you more than you realize. You are the blood of my brother. Even though I don’t know much about you and I have never personally expressed my live for you and your brothers I want to say that I LOVE YOU and how happy you have made me to keep in touch with family, and also making an effort to know more about each one of us.
I’ll tell you a little about my life. My new life with Bill Wright has been blessed in more ways than one. He is a wonderful man and has made my life complete. There’s tranquility, peace and a closer wall with God. We both worship in the Baptist faith which doesn’t make it better than in the Catholic faith. The name of denominations doesn’t mean anything to God. It’s your relationship with him that counts. I have grown in faith by studying the Bible, a book that I just kept on the shelf for years and barely opened it. I have found that by studying the Bible it is the most fascinating book on earth. You never learn too much but you must study in faith and believe that it is truly the word of God. Otherwise, you’re just reading another book that fascinates you. We are both active in the church and doing volunteer work for Ronald McDonald House. Perhaps you have heard about that organization that helps the poor that can’t afford a place to stay. Away from home we work there once a week to help our community. Also, we both golf (Bill more than me).
I am active in Water Aerobics and walking, so you can see how we keep ourselves pretty busy. We had our house build before we moved to Missouri, something I would not do again. I find things I would have changed in the house had I been here when they were building it. It’s a pretty comfortable hose. I hope someday you can come and visit us.
We had a difficult time getting adjusted at first with not knowing anybody. Only Bill’s parents and his three brothers live here. Bill’s father is 93-years old. His mother passed away last year. Eventually, we made friends through our church. Now we have the most wonderful friends that we spend time with and play dominoes occasionally.
Last night, we went to Branson, MO to see Dino, a piano player that almost equals to Liberace. He plays classical music. You have heard of Branson, haven’t you? Well, there are various theaters there where stars perform like The Rockettes from New York. Andy Williams, Glen Campbell, Kenny Rogers, et.
Sorry we won't get to see you for Christmas sine we changed our mind about going this year. We plan on going in June when my grandson, Jeff, graduates.
I am glad you are doing well in your career. You sound like you are pretty well established and settled in your life. It’s always good to hear about your family or part of your family, knowing they’re doing good. I am happy for you, Michael.
How is your mom? Has she retired yet? My love to her.
Oh, did you know that your grandpa, Jose Antonio Armijo, was in the service in World War I? I don’t know for how long, but I do remember seeing a picture of him in uniform. He looked a lot like your father but was much shorter, probably like your Uncle Joe Jr. He loved to eat handmade tortillas and just chew them like cracklings. He loved to wear cowboy boots! That’s all I remember. At the time he died (March 23, 1955), my mother and him had been separated for several years. Your dad had to go from Oakland to New Mexico to make arrangements for his funeral. I can’t imagine how he did it being your dad was only about 19-years old. I was thinking about that the other day and visualized what your dad had went through during that ordeal. I guess being a small town they knew what to do to help him. I think he had or was buried by military service rights. I am not sure. I know my mother couldn’t afford a dime towards a funeral at the time. I hope this little information will help you.
Keep in touch. I would like to hear more from you.
Love Your Aunt Josie
And from a cousin I don’t know named Nancy Garcia in Mora, NM:
12-13-96 Michael,
Received your letter. I hope to meet you someday. I’m divorced. I have three boys. One is married, the middle one is a sophomore in college and my youngest is a freshman in high school. I also have a daughter in law and a beautiful grandchild (a boy).
My oldest son lives in Denver. I’m a schoolteacher and also a graduate student working on a Master's Degree in Counseling. I take care of my mother. She is 83 years old. Keep in touch. My phone number is 505-387-5197. Have a Merry Christman and a Happy New Year.
Nancy Garcia and Family, HCR 64, Box 10A, Mora, NM 87732
Mom’s Christmas card was simple, but sweet since she knew I would be there in Alameda soon:
And to you Glad Christmas, too.
Love,
Mom
See you in a few days.
Mom’s cousin Joann Wright-Roybal sent a nice Christmas card but not very informative which was an indication that I’d have to find out information on her family line another way.
It was great hearing from you and do hope all your family is doing great. On your request about the Family tree, give me a little time. I’m working on it, sounds like fun. It takes time to do all of that research. Ah... Regards to ALL THE FAMILY. How’s grandma doing? Until then, from you or you from me, a blessed Holiday to you.
Love,
JoAnn, Dennis, Annette, Trish and Dominic
12/15/96 Michael,
Received your card and I’m sure glad to know you are doing well. We are all fine, too. I’m half-way retired but it seems there is always something to do. her is the information you asked me for.
Jerry Leyba
My wife is Pauline Leyba. My son, Steve Leyba, is married to Tina Leyba and they have two sons: Steve Leyba Jr. And Jared Leyba. My daughter, Stephanie Leyba, is married to Martin Acevedo and they have a son named Cordero Acevedo and they have a baby girl on the way due in February 1997.
I also love how it never fails each holiday season and I receive two of the same Christmas cards from two different people. This time it was from my Aunt Julia Vigil-Casillas and her sister, my Aunt Nellie:
Hi Sweetie!
Just a few lines to say HELLO and wish you the best of luck and good health and may God Bless you! Thanks for the copy of the Family Tree you are doing a wonderful job.
With Lots of Love,
Aunt Julia Casillas
Dear Nephew, Just a few lines to Thank you with all of my heart. I just heard from my son, Oscar, after twenty-eight years! He came to see me, and I never heard from him since. He called me and I almost had a heart attack. IF IT WASN’T FOR YOU...that might have never happened.
May God Bless you always for doing what you’re doing for this family. Thanks again.
Love,
Your Auntie Nellie
December 16, 1996
May the Christmas season bring you joyful moments, warm memories and very special happiness.
Love Pam and Art LUCERO
We’ll send you family telephone numbers after the holidays. Did you remember Louis (Luis) Lucero b. March 31, 1978?
And more Christmas cards from my cousin Patrick Markus, Uncle Ray and Liz, and one from a Roy Quintana cousin at 6722 Broadway Blvd NE in Albuquerque, NM that I have never met: Michael,
Randy and Robyn are living with my sister, Angie. I do not know Ricky’s new address. Marilyn was telling me that you two are communicating. The family tree is interesting but somewhat complicated.
Merry Christmas, Roy
My sister-in-law, Sherri Lewis-Armijo's mother is named Janet Lewis. Jan Lewis wrote me a fascinating letter about her family. I thought it odd that she signed it Jan because I’ve always known her as Janet. I liked knowing her background:
Michael, I have done our Family Tree as far as I can go. Ther Gerling side of the family I never got to know because we moved in with my mom’s parents when dad went to the war and was killed. Since the Gerling’s didn’t like mom, we never went to see them (only 7-miles from us).
Grandpa Van Winkle was born in Brighton, Iowa. He had some brothers and sisters but since Grandpa was the black sheep of the family, I never knew any of them. The only one wo’s name was mentions was Eldon (aka Eldie). So, you see, even though the family was huge I never had the privilege of knowing them because of the way things went but I had the love of grandparents and a wonderful mom.
Mike, the photos are going to be hard to come by. Our family was not one for taking pictures and now all that is left is me. But I shall look the first chance I get. If I can be of any more help just let me know. Love, Jan
And lastly this week, from Albuquerque, my cousin Edward Espinosa sent a Dinner Invitation for Saturday, December 21st (of which I won’t be attending on such short notice). It’s a dinner is celebrating the graduations of DENISE GONZALES-PADILLA for Bachelor of Science in Electrical Engineering at UNM, her husband, VICTOR PADILLA from the Albuquerque Fire Department Academy and DEAN GONZALES for Bachelor of Science in Electrical Engineering at UNM at Chianti’s Italian Restaurant:
Dear Michael,
The heavy Holiday Season is upon us, and it looks like we’re going to be very busy and that’s how we want it. There just is not a lot of time for us to actually enjoy Christmas.
Margaret’s daughter, Denise, is graduating at UNM as is her second son, Dean. Victor, Denise’s husband, also just graduated from the Fire Sciences Academy. All celebrations are taking place the weekend of the 21st of December. I’m already tired but it’ll be at this pace at our florist store clear through Mother’s Day.
Thanks for your cards and the Christmas gift. I almost feel like meeting you in person is just going to be a formality. I’d like to try to encourage you to set back your plans for New Mexico until October. It’s the most beautiful time of the year in New Mexico and also the International Hot Air Balloon Fiesta is in October.
I will be in the L.A. area in July (a flower thing) and I hope to be able to get together with you then. The exact date has not been set but it will be in July. Hope you enjoyed your visits with your cousins and hope the holiday with your family is great. Edward
“Kindness is as kindness does.” --Ruth Ware in her novel, THE TURN OF THE KEY
December 4, 2022
Inspired by a Dream
"As powerful as you are here in your realm, Dreams rarely survive in the waking world. Nightmares, on the other hand, seem to thrive there.” – Lucienne, from the 2022 series, THE SANDMAN The Christmas Cards 1996 are beginning to trickle-in, and I am loving the ones that I am receiving from Family that I have never met who write me with new information (more names, dates, but few stories). I am beginning to realize that the family stories and photographs are much more interesting than mere names, birthplaces and birthdates.
In the meantime, I also received a postcard of a Wrought Iron Volkswagen bug from Barbara Reynolds. She does find some innovative images. Apparently, a guy named Joe Gomez was inspired by a dream and spent 9-months building this VW. He was trying to sell it according to Barbara’s postcard and the car appeared in a book and film entitle WILD WHEELS by Harrod Blank of El Cerrito, CA. In Barbara’s words:
Dear Michael,
Happy I received your bike stamps. I will use some of them for my English Relations Holiday Communications.
I finally saw the movie BOUND last weekend. I thought it was funny and beautiful (like the DRAKKAR NOIR card you sent me).
Our coworker, Joan Lyons, turns the big 50 December 9th and is temporarily promoted over the past two months, training manager for our office (something she is great at).
Look at me. Ha. Hmm Yum, Kosher Turkey...no wonder you are in Heaven.
I just read a quote from Abe Lincoln: “Most folks are as happy as they make up their minds to be.”
Today, I am beginning another step toward taking care of my thyroid and trying to understand why I am so afraid of this. Guess some kind of faith or power thing?
What kind of car do you drive now? I am going to get body work for my car beginning in 1997. Resolved and decided I will get all of my storage stuff this month since I’ve completed the one-year mark here. I am getting things in order. Hooray for Sagittarius focus. It’s a nice change of energy. Later.
Love, Barbara
I loved a letter/Christmas Card I received this week from my first cousin (once removed) named James Garcia. He was born in Ledoux, Mora County, NM but now lives in Cheyenne, Wyoming. His mother was Mela (aka Manuelita Garcia), my grandmother Mathilde’s younger sister. James looks like a film star.
Photo: James Lorenzo Garcia b. June 22, 1932, Ledoux, NM d. June 20, 2004, Cheyenne, WY
Dear Michael,
It was nice to hear from you and know I have another cousin. I hope my answers to your questions will help you in the Family Tree research. If you have any more questions in which I can help you write or call me at 307-634-6804. I am very interested in hearing from you again and in the history.
Your Cousin,
Jim Garcia
Answers to your questions:
I was born on June 22, 1932 in Murphy, Ledoux, NM. I am married to my dear wife, Susie Romero Garcia. We were married in Greeley, CO on Feb. 25, 1952. We have three sons: Jimmy (James R Garcia) b. Nov. 16, 1952; Lloyd J Garcia b. Sept. 6, 1956; Lawrence V Garcia b. Jan. 8, 1958. I retired from the Union Pacific Railroad after 42 years. My phone number is 307-634-6804.
Mela (my mother) was born on May 25, 1907 in New Mexico; she died July 4, 1996 in Cheyenne, WY. Mela and Alejandro Fresquiez had 6 children; 3 died as infants.
Currently living:
Joe A Garcia, Santa Clara, CA 408-246-6202 (my brother b. 1924)
Susie Rosser, Moore, Oklahoma (my sister b. 1934)
Alejandro Garcia (Fresquiez) was my father born in NM on March 12, 1900. He was adopted by an uncle by the last name of Fresquiez). My father, Alejandro, disappeared from here in Cheyenne, WY on November 30, 1982 and has never been found. It’s a mystery.
Photo: Mela Garcia
My mother, Mela, remarried to Adelaido Cisneros and had four children: Joe Jr. b. 1940 d. Nov. 1995 in Cheyenne, WY, Joe Jr. had been missing, now deceased; Fred b. 1942; Ella b. 1944, she lives in Greeley, CO; Johnny b. 1948. Both Fred and Johnny also live in Cheyenne, WY. Your Cousin, Jim Garcia
My dad’s first cousin, Eva Tafoya-Montoya, wrote a new, informative letter this week from Farmington, NM. While she, too, listed dates and names, if you read between the lines, you might find a word, a phrase or some tidbit that does provide a story. My cousin James Garcia did it, too. And if the complete story isn't there, I know I can always be inspired by a dream.
Dec. 4, 1996
Dear Michael,
I was surprised to get a reply so soon. I’m also glad to be getting acquainted with you. I hope we can meet in person someday. If you come to NM next year, be sure to stop by. Yes, I know your Aunt Esther, my cousin and some of her sisters and Tony and Orolio.
My Aunt Matilde (your grandmother) and her husband (your grandfather) went to Denver, CO. I don’t know what year it was. They stopped at my parents' house (Jesusita Garcia and Juan Bautista Tafoya). They had two little boys (one must have been your father). I didn’t see my Aunt Matilde again until 1945. She went to see my mother (her sister) before she died on April 28, 1945. My mother was staying with me. She died in my house. I was the first one to marry from my family, so I kind of missed out on a lot of things about the family.
I remember my grandparents: Savino Garcia and Juanita Sanchez-Garcia. I know all of my uncles and aunts, but I was just 11-years old when we moved to Colorado (from NM). I didn’t come back until 1970. My father was still living, and he came with us. I wouldn’t have found my way without him. In 1972, we bought some property in Mora, NM and we used to come there on vacation every year. I go reacquainted with my Uncle Tony. I knew Aunt Julia (Eulalia Garcia b. 1896 d. 1977) the best because she lived in Denver for a long time. She had the two daughters Martha and Violet Casados. Martha died but I still see Vi once in a while when we go to Albuquerque. I see Esther sometimes when my daughter or son-in-law take us. My husband and I don’t drive anymore except around town. Farmington is a small town, and we like it here. We’ve been living here since 1988. My daughter, Isabel, lives here. She has one child, a boy named Ryan. She and her husband, Robert Sherrill, are both working, so my husband and I look after Ryan. Ryan is 11-years old, in the 6th grade. They are very busy—like all families nowadays.
My son, Patrick Montoya, is not married, so he comes up for the holidays and on vacation. He lives in Tucson, AZ, as does my oldest son, Frank. Frank Montoya is married and has two children (a boy named Arturo b. 1990 and a daughter named Aryan b. 1986). This is his second marriage. He has three grown daughters from his first marriage Cynthia Ann b. 1957; Karen Lynn b. 1959 and Teresa Joan b. 1960. These three daughters each have two children. We have 13-grandchildren and 10 great-grandchildren, so you see, it’s quite a family.
I discouraged you from calling. Why? Is it because my husband and I are hard-of-hearing? We wear hearing aids but it’s very hard to talk on the phone. I will keep on writing to you. However, did you have a good Thanksgiving? Do write and tell me about yourself. Are you married? Until next time.
God Bless You.
Always Your Cousin, Eva
Eva continued with a list of names of her brothers and sisters, adding a note:
“All of my brothers, except Gilbert, have children but I can’t remember names or birthdates. We are expecting my niece, Linda Tafoya-Wright. I have never met her. She is my brother, Sam’s daughter. She lives in Apple Valley, CA. I think they will be here sometime between Christmas and New Year's. The family is scattered all over. I know the whereabouts of my children but not my nieces and nephews. I think it’s a good idea to trace your Family History. My daughter has done a lot of research on the Tafoya and Montoya names, but she doesn’t have much time to work on it. It takes time.
As Always,
Your Cousin, Eva Montoya"
Besides my usual Charles Schwab & Co. working hours I have been entering all of this new Family History information in a somewhat organized manner by using a website called ANCESTRY. In the meantime, Alan, is busy with his Bagel business empire. He recently went to Texas to meet with investors and investigate new locations over there. He wrote me from the Omni Mandalay Hotel at Las Colinas in Irving, Texas:
Dec. 6, 1996 Dear Michael,
I’m so excited about your Family History but you insulted me on the phone tonight. You didn’t seem interested in my day, flight, meetings or plans. So, I figured I’d write you and tell you.
We saw six BAGEL BOULEVARDS today. They are the best bagel concept around. The guy that owns the company owned 275 Pizza Huts and sold them back to Pepsi. He might listen to us but will probably sell to EINSTEIN’s BAGELS.
Gregg learned a lot about their operation, and we picked up a lot of general information.
The plane ride here was terrible. It was like a roller-coaster.
I really want a vacation with you away from it all.
I miss you
Tomorrow it’s off to more bagel stores and then leaving for NY at 3:45pm to Newark, NJ
I Love You
Happy Hannukah
It’s 12 midnight. Good night.
Please pay more attention to me. I need it.
Love,
Alan
December 8, 1996
Dear Michael,
Hi! I had your Xmas Card sealed and ready to go when I received yours, so I’m sending this to give you the addresses you asked for my sister, Liz Lucero, and my dad, Howard Lucero. I will search for extra family photos. Are you thinking of publishing this Family Tree in any way. Maybe a website? Have I mentioned that Ryan has a website? He can say more about that later. By the way, to set the record straight, my middle name is “Jean” not all. Granny Lucero gest that confused sometimes. Liz’s middle name is Anne.
Anyway, will see you soon.
Love, Carol
And the week wouldn’t be the same without a new, sensual card from Dorothy Rua. Ha-ha. She’s getting back at me because I often send her similar romancing-the-stone type of cards that seem to be inspired by a dream.
12-9-96
Dear Michael,
I can only imagine how much fun your 12/7 Christmas Party was. I still wish I could have made it. You’re going to have to share all of the details.
I’m arriving on Southwest Flight 585 at 10:15AM on Sunday 12/29 and departing 1/1 at 7:30PM (or a little earlier, I’m not sure). As I said on the phone, don’t worry about the time you get back into town on the 29th. There’s a shuttle that will take me from LAX to the Best Western Jamaica Bay Inn and I can explore the immediate area when I get there. If you need to nap when you get back just call me when you wake up. Don’t want you tired!
Finished, THE ENGLISH PATIENT book and I’m anxious to see the movie with you. The book was really good, and I heard the movie follows the book pretty well. Saw RANSOM with Rosemarie, yesterday. I’m not a Mel Gibson fan but the movie was pretty good. I still have to watch the movies on video you recommended. Looking forward to quiet time when I can do that. I’m sure that time is coming.
Life moves along here. Just a bit busier with the holidays. Hope I can stay away from most of the holiday treats, especially the homemade fudge.
It’s been a while since I’ve sent a risqué card. Thought it was time, even if it’s homemade.
Thinking of you, always. Get that cold glass of chardonnay ready for me.
Love,
Dorothy
A cousin I’ve never met named DAVID QUINTANA wrote me from Albuquerque. He’s a second cousin and it’s kind of cool because he is only one year older than I. His maternal grandfather, Augustin Garcia, and my grandmother, Mathilde Garcia, were brother and sister.
Michael,
It was really good to hear from you. I’m glad to hear you are going good in the L.A. Marathon and so on. Good luck.
Would you please send me a copy of our Family Tree? I would really appreciate it. Here is my telephone number in Albuquerque, NM.
I sold a business I had for five and a half years after my wife died. I just invest in real estate accounts right now. My job is like a Mr. Mom. I have a full-time job bringing up my kids (Danette Quintana b. 1989 and Adam Quintana b.1993).
God Bless you and maybe at the end of December I’ll be going to California. I’ll call you if I do.
Your cousin,
David Quintana
Funny, because the same day I received a Christmas Card from David’s mom, Beatrice Garcia-Quintana. She wrote a note that I thought courageous by using the phrase 'if I don't die before'. It made me want to meet her even more.
If I don’t die before we might meet someday. This is my phone number.
Here I am sending you the pictures of my granddaughters, the twins are Jerry and Florence. These twins came to Jerry’s family through Florence’s side. Her dad was a twin. The twins are 18 years old and are cheerleaders. If possible save me this picture. Thanks.
Love,
Beatrice
One more Christmas Card arrived from Las Vegas, NM this week. It was from Josie Garcia Abeyta (and her husband, Joe G Abeyta). Josie’s father is Augustine Garcia (my grandma Mathilde’s brother). Her note was simple and to the point. It was refreshing to get word of a ‘small-in-size' family. Ha-ha
Wishing you that special happiness only Christmas brings.
Here I am sending you, my family. It’s small: 1-son, 1-daughter, 1-granddaughter.
I married Joe G Abeyta on March 13, 1941. Joe was born in Las Vegas, NM on 12/24/1923. I was born on 10/27/1924.
My son is Larry G Abeyta who married Joann Abeyta in March 1990. The live in Albuquerque. My granddaughter (Larry’s daughter) is Debby Abeyta Garcia b. January 11, 1966, who married Kerry Garcia. They have a daughter (my granddaughter), Nicole Marie Garcia, b. Sept. 8, 1996.
My daughter, Mary K Abeyta was born on Sept. 19, 1945. She is single, living in Hobbs, NM.
“There ain’t nobody in the world like book people. It’s a business of gentleman and gentlewomen.” --Gabrielle Zevin,THE STORIED LIFE OF A.J. FIKRY, a novel
