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June 25, 2015

13 Ways to Overcome Sleeplessness

For the last three years I have not slept … not really. I’ve seldom woken up with that “Ahhhhh, it’s great to be alive” feeling in the morning – which I attribute to both recovering from grief and the encroach of menopause. Instead, I’ve spent up to four hours hanging out in the middle of […]


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Published on June 25, 2015 11:02

June 17, 2015

The Value of an Excruciating Relationship

Once, for sixteen months, I marched straight into the desert but somehow couldn’t extricate myself. I fell so deeply in love that I couldn’t see how bullied I was … or what a gelatinous ball of mush I had become.  I got to see graphically, up close and personal, exactly how far I could go […]


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Published on June 17, 2015 10:06

June 2, 2015

How I Gave Up My Home and Found Freedom

I just moved again. Only this time … I’ve finally come home. Since my daughter died and my one-time life fell apart in 2012, my undulating path has led me ever forward. Again and again I’ve been called to up-level who I am, what I do … and even where I live. Challenges have abounded. […]


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Published on June 02, 2015 14:05

May 12, 2015

What Happens When You Meet Your Needs

Long ago and far away, I was once a little kid with the average, random assortment of needs. Yet because of the configuration of my dysfunctional family, those needs didn’t always get met. So, like a lot of us, I learned to hold on and deny my needs. Throughout my adult life I often made […]


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Published on May 12, 2015 11:20

April 28, 2015

Ten Healing Things to Remember

1. You are enough. And not only are you enough … everyone else is, too. Right here. Right now. Just as we are, with nothing added 2. It’s safe to take your time. You don’t have to rush. Anyone or anything that is pressing you to go faster or do more can be asked, politely, […]


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Published on April 28, 2015 10:10

March 24, 2015

Why Women Get Weepy

This is written for all the bewildered men out there who have had a weepy, sobbing woman on their hands. WTF, right? One minute she was fun, lively, and capable of solving all sorts of problems. But the next thing you knew she was sad and limp … a real wet dishrag. And for no apparent […]


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Published on March 24, 2015 14:25

March 17, 2015

Exquisite Self Care on a Tight Budget

I used to think of self-care as a special treat — something I only bought myself occasionally. Back then it took the form of a massage or a much anticipated spa day. I couldn’t afford it, I always told myself. Anyway, I had children to take care of, mouths to feed and a business to […]


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Published on March 17, 2015 14:46

March 13, 2015

How to Make a Tough Decision

Sometimes all you really have to do is just stop and take three deep breaths. This has been proven to slow your system down — so you can literally catch your breath, calm down and make a grounded decision. Three deep breaths. That’s all it takes to choose with clarity.


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Published on March 13, 2015 10:14

March 7, 2015

Why We Are Here

We are here for one simple reason — To direct our natural, overflowing abundance of love just where it is needed. Ask yourself what you could give today that would be just enough … For the rest of the world, and for yourself? Thank you, dear friend. We await your gifts with gratitude.


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Published on March 07, 2015 00:12

March 3, 2015

10 Ways to Stop Being ‘Insanely Busy’

If you’re like many of us, you work 50-60 hours in an office. Or you take work home, work on weekends — and try to juggle the rest of life as well. It gets overwhelming, doesn’t it? That plus the ever present demands of children, aging parents, community sends us over the edge. No wonder […]


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Published on March 03, 2015 11:53