Liz Flaherty's Blog, page 10
December 26, 2024
A Perfectly Imperfect Holiday

The other day, a friend asked me if I loved Christmas so much because of the nostalgia of it all, the memories it evokes of childhood and presents and happy family gatherings. After thinking about it for a minute, I have to honestly say no. Don’t get me wrong, I have plenty of happy childhood memories of the holidays, but none of them are perfect even through the rose-colored glasses of yesterday.
My dad used to blind us every Christmas morning with a bar of lights that had th...
December 25, 2024
Brand New

Good morning, and Merry Christmas. It's quiet here, with our family scattered and likely still asleep in their own homes. Even the cats are still asleep. Well, except for the one who hurried into the office ahead of me and perched on my desk like she belonged there.
This is the day I reserve for myself in the Window Holidays Project. I love the Project, that some authors come every year and that some visitors come every day. I get the chance to create graphics, thinking each year I'll get bett...
December 24, 2024
Christmas Toy Memories

Husband and I went Christmas shopping yesterday, something we haven’t done together in a long time. Usually, I’m the Christmas shopper, which is kinda ironic because I hate shopping. I’m terrible at it, especially during the holidays. I get overwhelmed by crowded stores and too many choices, which is why I tend to shop online mostly. However, yesterday was all about Grandboy and man, did we have fun. Bear in mind that for several reasons, not the least of which is an order fro...
December 23, 2024
Celebrating Hanukkah

Hanukkah, the Jewish holiday celebrating the miracle of the oil and the rededication of the Second Temple after the defeat of the Syrian Empire, feels especially poignant this year. With the state of the world and all the hatred that is so easily spewed online and in the streets, any chance to let a little light and joy into our lives needs to be grabbed with both hands. Since it falls on Christmas, it’s an especially festive time, and easily celebrated with family and friend...
December 22, 2024
Simple Christmas Celebrations

Holidays in my youth run together sometimes. I head down memory lane to look for that special moment and end up sidetracked to a dozen little memories tucked away in forgotten corners of my mind.
I make my memory sound like a thirty room mansion when I talk about my childhood. There are dozens of rooms up there. One of them smells like a fresh pine tree, and the memories slap you like plastic icicles on the television screen.
That is something you don’t see anymore. Those ...
December 21, 2024
Music and Simple Pleasures

My husband does The 25 Songs of Christmas on Facebook from December 1st to December 25th. He has 285 Christmas albums to choose from; yes, they are vinyl. Some are 45s, though most are 33. I’m his videographer, and he plays the albums, researches information about them, and then posts them. Because of an injury, and stairs are between him and his collections, I’m the one picking the music. So many songs to choose from. Some are traditional, then there’s the Three Stooges Christ...
December 20, 2024
Changing the World

It’s Christmas season again. Isn’t it funny how every year, there’s someone to tell you you’re doing it wrong? You should put up your tree earlier, or later, or not at all. You’re using the wrong greeting. Your decorating standards are too high, or too low. Your gift choices miss the mark. You’re spending too much money, consuming too many calories, and putting too much emphasis on the material, and not enough on the spiritual.
And they’re often right. But I think they’re m...
December 19, 2024
Hope for the Holidays

The holidays are a time for family, for joy, for…Hope.
I spent a week online talking about Hope. I used to say I was an optimistic person. I believe that things will work out. It’s a blind belief. A trust in the fact most people listen to their better angels. But hope? Hope takes work. It’s a belief that things can be better, that people can be better…if you’re willing to work for it.
A friend sent a meme and I don't know who to credit. But I love the imagery. Hope requires...
December 18, 2024
Small Town Holidays

It still astonishes me sometimes that I live in a small town in northern New England. I grew up in suburbia surrounded by traffic and crowds. It’s refreshing to live in a place where the only traffic is at my bird feeders and the crowd is congregated at the back door when our four hounds want to go outside. The contrast between where I started and where I am now influences my sweet holiday romances set in the fictitious town of Dickens.
Have you visited Dickens yet? There ...
December 17, 2024
When Christmas Isn't Perfect

This year, I began celebrating Christmas earlier than usual. Most Decembers, I’m a strict adherent to the unwritten rule of no decorations, no carols, and even no gift shopping before Thanksgiving. However, 2024 has been a year of change for me—as an American, an employee, a homeowner, and a writer. Not all of these changes have been bad, but by early November, I needed the, let’s say, “stability,” that Christmas carols and Hallmark movies bring.
While engaging in th...


