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June 26, 2015

The End?

This is the third part of a tale of education, the government, and rats…for the first and second parts, check the previous posts. “So You’re Lisa!” Harmless enough, right? Except I heard that phrase at least a dozen times yesterday afternoon. And it made me really uncomfortable – but I recognize my comfort level here […]
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Published on June 26, 2015 04:01

June 23, 2015

I’m Not A Rabble-Rouser! But…

This is the second part of a tale of education, the government, and rats…for thefirstandthirdparts, check the other posts.Seriously people…those of you who know me know that a spotlight is *not* my idea of a good time.  In fact it’s generally my worst nightmare come true.  I worked in the theater industry in college – on the stage crew.  THAT’S my idea of fun – near the dramatic, creative, awesome people, but dressed all in blackbehindthe scenes.So last Friday, I felt compelled towrite a post hereabout the conditions at a local high school, Roosevelt, which I shared with my neighbors, and it maybe, sorta, kinda drew a lot of attention.  GREAT in terms of bringing attention to the issue at hand…UGH about it being associated with me.Poor, poor LD…Oh drop the sarcasm.  Such is life, and I know it.So why on earth am I posting again this morning?  And probably sharing with my neighbors again?This is why:From:DC General ServicesSent:Monday, June 22, 2015 3:35 PMTo:LDSubject:Email from DC Dept. of General Services (Intranet Quorum IMA00119780)The Department of General Services (DGS) is aware of the issues at Roosevelt High School at McFarland is aggressively working with the District of Columbia Public Schools (DCPS) to address all concerns; prior to students return in August 2015.ThanksWow.I feel *so* much better now!  I am super excited about the fact that my city government sent such a thoughtful response!  They are on top things!  They’re aware of the issues and working aggressively.(for the record, do you know how many AWESOME side-eye gifs exist on the internet??)OK DC Department of General Services (who, by the way, I never actually reached out to, so obviously someone forwarded them my letter or something)…let’s go over the reasons this is a ridiculous response.I never e-mailed you, so not sure why YOU are responding.  I e-mailed the Mayor (no response), School Chancellor (no response) and my local Councilman (a good response, although I’ve since learned it was a response that was copied and pasted to everyone who contacted him on Friday…but I’m going to let that go…or maybe I didn’t just now…but I understand he was likely inundated, crafted the one response, and used it…we’ve all done it…)Saying “YOU” are responding is a stretch since this came from the “Customer Service” e-mail…come on guys…phone it in much?This message addresses nothing – literally nothing.  You’re aware?  How long have you been aware?  And what are you doing?  How about a little who/what/when/where/how?Now I have very carefully avoided re-engaging in all the debates and back-and-forth that have spun up on my neighborhood e-mail list servs since my last post.  I didn’t want to be the face of anything, the voice of anything, and most certainly not that pain-in-the-ass resident who causes trouble for downtown.Seriously – my friends know I’m a happy-go-lucky, let’s give peace a chance, kind of gal.  A rainbow-butterfly-unicorn-kitten is my spirit animal.But these arechildrenwe’re talking about.  And pretty darn serious issues.  They warrant aseriousresponse from our government and our leaders.I was ready, willing and able to be patient – to an extent.  I did *not* expect to see construction begin at the dilapidated McFarland building Monday morning, nor was I holding my breath waiting for a thoughtful, detailed plan from downtown to grace my Inbox this week.But this message?  This canned, frankly bullshit, message?  It’s an insult.Part of what made me write my original note on Friday was what I saw at that meeting – a lot of angry, frustrated, outraged families who had no idea how to truly advocate for themselves, yelling at a panel of “sympathetic” suits who (no offense) by all appearances were having this meeting to take the outrage.It’s a standard practice:Step 1: Do something that is going to anger peopleStep 2: Draw straws to see who has to tell the peopleStep 3: Hold a meeting to announce the angry-making thingStep 4: Short-straw-guy stands there and takes the angerStep 5: Everyone goes homeIt’s truly a tale old as time.Except for one thing…the city has changed.  As a life-long resident, I’m not always a fan of the changes (seriously, how many sidewalk cafes can one sidewalk hold???) but the one change I *adore* is the willingness of the residents these days to stand up for what’s right.  This is not a silent populace any more.  No longer will Yes Men representing the government be accepted.And even better – those newbies to the city seem to recognize there is a large constituency of those who have BEEN marginalized, disenfranchised, disregarded and disrespected for YEARS, and they are ready, willing and able to DO SOMETHING.And, best of all, not only are they energized, but they have the skill sets needed to effect change.It’s kind of a nightmare come true for the government I’m sure.So, dearest governmental leadership, while I’m not a fan of getting myself blacklisted for speaking up, I’m even less of a fan of injustice to children.  I know that the things that need to happen are going to take some time, but how about a clear, transparent process about what you’re DOING?  How about a thoughtful response from someone in power, not just a canned answer that felt a lot like a pat on the head in an effort to make me shut up and sit down?  Because I have some bad news for you…I’m a product of your system…one of the ones that truly worked it and benefited.  I went to thebestDC Public Schools – West Education Campus, then Benjamin Banneker Senior High School.  I attended GWU and Howard U.  I’m truly invested, educated, articulate, and God help you, I’m the Chief Information Officer for a non-profit – so I know how to use the internet, and fighting for causes has been my thing for over 20 years.I’m not going to shut up and sit down until our children are cared for andBigboy and Hunchbackare just a legend.
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Published on June 23, 2015 04:09

I’m Not A Rabble-Rouser! But…

Seriously people…those of you who know me know that a spotlight is *not* my idea of a good time. In fact it’s generally my worst nightmare come true. I worked in the theater industry in college – on the stage crew. THAT’S my idea of fun – near the dramatic, creative, awesome people, but dressed […]
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Published on June 23, 2015 03:56

June 19, 2015

Fight Your Fight, But Fight It Right

Bigboy and Hunchback. Two names I don’t think I’m going to forget anytime soon. Why? Because they are the names of the rats that are terrorizing, and on occasion attacking, the students and staff at Roosevelt Senior High School. Perhaps I should say “have been” simply because today happens to be the last day of […]
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Published on June 19, 2015 06:09

Fight Your Fight, But Fight It Right

This is the first part of a tale of education, the government, and rats…for thesecondandthirdparts, check the other posts.Bigboy and Hunchback.  Two names I don’t think I’m going to forget anytime soon.  Why?  Because they are the names of theratsthat are terrorizing, and on occasion attacking, the students and staff at Roosevelt Senior High School.  Perhaps I should say “have been” simply because today happens to be the last day of school for this school year, so their reign of terror has ended…for now.Bigboy lives on the 2nd floor of MacFarland Junior High – where Roosevelt is currently housed while its campus undergoes a multi-million dollar renovation – and Hunchback lives in the auditorium – the stage being his principle residence…he apparently has a flair for the dramatic.I learned about these two rats last night at a community meeting where our dear government officials were there to explain why the scheduled August 2015 opening of the beautifully redesigned Roosevelt was being delayed until 2016.  Somewhat naively, I was there really to just get information, not realizing that this delay was one heck of a surprise to the current Roosevelt community…and they were angry.I should pause here to say it’s rare that I get this specific into an issue on this little website of mine; as those of you who follow me know I tend to talk more about thoughts, feelings, emotions, etc…but I suppose I feel compelled because of Bigboy and Hunchback.I became interested in Roosevelt’s renovations in the last few months because one of my own unruly hooligans is going to his last year of middle school next year, so it’s time to start making high school plans.  When I was growing up, Roosevelt, which is our neighborhood high school, was not somewhere you sent your kids unless you had no other choices.  It was violent, had low test scores, chaotic, and just overall not an option you wanted to utilize.  Think of the movie Lean on Me before Morgan Freeman (Joe Clark) came on the scene and you’ve got Roosevelt.  Maybe not quite that bad, but close.Then I learned about these phenomenal renovations and the plan DC Public Schools has to bring a global studies program to the revamped school, complete with partnerships with local universities.  The school system is prepared to invest heavily in this school – to make it a shining beacon of education.Well hello there…how are you doing potential new school for my kid?So I started paying attention.  Was even chosen to be on part of a community cabinet that will serve as an advisory board to developing the formal plans for these new programs.  The school is going to have state of the art EVERYTHING, designed to service ALL students – whether academically high-fliers, middle of the road, or in need of extra supports.  There is a program for students (including adults) who have dropped out of traditional school and need their GEDs, a culinary program, cosmetology, and so much more – including a rather advanced athletics program, which will appeal to my 2nd hooligan more than my first, but they can BOTH benefit.How awesome does this sound?In theory.For me, the delay of a year has zero impact.  It means my kid could go the very first year they open, and who doesn’t like a shiny new everything?  It also didn’t surprise me at all.  This is thegovernmentandconstruction.  When does anything with those two factors at play go right?But I didn’t know…I didn’t know that the current building the high-schoolers are in is in a woeful state of disrepair.I didn’t know that there are no facilities for high school athletics to prosper – not even locker rooms.I didn’t know that the principal left suddenly and the current interim principal is being assigned elsewhere.I didn’t know that there is inadequate heating and cooling in the temporary classrooms.I didn’t know about Bigboy and Hunchback.Last night I learned all of that and more as I heard an earful from the current students, teachers and parents.  I watched the downtown Yes Men nod their heads sympathetically and apologize over and over.  I listened as the community yelled and asked pointed questions that went unanswered.  I witnessed a dozen suggestions for alternative solutions get proposed and largely ignored.I was wondering where my popcorn was for the show.Because that’s exactly what it was – a show.You see, the government officials have already made up their mind and set their plan:- the school construction is delayed and will not be completed until December 2015;- they learned from past mistakes that trying to transition a school mid-year (say after Christmas break) is wrought with disaster;- they don’t want to guarantee the December timeline because of What Ifs;- they have to find a new leader for the school and are planning to take their time in doing that, and everything else.The fact of the matter is that this particular meeting was intended to provide a “safe” way for the outraged community to vent…and nothing else.  Maybe I’ve become cynical, but that was my perception.  If there was a true desire to listen to ideas, and have a fruitful discussion, the head of DCPS would have been present.But I’m not entirely mad at her or the bureaucracy for that.  The honest truth is that construction delays DO happen.  There are truly legitimate reasons for delaying the opening by a year – simply that they want to get it right.  They don’t want to rush and do things in a way that leads to more problems.  I get that.  I even agree with it.But it’s easy to agree with “The Man” whenmychild is not in a school with such an outrageous rodent problem that they’ve actuallynamedthe rats.Bigboy and HunchbackWe aren’t even talking little mice here.  We are talking opossum sized, probably carrying a switchblade to mug you, DC RATS.THAT is a level of unacceptable for ANYONE’S children.Here’s my real frustration with the meeting though.  There was anger.  Raised voices.  Accusations.  Disrespect.  Vehemence.  All of it pointless.Don’t get me wrong – I understand WHY those things were present.  My issue is that the community members who were so righteously outraged don’t seem to understand that there was zero utility at that particular meeting.You see, meetings like that are held to provide an outlet and make you feel like at least you said your piece.  They don’t actually bring about change.To bring about true change requires a slow, methodical, deliberate, intentional, carefully crafted, organized process.  It requires bringing attention to an issue like this in a very public way, but also in a way that elevates the victims – because that’s what these students and staff are – to the same (or higher) level as the decision makers.In our inner cities, those not in power are kept down by those who are largely because they don’t know how to fight back.  They don’t understand that yelling accomplishes nothing.  They usually do not have the background, education (ironically), or most importantly time to fight this kind of a system.Time is an interesting piece.  You see the bureaucrats have lots of it.  They can afford to wait out the current crop of angry parents.  They have their jobs, their benefits, their stability.  The parents have zero time.  Their children are in high school for four short years.  Every day, week, month, year that goes by where their kids aren’t getting a quality education is just lost.  You can’t get it back.From the government perspective, eventually the loud, angry people will go away.  And by the time the lovely, shiny, new school is ready to open, the most vocal of the detractors will be gone.  Bitter, but still gone.  Those who remain will be so thankful to finally be in a new building, their anger will disappear like morning dew when the sun rises.All will be perfect.And it will be.THEN.What about now?What about the upcoming school year (she says literally on the last day of the current year)?The thing these outraged community members are missing is that what needs to be doneright nowis applying anunreasonable amount of pressureto the government leaderstodayto ensure that over the next 3 months – the time between today and the start of the 2015/16 school year – every possible resource (and some impossible ones as well) are utilized to ensure that the students who MUST utilize the building at McFarland Junior High School next year have a safe, welcoming, RAT FREE, heated/air-conditioned facility in which to work on their academic prowess.  That the athletics teams have the means to practice their craft, with the FULL understanding and acknowledgement by our civic leadership that for SOME of these children, athletics is their only means of breaking a cycle of poverty and despair – sports save.  Period.And yes, I said anunreasonableamount of pressure.  Why?  Because REASON has not prevailed.  My understanding is that the students, staff and parents have complained all school year about the conditions they’re forced to attempt to learn in, and nothing has changed.  Exterminators have been out every week to the school and there is still RAT FECES near the food preparation areas.  We were sweltering in the auditorium, and the classrooms are just as bad if not worse.  Athletes have nowhere to change their clothes and shower.  So it is time to kick it up a notch.  There should be pressure in EVERY corner of the government until the problem is fixed.I don’t want to hear that 3 months isn’t enough time.  If this were a school in another (more affluent) part of the city, 3dayswould not have gone by with this kind of dilapidated circumstance.  But those families have connections and pull.  In our neighborhood, we may not have the same kind of influence on a day to day basis, but we have numbers.  We have voices.  We have the internet to help us.So my challenge to my neighbors is to stop yelling and start acting.  We have a brand new city council member representing our ward who just this week told me that education is his number one priority.  Mr. Todd, I’m going to ask you to put your power behind those words.  Our mayor, whowasthe councilmember for our ward has said that children and education are a priority for her as well.  Ms. Bowser, prove it.To all of our city leaders, go visit McFarland.  Consider introducing YOUR child to Bigboy and Hunchback.  Imagine having to teach in a room where every child can’t concentrate because they’re too hot or too cold.  Picture having a child who has the potential to be a star athlete – perhaps his only real hope at landing scholarship money for higher education – who cannot actually work on being the best player he can be because of inadequate resources.  Visualize all of these things, putting YOURSELF in this predicament, and then tell me that 3 months isn’t enough time.The truth of the matter is that in this country – and this city – you can do anything with enough power and money.  How about our leaders put those resources into the very thing that matters most: our children.  Not to be too clichéd, but they ARE the future and right here, right now, the future looks bleak.
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Published on June 19, 2015 04:01

June 15, 2015

That Moment

A few months ago a friend of mine shared a really interesting article with me. Title was Draymond Green Summarized the Entire Black Experience in Five Seconds. Go ahead, click and read. I’ll wait. When he shared it with me, I chuckled and related. We’ve all been there. That moment when for a minute you […]
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Published on June 15, 2015 13:51

June 13, 2015

Happy Birthday Website!

Life is fascinating. It has only one constant, and that is time. Time comes and goes, whether we want it to or not. We cannot speed it up, slow it down or alter it in any way. Sure, we may perceive the pace at which it moves in different ways depending on what events are […]
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Published on June 13, 2015 13:16

June 9, 2015

Red Flag, White Flag

Oh World of Dating, how I despise thee! It’s been a while since I’ve written on my adventures in dating…sadly not because I suddenly found the love of my life and have stopped dating, more because there were more important things to talk and write about. But here I am, again, with a “new” lesson […]
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Published on June 09, 2015 06:24

June 5, 2015

The C Word

I suppose there are many C words, but at the moment I’ve only got one on my mind. Cancer Well 2 actually – Carcinoid Cancer. Before you ask, no, I have not been diagnosed with Cancer. But someone very near and dear to me – actually one of the nearest and dearest – has been. […]
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Published on June 05, 2015 06:47

May 12, 2015

You Weren’t Supposed To Hear That…

There are those unavoidable moments in life where we hear something about ourselves – We walk into the lunch room at work and catch the tail end of someone gossiping about us… A friend/family member/acquaintance tells us something someone else said about us… Someone wrote an e-mail with negative comments about us that gets forwarded […]
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Published on May 12, 2015 18:27