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February 28, 2021
Meaningful travel
In the modern world, it’s relatively easy to go almost anywhere. Checking a box off a list doesn’t make it meaningful.
It isn’t the number of countries you’ve been to that make you interesting, it’s the meaningful experiences you’ve had, the lessons you’ve learned along the way, and the stories you have to share that do.
If your impetus to travel is just to tick off boxes, rather than to seek out meaningful and life-changing experiences, you’re kind of missing the point.
It’s not the number o...
January 31, 2021
Have the courage to be different
It’s better to have the courage to be different than be the type of person who makes fun of people for having the courage to be different.
One reflects strength & bravery, the other reflects weakness & fear.
If you’re different, be proud of that shit.
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January 26, 2021
Success and Self-improvement
Whether we’re talking about success or self-improvement, it’s important to recognize that the paths to both will be dotted with discomfort. And, in order to find things that work for you, you’ll likely have to try many things that don’t. But rather than be embarrassed about your failures, you should be proud that you’re leaving proof of your efforts to attain what you’re striving for.
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January 17, 2021
Integrity isn’t only for when life is easy
Remember that time you lost something and didn’t think anyone would return it… But they did.
And you were so grateful for that.
Perhaps it gave you a bit more faith in humanity?
Be that person the next time you find something that isn’t yours and it’s possible to return it to the rightful owner (or to someone who can).
Because if you do take something that isn’t yours and claim it as your own, what you’re essentially saying is that you’re fine with other people taking your stuff when you mispla...
January 11, 2021
If you want to be heard, stop shouting
If you want to be heard, stop shouting. If you want to be respected, be respectful.
Originally published on: Aug 1, 2019
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January 10, 2021
Doing Good
Being a do-gooder does not mean you have to be some lame watered down version of yourself. It doesn’t mean you can’t have an edge or act boldly. And it doesn’t mean you have to do all the same conventional good things as everyone else.
People who want to donate to charity can do that. People who want to volunteer for causes or join groups can do that, too. And there’s nothing wrong with any of these things.
People who do these things are awesome. And the world can always use more people doing t...
January 9, 2021
One less idiot
I’m an optimist. I like to see the best in people. I believe human beings are inherently good. I believe people are capable of achieving far more than they believe. I encourage tolerance, kindness, and open minds.
That said, knowing this one simple fact may prove beneficial in getting through life:
Idiots are everywhere.
(And sometimes we are those idiots.)
That probably won’t change.
But what can change is who we are and how we act when we cross paths with idiots. Because, sadly, we often let o...
January 2, 2021
Something worth striving for
Imagine if everywhere you went you felt the love of those who were grateful for your existence. Imagine if, with everything you tried, you felt the support of those who want you to succeed.
Would it change how you act? Would it change what you strive for?
While we can’t control others, we can control ourselves. We can be someone who actively encourages people with love, appreciation, and gratitude. We can help combat the criticism and negative judgments that those who are just trying to live fu...
January 1, 2021
You start at zero and you add one
You start at zero and you add one.
And then you add another.
This is how it’s done.
Zero steps of a journey you want to take.
Zero miles you want to run.
Zero things you want to make.
Zero things you want to do for fun.
You start at zero and you add one.
And then you add another.
This is how it’s done.
Originally Published on: Oct 1, 2019
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New year, new book, old project
This past year has been a very challenging year for many (myself included) and in so many different ways. Whether my note finds you thriving or just surviving, I truly hope this coming year is a positive one for you and everyone you care about.
I hope you will join me in ringing in the new year by encouraging more appreciation and less criticism.
More love and less hate.
More tolerance and less judgment.
More generosity and less greed.
More personal responsibility and les...
