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June 24, 2012
Sunday Snippets – June 24
Image copyright Ellen Gable Hrkach
Please join me and other Catholic bloggers at RAnn’s Place for Sunday Snippets where we share posts from the previous week.Things have been crazy around here so I haven’t been posting to my blog as much. However, I did manage two posts this week.
7 Quick Takes Friday
Looking Closer at the Hail Mary – Now
June 21, 2012
7 Quick Takes Friday – June 22
Please join me and other Catholic bloggers at Conversion Diary for 7 Quick Takes Friday.
1. Concordia Convocation
Our second oldest son received his Bachelor of Fine Arts in Film and Theatre (with Distinction) this past week at Concordia University’s Convocation held at Place Des Arts in downtown Montreal. It was a proud moment for Mom and Dad! (Our son was homeschooled until high school). 
This week’s convocation at Concordia University in Montreal.
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2. Solo Art Exhibition
My husband, James, is currently exhibiting a number of art works at a solo exhibition in Cornwall, Ontario. It’s exciting because this is his first solo exhibition in decades. 
3. Stitches
I don’t like stitches. It means someone has been hurt or has had an operation. Of course, you can’t have a family with five sons without having some experience with stitches. This past week, one of my sons was visiting his friend and he fell (my son, that is) and cut his hand and finger. I wasn’t there at the time and only got the call from the ER. Four stitches. He explained that he was glad I wasn’t there because with the amount of blood coming out of his hand, I would have been “freaking out.” Darn right.
Thirteen years ago, my second oldest son (the one who just graduated from university; he was 9 years old at the time) also fell at a friend’s house. But I was present that time. One of the children was riding a bike behind him. He accidentally fell and the boy behind him plowed into his face. When I looked up and saw my son running toward the house, it looked like he had been shot in the face. I have never seen so much blood coming from a wound. There’s just something about seeing your child bleed that doesn’t sit well with me. We took him to the emergency room where the wound was cleansed and stitched (and he still has a small scar on his cheek).
4. A Tale of Two Turtles
Two weeks ago, I had occasion to encounter a slowly moving turtle in the road, just beyond our driveway. We live in the country so we do see wild animals from time to time. Well, I didn’t want to run over the turtle, so I waited. My husband, seeing our car waiting at the end of the driveway, came over and moved the fellow out of the way. Earlier this week, my second oldest son encountered a turtle in the middle of the road. He stopped the car, put on work gloves and went to move the turtle, then realized the poor fellow was dead. We hope it wasn’t the same turtle.
5. Father Jungle Jim
Cartoon copyright Full Quiver Publishing/James & Ellen Hrkach
6. LifeSiteNews I just received an email from one of the writers at LifeSiteNews who just finished reading my novel, Stealing Jenny, and would like to do an interview with me for an article he’s writing about my book! Cool!
7. The “Chosen” One
Last, but not least, my youngest son took this photo earlier this week. We were sitting on the couch watching TV and noticed the sun streaming through. When we saw this, we both laughed out loud. This shows our “baby” wall, with each of my sons at around 9 months old, the oldest at the top and the youngest at the bottom.
For more Quick Takes, visit Jen’s Conversion Diary.
Text and photos copyright 2012 Ellen Gable Hrkach
June 19, 2012
Looking Closer at the Hail Mary: Now
My latest article is a reflection on the word “Now” in Sarah Reinhard’s “Looking Closer at the Hail Mary” series:
“now” adverb
1.at the present time or moment.
2.without delay; immediately; at once.
Now has always been one of my favorite words. Procrastinators don’t like this word. As a wife, mother, NFP teacher, Marriage Preparation instructor and writer with numerous deadlines, I live this word daily.
My mother also loved the word “now.” One of her commonly-used expressions was “Now means now…not five minutes from now.” Of course, if you ask my kids, I also use this expression more often than they’d like.
“Now” means “without further delay.” Now I must change my baby’s diaper or his bottom will get a painful rash. Now I must feed my children or they will go hungry and become ill. Now, I must finish this post so that I can move on to the next deadline. Well, you get the drift.
The Hail Mary is a beautiful and powerful prayer. In the first part, we recite the words of the angel Gabriel, then those of Elizabeth. In the second part, we are asking Mary to pray for us. And to pray for us Now.
Mary said yes to God immediately (without delay). She didn’t say “Maybe later.” She said, “Be it done to me according to thy word.” Mary nurtured and protected the unborn, then newborn, then child Jesus. She watched her son suffer in agony and die a brutal death and held his brutalized body in her arms after death. She knows intimately what it is like to watch a loved one suffer and die.
“Now and at the hour of our death.” Nineteen years ago next week, I had occasion to pray these words with desperation as I drifted in and out of consciousness in the back of an ambulance. I was weak, scared and in excruciating pain, the result of a tumor that was rapidly growing inside my abdomen and causing massive internal bleeding. At the time, I was the young mother of three small boys: 10 months, 3 and 5 years of age. I was afraid of dying but, more importantly, I didn’t want my little boys growing up without a mother.
“Now and at the hour of our death.” I prayed those words with such fervency because I realized that “Now” might very well be the same as “the hour of my death.” 
In the back of that ambulance 19 years ago, the moment I prayed those words, I no longer felt afraid; I no longer felt concerned for my boys. It was as if all the worry and fear were stripped away and an all-encompassing peace permeated every cell, every artery, every muscle in my body. Most importantly, this peace filled and comforted my troubled soul. I sensed a presence around me, almost cradling me. It happened so quickly that it took me by surprise.
Obviously, I did not die that day. But I caught a glimpse of death and a glimmer of heaven….I asked for help Now because I needed it immediately. Jesus and His Blessed Mother were (and are) dependable and work quickly.
Now is a good time to take stock in our spiritual life. Now is a good time to take care of our bodies, our minds and, most importantly, our souls.
And I know, without a doubt, that when it is my time to return home to heaven, Mary will be there with me, at that exact moment, praying that her Son gives me that all-encompassing grace I need for the journey home.
Photos copyright 2012 Josh Hrkach
Text copyright 2012 Ellen Gable Hrkach
June 18, 2012
Stealing Jenny FREE on Kindle June 19 and 20
My third novel, Stealing Jenny, will be available for FREE on Kindle tomorrow, Tuesday, June 19 and Wednesday, June 20. Just click on the link below either tomorrow or Wednesday to download the book for free:
Stealing Jenny: Kindle Edition
Stealing Jenny has over 50 four and five-star reviews on Amazon. Author and Founder of Catholic Mom, Lisa Hendey said, “Stealing Jenny is a gripping novel filled with engaging characters, a compelling mystery and a message which underscores the precious dignity of life. I literally couldn’t put it down and give Stealing Jenny my highest recommendation.” Author Sarah Reinhard said that Stealing Jenny “should come with a warning label…and will keep you on the edge of your seat and probably destroy your sleep pattern as you stay up to find out what happens.”
To download the book for free tomorrow or Wednesday, click on the link above.
June 17, 2012
Sunday Snippets – June 17
Please join me and other Catholic bloggers at RAnn’s Place for Sunday Snippets, where we share posts from the previous week.
It’s been crazy around here for the past few weeks with my husband’s retirement activities and his recent performance in Fiddler on the Roof. He’s also been preparing for his first solo exhibition in decades and…well, suffice it to say, we’re busy! So…most of my posts this week are visual.
Here are my posts:
The Value of Live Conferences and Long-Lasting Friendships My latest post for the Catholic Writers Guild Blog.
7 Quick Takes Friday – Father’s Day Edition An all-photo Quick Takes…
Text and images copyright Ellen Gable Hrkach
June 15, 2012
7 Quick Takes Friday – Father’s Day Edition
Please join me and other Catholic bloggers at Conversion Diary for 7 Quick Takes Friday.
With Father’s Day coming up this weekend, this will be an all photo Quick Takes, devoted to the father figures in my life and to my husband:
My father and me, 1961, at a picnic. He died in 1978.
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My stepfather, who recently passed away, and my sister, 2011.
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My husband and his father, 1980. He passed away in 1995.
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1987, with our oldest son. My husband has always been a “hands on” type of father.
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1990. With our second oldest son at a winter carnival.
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1992. Rocking our third son.
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1997, swimming with our fourth son. Copyright Ellen Hrkach
2000. On the beach with our youngest son.
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Did you count more than seven? There are actually eight photos (I couldn’t do this in less than eight!)
Happy, Happy Father’s Day to my father, stepfather and father-in-law in heaven. And a Happy Father’s Day to my husband!
Copyright 2012 Ellen Gable Hrkach
June 14, 2012
After Day 20
Cartoon copyright James and Ellen Hrkach/Full Quiver Publishing
June 13, 2012
The Value of Live Conferences and Long-Lasting Friendships
My latest post at the Catholic Writers Guild Blog:
“There is nothing on this earth more to be prized than true friendship.” St. Thomas Aquinas
When I self-published my first novel seven years ago, I joined a local secular writers’ group but never quite felt a connection. It was only through the Catholic Writers Online (Yahoo group) that I discovered a new group called the Catholic Writers Guild in 2007. Initially, being a member consisted of receiving a newsletter and participating in Sunday chats. This grew to an online conference, then an opportunity to attend the Catholic Marketing Network Trade Show in 2008. 
2008 Trade Show with Lisa Mladinich and Karina Fabian
At the time, there was no accompanying conference, just interaction with fellow CWG members and Trade Show attendees at the CWG booth. In the beginning, I was nervous at the prospect of meeting such diverse and accomplished writers. However, I soon learned there was no reason to be nervous; they welcomed me with open arms and treated me as one of their own.
The next year, 2009, was the first year for the Catholic Writers Conference which was held in conjunction with the 2009 Catholic Marketing Network Trade Show in New Jersey. I learned a lot, met more talented Catholic writers and made more friendships. There were opportunities for book signings (photo below), as well as great talks by Regina Doman and Fr. Frank Pavone.
With Karina, signing books at the CWG Booth, 2009.
For me, the highlight of the 2010 Catholic Writers Conference Live was acting as moderator for the Catholic Fiction panel (third photo below).
Moderating the Catholic Fiction panel at the 2010 Catholic Writers Conference Live: L to R, Michelle Buckman, Regina Doman, Elena Maria Vidal, Christian Frank and John Desjarlais.
That was probably the most fun I’ve had in years. I looked a little dwarfed behind the podium, but I’m sure my loud voice overcompensated for what I lack in the height department.
In 2011, CWG president (Ann Lewis) and vice president (me) had an opportunity to show off our IPPY Gold medals (photo below). There were talks on blogging, Catholic fiction and marketing. My talk on “Marketing the Self-Published Book” was so well-received that I’ll be giving it again this year at the 2012 conference.
Ann and I showing off our Gold Medals, 2011.
The Catholic Writers Conference is a great place to learn about writing, marketing and our faith. But when it comes right down to it, the best thing about the Catholic Writers Guild and the live conferences are the friendships. I have made long-lasting and deep friendships based on mutual faith, charity and respect. When I ask for a review of my latest book, my friends in the CWG are there. When I ask for prayers, they respond with great charity.
Whether you’re a self-published author or a traditionally published author…whether you write for a living or as a hobby…whether you write non-fiction or fiction…the Catholic Writers Conference Live is an outstanding opportunity to learn, to network and to gain deep friendships.
This year, the Catholic Writers Conference Live will be held on August 29-31 in Arlington, Texas. I’ll be running the CWG booth, giving two talks (one on Marketing the Self-Published Book and one on Fiction and the New Evangelization). Most importantly, I’ll be reconnecting with old friends and making new ones.
I hope to see you there!
Text and Photos copyright 2012 Ellen Gable Hrkach
June 10, 2012
Sunday Snippets – June 10
Please join me and other Catholic bloggers at RAnn’s Place for Sunday Snippets, where Catholic bloggers share posts from the previous week.
Here are my posts:
Teaching NFP Has Enriched Our Marriage
Tight Budget, Tiny Kitchen Book Review
Photo and text copyright 2012 Ellen Gable Hrkach
June 8, 2012
7 Quick Takes Friday
Please join me and other Catholic bloggers at Conversion Diary for 7 Quick Takes Friday.
1. Birthday Milestone
This past week my middle son (Tim) turned 20. He holds the distinction of being the tallest in our family (nearly six feet tall), the earliest toilet trainer (two years, one month), learned how to play piano like a pro in only six months, and the only child who has gone skydiving (at 17…I aged ten years just waiting for him to jump out of the plane, but I later wrote an article that was published in Family Foundations Magazine – below). 
2. Fiddler on the Roof
This evening my husband and 22-year-old son will be performing in a local community theatre production of Fiddler on the Roof (my husband is “Tevye” and my son, Ben, is “Motel.”) Last night’s performance was amazing (although admittedly, I’m biased). Ben, who minored in theatre at university, was called in as a last minute replacement and had to learn his song and his lines quickly. If you live in the Ottawa Valley, please consider coming by and watching. (Location: ADHS, Arnprior, ON 7:00 p.m. to 10:00 p.m., tickets $15).
3. Retirement Activities
This month is full of retirement festivities for my husband, who is taking an early retirement after 26 years of teaching the arts at the local high school. He isn’t retiring from work, however. He has a list of nearly 100 creative projects he’s wanted to work on, not the least of which will be his own artwork. His paintings and prints will be showcased at an upcoming solo show at the Cornwall Regional Art Gallery. (Photo below is entitled “Burgundy Self-Portrait” 2011, o/c)
4. Pinterest
I’m having a great time using Pinterest, pinning all sorts of interesting pictures, videos and websites. Strangely enough, my pin of Caspar David Friedrich’s “Woman at the Window” has the most repins of any of the content in my boards. If you’re on Pinterest, please consider following me. I usually follow back.
5. First Royalty Check from Britain’s Amazon Digital
A few days ago, I received my first royalty check from Britain’s Amazon Digital. It was the first time I’ve ever received a check in “British Pounds Sterling.” 
6. Self-Publishing Guru?
Yesterday, a friend of mine forwarded me an email in which someone called me a “self-publishing guru.” My first reaction was “Me? A self-publishing guru?” My second reaction was “Cool.”
7. Independent Author Network
I’m now a member of the Independent Author Network. This is a great organization that assists independent authors in marketing and promoting themselves. My profile page includes links to all my books and social networking sites.
Fiddler on the Roof photo credit: Josh Hrkach
Other photos and text copyright 2012 Ellen Gable Hrkach
