Jim Wilson's Blog, page 9
March 10, 2025
Enabled to Be Holy
“I am using an example from everyday life because of yourhuman limitations. Just as you used to offer yourselves as slaves to impurityand to ever-increasing wickedness, so now offer yourselves as slaves torighteousness leading to holiness” (Romans 6:19).
Notice that righteousness leads to holiness.
“To rescue us from the hand of our enemies, and to enable usto serve him without fear in holiness and righteousness before him all ourdays” (Luke 1:74-75).
Jesus is our “enabler.” He does not enable us to continue insin, but the opposite, holiness and righteousness. He does this all our days.Righteousness is purity that comes from God when we receive Jesus Christ. Weare cleansed from our sin.
Holiness is also pure. However, it does not cleanse us. Itdoes not take place until after we are clean. Holiness is not gettingdirty. Holiness starts out being clean by the righteousness that comes fromGod.
Most of my life has been spent getting people righteous withthe gospel and getting Christians to stay righteous by confession of sin. Itseems that Christians think that it is normal to stay unrighteous and that itis impossible to be holy.
“But just as he who called you is holy, so be holy in allyou do; for it is written: ‘Be holy, because I am holy’” (1 Peter 1:15-16).
There was a time in my life when I would ask Christians ifthey wanted to be holy. I have given up the practice because the ranges ofanswers I was given were different ways of saying, “No, I don’t.”
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How To Be Free From Bitterness and other essays on Christian relationshipsMarch 6, 2025
The Humility Harness
“Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing withone another in love” (Ephesians 4:2).
Notice the word “completely.” Apparently, it is possible tobe completely humble and gentle. We see it Philippians 2:5-7 as well:
“Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus:who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something tobe grasped, but made himself nothing, taking the very nature of a servant,being made in human likeness.”
· Made Himself nothing.
· Humbled himself and became obedient to death.
· Even death on the cross.
“Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus.”We are to be humble, completely humble, just like Jesus.
“Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentleand humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls” (Matthew 11:29).
Get into the humility harness with Jesus.
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How To Be Free From Bitterness and other essays on Christian relationshipsMarch 5, 2025
A Word of Encouragement
“Consider it pure joy, my brothers, when you face trials ofmany kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith developsperseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature andcomplete, not lacking anything. If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God,who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him.But when he asks, he must believe and not doubt, because he who doubts is likea wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind. That man should not think hewill receive anything from the Lord; he is a double-minded man, unstable in allhe does. The brother in humble circumstances ought to take pride in his highposition. But the one who is rich should take pride in his low position,because he will pass away like a wild flower. For the sun rises with scorchingheat and withers the plant; its blossom falls and its beauty is destroyed. Inthe same way, the rich man will fade away even while he goes about hisbusiness. Blessed is the man who perseveres under trial, because when he hasstood the test, he will receive the crown of life that God has promised tothose who love him” (James 1:2-12).
What an encouraging word! God is our faithful overseer inwhatever circumstances we find ourselves in as we remain faithful to Him andput our trust in His leadership. Choose His ways and receive His joy. God blessyou!
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How To Be Free From Bitterness and other essays on Christian relationshipsFebruary 28, 2025
No Fear Before His Eyes
Every day, I come across verses of Scripture I want topreach, proclaim, shout, or sing. Here is one:
“An oracle is within my heart concerning the sinfulness ofthe wicked: There is no fear of God before his eyes. For in his own eyes heflatters himself too much to detect or hate his sin” (Psalm 36:1-2).
This is such a good description of the sinfulness of thewicked. The wicked man cannot see, much less hate his own sin. The reason isthat he flatters himself. This is the ultimate expression of selfishness andself-conceit.
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How To Be Free From Bitterness and other essays on Christian relationshipsFebruary 24, 2025
With All His Household
Some time ago, I was struck by the Spiritual needs of threefathers in the New Testament and how their needs were met by Jesus Christ.
· The first was a nobleman whose son was at thepoint of death (John 4:46-54).
· The second was the Philippian jailor who wasabout to take his own life because his jail had fallen apart (Acts 16:22-40).
· The third was Cornelius, a Roman army officerwho was searching for God (Acts 10).
All of their needs were urgent, desperate needs—so urgentthat in each case the man sought help and got the help he wanted, and more, ina wonderful way.
Here is something extra that blessed me in reading theseparagraphs.
“By this the father knew that it was at the very time whenJesus had said to him, ‘Your son is living,’ and he himself, with all hishousehold, believed in Jesus” (John 4:53).
“Afterwards he took them up to his house and set before themsomething to eat, rejoicing that he, with all his household, had some tobelieve in God” (Acts 16:34).
“Cornelius reverenced God with all his household….Cornelius was expecting them, and had invited his relations and intimatefriends to meet them…. Before Peter had finished saying these words, the Holy Spirit fell on all who were listening to themessage” (Acts 10:1-2, 24, 44).
When the father found the answer, the family found theanswer. If the wife and children are not doing well, it is very likely becausethe father has needs that he is not urgent about. In each of these instances,when the father believed, the family believed. Let us pray for fathers offamilies.
How To Be Free From Bitterness and other essays on Christian relationshipsFebruary 19, 2025
Me, Obey Him?
Dear Friend,
It has been several weeks since we have talked. In one ofour more recent conversations, I promised you a letter. This is the beginning.
Recently, in the car, I listened to two cassette tapes byElisabeth Elliot entitled Me,Obey Him? I was so impressed with Betty’s graciousness and herstrength. Actually, much of her talks were readings from a book called Me?Obey Him?: The Obedient Wife and God's Way of Happiness and Blessing in theHome by a classmate of hers from Wheaton College, Elizabeth Rice Handford.It has been my position, but it is more difficult for a man and a husband toteach it. I ordered six sets of the tapes and two of the books. They havearrived, so I am now ready to send them out.
I have known for a long time your strong position onScripture. Where you and I have differed has not been on the meaning of thetext (any text) but on the application. In the teaching on these talks byElisabeth Elliot, I am convinced that you will agree, and I hope you agree alsoon the application.
Now I will get back to something we have talked aboutseveral times. That is your expression of anger, either toward your husband oryour children. Your explanations have not been satisfactory, even assuming thatyour view of his or the kids’ conduct or talk was exactly rightand that some action had to be taken. From your own description of yourangry responses, they sound like first or rage or loss of temper. Those are neverin the category of “be ye angry and sin not” (Eph. 4:27). They are always sin. They are the reason some of yourchildren are (or seem to be) against you. It is your husband’s main reason fornot backing you up on your discipline. It is not that the kids do not needdiscipline; it is how you have done it in the past and how you continue to doit. I have heard your explanation many times, and it is not convincing. Infact, it is convincing in the opposite way.
I am well aware,and you know that I am well aware, that your husband’s conduct and decisionshave not been right many times and your kids’ conduct would not be allowed ortolerated in our home. That conduct would not have happened, because they wouldhave learned before they were two-year-olds. That is assuming that the parents’conduct toward the children would have remained godly.
Your conduct has not remained godly. Althoughyou have chosen not to see it, your strident voice, loss of temper, hysteria,and physical discipline of them while you are in this condition is prima facieevidence of an ungodly mother. The few times you told me that you were sorryabout your temper, it seemed to be a horizontal sorrow, not repentance to theliving God for an evil action. Most of the time, you said that your anger wasrighteous. As long as you insist on that position, your family is going to continueto react and go downhill. When the children get older and leave home, it willbe difficult for them to give Christianity consideration.
Over the course ofour conversation, I have listened to you prayerfully and carefully. And youhave listened to me. For this I am grateful. However, there has not been achange anywhere close to what it should be based upon the hours we have spentagreeing on the Scripture. There is a lack of application.
Here is the resultof my thinking on this.
1. “For out of theoverflow of the heart the mouth speaks” (Matt. 12:34). When you speak, it isthe overflow from your heart. What you say and how you say it tells everyonethat your heart is filled to overflowing with the same stuff that comes outyour mouth. “The good man brings good things out of the good stored up in him, and the evil man bring evil things out of the evil stored up in him” (Matt. 12:35). Evil things have been coming out of your mouthfor years. This tells me that you have had a lot of evil stored up in you. Venting it does not get rid of it.
2. “The acts of the flesh are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity anddebauchery; idolatry and witchcraft; hatred,discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factionsand envy; drunkenness, orgies, andthe like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will notinherit the kingdom of God” (Gal. 5:19-21). This list is then followed by alist of the fruit of the Spirit.
I think that you will admit that your lifeis better described by these verses just quoted than by the fruit of theSpirit. Certainly, those who live close to you on a daily basis will say that.
There is a limited number of possiblereasons for this list describing you well.
1. You are a Christian who can live a life of walking in the light (1 John 5:7), but you will not.
2. You are a Christian who cannot (is unable to) live a life of walking in the light. This is hard forme to understand. Biblically, it does not seem to be one of the choices.
3. You are not a Christian. You cannot live the life of walking in the light because you have never enteredthe light.
All of these areawful states. But you are in one of them.
1. You are a Christian who will not.
2. You are a Christian who cannot.
3. You are not a Christian and consequently cannot.
I am unwilling tosay that you will not. So it seems to be that you cannot. It is then you cannot as a Christian, or you cannot because you are not saved and never have been.
I have just rereadthe above. It would not sound so either/or if we were talking in person, butneither would it all get said.
This problem may inface be a “will not” situation because you have convinced yourself and haveattempted to convince others that you have taken care of and have beendelivered from your past. Since you are convinced, then it is difficult toadmit wrong now. Certainly, you have the symptoms of someone who is not setfree.
My common sensetells me that you might get very angry reading this letter. My common sensealso tells me that if you do get angry, it would be further evidence that theprobability that I am right is high.
Your friend,
Jim Wilson
https://elisabethelliot.org/resource-library/series-index/a-real-woman/
Send out with recommend for the Elisabeth Elliot seriesand also a gospel message and/or assurances of salvation.
How To Be Free From Bitterness and other essays on Christian relationshipsFebruary 17, 2025
Being Sure of Your Salvation
Dear Friend,
AsI understand it, you are convinced of your salvation because of the commitmentyou made to the Lord Jesus Christ many years ago. That could well be. WhenJesus Christ saves, He does it for eternity. However, some of your relativesdoubt your salvation or are convinced you are not saved. This is the mainreason for my letter.
Iwant to give you a list of biblical parameters that will help you know for acertainty one way or the other. The same will help others know of yoursalvation, but not with the same degree of certainty. I can be sure of my ownsalvation. I cannot be sure of someone else’s salvation in the same way.
However,I can doubt someone else’s salvation without being guilty of “judging.”Here is why.
1Corinthians 5:12 says, “What business is it of mine to judge those outsidethe church? Are you not to judge those inside? God will judge thoseoutside.”
Theparagraph on judging is in Matthew 7:1-5:
Do not judge or youtoo will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged,and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. Why do you look atthe speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank inyour own eye? How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out ofyour eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, firsttake the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove thespeck from your brother’s eye.
Theteaching here is not against judging, but against unqualified judging.In order to take a speck out, you must know one is there and your owneyes must be in good order. Later on in the same chapter, Jesus said, “By theirfruit you will recognize them.” We are required by Jesus to be fruitinspectors.
Twomore texts before we get to the means of know you are saved:
Nevertheless, God’ssolid foundation stands firm, sealed with this inscription: “The Lord knowsthose who are His” and “Everyone who confesses the name of the Lord mustturn away from wickedness.” (2 Timothy 2:19)
And this is thetestimony: God has given us eternal life, and this life is in His Son. Hewho has the Son has life; he who does not have the Son of God does not havelife. I write these things to you who believe in the name of the Son ofGod, so that you may know that you have eternal life. (1 John 5:11-13)
Godknows, and you can know!
Hereare several biblical means of knowing.
1.Love for the brothers. 1 John 3:14 and 1 John 4:20: “We know we have passedfrom death to live, because we love our brothers.”
Lovingour brothers is not the means of passing from death to live. It is ameans of knowing that we have already passed from death to life.
Non-Christianslove non-Christians.
Christianslove non-Christians.
Ittakes a Christian to love a Christian.
Oneof the first evidences of new life in a newly-converted person is he delightsin being with other Christians. He could not stand being with them before hisconversion. “If anyone says, ‘I love God,’ yet hates his brother, he is a liar.For anyone who does not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love Godwhom he has not seen.”
Thislove for our brothers in Christ is an assurance of our salvation. It is also anassurance to others that we are Christians. Jesus said it this way inJohn 13:34-35: “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have lovedyou, so you must love one another. All men will know that you are Mydisciples if you love one another.”
IfI do not love my brother, all men have a good reason to doubt that I ama follower of Jesus.
2.Change of character. Galatians 5:19-24:
(List 1) “The actsof the sinful nature are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery;idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfishambition, dissensions, factions and envy; drunkenness, orgies and the like. Iwarn, as I did before, that those that live like this will not inherit thekingdom of God.”
(List 2) “But thefruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness,faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is nolaw. Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the sinful nature with itspassions and desires.”
Thequestion that needs to be asked is this: Do the characteristics of list 1describe me the best, or do the characteristics of list 2? If the first listdescribes me the best, then I am not a Christian, and I will not inherit thekingdom of God.
Whatabout my conversion experience? If my experience does not get me out of list 1and into list 2, then my experience was spurious. Jesus does a better job ofsaving than that. You may say, “Then there are not many real Christians.” Thatis a true statement. Real Christians have been saved out of the works of theflesh into the fruit of the Spirit.
3.Spiritual understanding. “The man without the Spirit does not accept thethings that come from the Spirit of God, for they are foolishness to him, andhe cannot understand them, because they are spiritually discerned” (1 Cor.2:14).
Didthe Bible become understandable to me after my conversion? Yes, it made muchsense. Did it make sense before my conversion? No, and I had read it daily foreighteen months.
4.Obedience to God. “We know that we have come to know Him, if we obeyHis commands” (1 John 2:3). Our increased obedience is an evidence that we havecome to know Him. if I have not become more obedient, then it is doubtful thatI have been saved.
5.Increased discipline from God. “In your struggle against sin, you have notyet resisted to the point of shedding your blood. And you have forgotten theword of encouragement that addresses you as sons: ‘My son, do not makelight of the Lord’s discipline, and do not lose heart when He rebukes you,because the Lord disciplines those He loves, and He punishes everyone Heaccepts as a son.’ Endure hardship as disciplines; God is treating you as sons.For what son is not disciplined by his father? If you are not disciplined (andeveryone undergoes discipline) then you are illegitimate children andnot true sons. Moreover, we have all had human fathers who disciplined us for alittle while as they thought best, and we respected them for it. how much moreshould we submit to the Father of our spirits and live! … God disciplines usfor our good, that we may share in His holiness. No disciplines seemspleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest ofrighteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it” (Hebrews12:4-11).
Thistext says several things. 1) I should resist sin to the point of death. 2) If Ido not resist and do sin, God will discipline me. This discipline will be a) anencouragement, b) painful, c) for my good, my holiness, righteousness, andpeace, and d) proof of my sonship.
IfI do not get disciplined for sin, it will be proof that I am not a son of God.
Thereare two normal ways God disciplines us: our conscience (Romans 13) and thepolice (also Romans 13). If our conscience is not sensitive and we donot get caught by the police, then it is evidence that we are not Christians.
Hereis a review:
· We must judge those inside the church, those whosay they are Christians. We must be spiritually qualified to make thejudgement.
· God knows who the real Christians are.
· Christians must depart from wickedness.
· Evidence of the new birth: love for Christians;change of character; spiritual understanding; obedience; discipline.
Ifyou have a love for the saved people, a longing to be with Christians; if yourcharacter has changed from the works of the flesh to the fruit of the Spirit;if you understand spiritual things (i.e., the Bible makes a lot of sense); ifyour obedience has increased; and if your conscience is very sensitive onlittle things as well as big things, then you are clearly a Christian.
Ifthe opposite is true, then you should doubt your salvation.
Thereis one other possibility. “But if anyone does not have them [the fruit of theSpirit] he is nearsighted and blind and has forgotten that he has beencleansed from his past sins” (2 Peter 1:9). If that is the case, thenconfession of sin is necessary, as in 1 John 1:9. “If we confess our sins, Heis faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from allunrighteousness.”
Also,we have this teaching in Hebrews 5:
In fact, though bythis time you ought to be teachers, you need someone to teach you theelementary truths of God’s word all over again. You need milk, not solid food! Anyonewho lives on milk, being still an infant, is not acquainted with the teachingabout righteousness. But solid food is for the mature, who by constant use havetrained themselves to distinguish good from evil. (vv. 12-14)
Ihope this gives you a description of a basic Christian life. I would love tohear from you.
In our Lord Jesus Christ,
Jim Wilson
How To Be Free From Bitterness and other essays on Christian relationships
February 12, 2025
Marriage Counseling, Part 2
Dear Friend,
This letter is long overdue. It has been in my head formonths.
First, I think you know that I both love you and like youand respect you. If you do not know that, please take my word for it. You knowthat I am willing to be confronted without dissimulation.
In the many years we have known each other, I have assumedyou were a Christian. I do not have to know absolutely (God knows those who areHis). You have had an interest and an education in Christianity. Even if youwere not, or are not, a Christian, this does not affect my love, like, orrespect for you.
The last few times we have been together, you have assuredme that any adultery was in the past and that you were ready to get right withthe church and with your family and that you had repented toward God. Youassured me that you loved your wife and your children and you were committed tothem.
I recognize that Christians can (and sometimes do) sinrepeatedly. I also understand that it is possible for Christians to lie tocover up repeated sins. However, there are sentences in the Bible that aredefinitive about a man’s moral state and his Christianity. Examples of theseare found in 1 John 1-5 and Galatians 5.
“The acts of the flesh are obvious: sexual immorality,impurity and debauchery; idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy,fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions and envy; drunkenness,orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live likethis will not inherit the kingdom of God. But the fruit of the Spirit islove, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness andself-control. Against such things there is no law. Those who belong to ChristJesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. Since we live bythe Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit. Let us not become conceited,provoking and envying each other” (Gal. 5:19-26).
You may think that you know these chapters well. I encourageyou to read them in the light of your life, past and present.
Which list in Galatians describes you the best: the first inverse 19, or the second in verse 22? If it is the first, then you are verylikely not a Christian. Jesus Christ does a better job of saving than that.
There are other considerations. Are you dead to sin as inRomans 6? “What shall we say, then? Shall we go on sinning sothat grace may increase? By no means! We are those whohave died to sin; how can we live in it any longer? Ordon’t you know that all of us who were baptized into Christ Jesus were baptizedinto his death? We were therefore buried with himthrough baptism into death in order that, just as Christ was raised from thedead through the glory of the Father, we too may live a new life” (Rom. 6:1-4).
Are you now a slave to God or still a slave to sin? “Just as you used to offer yourselves as slaves to impurity and toever-increasing wickedness, so now offer yourselves as slaves to righteousnessleading to holiness” (Rom. 6:19).
You may think that by this standard thereare not many Christians. This is the case. More and more “born-againChristians” are finding out that they have not been born again and are notChristians. How? Either 1) they cannot keep from sinning or 2) they will notkeep from sinning. If it is the first,they are not Christians. If it is the second, they are in great trouble asChristians.
Another consideration: For a long time (ifyour conversation is an evidence), you have been envious of others andcoveting houses, land, cars, etc. I do not spend my time listening supercritically, but these things would be hard to miss in your talk.
Consequently, you have been competitive forrecognition soon (in fact, right now). You have wanted to be somebodyfor your sake, not for the sake of your family or the world.
These observations make me wonder whetheryou have passed from death to life. It is a much easier explanation to say thatyou are this way because it is your nature as a natural (that is, an unsaved)man, than it is to say that it is contrary to your nature as a spiritual manwith much biblical knowledge and that you just choose to act like anatural man. If the latter is true, then the instruction in Ephesians 4:17applies to you. “You must no longer live as the Gentiles do in the futility oftheir thinking.” It is more likely that you are a Gentile in that sense.
If you do not want to read theseScriptures, or if you do not understand them, then it is more evidence that youare a natural man.
If you are a natural man, then confessingsins will not change your nature. It is probably why things have not changed inthe past when you confessed your sins.
Of course, I could be wrong and would beglad to admit it if you can establish to me that you can walk in thelight. That would be established by actually walking in the light. I do notthink you can.
If you are not a Christian (never havebeen) and really realize it, then church discipline does not apply. That is forpeople who call themselves Christians.
Sincerely, your friend,
Jim Wilson
How To Be Free From Bitterness and other essays on Christian relationships
February 10, 2025
Marriage Counseling: A Letter
Dear Friend,
Thank you for listening to us. We both love you, and as Isaid we’ve been friends for a long time and have agreed with each other aboutmany things. I am grateful for the friendship.
You are right when you say I do not understand the hurt youhave gone through for the last twenty years. I understand it in words, but notin experience. I have listened to you of your desires in marriage and ofall the effort you put into the marriage.
When I have talked to your wife, I have talked to her abouther.
It has been difficult to talk to you about you, at least onthe subject of marriage. You have insisted on talking to me about her.
1. The last few years, you have been very angry andaccusative toward your wife. Even if all of your accusations are true, yourcontinued anger is unrepentant, unforgiven sin. You need to repent.
2. This anger has been building up for years, even thoughyou were doing things a Christian husband should do.
3. In Luke 17:3, we have Jesus’ teaching on forgiveness. Wehave it in Matthew 18:35 also.
“So watch yourselves. If your brother sins, rebuke him, andif he repents, forgive him. If he sins against you seven times in a day,and seven times comes back to you and says, ‘I repent,’ forgive him.”
“This is how my heavenly Father will treat each of youunless you forgive your bother from your heart.”
You have not forgiven your wife. It may be that you do notwant to; it may be that you think you cannot. In any case, you have not. “Outof the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks.” Forgiveness is notcoming out of your mouth. I assume it is not the abundance in your heart. Youneed to repent of your unforgiveness.
4. You have left your children. The little that you see themdoes not make up for not being a father every day. They are hurting. They needyou. You cannot hold your wife responsible for not being a good fatherand mother. You need to repent for leaving your children.
5. You are very conscious of not having your needs met. Areyou as conscious of not having met her needs? Do you realize that youalso hurt her? Do you know where? How? Why don’t you know? You need to repenttowards God for not loving your wife as Christ loved the church.
6. You have told me several times that you are interested inanother Christian woman. Do you realize that this is sin? Does she realize thatthis is sin? You need to repent.
7. You have held many Christians responsible for judging youwith malicious attitudes. I have been included in your list. You are guilty ofdoing what you think others are doing. You need to repent.
8. You left your wife for reasons that are not biblical. Youneed to repent. Unless you repent of all of the above, you will continue in alife of no joy.
9. You may get angry with me. That will be another thing youwill need to repent of.
You may think I am coming on heavy because of the immanenceof your divorce. This is partly true. I am sorry that I did not press you onyour sins earlier.
If you reject the things I am saying, there is another way.Come into God’s presence as Isaiah did in Isaiah 6. Forget me and come to God.You will find
· God’s presence
· Conviction
· Confession
· Forgiveness
· Ready to go
“In the year that King Uzziah died, I sawthe Lord, high and exalted, seated on a throne; and the train of his robefilled the temple. Above him were seraphim, each withsix wings: With two wings they covered their faces, with two they covered theirfeet, and with two they were flying. And they werecalling to one another: ‘Holy, holy, holy is the Lord Almighty;the whole earth is full of his glory.’ At the sound of theirvoices the doorposts and thresholds shook and the temple was filled with smoke.‘Woe to me!’ I cried. ‘I am ruined! For I am a man of unclean lips, and I liveamong a people of unclean lips, and my eyes have seen the King, the Lord Almighty.’ Then one of the seraphim flew to me with a live coal inhis hand, which he had taken with tongs from the altar. With it he touched my mouth and said, ‘See, this has touched yourlips; your guilt is taken away and your sin atoned for’” (Isaiah 6:1-7).
A very real friend,
Jim Wilson
How To Be Free From Bitterness and other essays on Christian relationshipsFebruary 7, 2025
Identifying Godless Chatter
“Turn away from godless chatter and the opposing ideas ofwhat is falsely called knowledge” (1 Timothy 6:20).
We are bombarded with “godless chatter” every day. In universitytowns like the ones we minister in, we are immersed in it.
In all of this, there is some of God’s truth. People hear thepart that is truth and consequently do not recognize the “godless chatter” forwhat it is. This makes the godless chatter even more dangerous. Nevertheless,Timothy was instructed to turn away from it.
There are three ways to discern godless chatter:
1. Know the wisdom of God very well. “We do,however, speak a message of wisdom among the mature, but not the wisdom of thisage or of the rulers of this age, who are coming to nothing. No, we speak ofGod’s secret wisdom, a wisdom that has been hidden and that God destined forour glory before time began. None of the rulers of this age understood it, forif they had, they would not have crucified the Lord of glory” (1 Cor. 2:6-8).
2. Know the enemy. “…in order that Satanmight not outwit us. For we are not unaware of his schemes” (2 Corinthians2:6-8).
3. Stay awake. “Be self-controlled andalert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking forsomeone to devour. Resist him, standing firm in the faith, because you knowthat your brothers throughout the world are undergoing the same kind ofsufferings” (2 Peter 5:8-9).
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