In Each Other's Care Quotes

“Check in with simple, nonthreatening questions or requests: • “Are you saying . . . ?” • “I want your eyes because this is important . . .” • “Let me make sure I understand . . .” • “Say back what you heard . . .” • “Let me repeat that.” • “What do you think I meant by . . . ?” • “We may not be talking about the same thing. Are you saying . . . ?”
― MFT Tatkin, Stan, PsyD, In Each Other's Care: A Guide to the Most Common Relationship Conflicts and How to Work Through Them