The Soul of Civility Quotes

“Integrity is distinct from authenticity. Integrity doesn’t require us to act out every private thought and feeling. Sometimes, counterintuitively, integrity requires a disconnect between our inner feelings and our outer conduct. But this disconnect exists to serve others. Integrity expresses itself in action based on deeply held core values—for example, the value of friendship and respecting those around us—rather than temporary feelings or selfish desire. When we find ourselves in a disagreement with a friend, spouse, or sibling, we will often bite our tongues instead of saying exactly how we feel. This is inauthentic. But it’s not hypocritical.”
― Alexandra Hudson, The Soul of Civility: Timeless Principles to Heal Society and Ourselves

“Integrity is self-coherence. The word derives from the Latin root integer, which means “intact.” Integrity, as its etymology suggests, describes inner sturdiness, or wholeness of self.”
― Alexandra Hudson, The Soul of Civility: Timeless Principles to Heal Society and Ourselves

“Hypocrisy derives from the Greek hupókrisis, meaning “stage acting” or “pretense.” Hypocrisy elevates the act, pretense, or appearance of truth without the reality. Politeness fosters hypocrisy because it emphasizes external appearance and compliance with the rules instead of internal character.”
― Alexandra Hudson, The Soul of Civility: Timeless Principles to Heal Society and Ourselves