His Sex Therapist Book 2 Quotes

“Let’s call it consensual non-consent,” Will says, seriously. “It’s very common in unequal power relationships to want to push and explore the edges of what ‘unequal’ might mean. So, if we are playing and you say ‘no,’ it’s very likely that we both know you mean ‘yes.’ That isn’t real, but an agreement we’ve made. Do you understand? No one is making jokes about rape and you don’t want to be raped. No one wants to be raped. It doesn’t matter what your fantasies are so long as you have a partner you trust to act on them with. We plan it and you are the one who wants it and that makes it okay. Do you understand? Communication,”
― Jamie Kassel, His Sex Therapist Book 2