From Seeking To Radiating Love Quotes

“It doesn’t take an intellectual to figure out how unwanted you are. I feel the most challenging part is bearing just how someone holds so much power in their hands to make you feel as small and trivial as they possibly can.

It is a horrific actualization that somewhere in life, you walked into a room desiring to be treasured, and instead, you were met with disregard and made to feel as small and extraneous as conceivably possible. It is the agony involved in eventually making you reach this realization. That nobody who intends to mistreat you sincerely verbalizes their intentions. You are left to figure this out on your own after going through a humiliating process.”
― Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali, From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt

“A man who sees you midweek and again on Sunday evening doesn’t belong to you.”
― Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali, From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt

“It isn’t difficult to determine that someone doesn’t treasure you. It’s always there, popping out in every direction. It’s in the moments they don’t show up when they say they will, the times they don’t take a minute out of their days to let you know they won’t make it anymore.”
― Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali, From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt

“The sad thing about staying with a man you don’t trust is that it turns you into a maniac.”
― Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali, From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt

“You don’t need the strength to fight another woman; you need the courage to get up and find the door. If it’s your own door, kick him out, and don’t ever let him in again.”
― Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali, From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt

“I performed for love everywhere. I believed that you needed to earn love by overworking yourself for recognition. I didn’t know that the more I presented myself willingly to beg for love, the more I was inviting chaos into my life.”
― Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali, From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt

“It has become more about identifying the needs I didn’t have access to as a child that may be preventing me from living a wholesome life as an adult. It is more of unlearning and acknowledging so I can move forward. I longed for love and belonging as a child, but all I ever did was just exist in the presence of those who couldn’t offer me the love I so desperately needed. I became an adult who begged for love because I had no clue what healthy love looked like.”
― Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali, From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt

“All along, what should have been my decision became everyone’s decision, and I had no clue what informed the choices they were making for me. Often, people make decisions based on where they are with themselves.”
― Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali, From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt

“In the cycle of being afraid to disappoint those whose opinions we hold in high regard, we often willingly open ourselves up for self-disappointment. My desperate need to be loved and feel accepted by my family led me into making a decision where I was willing to make everyone else happy except myself”
― Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali, From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt

“When I stopped feeling sorry for myself, I realized that my decision was motivated by my necessity to please everyone except myself. There had never been a time where I stood up against my family. And this was out of my desperate need to be accepted.”
― Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali, From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt

“Has it ever nurtured my soul to lessen my existence? Absolutely not.”
― Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali, From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt

“Often, I minimize some of my emotions just so I don’t appear as complicated. I dilute the most essential parts of myself just to be accepted.”
― Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali, From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt

“Often, deceitful and unfaithful individuals seem to deny those they have claimed to love any form of clarity.

You are left hanging, often having to fend for yourself on where the truth lies. It seems they operate under the assumption that those in their lives will eventually figure a way out, that they will somehow read other people’s minds and know where they stand.”
― Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali, From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt

“It’s the little hints that they opt to disregard, the small decisions that lack any form of empathy. It’s never in the main things that you discover how unloved you are”
― Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali, From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt

“Sometimes, how someone doesn’t love you is documented all over your weariness, from being the one going the extra miles and never being met halfway.”
― Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali, From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt

“Emotionally unavailable men usually hover around, throwing in a little “I miss you,” occasionally hoping for a response or getting a reaction out of you.”
― Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali, From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt

“It’s not that he returns because it’s meant to be. He returns because you are an easy target for him to practice his inability to be emotionally present.”
― Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali, From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt

“Some people are naturally chaotic, and they walk into every open door to avoid being with themselves.”
― Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali, From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt

“You don’t need to pray mistreatment and abuse away. You need to leave the perpetrator. And no, it will not get better. And no, you don’t need to be forbearing. Life on the other side of infidelity, a dash of wholesomeness awaits you. Don’t waste your time trying to fix what you didn’t break in the first place.”
― Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali, From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt

“Until you feel sick of the presence of emotionally detached men and begging them to do right by you, they keep camping in your yard, offering you silent treatments each time a conflict arises.”
― Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali, From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt

“Men who are still hung up on their relationships from ages ago have not taken the time to heal their wounds. They are often reeling with pain and have found coping measures, including emotional absence. This isn’t the kind of man who will be able to extend any form of emotional presence to you, he is already letting you know how he’s still struggling with his past wounds, and often, these are the most emotionally harmful men you will ever meet.”
― Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali, From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt

“I am undervaluing my entire existence and joy for their approval.”
― Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali, From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt

“I have become an adult who is often caught in the middle of emotionally unfulfilling relationships, often resorting to people-pleasing. I am an adult who isn’t concerned about feeling betrayed. If I attempt to share my concern all of a sudden, I won’t voice this out without earning the label of an irritating woman. And I thrive in silencing myself in fear of how I will be perceived and it works for those who prefer being harmful.”
― Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali, From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt

“I know challenging situations are meant to make us stronger, but maybe I don’t want to be strong anymore. Perhaps I just want to lead a life where I can be vulnerable and be met with compassion, kindness, and love. ”
― Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali, From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt

“I don’t suppose there is anything as heart-wrenching as glimpsing your own suffering that you voluntarily contributed to.”
― Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali, From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt

“There is no turning back when you devote yourself to making every fundamental transformation achievable in your life.”
― Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali, From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt

“In the number of times, despite the many possible alternatives that may be presented to lift the spirit of the person in their lives, they never miss the opportunity to always opt for the one that imposes harm.”
― Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali, From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt

“Ryan never found any inspiration to be a man worthy of love. Outside sex, Ryan had nothing of value to add to my life. I found that, emotionally, he was a man unequipped to deal with himself and my emotions as well.”
― Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali, From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt

“I had no idea where I was headed, but I wasn’t returning back to the hell I had so comfortably existed in. I was uncomfortable, and I was alright with it.”
― Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali, From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt

“Ryan was a man who never did anything from an altruistic place in his heart. Everything he did was always to serve a specific purpose.”
― Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali, From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt