Parenting in the pew Quotes

“However, it may come as a surprise to know that in the Hebrew language the word for "service" is the same word used for "worship.”
― Robbie Fox Castleman, Parenting in the Pew: Guiding Your Children into the Joy of Worship

“In many of our modern, sophisticated congregations, children are often viewed as distractions. We tolerate children only to the extent they promise to become "adults" like us. Adult members sometimes complain that they cannot pay attention to the sermon, they cannot listen to the beautiful music, when fidgety children are beside them in the pews. "Send them away," many adults say. Create "Children's Church" so these distracting children can be removed in order that we adults can pay attention.
These professors at Duke University conclude their point by noting,
Interestingly, Jesus put a child in the center of his disciples, "in the midst of them," in order to help them pay attention.... The child was a last-ditch effort by God to help the disciples pay attention to the odd nature of God's kingdom. Few acts of Jesus are more radical, countercultural, than his blessing of children. (Nashville: Abingdon, 1989, p. 96)”
― Robbie Fox Castleman, Parenting in the Pew: Guiding Your Children into the Joy of Worship