The Lifestyle Blueprint Quotes

“Negotiating a remote work arrangement. - Learning monetizable skills and getting clients. - Building a business.”
― Dave Perrotta, The Lifestyle Blueprint: How to Talk to Women, Build Your Social Circle, and Grow Your Wealth

“Another level is to get to the top of the field of your chosen skill and turn it into a thriving business. In other words, learn all the ins and outs of your skill, but also learn the business side of it. Remember: just because you have a skill doesn’t mean people will pay you for it—you have to find your clients and sell yourself; that’s the business side.”
― Dave Perrotta, The Lifestyle Blueprint: How to Talk to Women, Build Your Social Circle, and Grow Your Wealth

“For this, I recommend checking out David Greene’s book, “Buy, Rehab, Rent, Refinance, Repeat: The BRRRR Rental Property Investment Strategy Made Simple.”
― Dave Perrotta, The Lifestyle Blueprint: How to Talk to Women, Build Your Social Circle, and Grow Your Wealth

“BRRRR strategy of real estate investing (Buy, Rehab, Rent, Refinance, Repeat). This”
― Dave Perrotta, The Lifestyle Blueprint: How to Talk to Women, Build Your Social Circle, and Grow Your Wealth

“According to Tynan, your financial runway is “how many months you can live your current lifestyle based only on savings. If you spend $2000 per month and have $20,000 in the bank or other liquid assets, that's a 10-month runway. That's pretty good.” At the time I read this, I had around $36,000 in the bank, and my average monthly expenses were around $3,000 a month.”
― Dave Perrotta, The Lifestyle Blueprint: How to Talk to Women, Build Your Social Circle, and Grow Your Wealth

“Sit next to her instead of across from her (allows for more seamless physical contact). - Hug her when you first see her (establishes physicality from the very beginning). - Put your arm around her intermittently at the bar and see how she reacts. - Make strong eye contact throughout (roughly 70% of the time).”
― Dave Perrotta, The Lifestyle Blueprint: How to Talk to Women, Build Your Social Circle, and Grow Your Wealth

“Her favorite foods: this gives you an easy way to suggest future dates (e.g., “Pizza? I can make an awesome pizza. You might have to try it sometime!”).”
― Dave Perrotta, The Lifestyle Blueprint: How to Talk to Women, Build Your Social Circle, and Grow Your Wealth

“to go on adventures with you. -          Music and dancing: these provide an easy excuse to invite her home later (e.g., “Let’s go back to my place, and you can show me some of those salsa dance moves”). -          Where she wants to travel: this provides her with good emotions and gives you an easy chance to bring up possibilities for the future (e.g., “Mexico? That settles it—we’re hopping on a flight tomorrow”
― Dave Perrotta, The Lifestyle Blueprint: How to Talk to Women, Build Your Social Circle, and Grow Your Wealth

“We’ve talked about some conversational topics you can use already, so let’s quickly recap those and add a few more in that are good for first dates: - Adventurous stories: the more adventurous she feels, the more down she’ll be”
― Dave Perrotta, The Lifestyle Blueprint: How to Talk to Women, Build Your Social Circle, and Grow Your Wealth

“Like one to two of their pictures. - Leave one to two comments with a fun emoji on their pics. - Follow them. -          Keep in mind: the higher her follower count, the less likely she is to see your message. It’s easier to connect with a girl who has 2k followers than 200k.”
― Dave Perrotta, The Lifestyle Blueprint: How to Talk to Women, Build Your Social Circle, and Grow Your Wealth

“Check the IG stories of quality nightlife venues. This will show you the girls that tagged stories there. -          Check the IG tags of those quality nightlife venues, as well as other cool areas in the city (parks, boardwalks, walking streets, restaurants, and gyms). Many high-quality girls will post and tag these places.”
― Dave Perrotta, The Lifestyle Blueprint: How to Talk to Women, Build Your Social Circle, and Grow Your Wealth

“on the metro so far :P” 2. Her bio says, “sunrise > sunset.” Your first message: “So you’re either a party girl who stays up all night or a good girl who wakes up before the crack of dawn. I think I know which.” 3. Her bio says, “I’m a blue-eyed, beer-loving and cocktail-making gal.” Your first message: “So what kind of drink will you make us on the first date? (This may or may not be a deal-breaker)”. 4. She’s got a picture at a famous tourist attraction, like Machu Picchu. Your first message: “I dig your Machu Picchu photo. I hope the llamas went easy on you out there.” 5. She’s got a picture by the beach. Your first message: “I dig your beach photo. I’m guessing you’re the type of girl that likes to swim more than sit on the beach chair and tan.”
― Dave Perrotta, The Lifestyle Blueprint: How to Talk to Women, Build Your Social Circle, and Grow Your Wealth

“1. Her bio says, “Just moved to New York!” Your first message: “Hey Cindy, so let’s be honest: how many times have you gotten lost”
― Dave Perrotta, The Lifestyle Blueprint: How to Talk to Women, Build Your Social Circle, and Grow Your Wealth

“A shirtless photo by the beach – this shows off your body and gives you a better reason to be shirtless than posing for a bathroom selfie would (note: probably better to leave this pic out if you’re not in great shape yet). -          A travel/adventurous photo – this shows your adventurous side (can be a in a foreign country or even just going for a hike).”
― Dave Perrotta, The Lifestyle Blueprint: How to Talk to Women, Build Your Social Circle, and Grow Your Wealth

“One or two photos doing something you’re passionate about (playing music, throwing a football, building something, etc.) – these show personality depth and give her a sense of who you are. -          One or two stylish photos, where you pose in a basic environment with stylish clothing (go to Instagram and “steal” poses from accounts like Magic_Fox and HowToBeast) – these show that you clean up nice. - A dog photo (i.e., a photo with your dog or a friend’s dog) – women love dog photos!”
― Dave Perrotta, The Lifestyle Blueprint: How to Talk to Women, Build Your Social Circle, and Grow Your Wealth

“Night out” photos: the drunken fun night out you had last weekend doesn’t make for a good online dating photo. It just makes you look sloppy.”
― Dave Perrotta, The Lifestyle Blueprint: How to Talk to Women, Build Your Social Circle, and Grow Your Wealth

“Selfies: these make your life seem boring, like you don’t have many friends. They’ve got no place in your dating profile. -          Blurry photos: these show that you lack attention to detail and can’t even put the effort in to get a good photo. Remove these. -          Big group photos: if you’ve got one photo with a couple friends, that’s fine. The problem is when it’s either your main photo (because then she can’t immediately figure out who you are) or you’ve got multiple group photos (this is just overkill).”
― Dave Perrotta, The Lifestyle Blueprint: How to Talk to Women, Build Your Social Circle, and Grow Your Wealth

“Go for the close: When you’re ready to invite her home (and she’s showed compliance throughout the night), you can say, “Let’s get out of here.” When she asks where, you can say, “Adventure, c’mon.” If you’ve followed everything we’ve talked about so far, she’ll often be surprisingly likely to follow along... And if she’s not, you can lead her a little more and try again.”
― Dave Perrotta, The Lifestyle Blueprint: How to Talk to Women, Build Your Social Circle, and Grow Your Wealth

“Move around to different places within the venue, like to the dance floor, then back to the bar, then to the outdoor lounge-like area. To do this, you can simply say, “Let’s go to the dance floor,” then put your hand out, let her take it,”
― Dave Perrotta, The Lifestyle Blueprint: How to Talk to Women, Build Your Social Circle, and Grow Your Wealth

“Leading also allows you to test for “compliance.” Compliance is the level at which she’s willing to follow your lead, and it tells you how much she likes you at a given moment. For”
― Dave Perrotta, The Lifestyle Blueprint: How to Talk to Women, Build Your Social Circle, and Grow Your Wealth

“The “easy intro”: “Hey, you guys look like fun. How’s your night going?” - The observation: “That drink looks awesome; what is it?”
― Dave Perrotta, The Lifestyle Blueprint: How to Talk to Women, Build Your Social Circle, and Grow Your Wealth

“She’ll look at you and smile. - She’ll look in your general direction multiple times for no reason. - She’ll pass close by you and maybe even brush against you. - She’ll position herself nearby you for no reason. - She’ll ask you an innocent question, like if you have any drink recommendations, or even for directions.”
― Dave Perrotta, The Lifestyle Blueprint: How to Talk to Women, Build Your Social Circle, and Grow Your Wealth

“That’s why it’s key to get social from the start and be social with everyone. Chat up the bouncers on the way in, make a joke with the bartender, and talk to other people beside you if you’re getting a drink at the bar. If”
― Dave Perrotta, The Lifestyle Blueprint: How to Talk to Women, Build Your Social Circle, and Grow Your Wealth

“Whenever you go out, you should know your own logistics. This means: - Where you’re staying, and whether or not you can take a girl back there.
- How far away you’re staying from the venue.
- Who you’re going with (and whether or not you can take a girl to their place).
- How you’re getting home.
- When you have to wake up in the morning. This gives you a much better chance of taking a girl home because you know what you have to do.”
― Dave Perrotta, The Lifestyle Blueprint: How to Talk to Women, Build Your Social Circle, and Grow Your Wealth

“Lounge Bars”
― Dave Perrotta, The Lifestyle Blueprint: How to Talk to Women, Build Your Social Circle, and Grow Your Wealth

“How to do it: “I gotta run, but you seem cool. Do you want to hang out sometime?” When she says yes, say, “Cool, give me your number, and I’ll send you a text.”
― Dave Perrotta, The Lifestyle Blueprint: How to Talk to Women, Build Your Social Circle, and Grow Your Wealth

“You don’t need to have a super long conversation. Generally, the conversation structure should be: - Conversation starter - Bridge - Light banter/flirting - One to two open-ended questions sprinkled in, while listening and relating - The close”
― Dave Perrotta, The Lifestyle Blueprint: How to Talk to Women, Build Your Social Circle, and Grow Your Wealth

“From there, you can ask open-ended questions to keep leading the conversation: - What brought you to this city? - What do you like to do for fun here? - [If she’s with a friend] How do you guys know each other? - [If she was listening to headphones] What kind of music were you jamming out to?”
― Dave Perrotta, The Lifestyle Blueprint: How to Talk to Women, Build Your Social Circle, and Grow Your Wealth

“You seem like a New York/LA/Southern girl.” – You make an assumption about where she’s from. This is a great way to make it flirty (e.g., she might reply, “Why do you think I’m from NYC?” and you could smile and say, “You give off those city girl vibes.”). - “You seem like a fun/creative/energetic type of girl.” – You make an assumption about what type of girl she is.”
― Dave Perrotta, The Lifestyle Blueprint: How to Talk to Women, Build Your Social Circle, and Grow Your Wealth

“What are you up to?” – This tells you her logistics (whether or not she’s in a rush) and gives you more fodder for conversation.”
― Dave Perrotta, The Lifestyle Blueprint: How to Talk to Women, Build Your Social Circle, and Grow Your Wealth