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The Handi Book of Love, Lust & Disability Quotes
The Handi Book of Love, Lust & Disability
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“The advice I would give to an able-bodied person having sex with a disabled person for the first time is to, first, breathe. Accept that you both might be anxious at times, but just take a deep breath.
Ask questions. I like to first test with just a touch, and see what the reaction is. I have found that most disabled people, out of necessity, have learned to communicate what their needs are very well, but they still may be apprehensive asking for certain things pertaining to pleasure. Ask, “How does this feel? What can I do to help?”. Be respectful when asking questions, communication is everything.”
― The Handi Book of Love, Lust & Disability
Ask questions. I like to first test with just a touch, and see what the reaction is. I have found that most disabled people, out of necessity, have learned to communicate what their needs are very well, but they still may be apprehensive asking for certain things pertaining to pleasure. Ask, “How does this feel? What can I do to help?”. Be respectful when asking questions, communication is everything.”
― The Handi Book of Love, Lust & Disability
