Honor Quotes

“Maybe, in the end, that's all that love was - doing the hard thing. Not roses and valentines and walks on the beach, but simply being present, day after ordinary day. The extraordinary romanticism of ordinary life.”
― Thrity Umrigar, Honor

“As children, we were taught to be afraid of tigers and lions. Nobody taught us what I know today - the most dangerous animal in this world is a man with wounded pride.”
― Thrity Umrigar, Honor

“Human beings could apparently be turned into killers as effortlessly as turning a key. All one had to do was use a few buzzwords: God. Country, Religion. Honor.”
― Thrity Umrigar, Honor

“But you don’t love something because you’re blind to its faults, right? You love it despite its flaws.”
― Thrity Umrigar, Honor

“Because a woman can live in one of two houses—fear or love. It is impossible to live in both at the same time.”
― Thrity Umrigar, Honor

“Being uncomfortable is good, beta. It’s in discomfort that growth happens.”
― Thrity Umrigar, Honor

“If her years as a reporter had taught her anything, it was these two things: One, the world was filled with people who were adrift, rudderless, and untethered. And two, the innocent always paid for the sins of the guilty.”
― Thrity Umrigar, Honor

“Because traditions are like eggs—once you break one, it is impossible to put it back inside its shell.”
― Thrity Umrigar, Honor

“Look to the future, child,” her father used to say. “This is why our feet point forward, not back.”
― Thrity Umrigar, Honor

“What to do, Smita? She had everything but the gift of years. Nothing we can do. What cannot be cured must be endured.”
― Thrity Umrigar, Honor

“Look, I know it’s a risk. But at some point, you have to jump. I’ll either land on my feet or I’ll land on my face. But either way, I’ll own the fall.”
― Thrity Umrigar, Honor

“When Radha and I were children, we used to play a game. She would ask, “What is the true color of the world, Didi?”
And I would say, “Green.”
“Why green?”
“Because the trees are green. Grass is green. The new buds on the plants are green. Even the parrots are green. Green is the color of the world.”
“But, Didi,” Radha would argue, “the wheat stalks are brown. My body is brown. The field mice are brown. No, the world is brown.”
“What about blue?” I would say. “The sky is blue. And it covers the whole world, like a mother who loves and embraces all her children.
Radha would fall silent, and I would remember that she had known our mother’s love for even fewer years than I did. So I would take her in my arms and hold her, to make her know what it feels like to be loved.
Today I know the truth: The true color of the world is black.
Anger is black.
Shame and scandal are black.
Betrayal is black.
Hatred is black.
And a roasted, smoking body is Black, Black, Black.
The world, after witnessing such cruelty, goes black.
The waking up to a changed world is black.”
― Thrity Umrigar, Honor

“Maybe, in the end, that’s all that love was—doing the hard thing. Not roses and valentines and walks on the beach, but simply being present, day after ordinary day. The extraordinary romanticism of ordinary life.”
― Thrity Umrigar, Honor

“She saw this in the US after every school shooting: a flurry of news stories, the sanctimonious tweets about thoughts and prayers, the predictable calls for gun control reform and then—silence. Parents and other survivors were left to their private lifelong grief, permanently out of step with a world that had moved on. Bloodstains were scrubbed from school walls before the students returned.”
― Thrity Umrigar, Honor

“As children, we were taught to be afraid of tigers and lions. Nobody taught us what I know today--- the most dangerous animal in this world is a man with wounded pride.”
― Thrity Umrigar, Honor

“you have to learn to look inside yourself. It’s a new way of looking, to see the true you. The fire took away a lot, but it also left a lot behind. Do you understand?”
― Thrity Umrigar, Honor

“But surely, she argued with herself, life was more than this relentless getting ahead? Surely, there was more to life than self-actualization and ambition and success? What was wrong with linking one’s happiness to that of another human being? Why should fifty years of peak capitalism eradicate something that the Eastern philosophers had taught for thousands of years—that life is about interconnectedness, interdependence, and yes, even sacrifice?”
― Thrity Umrigar, Honor

“As children, we were taught to be afraid of tigers and lions. Nobody taught us what I know today—the most dangerous animal in this world is a man with wounded pride.”
― Thrity Umrigar, Honor

“She thought of the self-help books preaching the importance of gratitude that millions of Americans bought each year. How many of them could muster gratitude for a cup of tea?”
― Thrity Umrigar, Honor

“While Meena had been battling for her life and, later, fighting against crippling social ostracizing, Smita had been sitting in cafés in Brooklyn with her friends, sipping her cappuccinos, all of them feeling aggrieved as they talked about acts of microaggression and instances of cultural appropriation, about being ghosted by a boyfriend or being overlooked for a promotion. How trivial those concerns now seemed. How foolish she had been to join that chorus of perceived slights and insults. How American she had become to not see America for what it had been for her family—a harbor, a shelter, a refuge.”
― Thrity Umrigar, Honor

“Atterrerò in piedi oppure prenderò una facciata. In entrambi i casi, sarà stata una mia scelta. Capisci cosa intendo?»”
― Thrity Umrigar, Il canto dei cuori ribelli

“Poate că, până la urmă, asta înseamnă dragostea: să faci ceea ce este greu. Nu trandafiri, bomboane și plimbări pe plajă, ci doar să fii acolo, să fii prezent zi după zi. Romantismul extraordinar al vieții cotidiene, deloc extraordinare.”
― Thrity Umrigar, Honor

“Poate că, până la urmă, asta înseamnă dragostea: să faci ceea ce este greu. Nu tradafiri, bomboane și plimbări pe plajă, ci doar să fii acolo, să fii prezent zi după zi. Romantismul extraordinar al vieții cotidiene, deloc extraordinare.”
― Thrity Umrigar, Honor

“Steel, she said, is forged from fire.”
― Thrity Umrigar, Honor

“Os seres humanos aparentemente podiam se transformar em assassinos com muita facilidade. Só era preciso usar algumas palavras-chave: Deus, país, religião, honra.”
― Thrity Umrigar, Honor

“This time, she held herself still, as if her body were a clay pot filled to the brim with grief. One false move, and all her emotions would spill over.”
― Thrity Umrigar, Honor

“Nobody taught us what I know today—the most dangerous animal in this world is a man with wounded pride.”
― Thrity Umrigar, Honor

“As children, we were taught to be afraid of tigers and lions. Nobody taught us what I know today. The most dangerous animal in this world is a man with wounded pride.”
― Thrity Umrigar, Honor

“It was as if my love for Abdul made me see other people’s pain. But it also made me blind to the evil in the world.”
― Thrity Umrigar, Honor

“her heart ached, and she felt a different kind of homesickness than what she’d felt for New York—the loss of something that had never fully belonged to her.”
― Thrity Umrigar, Honor