Hot Mess Quotes

“Things you need aren't bonus material, they're the bare minimum. You don't have to go without something that's part of you just because it's not the most common thing in the world. You don't deserve to. Someone should be spoiling you and spanking you and making you really fucking happy. All of it. If that's what you want. You deserve to feel good just like everybody else.”
― Misha Horne, Hot Mess

“Trying to figure out where you fit while you’re living in a vanilla world is brutal. You basically never see yourself reflected back at you anywhere but porn. So your whole identity is super sexualized from the start. Which is so fucking weird, especially when you’re a kid. If you ever see any kind of Dom type on tv, ten times out of ten, people aren’t just making fun of them, they’re actually saying this person is a sadist and also a psychopath or a predator or a murderer, and they’re huge and scary and dressed in leather and latex and carrying whips. All that’s even available is warped caricatures of what vanilla people think kink is. It’s gross, and it makes it so hard to actually find your identity and not be ashamed when it’s just all bad rep written for shock value by people who have no idea what they’re talking about.”
― Misha Horne, Hot Mess

“Point is, there are lots of ways to do things. And if you can have an honest conversation with the person you’re doing them with, then you can tweak things until you’re comfortable and then you can get exactly what you want.”
― Misha Horne, Hot Mess